Guest guest Posted July 26, 2006 Report Posted July 26, 2006 , You call this person a friend? I might be mean but I wouldnt waste my time educating someone with an attitude like this,,,, Buy him a damn book...Im having a really bad day today myself and had to come home from work before lunch..If I was cured I wouldnt have had to come home and go to bed... You put this guy on the back burner for now and focus on you...ok...Love ya, Patty Everyone Please.... Friends For Ever and Ever and Ever Deb I am addressing this to you, however I am asking ever to participate of you feel up to it. ! As you all know I am starting treatment on Friday. I have my meds now, but am waiting till then and I may even wait till Monday not sure though but will keep you all informed. I have a friend, someone pretty special to me, and I have recently told this person that I have hep-c and will be starting soon my treatment for round 2. I also explaind about the first time and loosing insurance. Well, received a very ugly email from him telling me that lots of people lead very productive lives when they can't afford the chemo, or have no insurance. And that I should be so grateful that I do have insurance - which God only knows just how grateful I am. He went on to tell me that there is a cure for this disease and that I should stop my whinning about not wanting to do it and the sides can't be that bad. Needless to say, I was upset, and I new if I wrote him back it would be ugly. There is not a cure for this disease a! nd if there were one we would all no about it by now. And I am l oosing one of my best friends right now, I can't even go to see her she is so bad. I am so angry at his letter and words of jut simply not knowing what he is talking about. Could you all please write a peace of your story and help me educate this man before I kill him..... LOL but true. I would make sure it was totally anonymous... Anything from anybody would be ever so appreciated - also does anyone have that list of side affect for the treatment - someone sent it out less then a month ago and it was very detailed - the best one I had seen.? Love you guys May God bless you and yours Love, hugs and prayers. * Hatt Design * I am using the free version of SPAMfighter for private users.It has removed 239 spam emails to date.Paying users do not have this message in their emails.Try SPAMfighter for free now! Quote
Guest guest Posted July 26, 2006 Report Posted July 26, 2006 Hello Pat, I love the way you call it like you see it... LOL This guy is strictly a friend, nothing intimate whatsoever, I have just known him for a very long time, and was so let down by his attitude. I know AI shouldn't let people's reactions, and their lack of knowledge get to me, and normally it wouldn't, this week for some reason has been some what tough. And the only thing I can figure out is because I am getting ready to start - and this time I know exactly what to expect... LOL but true... You are right though, he can't be much of a friend and talk to me that way, with so little compassion. And can you believe I have known this man since grade school. I just wanted some heppers to put him in his place for me, as if I would have written him myself, I don't think I would have been near as Lady like, or calm.. Thanks Sweetie for your in put, I know I can always count on you.. I'm so glad and blessed to have you as a friend - we all are.. Love you Girl May God Bless and keep you and yours Love, hugs, prayers, and peace Marie -- Re: Take care of YOU.. , You call this person a friend? I might be mean but I wouldnt waste my time educating someone with an attitude like this,,,, Buy him a damn book...Im having a really bad day today myself and had to come home from work before lunch..If I was cured I wouldnt have had to come home and go to bed... You put this guy on the back burner for now and focus on you...ok...Love ya, Patty Everyone Please.... Friends For Ever and Ever and Ever Deb I am addressing this to you, however I am asking ever to participate of you feel up to it. ! As you all know I am starting treatment on Friday. I have my meds now, but am waiting till then and I may even wait till Monday not sure though but will keep you all informed. I have a friend, someone pretty special to me, and I have recently told this person that I have hep-c and will be starting soon my treatment for round 2. I also explaind about the first time and loosing insurance. Well, received a very ugly email from him telling me that lots of people lead very productive lives when they can't afford the chemo, or have no insurance. And that I should be so grateful that I do have insurance - which God only knows just how grateful I am. He went on to tell me that there is a cure for this disease and that I should stop my whinning about not wanting to do it and the sides can't be that bad. Needless to say, I was upset, and I new if I wrote him back it would be ugly. There is not a cure for this disease a! nd if there were one we would all no about it by now. And I am l oosing one of my best friends right now, I can't even go to see her she is so bad. I am so angry at his letter and words of jut simply not knowing what he is talking about. Could you all please write a peace of your story and help me educate this man before I kill him..... LOL but true. I would make sure it was totally anonymous... Anything from anybody would be ever so appreciated - also does anyone have that list of side affect for the treatment - someone sent it out less then a month ago and it was very detailed - the best one I had seen.? Love you guys May God bless you and yours Love, hugs and prayers. * Hatt Design * I am using the free version of SPAMfighter for private users.It has removed 239 spam emails to date.Paying users do not have this message in their emails.Try SPAMfighter for free now! Font - Scrap Kids Feb.13/06 Quote
