Re: Re: constantly talking

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JediMOM... Too funny...

Re: constantly talking

> My son does this also and his therapist will stop him right on the

> spot

> and tell him that his conversation is irrelevent to what is happening

> at that time (but she speaks in his words). She is firm and speaks

> clearly. It has really helped and since I am there, I have also

> learned how to apply this at home or wherever we may be. I

> homeschool

> my son, so I am not sure if this would be the case if he were in

> school.

> (By the way,we have to hear stuff about Star Wars ALL the time)

> Wish I had more advise,

> aka JediMom

> Mom to 9yr. old wonderful son with the gift of AS

>

>

> >

> > Does anyone else have the problem of their children not stop

> talking.

> > My son who is 9 As can't stop talking. It's a big problem at

> school.

> He

> > always feels like he has to talk even if u tell him to be quiet.

> > Most of the stuf f he talk about is not related to anything. He

> just

> > explains stuff he say on Discovery Channel and Animal Planet. I

> need

> > help to try to get him to stop talking constantly. I don't mind him

> > expression himself and times but not during class when the other

> kids

> > are trying ot work. Any ideas Thanks

> >

>

>

>

>

>

>

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We have this problem to. My son just 10yrs

yesterday…talks a lot about his games. This contributes to getting him

into trouble at school and with the classmates. He talks a lot about his games

and in return this does not make good conversation to the other kids. They generally

have no idea of what games he plays.

What do I do about it? I simply tell him

he needs to talk about other things to people and I work on that with him.

Since he is not interested in any type of sports such as football, baseball any

of the above it’s hard to get him on something his peers can relate to. I

know other kids play lots of games but my son is obsessed and gets it honestly,

he can’t help it since my husband is a computer tek there is a pc in just

about every room in our house. I believe when my son gets other interest this

will help. For my son, he lives breathes and sleeps about computer world-games.

I am subjecting him to other points of interest I believe he will like. We just

started karate classes in retaliation of bullying issues hoping to build some

self esteem here. I know this doesn’t talk a lot about constantly talking

but I believe because he focuses on his obsessions this is why he constantly

talks. I do tell him firmly that’s enough and the reasons why it is

enough. Am I wrong to do so?

Debs in Bama

From: Autism and Aspergers Treatment [mailto:Autism and Aspergers Treatment ] On Behalf Of Toni Barker

Sent: Saturday, March 24, 2007

11:19 AM

Autism and Aspergers Treatment

Subject: Re:

Re: constantly talking

JediMOM...

Too funny...

Re: constantly talking

> My son does this also and his therapist will stop him right on the

> spot

> and tell him that his conversation is irrelevent to what is happening

> at that time (but she speaks in his words). She is firm and speaks

> clearly. It has really helped and since I am there, I have also

> learned how to apply this at home or wherever we may be. I

> homeschool

> my son, so I am not sure if this would be the case if he were in

> school.

> (By the way,we have to hear stuff about Star Wars ALL the time)

> Wish I had more advise,

> aka JediMom

> Mom to 9yr. old wonderful son with the gift of AS

>

>

> >

> > Does anyone else have the problem of their children not stop

> talking.

> > My son who is 9 As can't stop talking. It's a big problem at

> school.

> He

> > always feels like he has to talk even if u tell him to be quiet.

> > Most of the stuf f he talk about is not related to anything. He

> just

> > explains stuff he say on Discovery Channel and Animal Planet. I

> need

> > help to try to get him to stop talking constantly. I don't mind him

> > expression himself and times but not during class when the other

> kids

> > are trying ot work. Any ideas Thanks

> >

>

>

>

>

>

>

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You know I have the same problem with my 16 year old son..He also rocks when he talks to any one.Will not look you in the face.We having major problems right now..His body is maturing and he so afraid of what is happening with his body..He done some thing to try to prevent it and ended up hurting himself.I just do not know how to make him understand this is normal..He keeps saying he is sinning..I keep telling him no, that a normal thing for a boy.So nay advice is surely welcome

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All this talk of 'constant talkers' reminds me, I am taking my aspie to the city on Wednesday, a mom and son day!! Two hours there, two hours home and a day going to all his favourite stores - and talking non-stop the entire day!! Yippee!!! But I can't wait to treat him to a special day!

