Guest guest Posted October 16, 2000 Report Share Posted October 16, 2000 Dearest Colleen, Poor hon - the last thing you need is family troubles when you are already sick. Yeah I've been there, and its a popular topic here. Its so horrible to live with peoples anger and guilt. "Please pray for my disability to go through so that I will have some freedom again and can make a plan for myself" What happened to your recent dissability? Why did you have to move in with your aunt? " Im trying very hard not to cry as it leaves my eyes more messed up afterward, but today is tough." Oooh yeah you have sjogrens, shitty!! Crying is a strength - a release we all need at times and gosh that must be hard when even crying makes you sick :-( "I have learned the hard way during this that if people truly CARE they come through for you," My motto is "Actions speak louder then words" "My point is that if you have to get mad, people will just be responding out of guilt anyway and who needs it??????????" I think its worse when people act out of guilt. Just makes me feel more pathetic when someone does something cause they "should" rather then cause they wanted to. I hope today is better then yesterday hon, and please, vent all you need!! *gentle hugs* Aisha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2000 Report Share Posted October 16, 2000 Thanks Aisha Your support means a lot to me. This has been really hard and my eyes are on fire today from crying last night. It really is a stupid problem to have! My disability from my old job ran out. I used the whole amount and have been waiting for SSD< and God only knows how long that may take, its not very much but much better than nothing. Hugs Colleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2000 Report Share Posted October 16, 2000 Colleen, Sorry for the tough day. Families can be exasperating to say the least. Thoses are the times when I wished we were all close enough to have coffee or give a hug. I hope your disability goes quickly and try to keep your sanity. VENT VENT VENT go for it. Everybody here does it and we do understand. Love and hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2000 Report Share Posted October 16, 2000 Thanks I appreciate the support. You are SOSOSOSO right about the coffee thing. It would help people out a lot if we were close enough to get together once in a while, Thank God for the group! Hugs Colleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2000 Report Share Posted October 16, 2000 Helen Thanks for the encouragement. I really need it. I Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2000 Report Share Posted October 16, 2000 OOOps my mail sent before I was done. Anyway, the crying leads to a lot of inflammation and rebound dryness. I have tears to cry but they seem to be extra thick and salty and lead to the pain later. Ive had a rough day all day from crying last night and had to use some steroid ointment today. The fight is because my work dis$$ ran out and I am at my aunts. Moms sis, mom and dad just could not deal with the lifestyle change of having a 30 year old come home and have reacted like I am faking this or exagerating to get out of work, this is all obvious to my aunt and she is angry that they are not supporting me emotionally financially or anything. They have just gone on with " life as usual " as long as Im living 90 miles from them and in Tucson I was 1100 miles away so things have gotten really tense. I have been waiting for SSD since april, but my case worker said a decision will be coming soon. HUGS Colleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2000 Report Share Posted October 16, 2000 Massachusetts, USA. Melinda Re: FAMILY FUED >Speaking of.... >Can we take a quick poll of where we all are? >I'm in Indiana, USA. > >love, > > > >ccomm777@... wrote: > >> Thanks >> I appreciate the support. You are SOSOSOSO right about the coffee thing. It >> would help people out a lot if we were close enough to get together once in a >> while, Thank God for the group! >> Hugs >> Colleen >> >> The Being Sick Community >> >> Visual problems with colors? >> Click the link below and select the modify link to your right. Then select the **Send Plain Text Email** option. This will stop you receiving emails with colored or enlarged fonts. >> >> >> Members Lounge:- >> Photo Album, memorial page, members profiles, birthdays, locations, medical resources, counselling via email, and a whole bunch of free things. >> http://www.elderwyn.com/members >> >> Message Archives and Digest Attachment Pictures:- >> messages/ >> >> Chat:- >> Scheduled Daily Chats at # on IRC DALnet. >> chat.html >> >> Sharing our resources:- >> Add a website URL you have found useful. >> >> >> Personal Complaints or problems:- >> Please contact a moderator should you require assistance with anything technical or if you are upset by another. The email address for the moderators is <-owneregroups> >> >> Subscription Details:- >> 1) Individual email - means that every email sent to the list you receive. >> 2) Daily Digest - sends you 25 messages in one single email for you to browse. This is an excellent option if you receive alot of email. >> 3) Web only/No mail - means that you can pop into eGroups at your convenience and receive no email. >> To modify your subscription settings please visit mygroups >> >> To subscribe or unsubscribe >> subscribe/ >> >> ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ >> >> “Hold on to what is good, even if it's a handful of earth. Hold on to what you believe, even if it's a tree that stands by itself. Hold on to what you must do even, if it's a long way from here. Hold on to your life, even if it's easier to let go. " - Pueblo Prayer > > >The Being Sick Community > >Visual problems with colors? >Click the link below and select the modify link to your right. Then select the **Send Plain Text Email** option. This will stop you receiving emails with colored or enlarged fonts. > > >Members Lounge:- >Photo Album, memorial page, members profiles, birthdays, locations, medical resources, counselling via email, and a whole bunch of free things. >http://www.elderwyn.com/members > >Message Archives and Digest Attachment Pictures:- >messages/ > >Chat:- >Scheduled Daily Chats at # on IRC DALnet. >chat.html > >Sharing our resources:- >Add a website URL you have found useful. > > >Personal Complaints or problems:- >Please contact a moderator should you require assistance with anything technical or if you are upset by another. The email address for the moderators is <-owneregroups> > >Subscription Details:- >1) Individual email - means that every email sent to the list you receive. >2) Daily Digest - sends you 25 messages in one single email for you to browse. This is an excellent option if you receive alot of email. >3) Web only/No mail - means that you can pop into eGroups at your convenience and receive no email. >To modify your subscription settings please visit mygroups > >To subscribe or unsubscribe >subscribe/ > >~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > >“Hold on to what is good, even if it's a handful of earth. Hold on to what you believe, even if it's a tree that stands by itself. Hold on to what you must do even, if it's a long way from here. Hold on to your life, even if it's easier to let go. " - Pueblo Prayer > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2000 Report Share Posted October 16, 2000 Colleen, my prayers are with you. How long have you been waiting for it to go thru? My son waited two years for his to go through. Why are they fighting over you if I can ask? Crying does help a lot sometimes, but I think you have sjogren, right? Do the tears burn your eyes or you have no tears? I don't remember. Please hang in there. Hugs Helen . > Please pray for my disability to go through so that I will have some freedom > again and can make a plan for myself Im trying very hard not to cry > my family does not understand this. > Colleen angelbear1129@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2000 Report Share Posted October 16, 2000 Speaking of.... Can we take a quick poll of where we all are? I'm in Indiana, USA. love, ccomm777@... wrote: > Thanks > I appreciate the support. You are SOSOSOSO right about the coffee thing. It > would help people out a lot if we were close enough to get together once in a > while, Thank God for the group! > Hugs > Colleen > > The Being Sick Community > > Visual problems with colors? > Click the link below and select the modify link to your right. Then select the **Send Plain Text Email** option. This will stop you receiving emails with colored or enlarged fonts. > > > Members Lounge:- > Photo Album, memorial page, members profiles, birthdays, locations, medical resources, counselling via email, and a whole bunch of free things. > http://www.elderwyn.com/members > > Message Archives and Digest Attachment Pictures:- > messages/ > > Chat:- > Scheduled Daily Chats at # on IRC DALnet. > chat.html > > Sharing our resources:- > Add a website URL you have found useful. > > > Personal Complaints or problems:- > Please contact a moderator should you require assistance with anything technical or if you are upset by another. The email address for the moderators is <-owneregroups> > > Subscription Details:- > 1) Individual email - means that every email sent to the list you receive. > 2) Daily Digest - sends you 25 messages in one single email for you to browse. This is an excellent option if you receive alot of email. > 3) Web only/No mail - means that you can pop into eGroups at your convenience and receive no email. > To modify your subscription settings please visit mygroups > > To subscribe or unsubscribe > subscribe/ > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > “Hold on to what is good, even if it's a handful of earth. Hold on to what you believe, even if it's a tree that stands by itself. Hold on to what you must do even, if it's a long way from here. Hold on to your life, even if it's easier to let go. " - Pueblo Prayer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2000 Report Share Posted October 16, 2000 Alaska, USA. Dee >From: " Sprague " <mydragon@...> >Reply-egroups ><egroups> >Subject: Re: FAMILY FUED >Date: Mon, 16 Oct 2000 23:13:10 -0400 > >Massachusetts, USA. > >Melinda > Re: FAMILY FUED > > > >Speaking of.... > >Can we take a quick poll of where we all are? > >I'm in Indiana, USA. > > > >love, > > > > > > > >ccomm777@... wrote: > > > >> Thanks > >> I appreciate the support. You are SOSOSOSO right about the coffee >thing. >It > >> would help people out a lot if we were close enough to get together >once >in a > >> while, Thank God for the group! > >> Hugs > >> Colleen > >> > >> The Being Sick Community > >> > >> Visual problems with colors? > >> Click the link below and select the modify link to your right. Then >select the **Send Plain Text Email** option. 