Re: ANNOUNCEMENT: REMODLING AGAIN

[Guest guest]

P.S. Feel free to add comments. It's not finished yet, but we're thinking of

something along these lines.

Inger

ANNOUNCEMENT: REMODLING AGAIN

I've put a new picture on our home page, and so Inger will be fiddling

with the colors again to help everything match up.

Please be patient. It will all be finished up soon.

Tom

Administrator

FAM Secret Society is a community based on respect, friendship, support and

acceptance. Everyone is valued.

Don't forget, there are links to other FAM sites on the Links page in the

folder marked " Other FAM Sites. "

[Guest guest]

>Inger: "P.S. Feel free to add comments.""Winken, Blinken, and Nod one night,Sailed off on a wooden shoe,Sailed on a river of crystal light, Into a sea of dew.......  Rainbow

[Guest guest]

>Inger: "Feel free to add comments."http://friendship.quilt.to/feb2003share/MVC-077F.JPG  Rainbow

[Guest guest]



Nice : )

Lida

>Inger: "Feel free to add comments."

http://friendship.quilt.to/feb2003share/MVC-077F.JPG

?Rainbow

[Guest guest]

I should have specified "...if you have any complaints or suggestions regarding the color scheme..."

But cute rhyme. Matches the image perfectly. :-)

Inger

Re: ANNOUNCEMENT: REMODLING AGAIN

>Inger: "P.S. Feel free to add comments."

"Winken, Blinken, and Nod one night,

Sailed off on a wooden shoe,

Sailed on a river of crystal light,

Into a sea of dew.......

Rainbow

[Guest guest]

I've put a picture up on the home page today which best reflects my

dream that I keep having about going down into a cave to find

Aspergia.

Hope this conjours up good images for you all also.

Tom

[Guest guest]

Wow that is a neat cave - are they mushrooms in the foreground? I

like the slightly blue glow too - I love blue light :-)

Did your dream have all the bridges in too? Out of curiousity - as

ever :-) how is the picture similar to your dreams and how is it

different? If you don't want to answer that is okay btw.

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> I've put a picture up on the home page today which best reflects my

> dream that I keep having about going down into a cave to find

> Aspergia.

>

> Hope this conjours up good images for you all also.

>

> Tom

>

[Guest guest]

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Those are mushrooms in the foreground.

The picture is similar in the sense that there were vast open

caverns that we had to get through to find our final destination.

There were wooden stairs and bridges here and there, but not

walkways.

The inside of the cavern in my dreams is sand colored.

I don't know how many of the people who have posted here have ever

toured Mammoth Cave, but the larger tunnels best represent the kind

we journey down in my dreams.

If you go into the Photos section, you can find the picture and

enlarge it to get a better look at it. Put the entire link below

into your browser and you might be able to see the Photo if you are

signed into the group.

http://photos./group//vwp?.dir=/

!+Photo+Album & .dnm=SocietyD---2.jpg & .src=gr & .view=t & .hires=t

I happen to know my mom will be getting a digital camera for

Christmas this year. I may take pictures of my mural, which measure

something like 2 1/2 feet by 36 feet (or more) and use those for the

homepage. It's one long continuous mine tunnel that I drew from ages

12 to 24.

Tom

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> I've put a picture up on the home page today which best reflects my

> dream that I keep having about going down into a cave to find

> Aspergia.

>

> Hope this conjours up good images for you all also.

>

> Tom

[Guest guest]

>Tom: "Those are mushrooms in the foreground."Reminds me of being under the influence of peyote mushrooms.......  Rainbow

[Guest guest]

I tried that link - I was signed in and I got an error message.

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> Those are mushrooms in the foreground.

>

> The picture is similar in the sense that there were vast open

> caverns that we had to get through to find our final destination.

> There were wooden stairs and bridges here and there, but not

> walkways.

>

> The inside of the cavern in my dreams is sand colored.

>

> I don't know how many of the people who have posted here have ever

> toured Mammoth Cave, but the larger tunnels best represent the kind

> we journey down in my dreams.

>

> If you go into the Photos section, you can find the picture and

> enlarge it to get a better look at it. Put the entire link below

> into your browser and you might be able to see the Photo if you are

> signed into the group.

>

>

http://photos./group//vwp?.dir=/

> !+Photo+Album & .dnm=SocietyD---2.jpg & .src=gr & .view=t & .hires=t

>

> I happen to know my mom will be getting a digital camera for

> Christmas this year. I may take pictures of my mural, which measure

> something like 2 1/2 feet by 36 feet (or more) and use those for

the

> homepage. It's one long continuous mine tunnel that I drew from

ages

> 12 to 24.

>

> Tom

>

[Guest guest]

Well, Rainbow, your post comes at an opportune moment. We don't

approve the use of drugs here.

It seems that you deserve a spanking for your post.

As it's your brithday, perhaps a birthday spanking is in order.

67 swats.

Who would like to give it to him then?

Tom

>Tom: " Those are mushrooms in the foreground. "

Reminds me of being under the influence of peyote mushrooms.......

Rainbow

[Guest guest]

Well, it's in the Photos section. Try there.

Tom

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> I tried that link - I was signed in and I got an error message.

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[Guest guest]

>Tom: "We don't approve the use of drugs here."Give me a break! Drug use is discussed here almost every day! Have another cup of coffee. I wasn't promoting the use of any drug, just reminiscing about my ancient history.   Rainbow

[Guest guest]

>Tom: "We don't approve the use of drugs here."Give me a break! Drug use is discussed here almost every day! Have another cup of coffee. I wasn't promoting the use of any drug, just reminiscing about my ancient history.   Rainbow

[Guest guest]

>JUlie: "I tried that link - I was signed in and I got an error message."Me too, but I went to the Group and saw it fine.  Rainbow

[Guest guest]

>JUlie: "I tried that link - I was signed in and I got an error message."Me too, but I went to the Group and saw it fine.  Rainbow

[Guest guest]

I'm an opportunist Rainbow. My hope was to promote welfare between

you and your lady. The idea was that you could print out my post,

give it to her, and have her spank you 67 times.