Estevan, Saskatchewan

Canada

-- Re: Re: constantly talking

You know I have the same problem with my 16 year old son..He also rocks when he talks to any one.Will not look you in the face.We having major problems right now..His body is maturing and he so afraid of what is happening with his body..He done some thing to try to prevent it and ended up hurting himself.I just do not know how to make him understand this is normal..He keeps saying he is sinning..I keep telling him no, that a normal thing for a boy.So nay advice is surely welcome

Do I like my coffee black? Are there any other colours? ~Author Unknown

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I don't have any advice, does he have a therapist that maybe could talk to him about his thoughts about it being sinful? Or a pastor? Could you go online and find some sites about the body and how it develops? I'm sorry this throws me for a loop, anyway, maybe I bumped this up and someone else will come along with some advice! Toni

Re: Re: constantly talking

You know I have the same problem with my 16 year old son..He also rocks when he talks to any one.Will not look you in the face.We having major problems right now..His body is maturing and he so afraid of what is happening with his body..He done some thing to try to prevent it and ended up hurting himself.I just do not know how to make him understand this is normal..He keeps saying he is sinning..I keep telling him no, that a normal thing for a boy.So nay advice is surely welcome

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In a message dated 3/27/2007 11:23:49 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, sweetestheart3641@... writes:

Does anyone else have the problem of their children not stop > > talking.> > > My son who is 9 As can't stop talking

my son is 4 (hes not my son with spd or aspergers either) and never ever stops talking/and or making noise. it seriously drives me nuts! never a time i dont hear him unless hes sleeping. im not sure if its anything or nothing at all

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In a message dated 3/27/2007 11:23:49 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, sweetestheart3641@... writes:

Does anyone else have the problem of their children not stop > > talking.> > > My son who is 9 As can't stop talking

my son is 4 (hes not my son with spd or aspergers either) and never ever stops talking/and or making noise. it seriously drives me nuts! never a time i dont hear him unless hes sleeping. im not sure if its anything or nothing at all

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In a message dated 3/27/2007 11:23:49 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, sweetestheart3641@... writes:

Does anyone else have the problem of their children not stop > > talking.> > > My son who is 9 As can't stop talking

my son is 4 (hes not my son with spd or aspergers either) and never ever stops talking/and or making noise. it seriously drives me nuts! never a time i dont hear him unless hes sleeping. im not sure if its anything or nothing at all

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In a message dated 3/27/2007 11:23:49 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, sweetestheart3641@... writes:

Does anyone else have the problem of their children not stop > > talking.> > > My son who is 9 As can't stop talking

my son is 4 (hes not my son with spd or aspergers either) and never ever stops talking/and or making noise. it seriously drives me nuts! never a time i dont hear him unless hes sleeping. im not sure if its anything or nothing at all

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In a message dated 3/27/2007 11:23:49 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, sweetestheart3641@... writes:

Does anyone else have the problem of their children not stop > > talking.> > > My son who is 9 As can't stop talking

my son is 4 (hes not my son with spd or aspergers either) and never ever stops talking/and or making noise. it seriously drives me nuts! never a time i dont hear him unless hes sleeping. im not sure if its anything or nothing at all

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In a message dated 3/27/2007 11:23:49 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, sweetestheart3641@... writes:

Does anyone else have the problem of their children not stop > > talking.> > > My son who is 9 As can't stop talking

my son is 4 (hes not my son with spd or aspergers either) and never ever stops talking/and or making noise. it seriously drives me nuts! never a time i dont hear him unless hes sleeping. im not sure if its anything or nothing at all

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In a message dated 3/27/2007 11:23:49 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, sweetestheart3641@... writes:

Does anyone else have the problem of their children not stop > > talking.> > > My son who is 9 As can't stop talking

my son is 4 (hes not my son with spd or aspergers either) and never ever stops talking/and or making noise. it seriously drives me nuts! never a time i dont hear him unless hes sleeping. im not sure if its anything or nothing at all

