Guest guest Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Hello, had a bad experience last night again with my 13 yr old DD. She intentionally told me that people (close friends) were saying very negative things about me because their daughter had repeated these things to her on the bus. No such conversation occured, the other little girl (10) was not even on the bus yesterday but it upset me and made me wonder if there was a problem I was unaware of. I talked to the person implicated and found out her daughter was not even on the bus and that NONE of it had been said. (we have been VERY close friends for 13 years and NEVER had an incident of that type, always brutally honest with one another. lol) ANYWAY, I confronted my DD in a calm but hurt voice said, why would you lie to mom and tell her that Jen had said such awful things you know would hurt me? What was the point? She looked calmly into my face and said, I am having trouble with my friends and you have hurt my feelings in the past so I wanted to make you feel that way too. NOW what in the world are you to say/do about that? She is very manipulative sometimes and has lied to try to cause fights between her dad/stepmom and I in the past but we figured her out and just talk to one another now and check facts before we just believe what she said. She is generally a pretty good girl, but she can be SO emotionally and physically cruel sometimes. Is that normal for AS? Is it just a lack of empathy or??? HELP!!!!! God Bless. DeeDee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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