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Guest guest Posted October 17, 2000 Report Share Posted October 17, 2000 Virginia, would you ever guess? LOL Meta http-equiv=refresh content=1;url=client:showsplash?message=MAY%20THE%20DAY%20TREAT%20YOU%20KINDLY!!!!ℑ=http://www.angelfire.com/wv/vest/images/angel3.gif&action=submitform"> Scenes from my home: The Shenanadoah Valley, VA My Home Page My Index Page Gifts from my friends Send me an email here What a nice surprise! Thank you Robin!! The love you seek will only love you as much as you love yourself, so love yourself and be good to yourself, for you are a beautiful spirit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2000 Report Share Posted October 17, 2000 That's a shame. Our son had moved out on his own, was doing really well, then mono struck him, then fibro and cfs. So of course he lost everything and he moved back home with his parents [us]. Which I wouldn't have any other way for him. We redone the basement for him and he can go and come as he pleases. But he does miss being on his own. My son is 30 also. Be thankful your Aunt is there for you. She sounds like a very nice lady. My prayers will be with you. gentle hugs Helen > OOOps my mail sent before I was done. Anyway, the crying leads to a lot of > inflammation and rebound dryness. I have tears to cry but they seem to be > extra thick and salty and lead to the pain later. Ive had a rough day all > day from crying last night and had to use some steroid ointment today. > The fight is because my work dis$$ ran out and I am at my aunts. Moms sis, > mom and dad just could not deal with the lifestyle change of having a 30 year > old come home and have reacted like I am faking this or exagerating to get > out of work, this is all obvious to my aunt and she is angry that they are > not supporting me emotionally financially or anything. They have just gone > on with " life as usual " as long as Im living 90 miles from them and in Tucson > I was 1100 miles away so things have gotten really tense. > I have been waiting for SSD since april, but my case worker said a decision > will be coming soon. > HUGS > Colleen angelbear1129@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2000 Report Share Posted October 17, 2000 I'm in Georgia, USA- ne ----Original Message Follows---- From: Hyten <whyten@...> Reply-egroups egroups Subject: Re: FAMILY FUED Date: Mon, 16 Oct 2000 21:50:38 -0700 Speaking of.... Can we take a quick poll of where we all are? I'm in Indiana, USA. love, ccomm777@... wrote: > Thanks > I appreciate the support. You are SOSOSOSO right about the coffee thing. It > would help people out a lot if we were close enough to get together once in a > while, Thank God for the group! > Hugs > Colleen > > The Being Sick Community > > Visual problems with colors? > Click the link below and select the modify link to your right. Then select the **Send Plain Text Email** option. This will stop you receiving emails with colored or enlarged fonts. > > > Members Lounge:- > Photo Album, memorial page, members profiles, birthdays, locations, medical resources, counselling via email, and a whole bunch of free things. > http://www.elderwyn.com/members > > Message Archives and Digest Attachment Pictures:- > messages/ > > Chat:- > Scheduled Daily Chats at # on IRC DALnet. > chat.html > > Sharing our resources:- > Add a website URL you have found useful. > > > Personal Complaints or problems:- > Please contact a moderator should you require assistance with anything technical or if you are upset by another. The email address for the moderators is <-owneregroups> > > Subscription Details:- > 1) Individual email - means that every email sent to the list you receive. > 2) Daily Digest - sends you 25 messages in one single email for you to browse. This is an excellent option if you receive alot of email. > 3) Web only/No mail - means that you can pop into eGroups at your convenience and receive no email. > To modify your subscription settings please visit mygroups > > To subscribe or unsubscribe > subscribe/ > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > “Hold on to what is good, even if it's a handful of earth. Hold on to what you believe, even if it's a tree that stands by itself. Hold on to what you must do even, if it's a long way from here. Hold on to your life, even if it's easier to let go. " - Pueblo Prayer The Being Sick Community Visual problems with colors? Click the link below and select the modify link to your right. Then select the **Send Plain Text Email** option. This will stop you receiving emails with colored or enlarged fonts. Members Lounge:- Photo Album, memorial page, members profiles, birthdays, locations, medical resources, counselling via email, and a whole bunch of free things. http://www.elderwyn.com/members Message Archives and Digest Attachment Pictures:- messages/ Chat:- Scheduled Daily Chats at # on IRC DALnet. chat.html Sharing our resources:- Add a website URL you have found useful. Personal Complaints or problems:- Please contact a moderator should you require assistance with anything technical or if you are upset by another. The email address for the moderators is <-owneregroups> Subscription Details:- 1) Individual email - means that every email sent to the list you receive. 