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In a message dated 3/27/2007 11:23:49 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, sweetestheart3641@... writes:

Does anyone else have the problem of their children not stop > > talking.> > > My son who is 9 As can't stop talking

my son is 4 (hes not my son with spd or aspergers either) and never ever stops talking/and or making noise. it seriously drives me nuts! never a time i dont hear him unless hes sleeping. im not sure if its anything or nothing at all

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I going to explain what happened to my son..Please I hope I do not offend any one here...My son is 16 years old and is going through adolescent now...I found out the hard way he is having wet dreams...Sunday after noon her went take a nap..When he woke up he asked me to help him...He had prior to going to sleep put a plastic tie wrap on his penis..he thought if he did that it would stop him from wetting his underwear..He told me he wanted to stop sinning..This has just torn my heart out...I talked to him about this and told him that god made him like that and that is a normal boy thing and he has done nothing wrong..We have had so many battles and so many thing to over come...When I saw what did I put fear in me that he going to start hurting himself..I almost had to bring him to the hospital..My husband came home and we got it off of him..He seems fine now,I checked it to make sure it doesn't look infected or anything...Now I could have imagine all the questions I would have gotten at the hospital...That the scary part too...I normally never ever look at my sons, just because they feel uncomfortable now but I glad he had enough common sense to ask for help.I think it longer we would have been in trouble...

[Guest guest]

I going to explain what happened to my son..Please I hope I do not offend any one here...My son is 16 years old and is going through adolescent now...I found out the hard way he is having wet dreams...Sunday after noon her went take a nap..When he woke up he asked me to help him...He had prior to going to sleep put a plastic tie wrap on his penis..he thought if he did that it would stop him from wetting his underwear..He told me he wanted to stop sinning..This has just torn my heart out...I talked to him about this and told him that god made him like that and that is a normal boy thing and he has done nothing wrong..We have had so many battles and so many thing to over come...When I saw what did I put fear in me that he going to start hurting himself..I almost had to bring him to the hospital..My husband came home and we got it off of him..He seems fine now,I checked it to make sure it doesn't look infected or anything...Now I could have imagine all the questions I would have gotten at the hospital...That the scary part too...I normally never ever look at my sons, just because they feel uncomfortable now but I glad he had enough common sense to ask for help.I think it longer we would have been in trouble...

[Guest guest]

I going to explain what happened to my son..Please I hope I do not offend any one here...My son is 16 years old and is going through adolescent now...I found out the hard way he is having wet dreams...Sunday after noon her went take a nap..When he woke up he asked me to help him...He had prior to going to sleep put a plastic tie wrap on his penis..he thought if he did that it would stop him from wetting his underwear..He told me he wanted to stop sinning..This has just torn my heart out...I talked to him about this and told him that god made him like that and that is a normal boy thing and he has done nothing wrong..We have had so many battles and so many thing to over come...When I saw what did I put fear in me that he going to start hurting himself..I almost had to bring him to the hospital..My husband came home and we got it off of him..He seems fine now,I checked it to make sure it doesn't look infected or anything...Now I could have imagine all the questions I would have gotten at the hospital...That the scary part too...I normally never ever look at my sons, just because they feel uncomfortable now but I glad he had enough common sense to ask for help.I think it longer we would have been in trouble...

[Guest guest]

I going to explain what happened to my son..Please I hope I do not offend any one here...My son is 16 years old and is going through adolescent now...I found out the hard way he is having wet dreams...Sunday after noon her went take a nap..When he woke up he asked me to help him...He had prior to going to sleep put a plastic tie wrap on his penis..he thought if he did that it would stop him from wetting his underwear..He told me he wanted to stop sinning..This has just torn my heart out...I talked to him about this and told him that god made him like that and that is a normal boy thing and he has done nothing wrong..We have had so many battles and so many thing to over come...When I saw what did I put fear in me that he going to start hurting himself..I almost had to bring him to the hospital..My husband came home and we got it off of him..He seems fine now,I checked it to make sure it doesn't look infected or anything...Now I could have imagine all the questions I would have gotten at the hospital...That the scary part too...I normally never ever look at my sons, just because they feel uncomfortable now but I glad he had enough common sense to ask for help.I think it longer we would have been in trouble...