Guest guest Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 Hi , I'm with Pattycakes, you don't need a friend like that, It would take too long to educate him & you can't spare any time or energy while you're on tx. Tell him this from me. I've been fighting this particular dragon since 1969 or 70 - probably before he was born. I've been on tx twice & worked during tx both times. I do not respond to tx but was willing to try it a third time until my doctors said it'd probably just make it worse. Now my doctors say the only thing left for me to do is get a transplant. I'm going through assessment testing now. Am I whining? Do I moan & groan & cry over how life sucks? No I don't. Even now when I have absolutely no short term memory & have to write myself notes to remind me about my lists of things to do today - when I got fired from my last job cause I couldn't seem to get to work on time? I itch like I'm covered in mosquitos, my hands & feet swell if I sit too long, my abdomen is bigger than most women in their 9th month. Tell your "friend" when he's walked a mile in MY shoes he can make his opinion known but til then keep he should keep his uninformed jackass mouth shut. SuZie Next time I'm coming back as a cat [Hepatitis CSupportG roupForDummies] Everyone Please.... Friends For Ever and Ever and Ever Deb I am addressing this to you, however I am asking ever to participate of you feel up to it. ! As you all know I am starting treatment on Friday. I have my meds now, but am waiting till then and I may even wait till Monday not sure though but will keep you all informed. I have a friend, someone pretty special to me, and I have recently told this person that I have hep-c and will be starting soon my treatment for round 2. I also explaind about the first time and loosing insurance. Well, received a very ugly email from him telling me that lots of people lead very productive lives when they can't afford the chemo, or have no insurance. And that I should be so grateful that I do have insurance - which God only knows just how grateful I am. He went on to tell me that there is a cure for this disease and that I should stop my whinning about not wanting to do it and the sides can't be that bad. Needless to say, I was upset, and I new if I wrote him back it would be ugly. There is not a cure for this disease a! nd if there were one we would all no about it by now. And I am l oosing one of my best friends right now, I can't even go to see her she is so bad. I am so angry at his letter and words of jut simply not knowing what he is talking about. Could you all please write a peace of your story and help me educate this man before I kill him..... LOL but true. I would make sure it was totally anonymous... Anything from anybody would be ever so appreciated - also does anyone have that list of side affect for the treatment - someone sent it out less then a month ago and it was very detailed - the best one I had seen.? Love you guys May God bless you and yours Love, hugs and prayers. * Hatt Design * I am using the free version of SPAMfighter for private users.It has removed 239 spam emails to date.Paying users do not have this message in their emails.Try SPAMfighter for free now! Quote
Guest guest Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 WOOOOOOO!!! SuZiE!!!! Let's me n' you go get drunk and kick some redneck ASS!!!!! (just kidding!!!)..... Somebody poked the sleeping bear one too many times!!!! Way to GO!!!!! Delsuzie <suzieandsandy@...> wrote: Hi , I'm with Pattycakes, you don't need a friend like that, It would take too long to educate him & you can't spare any time or energy while you're on tx. Tell him this from me. I've been fighting this particular dragon since 1969 or 70 - probably before he was born. I've been on tx twice & worked during tx both times. I do not respond to tx but was willing to try it a third time until my doctors said it'd probably just make it worse. Now my doctors say the only thing left for me to do is get a transplant. I'm going through assessment testing now. Am I whining? Do I moan & groan & cry over how life sucks? No I don't. Even now when I have absolutely no short term memory & have to write myself notes to remind me about my lists of things to do today - when I got fired from my last job cause I couldn't seem to get to work on time? I itch like I'm covered in mosquitos, my hands & feet swell if I sit too long, my abdomen is bigger than most women in their 9th month. Tell your "friend" when he's walked a mile in MY shoes he can make his opinion known but til then keep he should keep his uninformed jackass mouth shut. SuZie Next time I'm coming back as