bladder control

[Guest guest]

OK, this is embarrassing, but I really want to know.

Is there anyone on this list or child of a person on this list who is

fully toilet trained and has been for many years, but still has

accidents?

I was toilet trained at the usual age, but I seem to have trouble

holding my urine. The need to pee comes on very strong and the only way

I can hold it is to crouch with my ankle jammed into my crotch. If I

wait long enough, the need will often go away (when I was younger I

used to say 'I don't need to pee anymore' but my mother, knowing that

if I hadn't peed the need was still there, would always insist I try

anyway). Usually when I wet myself I'm trying to get to the bathroom.

Does anyone have any advice?

Ettina