[Guest guest]

I going to explain what happened to my son..Please I hope I do not offend any one here...My son is 16 years old and is going through adolescent now...I found out the hard way he is having wet dreams...Sunday after noon her went take a nap..When he woke up he asked me to help him...He had prior to going to sleep put a plastic tie wrap on his penis..he thought if he did that it would stop him from wetting his underwear..He told me he wanted to stop sinning..This has just torn my heart out...I talked to him about this and told him that god made him like that and that is a normal boy thing and he has done nothing wrong..We have had so many battles and so many thing to over come...When I saw what did I put fear in me that he going to start hurting himself..I almost had to bring him to the hospital..My husband came home and we got it off of him..He seems fine now,I checked it to make sure it doesn't look infected or anything...Now I could have imagine all the questions I would have gotten at the hospital...That the scary part too...I normally never ever look at my sons, just because they feel uncomfortable now but I glad he had enough common sense to ask for help.I think it longer we would have been in trouble...

[Guest guest]

I going to explain what happened to my son..Please I hope I do not offend any one here...My son is 16 years old and is going through adolescent now...I found out the hard way he is having wet dreams...Sunday after noon her went take a nap..When he woke up he asked me to help him...He had prior to going to sleep put a plastic tie wrap on his penis..he thought if he did that it would stop him from wetting his underwear..He told me he wanted to stop sinning..This has just torn my heart out...I talked to him about this and told him that god made him like that and that is a normal boy thing and he has done nothing wrong..We have had so many battles and so many thing to over come...When I saw what did I put fear in me that he going to start hurting himself..I almost had to bring him to the hospital..My husband came home and we got it off of him..He seems fine now,I checked it to make sure it doesn't look infected or anything...Now I could have imagine all the questions I would have gotten at the hospital...That the scary part too...I normally never ever look at my sons, just because they feel uncomfortable now but I glad he had enough common sense to ask for help.I think it longer we would have been in trouble...

[Guest guest]

I going to explain what happened to my son..Please I hope I do not offend any one here...My son is 16 years old and is going through adolescent now...I found out the hard way he is having wet dreams...Sunday after noon her went take a nap..When he woke up he asked me to help him...He had prior to going to sleep put a plastic tie wrap on his penis..he thought if he did that it would stop him from wetting his underwear..He told me he wanted to stop sinning..This has just torn my heart out...I talked to him about this and told him that god made him like that and that is a normal boy thing and he has done nothing wrong..We have had so many battles and so many thing to over come...When I saw what did I put fear in me that he going to start hurting himself..I almost had to bring him to the hospital..My husband came home and we got it off of him..He seems fine now,I checked it to make sure it doesn't look infected or anything...Now I could have imagine all the questions I would have gotten at the hospital...That the scary part too...I normally never ever look at my sons, just because they feel uncomfortable now but I glad he had enough common sense to ask for help.I think it longer we would have been in trouble...

[Guest guest]

I going to explain what happened to my son..Please I hope I do not offend any one here...My son is 16 years old and is going through adolescent now...I found out the hard way he is having wet dreams...Sunday after noon her went take a nap..When he woke up he asked me to help him...He had prior to going to sleep put a plastic tie wrap on his penis..he thought if he did that it would stop him from wetting his underwear..He told me he wanted to stop sinning..This has just torn my heart out...I talked to him about this and told him that god made him like that and that is a normal boy thing and he has done nothing wrong..We have had so many battles and so many thing to over come...When I saw what did I put fear in me that he going to start hurting himself..I almost had to bring him to the hospital..My husband came home and we got it off of him..He seems fine now,I checked it to make sure it doesn't look infected or anything...Now I could have imagine all the questions I would have gotten at the hospital...That the scary part too...I normally never ever look at my sons, just because they feel uncomfortable now but I glad he had enough common sense to ask for help.I think it longer we would have been in trouble...