Sheesh!

Good intentions gone awry!

Tom

>Tom: " We don't approve the use of drugs here. "

Give me a break! Drug use is discussed here almost every day! Have

another cup of coffee. I wasn't promoting the use of any drug, just

reminiscing about my ancient history.

Rainbow

[Guest guest]

>Tom: "Sheesh!"Thanks anyway but we're busy dancing......She wants to know why you think kinky sex would 'help' a relationship anyway?  Rainbow

[Guest guest]

The short answer...

Trust me, it helps.

The long answer...

Aspies have imaginative minds. Why should creativity be limited

during sex? Stifling the mind in other areas of life causes

frustration. So it is with sex for many Aspies.

Inger's site sums it up very well:

http://www.creative-minds.info/Lorelei/Relationships.htm

" Even with opportunities to mate, some Aspies still prefer sexual

activities that can be done solitaire, because it enables control of

all the variables involved, gives instant reward, and means less

pain and hassle all around (both before and after).

" Others are only interested in sex if it involves domination, pain,

degradation, fetishism, exhibitionism, voyeurism or some other

unusual component. BDSM and other deviations seems to be

surprisingly prevalent among AS, TS, ADHD, and other atypical &

creative people. Possible reasons for this:

" a) If one has a super-receptive nervous system, it is very easy to

get Pavlovian connections between certain sensory stimuli & sex if

they happen to occur at a time one was in an aroused state, and then

get addicted to experiencing that again and again.

" People who are mentally oriented, with poor body contact, may

need something particularly interesting, unusual and intense to

awaken bodily feelings and passions at all. "

Tom

>Tom: " Sheesh! "

Thanks anyway but we're busy dancing......

She wants to know why you think kinky sex would 'help' a

relationship anyway?

Rainbow

[Guest guest]

Thanks. There seems to be some sort of creature amognst the

mushrooms - or are my eyes playing tricks on me? I would have loved

to zoom up even closer to see what it was.

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[Guest guest]

>Tom: "Trust me, it helps."Why should I trust you and can you explain further just how it helps?>"The long answer..."I got it, I have all the appropriate A.P.T.s. The 'kinky sex' comment was from my non-aspie mate, reading my email over my shoulder, "She wants to know why you think......"Thanks for the info though, a good read! I appreciate your time and effort communicating, as always, but don't go so far as to get in trouble at work!  Rainbow

[Guest guest]

By golly, you're right!

I didn't see him there.

He seems to be some kind of Yoda-like creature.

If you go into the photos section, and click on it, it will expand

the image. If you click on the image a second time, it will expand

it even more so you can better see him.

Tom

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> > I tried that link - I was signed in and I got an error message.

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[Guest guest]

Mmmmmmmm I did that - I might see if there is someway I can get it

into photo shop and then I can zoom up even closer to have a really

good look at the critter :-) However I am likely to forget or have to

deal with unfortunate mundane aspects of life (sigh).

Wouldn't it be nice if I could just play all day and let life take

care of itself - of course then I woke up :-)

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> > > I tried that link - I was signed in and I got an error message.

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[Guest guest]

Rainbow,

You can trust me in that I know through experience that it helps.

I don't want to get too graphic here about explaining HOW it helps.

I'm pretty sure we are all of age here, but some folks may be

sensitive about this subject and not want anything too graphic being

mentioned.

But in non-sexual parts of our lives, it is very liberating to be

free to do what we please without self criticism and without

external criticism, right? It is also a happy feeling when others

accept you the way you are, I beleive.

Yet...

As far as sex goes, many times in relatiionships, we are afraid to

talk to our partners about our deepest darkest fantasies for fear

they will criticize us, and that makes us feel bad about ourselves.

And we are afraid to ask our partners to act our fantasies out for

fear they may deny us our desires. THEN, we go off and criticize

ourselves for having these desires in the first place.

Now obviously, a partner should not be forced to do something that

goes against their value systems, but at the same time, it is a

joyous feeling -not just in terms of sex, but in terms of love- when

a partner DOES make an effort to please.

It means that your partner loves you, accepts you, and wants to

please you, and even if they don't actually satisfy you completely,

it means alot that they try, because in a way, that is sort of a

demonstration of their commitment to the relationship. If a partner

wants to see another partner happy, well, then that's a kind of love

isn't it?

Sex is a natural part of our beings, and I see no reason why needs

in that part of our lives should not be satisfied when people are in

loving comitted relationships together.

Tom

Administrator

>Tom: " Trust me, it helps. "

Why should I trust you and can you explain further just how it helps?

> " The long answer... "

I got it, I have all the appropriate A.P.T.s. The 'kinky sex'

comment was from my non-aspie mate, reading my email over my

shoulder, " She wants to know why you think...... "

Thanks for the info though, a good read! I appreciate your time and

effort communicating, as always, but don't go so far as to get in

trouble at work!

Rainbow

[Guest guest]

>Tom: "He seems to be some kind of Yoda-like creature."Under WHICH mushroom? I still see more than one 'strange' thing in there! Aren't those meant to represent 'magic' mushrooms. I don't see any dead logs or leave litter from which mushrooms traditionally grow. Do you? The colors and lighting are very psychedelic, now aren't they? Perhaps I should have referred to psillocybin (sp?) rather than peyote, a cactus. (IF I were a druggie I'd probably know how to spell it.)  Rainbow