Guest guest Posted February 3, 2006 Report Posted February 3, 2006 Thanks , You are a sweetheart! Thanks for caring. That helps a lot. I just kinda wish getting this band hadn’t seemed to reactivate every insecurity and fear I ever had. I am sure I will stop this nonsense soon. Coffee after work sounds nice although I finish at 6 or just after so that’s probably late for you. Hope you have a great weekend. Love Jen From: SydBand [mailto:SydBand ] On Behalf Of Sent: Thursday, 2 February 2006 10:47 PM To: SydBand Subject: To Jen Oh dear Jen You sound pretty much like you are in the same situation that most of us find ourselves in after banding. We are tired, the scales aren't moving as quick as we would like and we have some other issue going on too. I found myself like that. I think it is a hang over from the post op blues that we can get. It can take a bit to work thru and stresses like our job or home situation don't help. Ideally we should have a lovely caring home environment, wonderfully supportive work environment and lots of lovely things to surround ourselves with. Dear Jen, if there is anything I can do to help, please let me know. We are having house hunting issues on this site – if anyone is an estate agent now is the time to step forward and offer your services!!! As hard as it is to believe, you are going to do so well and in a few months time you will realise the success that is coming your way. You wont know yourself in the mirror and you will have a great time shopping for clothes, and the bonus of seeing the looks on old acquaintances faces – priceless. I am in St Leonards, if you want to meet for a coffee after work, give me a call my number is in the database or email me. Nx Quote
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2006 Report Posted February 3, 2006 Dear Jen I think that reacting to ever insecurity is what perhaps caused us to put on weight to being with. I know that when something upsets me I usually go and comfort myself with a block of chocolate or ice cream. Well I came home from work yesterday and straight away had some ice cream. I was upset about something that had happened, it is natural. Keep in mind that you are dealing with situations or feelings that you cant automatically go and block with food because you have the band. You have to deal with them some other way; I don't know what the answer is. I finish work at 5.30ish, so 6 is good for me. You have a great weekend too! Nx Quote
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