a cat [Hepatitis CSupportG roupForDummies] Everyone Please.... Friends For Ever and Ever and Ever Deb I am addressing this to you, however I am asking ever to participate of you feel up to it. ! As you all know I am starting treatment on Friday. I have my meds now, but am waiting till then and I may even wait till Monday not sure though but will keep you all informed. I have a friend, someone pretty special to me, and I have recently told this person that I have hep-c and will be starting soon my treatment for round 2. I also explaind about the first time and loosing insurance. Well, received a very ugly email from him telling me that lots of people lead very productive lives when they can't afford the chemo, or have no insurance. And that I should be so grateful that I do have insurance - which God only knows just how grateful I am. He went on to tell me that there is a cure for this disease and that I should stop my whinning about not wanting to do it and the sides can't be that bad. Needless to say, I was upset, and I new if I wrote him back it would be ugly. There is not a cure for this disease a! nd if there were one we would all no about it by now. And I am l oosing one of my best friends right now, I can't even go to see her she is so bad. I am so angry at his letter and words of jut simply not knowing what he is talking about. Could you all please write a peace of your story and help me educate this man before I kill him..... LOL but true. I would make sure it was totally anonymous... Anything from anybody would be ever so appreciated - also does anyone have that list of side affect for the treatment - someone sent it out less then a month ago and it was very detailed - the best one I had seen.? Love you guys May God bless you and yours Love, hugs and prayers. * Hatt Design *I am using the free version of SPAMfighter for private users.It has removed 239 spam emails to date.Paying users do not have this message in their emails.Try SPAMfighter for free now! How low will we go? Check out Messenger’s low PC-to-Phone call rates. Quote
Guest guest Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 Any time you want Big Fella. I need a night of bloodshed (not mine). I've been thinking of going down the block & kicking some butt - I live half a block from the bad part of town - bars, hos & drunken Indians, what fun!!! You can get in a fight or two down there just looking at someone wrong. Only problem is, they tend to fight in groups so I'd have to have my own gang - wanna come? SuZie Next time I'm coming back as a cat Re: [Hepatitis CSupportG roupForDummies] Take care of YOU.. , You call this person a friend? I might be mean but I wouldnt waste my time educating someone with an attitude like this,,,, Buy him a damn book...Im having a really bad day today myself and had to come home from work before lunch..If I was cured I wouldnt have had to come home and go to bed... You put this guy on the back burner for now and focus on you...ok...Love ya, Patty ! Groups Terms of Use | Unsubscribe Visit Your Group Y! Messenger Want a quick chat? Chat over IM with group members. Photos Upload & Share Delight friends and family 360° Get Started Create your page Share your life .. Quote
Guest guest Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 Suzie count me in and it would do both of us a world of good. We would probably end up with 1/2 our members in our gang. I have a List of people to tackle. Love and Hugs. Deb Quote
Guest guest Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 I have a little list, they'll never be missed. SuZie Next time I'm coming back as a cat Re: Take care of YOU.. Suzie count me in and it would do both of us a world of good. We would probably end up with 1/2 our members in our gang. I have a List of people to tackle. Love and Hugs. Deb Quote
Guest guest Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006  Bar's Ho's and drunken Indians, hell I could beat them up with your help, maybe. Growing up in LA they had mean Mexican's and they always traveled in gangs. Maybe we should just stay home tonight honey. Re: [Hepatitis CSupportG roupForDummies] Take care of YOU.. , You call this person a friend? I might be mean but I wouldnt waste my time educating someone with an attitude like this,,,, Buy him a damn book...Im having a really bad day today myself and had to come home from work before lunch..If I was cured I wouldnt have had to come home and go to bed... You put this guy on the back burner for now and focus on you...ok...Love ya, Patty ! Groups Terms of Use | Unsubscribe Visit Your Group Y! Messenger Want a quick chat? Chat over IM with group members. Photos Upload & Share Delight friends and family 360° Get Started Create your page Share your life .. Quote
