Re: Re: you can not BE a victim - unless you CHOOSE to be vic...

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Hey ,

This is one of the problems. There are some who have gone through this

ordearl, that have not experienced the continued ill health that many on this

board have experienced. So, even though they think they have " been there " ,

it's difficult for them to understand.

Maybe even more so than those who have never had any contact with the

issue, because they feel like they have experienced it when don't realize they

have only experienced a small portion of it.

But with that said, it is not really relevant whether they understand all

the aspects. What is relevant is that they understand the concept that the

buildings need to be cleaned up and they are working to do so.

I know it probably hurts, particularly in light of the recent suicides,

to be thought of as people who are only taking part in a pity party. But I

wouldn't be too hard on the author of that statement. She has worked really

hard to get the buildings cleaned up, because that is what she knows. And her

efforts will help stop other families from going through what many of us have

been through.

It's not important that she understand what you understand - so don't

take it personal. She is doing the best she can with what information she has.

The folks over at IEQuality are definately our friends and are working very

hard to help us.

Sharon

>8 months.

Three of those months were spent in a motel room, three months were

spent in a rental house, and two were spent in our garage and an RV.

I'm simply pointing this out to say " yep - I've been there, and it

sucks really bad. " <

" been there " ?

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