Re: Re: embarassing question -- Tara & Barbara.

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Excellent response/input, Barbara.

Tara, pls truly read her words.

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alysd38 <no_reply > wrote:

Tara,

I've been holding off on giving my opinions because I don't want to

come across too strong; plus I'm NOT a docotor or psychiatrist, and

even if I were I would really have so little to go on, just reading

what you choose to share with us on the list.

All that being said, I want to encourage you to find counceling. You

have concerns and issues that a professional can help you wade

through. You and your boyfriend should go. You say you have no sex

drive, well it is hard to want to share yourself with someone else

when you have such a low self-image.

You are an intelligent caring woman. The advise you give to others on

this list is sound and full of concern for them and their success. You

add much to our lives every day. You have to give some of that care to

yourself, too.

You said that you tried counceling and " it didn't work " . Well, I

believe we choose our auto mechanics with more care than we choose our

health care professionals. I know you can find someone that can speak

to your heart; someone that will help you see how you can be a

beautiful, healthy, happy woman, in charge of your life and happy in

your own skin, no matter how much realestate it takes up.

Again, my heart goes out to you. I wish I could be of more help.

Barbara