Guest guest Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 Suzie, I forwarded that letter to him, I think he will get the picture. Thanks so much for writing that. He made me feel pretty shity, but now it's his turn... Hahaha... You said it well my dear... I'm sorry that you are in so much pain, I know you don't want any pity nor do I ever hear you complain, however I never knew things were so tough for you... Time to send in the big Angels... Please know that I pray for you daily. And may the Good Lord continue to give you the strength and courage to get through all this.. I went to Pratt today and completed my consultation with the nurse practioner - so tomorrow is the "Big Day". I am trying to get house extra clean, all laundry done, finish painting a room that I am almost done with, and help clean a rental property for a tenant that needs it tomorrow. I still feel overwhelmed, but at least it is taking my mind off starting TX tomorrow. I am also going to try and catch up on my email. I hope I haven't missed anyones. Del - we have to talk tonight.... I need the ole pep talk... Thanks you guys for everything, just knowing you are all there means the world to me. Deb my Doctor wanted to know if he could give your websight out for support group for some of his clients, I told him I wouls okay it with you first, but I didn't see why not, as that is what we are for. I told him how wonderful you all were...May God Bless you all and yours LOve, hugs,prayers, peace, Marie -- Re: Take care of YOU.. Any time you want Big Fella. I need a night of bloodshed (not mine). I've been thinking of going down the block & kicking some butt - I live half a block from the bad part of town - bars, hos & drunken Indians, what fun!!! You can get in a fight or two down there just looking at someone wrong. Only problem is, they tend to fight in groups so I'd have to have my own gang - wanna come? SuZie Next time I'm coming back as a cat Re: [Hepatitis CSupportG roupForDummies] Take care of YOU.. , You call this person a friend? I might be mean but I wouldnt waste my time educating someone with an attitude like this,,,, Buy him a damn book..Im having a really bad day today myself and had to come home from work before lunch..If I was cured I wouldnt have had to come home and go to bed... You put this guy on the back burner for now and focus on you...ok...Love ya, Patty ! Groups Terms of Use | Unsubscribe Visit Your Group Y! Messenger Want a quick chat? Chat over IM with group members. Photos Upload & Share Delight friends and family 360° Get Started Create your page Share your life . Letter Created by Kacoo hellokittykreations Quote
Guest guest Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 hon, I was in a pretty bad mood when I wrote that. I had written one along the same lines but nicer & wouldn't send it, then lost it so I got pissy & took out some of my anger in the letter. It's all true but I don't feel that bad. I just came in from the garden with a large bowl of raspberries - they're sooooo good when fresh picked from your own back yard!!! YUMMY I'm just a tad worried about being alone a thousand miles from home taking all these tests. SpYke'll be here all alone & I'll be there all alone, at least he'll have some friends to walk him & play with him while I'm gone & he'll stay at my brother's when/if I go through with the T P. I know I'd heal better with him around but rules are rules & hospitals frown on kitty litter boxes in I C U. No matter what, I WILL survive, I always have. Deb, from one redhead to another, I could work out so much negativity if I could only get in a fight ( & win) SuZie Next time I'm coming back as a cat Re: [Hepatitis CSupportG roupForDummies] Take care of YOU.. , You call this person a friend? I might be mean but I wouldnt waste my time educating someone with an attitude like this,,,, Buy him a damn book..Im having a really bad day today myself and had to come home from work before lunch..If I was cured I wouldnt have had to come home and go to bed... You put this guy on the back burner for now and focus on you...ok...Love ya, Patty ! Groups Terms of Use | Unsubscribe Visit Your Group Y! Messenger Want a quick chat? Chat over IM with group members. Photos Upload & Share Delight friends and family 360° Get Started Create your page Share your life .. Letter Created by Kacoo http://groups. / group/hellokitty kreations Quote
Guest guest Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 I could use a stress release,I am game to go with you. Gail Re: [Hepatitis CSupportG roupForDummies] Take care of YOU.. , You call this person a friend? I might be mean but I wouldnt waste my time educating someone with an attitude like this,,,, Buy him a damn book...Im having a really bad day today myself and had to come home from work before lunch..If I was cured I wouldnt have had to come home and go to bed... You put this guy on the back burner for now and focus on you...ok...Love ya, Patty ! Groups Terms of Use | Unsubscribe Visit Your Group Y! Messenger Want a quick chat? Chat over IM with group members. Photos Upload & Share Delight friends and family 360° Get Started Create your page Share your life .. Quote
Guest guest Posted July 28, 2006 Report Posted July 28, 2006 Hey you can count me in! I worked as a bouncer (armed and unarmed) in and around NYC, including 2 biker bars, I boxed in the Police Athletic League and I studied Martial Arts for 8 years. In my 20's I used to clean out bars for sport! Allan with 2 L's in your face Bring It On! Re: [Hepatitis CSupportG roupForDummies] Take care of YOU.. , You call this person a friend? I might be mean but I wouldnt waste my time educating someone with an attitude like this,,,, Buy him a damn book...Im having a really bad day today myself and had to come home from work before lunch..If I was cured I wouldnt have had to come home and go to bed... You put this guy on the back burner for now and focus on you...ok...Love ya, Patty ! Groups Terms of Use | Unsubscribe Visit Your Group Y! Messenger Want a quick chat? Chat over IM with group members. Photos Upload & Share Delight friends and family 360° Get Started Create your page Share your life . Quote
