personal question for sma males

May 23, 2006

I really don't understand why he has to have his pants down to urinate. I've

never seen that with guys before. W usually just take " it " out and place in

the urinal, cup, bottle (heck I've gone in a beer bottle LOL) and go. Does

he have no use of his hands at all? I've always peed myself so don't have

experience with assistance. Well come to think of it, when I had bronchitis

so bad last September, my arms got so weak I couldn't move them. My Mother

just held the urinal there in my lap. Thats why I don't understand why he

has to have his pants down. I'm turning 49 in June (yikes!!) and am

experiencing my own urinating problem after all these years. I can no longer

push down the front of my zipper, extract myself, place in receptacle, hold

everything in place and go. I have had to modify the way I go to continue to

do it independently. This may help your son go at school or even by himself.

I push my zipper, open of course, way down between my legs. Boxers included.

This way I am always partially exposed and just push the urinal up against

myself. This is working so far, but it too is becoming difficult. The only

problem with this method is one has to be constantly aware of your clothles

so nothin shows. I wear long shirts now, and have to continually check and

make sure everythings covered. Also if I know I'm not going to go for awhile

I will shove my shirt down between my legs too, so I'm not constantly

adjusting and fidgiting. Having a tummy helps too. Embarrassing and a pain,

but a small price for independence. Only one embarrassment in 3 years (my

poor sister who I probably aged LOL), so not too bad. I'd be interested to

know how the other guys go too, maybe I could benefit. Doug

Side question here: Why do men have such a problem helping another man go to

the bathroom? I've dropped several hints to male relatives and male friends,

that I may need help in a emergency situation. Such a look of abhorrance and

revulsion!! Some guys are even embarrassed to go into the stall with me for

fear someone might see them. I know its probably the whole gay stigma thing

but geez! Oh, some will say " As long as I don't have to touch anything " ,

Hello, thats what I need help with! Not a audience! Now when woman all go

together its like a social event in there right LOL?? Guess you ladies have

fewer hangups. Doug

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