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In a message dated 4/1/00 1:30:20 AM Central Standard Time, GalofGOP@...

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<< She doesn't want to loose weight because she lives to be miserable. Mother

can never accept tha fact that she has the ability to change her situation.

She is stuck in a horrible job, when she can get much better. Really. She

just doesnt want to believe she can. She also doesn't really want to loose

weight or try to be more healthy. If she did she might stop drinking so

much. I REALLY think she needs to see a therapist again. IMO.

Who moved away from her mother soon enough to break the bad habits but can

still recognize them since she once had them >>

OK THIS THE LAST I'LL WRITE ON THIS SUBJECT .....I PROMISE OK NOW MOM IS 50

ALREADY AND IF SHE HAS DECIDED TO STAY IN A JOB THAT ISNT WORTHY OF HER

ITS HER DESICION .... YES MOM HAS A PROBLEM WITH HER DRINKING ...BUT I

BELIEVE EVERYONE HAS A BAD HABIT THEY DONT WANT TO BE TOLD TO STOP ( JUST AS

I DO) WHEN SHE FEELS ITS TIME SHE WILL AND I DONT THINK A BEER A DAY IS

HURTING HER WIEGHT PROBLEM SHE HAS OTHER FACTORS AGAINST HER FOR EXAMPLE

HER MEDS DONT HELP AND THE STRESS SHE IS UNDER DOESNT HELP ANY EITHER

........ IT DOESNT HELP ANY FOR HER TO THINK THAT SHE IS NOT WORTHY ENOUGH TO

BE A PARENT SHES A GREAT PERSON AND A GREAT MIL SHE HASNT HAD IT EASY AND

IMO SHE NEEDS A BREAK ..... I LEARNED A LONG TIME AGO THAT MY PARENTS

SHOULDNT HAVE TO CHANGE TO PLEASE ME AND I AM AN ADULT WHO TALKS TO MY MOM

AND LETS HER KNOW WHEN SHE UPSETS ME OR I DONT AGREE WITH HER WITHOUT GETTING

UPSET NOT EVERYONE HAS THAT CLOSENESS WITH THIER PARENT... OK LET ME ADD THIS

MY MOM GREW UP WITH OUT A MOM HER MOM DIED WHEN SHE WAS ABOUT 5 OR 6 AND HER

DAD WAS AN ACOHOLIC WHO WOULD RATHER BE OUT DRINKING THEN PAYING FOR BILL FOR

HIS KIDS TO LIVE SO MY UNCLES RAISED HER AND NOW I CAN UNDERSTAND THE HARD

LIFE SHE HAD TO GO THROUGH EVERYTIME WE WOULD DO SOMETHING WRONG SHE USED TO

SAY WELL I GUESS I JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO BE A GOOD MOTHER SINCE I DIDNT HAVE

MINE AROUND AFTER ABOUT THE 100 TH TIME SHE SAID THAT I STARTED TO RELIZE

THAT I WAS A HORRIBLE CHILD FOR NOT UNDERSTANDING ...... NEEDLESS TO SAY IF

MY MOM NEEDS ME I AM THERE FOR HER IT TOOK 15 YRS OF MY LIFE TO FIGURE THAT

OUT ....I MAY NOT ALWAYS AGREE WITH HER BUT I AM NOT GONNA LET HER UPSET ME

NOT NOW ESPECIALLY WHEN STRESS HURTS ME MORE THEN IT WOULD HER ( IF I

STRESSED) EVERYONE WANTS THIER PARENTS TO LIVE FOREVER BUT WHEN DOES THE

CHILD BECOME THE PARENT AND THE PARENT THE CHILD?? I HOPE TO ALWAYS BE THE

CHILD THAT WAY I ALWAYS HAVE SOMEONE TO CRY TO WHEN THINGS JUST DONT GO MY

WAY...... SABRINA I KNOW YOU DONT APPOVE OF THE WAY MOM AND DAD DO THINGS

BUT SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO STEP BACK AND LET THEM LIVE JUST AS THEY STEPPED

BACK AND LET YOU SPREAD YOUR WINGS TO FLY ..... WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT THEY

WILL LET GO OF ALL THIER HABITS AND WHAT WILL HERE BE TO COMPLAIN ABOUT YOULL

LOOK BACK ONE DAY AND SAY WHAT WAS THAT ALL ABOUT ?? TRUST ME YOU WILL.....

ROMIE

WHO LEARNED TO APPRECIATE HER MOTHER WAY BEFORE I BECAME A MOTHER MYSELF

AND AFTER I BECAME A MOTHER LEARNED NEW RESPECT FOR HER AND OTHERS...SORRY IF

I SOUND PREACHY JUST HAD TO LET IT OUT SABRINA I LOVE YA..... YOU BETTER KNOW

THAT