Guest guest Posted July 28, 2006 Report Posted July 28, 2006 SpYke's got the neighbour to walk him & talk to him( & feed him of course) They may take him home with them for a bit - they've got a dog, a Springer Spaniel but she's very servile - a born theta dog, plants rank higher in the pack than her. SpYke seems to like her. When (if) I go to London for the T P my brother will take him home. He lives out in the almost bush. Bears, raccoons, deer etc are his daily visitors, I wonder how SpYke will react to them. While he's there he won't be allowed outside without supervision. As for me, I'll be alone, I can handle that - no biggy. I'm already figuring out what to pack beyond meds & clothes. I think I'll end up with some very heavy bags - books weigh soo much. SuZie Next time I'm coming back as a cat Re: [Hepatitis CSupportG roupForDummies] Take care of YOU.. , You call this person a friend? I might be mean but I wouldnt waste my time educating someone with an attitude like this,,,, Buy him a damn book..Im having a really bad day today myself and had to come home from work before lunch..If I was cured I wouldnt have had to come home and go to bed... You put this guy on the back burner for now and focus on you...ok...Love ya, Patty ! Groups Terms of Use | Unsubscribe Visit Your Group Y! Messenger Want a quick chat? Chat over IM with group members. Photos Upload & Share Delight friends and family 360° Get Started Create your page Share your life .. Letter Created by Kacoo http://groups. / group/hellokitty kreations graphic from the www no copyright infridgement intended please do not tear apart this stat Quote
Guest guest Posted July 29, 2006 Report Posted July 29, 2006 You will probably be there for about a wk.Go to the local library to keep in touch with us.Take care hon.Spyke will have a ball chasing the butterflies.Lets hope he doesn't bring moles into the house.My husband had to get after our cats cause our female came up with one mole and gave it to the male cat and then went down and got another one for herself.My husband was chasing the cats to get the moles and put them in the garbage.The cats had a productive day,but my husband didn't enjoy it. Gail -----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies [mailto:Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies ]On Behalf Of suzieSent: July 28, 2006 12:02 PMHepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies Subject: Re: Take care of YOU.. SpYke's got the neighbour to walk him & talk to him( & feed him of course) They may take him home with them for a bit - they've got a dog, a Springer Spaniel but she's very servile - a born theta dog, plants rank higher in the pack than her. SpYke seems to like her. When (if) I go to London for the T P my brother will take him home. He lives out in the almost bush. Bears, raccoons, deer etc are his daily visitors, I wonder how SpYke will react to them. While he's there he won't be allowed outside without supervision. As for me, I'll be alone, I can handle that - no biggy. I'm already figuring out what to pack beyond meds & clothes. I think I'll end up with some very heavy bags - books weigh soo much. SuZie Next time I'm coming back as a cat Re: [Hepatitis CSupportG roupForDummies] Take care of YOU.. , You call this person a friend? I might be mean but I wouldnt waste my time educating someone with an attitude like this,,,, Buy him a damn book..Im having a really bad day today myself and had to come home from work before lunch..If I was cured I wouldnt have had to come home and go to bed... You put this guy on the back burner for now and focus on you...ok...Love ya, Patty ! Groups Terms of Use | Unsubscribe Visit Your Group Y! Messenger Want a quick chat? Chat over IM with group members. Photos Upload & Share Delight friends and family 360° Get Started Create your page Share your life .. Letter Created by Kacoo http://groups. / group/hellokitty kreations graphic from the www no copyright infridgement intended please do not tear apart this stat Quote
Guest guest Posted July 30, 2006 Report Posted July 30, 2006 Hey Gang..We have our own personal Dummie Gang Bouncer..COOL!!! Re: [Hepatitis CSupportG roupForDummies] Take care of YOU.. , You call this person a friend? I might be mean but I wouldnt waste my time educating someone with an attitude like this,,,, Buy him a damn book...Im having a really bad day today myself and had to come home from work before lunch..If I was cured I wouldnt have had to come home and go to bed... You put this guy on the back burner for now and focus on you...ok...Love ya, Patty ! Groups Terms of Use | Unsubscribe Visit Your Group Y! Messenger Want a quick chat? Chat over IM with group members. Photos Upload & Share Delight friends and family 360° Get Started Create your page Share your life . Quote
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