Re: losing weight, and the resentment of others

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I so hear you . I lost around 50 pounds and have kept if off for over 2 years and have heard lots of nasty comments too. People are jealous and insecure and hate when you accomplish what they are unwilling to do. It takes hard work and discipline to lose and keep off weight and most people have more "wishbone" than "backbone".

Kathy

losing weight, and the resentment of others

Kris and , when I lost 60 lbs I too had my share of jealous attacks.

My boss at the time was morbidly obese, 350+ lbs. On my performance review she docked me because I talked about fitness a lot. She talks about church and religion all the time which is okay, but I can't talk about fitness? Should I talk about Survivor and American Idol like everyone else?

My gym coordinator who was as heavy as me was also similarly stabbing when I lost weight and she was still chunky, being hyper critical when possible and really hurt my feelings.

I know that Tonya in this group was also verbally attacked when she lost weight.

So, that said... chin up, remain confident and believe in yourself and your goals, to hell with anyone else. At least you can still fit your ass in a normal sized office chair!

[Guest guest]

Love the wishbone backbone line and to both of you

laura and kathy and to val and anyone else who lost a

lot of weight - congratulations:)

Kris

--- kvetro60 <kvetro60@...> wrote:

> I so hear you . I lost around 50 pounds and

> have kept if off for over 2 years and have heard

> lots of nasty comments too. People are jealous and

> insecure and hate when you accomplish what they are

> unwilling to do. It takes hard work and discipline

> to lose and keep off weight and most people have

> more " wishbone " than " backbone " .

>

> Kathy

> losing weight, and the

> resentment of others

>

>

> Kris and , when I lost 60 lbs I too had my

> share of jealous attacks.

>

> My boss at the time was morbidly obese, 350+ lbs.

> On my performance review she docked me because I

> talked about fitness a lot. She talks about church

> and religion all the time which is okay, but I can't

> talk about fitness? Should I talk about Survivor

> and American Idol like everyone else?

>

> My gym coordinator who was as heavy as me was also

> similarly stabbing when I lost weight and she was

> still chunky, being hyper critical when possible and

> really hurt my feelings.

>

> I know that Tonya in this group was also verbally

> attacked when she lost weight.

>

> So, that said... chin up, remain confident and

> believe in yourself and your goals, to hell with

> anyone else. At least you can still fit your ass in

> a normal sized office chair!

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

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I remember in high school when I went on one of those ridiculous fad diets and I had lost some weight. One of my friends noticed that I lost weight and said something nice to me about it and my so-called best friend immediately changed the subject! She was NEVER my best friend, only a back-stabbing BITCH! Anyway, later on when one day I was upset about something and one girl noticed my so-called best friend says "oh she always looks like that!"

This is why I never went to any of my high school reunions! Kids are definately the worst to each other.

Jen

kris alcs <chromechairs@...> wrote:

Thanks for this . I just dont understand whypeople have to be like that!So mean - can't they just be happy? I suppose its thesame as when you succeed at other things - they dontwant to see you happy then either!i remember this same 'friend' when everyone wasexclaiming when i lost 30 lbs she dryly said'yea...she lost weight' and rolled her eyes. Nothing and nobody is derailing me. I'm sorry you guyswent through it too but i'm also kind of glad to knowits not just something about me .....People aye...*hugs to everyone*Kris.--- Pink Pussycat<pinkpussycat@...> wrote:> Kris and , when I lost 60 lbs I too had my> share of jealous attacks. > > My boss at the time was morbidly obese, 350+ lbs. > On my performance review she docked me because

I> talked about fitness a lot. She talks about church> and religion all the time which is okay, but I can't> talk about fitness? Should I talk about Survivor> and American Idol like everyone else?> > My gym coordinator who was as heavy as me was also> similarly stabbing when I lost weight and she was> still chunky, being hyper critical when possible and> really hurt my feelings. > > I know that Tonya in this group was also verbally> attacked when she lost weight. > > So, that said... chin up, remain confident and> believe in yourself and your goals, to hell with> anyone else. At least you can still fit your ass in> a normal sized office chair!> > > > > > http://pixelated24.blogspot.comIt does not

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Interesting comments about losing weight and the resentment of others!

It is amazing how if you gain weight there are people who will make

negative comments to you and about you and if you lose weight the same

is true!! Makes you wonder about people in general...

