Thanks, everyone for the responses!

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Wow...everyone has given me great info and a lot to think about. I'd

never even considered a second child as a potential future caregiver.

Our parents are getting older with health issues and as such are not

currently set as Bobby's guardians. We chose my sister-in-law as

first-line guardian and some close friends as second. Difficult

decision, but the important ones tend to be.

We are also entertaining the idea of international adoption (probably

Guatemala), but the expenses involved are absolutely frightening. Who

knows what we'll end up doing, but the decision certainly won't be made

anytime soon. I swear, sometimes I just wish I could get a peek at

God's planning calendar to see what he's got on tap for us

Anyway, thanks for sharing, y'all!

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