[Guest guest]

I going to explain what happened to my son..Please I hope I do not offend any one here...My son is 16 years old and is going through adolescent now...I found out the hard way he is having wet dreams...Sunday after noon her went take a nap..When he woke up he asked me to help him...He had prior to going to sleep put a plastic tie wrap on his penis..he thought if he did that it would stop him from wetting his underwear..He told me he wanted to stop sinning..This has just torn my heart out...I talked to him about this and told him that god made him like that and that is a normal boy thing and he has done nothing wrong..We have had so many battles and so many thing to over come...When I saw what did I put fear in me that he going to start hurting himself..I almost had to bring him to the hospital..My husband came home and we got it off of him..He seems fine now,I checked it to make sure it doesn't look infected or anything...Now I could have imagine all the questions I would have gotten at the hospital...That the scary part too...I normally never ever look at my sons, just because they feel uncomfortable now but I glad he had enough common sense to ask for help.I think it longer we would have been in trouble...

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Yes my son is on Concerta 54mg and tenex. I don't mind him talking a lot a home but in school is where it becomes the problem. sweetestheart3641 <sweetestheart3641@...> wrote: it sounds like you're telling the story of our life. my son is almost 8 and he does exactly the same thing. all the talking can sure make you exhausted from listening. his psychiatrist put him on adderal and that really seemed to help. he doesn't talk nearly as much except when the medicine wears off. then the talking starts

right up again. is your son on any medication? maybe it would help him too. hang in there,liza> > >> > > Does anyone else have the problem of their children not stop > > talking.> > > My son who is 9 As can't stop talking. It's a big problem at > > school. > > He > > > always feels like he has to talk even if u tell him to be quiet.> > > Most of the stuf f he

talk about is not related to anything. He > > just > > > explains stuff he say on Discovery Channel and Animal Planet. I > > need > > > help to try to get him to stop talking constantly. I don't mind him > > > expression himself and times but not during class when the other > > kids > > > are trying ot work. Any ideas Thanks> > >> > > > > > > > > > > >

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Yes my son is on Concerta 54mg and tenex. I don't mind him talking a lot a home but in school is where it becomes the problem. sweetestheart3641 <sweetestheart3641@...> wrote: it sounds like you're telling the story of our life. my son is almost 8 and he does exactly the same thing. all the talking can sure make you exhausted from listening. his psychiatrist put him on adderal and that really seemed to help. he doesn't talk nearly as much except when the medicine wears off. then the talking starts

right up again. is your son on any medication? maybe it would help him too. hang in there,liza> > >> > > Does anyone else have the problem of their children not stop > > talking.> > > My son who is 9 As can't stop talking. It's a big problem at > > school. > > He > > > always feels like he has to talk even if u tell him to be quiet.> > > Most of the stuf f he

talk about is not related to anything. He > > just > > > explains stuff he say on Discovery Channel and Animal Planet. I > > need > > > help to try to get him to stop talking constantly. I don't mind him > > > expression himself and times but not during class when the other > > kids > > > are trying ot work. Any ideas Thanks> > >> > > > > > > > > > > >

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Yes my son is on Concerta 54mg and tenex. I don't mind him talking a lot a home but in school is where it becomes the problem. sweetestheart3641 <sweetestheart3641@...> wrote: it sounds like you're telling the story of our life. my son is almost 8 and he does exactly the same thing. all the talking can sure make you exhausted from listening. his psychiatrist put him on adderal and that really seemed to help. he doesn't talk nearly as much except when the medicine wears off. then the talking starts

right up again. is your son on any medication? maybe it would help him too. hang in there,liza> > >> > > Does anyone else have the problem of their children not stop > > talking.> > > My son who is 9 As can't stop talking. It's a big problem at > > school. > > He > > > always feels like he has to talk even if u tell him to be quiet.> > > Most of the stuf f he

talk about is not related to anything. He > > just > > > explains stuff he say on Discovery Channel and Animal Planet. I > > need > > > help to try to get him to stop talking constantly. I don't mind him > > > expression himself and times but not during class when the other > > kids > > > are trying ot work. Any ideas Thanks> > >> > > > > > > > > > > >