Stacey

[Guest guest]

It takes hard work and discipline

> to lose and keep off weight and most people have

> more " wishbone " than " backbone " .

> Kathy

Amen, to that Kathy!!! Congrats on your success!! Did

you do it initially with the Beachbody workouts?

> At least you can still fit your ass in

> a normal sized office chair!

>

>

LOL, , you do have such a way w/ words. Your

picture is on the Turbo videos at the end, isn't it?

I at least think that is you and wow, what a

difference - you look about 10 years younger in your

" after " picture. Way to go!!

Donna

>

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Yes - I started out with Slim in 6, then to Slim Series, YBB, Firm, Tamilee, and now TJ!

Kathy

Re: losing weight, and the resentment of others

It takes hard work and discipline> to lose and keep off weight and most people have> more "wishbone" than "backbone". > KathyAmen, to that Kathy!!! Congrats on your success!! Didyou do it initially with the Beachbody workouts?> At least you can still fit your ass in> a normal sized office chair!> > LOL, , you do have such a way w/ words. Yourpicture is on the Turbo videos at the end, isn't it?I at least think that is you and wow, what adifference - you look about 10 years younger in your"after" picture. Way to go!!Donna> > __________________________________ - PC Magazine Editors' Choice 2005 http://mail.

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yup i hated highschool and would never go to a

reunion. Unless i lost the weight and rented a hot guy

lololololol

Kris

--- from Michigan <volleyjen0416@...>

wrote:

> I remember in high school when I went on one of

> those ridiculous fad diets and I had lost some

> weight. One of my friends noticed that I lost

> weight and said something nice to me about it and my

> so-called best friend immediately changed the

> subject! She was NEVER my best friend, only a

> back-stabbing BITCH! Anyway, later on when one day

> I was upset about something and one girl noticed my

> so-called best friend says " oh she always looks like

> that! "

>

>

>

> This is why I never went to any of my high

> school reunions! Kids are definately the worst to

> each other.

>

>

>

> Jen

>

>

> kris alcs <chromechairs@...> wrote:

> Thanks for this . I just dont understand why

> people have to be like that!

> So mean - can't they just be happy? I suppose its

> the

> same as when you succeed at other things - they dont

> want to see you happy then either!

> i remember this same 'friend' when everyone was

> exclaiming when i lost 30 lbs she dryly said

> 'yea...she lost weight' and rolled her eyes.

> Nothing and nobody is derailing me. I'm sorry you

> guys

> went through it too but i'm also kind of glad to

> know

> its not just something about me .....People aye...

> *hugs to everyone*

> Kris.

>

> --- Pink Pussycat

> <pinkpussycat@...> wrote:

>

> > Kris and , when I lost 60 lbs I too had my

> > share of jealous attacks.

> >

> > My boss at the time was morbidly obese, 350+ lbs.

> > On my performance review she docked me because I

> > talked about fitness a lot. She talks about

> church

> > and religion all the time which is okay, but I

> can't

> > talk about fitness? Should I talk about Survivor

> > and American Idol like everyone else?

> >

> > My gym coordinator who was as heavy as me was also

> > similarly stabbing when I lost weight and she was

> > still chunky, being hyper critical when possible

> and

> > really hurt my feelings.

> >

> > I know that Tonya in this group was also verbally

> > attacked when she lost weight.

> >

> > So, that said... chin up, remain confident and

> > believe in yourself and your goals, to hell with

> > anyone else. At least you can still fit your ass

> in

> > a normal sized office chair!

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

>

> http://pixelated24.blogspot.com

>

> It does not matter how slowly you go,

> as long as you do not stop.

>

> Unknown

>

>

>

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kris,

no matter what i will be going to my class reunion. they torurted me for being me and not being them so i just wanted that to shine through that i have always stayed true to me and that has taken me far. they were so worried about other ppl half of them didn't make it to graduation. but it wouldn't hurt to show off the muscles and really make those jock boys kick themselves for not taking the chance.

kassia

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You go girl! Show em what you done!!

--- Kassia <ldy_solana@...> wrote:

> kris,

>

> no matter what i will be going to my class reunion.

> they torurted me for being me and not being them so

> i just wanted that to shine through that i have

> always stayed true to me and that has taken me far.

> they were so worried about other ppl half of them

> didn't make it to graduation. but it wouldn't hurt

> to show off the muscles and really make those jock

> boys kick themselves for not taking the chance.

>

> kassia

>

>

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