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Hi All....

I'm jumping into this conversation a little late in the game.... And with tears in my eyes. I've been a member about a year now and have found tremendous support here. It saddens me that we are talking about "unsubscribing" and "removing" members and it seems like we are starting to attack each other. I think we are all concerned moms in a similar boat looking, sometimes in desperation, for some guidance. I think we found it here. I wish we also could mention names freely and I believe that said in a previous post that we could provide new moms with the names and contact info for Mehta docs in their area in order to save them time. I don't think it has ever been said that we could not vent/complain/make negative comments about our experiences. For example, many of you know that I take Noelle to Rochester for casting.... I could say something like, "Noelle's doc at Rochester really upset me

this time because....." without saying his name. Many of us already know who those docs are and anyone who also sees a doc at that facility could e-mail me off-line for more details if they wanted to know. I agree that we need to agree to disagree.... And, as we become more established, perhaps these rules will change. While it may take me an extra minute or two right now to remember to revise the way I write my posts, I think in a few days/weeks it will become second nature. I also don't think that if a member is speaking very positivley about their experience and a mom asks simply "Who do you see?" And we supply the contact info. again... Well, I doubt that anyone would be kicked off for that. I count on all of you for support and guidance. I read every post, even if I don't respond to them all. I have prayed for all of you and have been prayed for. I have laughed at

some of your stories and shed tears over others. When I come to this group, I find hope... It has been some days since I have felt that. I just wanted to say that regardless of our differences about the rules that are currently in place, I hope that we can respect them and get back to what this group is really about.... I really miss it!!!!

With Hope, Steph