2) Daily Digest - sends you 25 messages in one single email for you to browse. This is an excellent option if you receive alot of email. 3) Web only/No mail - means that you can pop into eGroups at your convenience and receive no email. To modify your subscription settings please visit mygroups To subscribe or unsubscribe subscribe/ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ “Hold on to what is good, even if it's a handful of earth. Hold on to what you believe, even if it's a tree that stands by itself. Hold on to what you must do even, if it's a long way from here. Hold on to your life, even if it's easier to let go. " - Pueblo Prayer _________________________________________________________________________ Get Your Private, Free E-mail from MSN Hotmail at http://www.hotmail.com. Share information about yourself, create your own public profile at http://profiles.msn.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2000 Report Share Posted October 17, 2000 I'm in Southbridge MA USA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest guest Posted October 17, 2000 Report Share Posted October 17, 2000 ontario canada...going to new york next week..with friends....anyone live near there? wanna meet for coffee? sheena Hyten wrote: > Speaking of.... > Can we take a quick poll of where we all are? > I'm in Indiana, USA. > > love, > > > ccomm777@... wrote: > > > Thanks > > I appreciate the support. You are SOSOSOSO right about the coffee thing. It > > would help people out a lot if we were close enough to get together once in a > > while, Thank God for the group! > > Hugs > > Colleen > > > > The Being Sick Community > > > > Visual problems with colors? > > Click the link below and select the modify link to your right. Then select the **Send Plain Text Email** option. This will stop you receiving emails with colored or enlarged fonts. > > > > > > Members Lounge:- > > Photo Album, memorial page, members profiles, birthdays, locations, medical resources, counselling via email, and a whole bunch of free things. > > http://www.elderwyn.com/members > > > > Message Archives and Digest Attachment Pictures:- > > messages/ > > > > Chat:- > > Scheduled Daily Chats at # on IRC DALnet. > > chat.html > > > > Sharing our resources:- > > Add a website URL you have found useful. > > > > > > Personal Complaints or problems:- > > Please contact a moderator should you require assistance with anything technical or if you are upset by another. The email address for the moderators is <-owneregroups> > > > > Subscription Details:- > > 1) Individual email - means that every email sent to the list you receive. > > 2) Daily Digest - sends you 25 messages in one single email for you to browse. This is an excellent option if you receive alot of email. > > 3) Web only/No mail - means that you can pop into eGroups at your convenience and receive no email. > > To modify your subscription settings please visit mygroups > > > > To subscribe or unsubscribe > > subscribe/ > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > > > “Hold on to what is good, even if it's a handful of earth. Hold on to what you believe, even if it's a tree that stands by itself. Hold on to what you must do even, if it's a long way from here. Hold on to your life, even if it's easier to let go. " - Pueblo Prayer > > The Being Sick Community > > Visual problems with colors? > Click the link below and select the modify link to your right. Then select the **Send Plain Text Email** option. This will stop you receiving emails with colored or enlarged fonts. > > > Members Lounge:- > Photo Album, memorial page, members profiles, birthdays, locations, medical resources, counselling via email, and a whole bunch of free things. > http://www.elderwyn.com/members > > Message Archives and Digest Attachment Pictures:- > messages/ > > Chat:- > Scheduled Daily Chats at # on IRC DALnet. > chat.html > > Sharing our resources:- > Add a website URL you have found useful. > > > Personal Complaints or problems:- > Please contact a moderator should you require assistance with anything technical or if you are upset by another. The email address for the moderators is <-owneregroups> > > Subscription Details:- > 1) Individual email - means that every email sent to the list you receive. > 2) Daily Digest - sends you 25 messages in one single email for you to browse. This is an excellent option if you receive alot of email. > 3) Web only/No mail - means that you can pop into eGroups at your convenience and receive no email. > To modify your subscription settings please visit mygroups > > To subscribe or unsubscribe > subscribe/ > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > “Hold on to what is good, even if it's a handful of earth. Hold on to what you believe, even if it's a tree that stands by itself. Hold on to what you must do even, if it's a long way from here. Hold on to your life, even if it's easier to let go. " - Pueblo Prayer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2000 Report Share Posted October 17, 2000 Little town in the NW corner of Mass Melinda Re: FAMILY FUED Melinda, Where in Mass are you? I'm also in Mass The Being Sick Community Visual problems with colors? Click the link below and select the modify link to your right. Then select the **Send Plain Text Email** option. This will stop you receiving emails with colored or enlarged fonts. Members Lounge:- Photo Album, memorial page, members profiles, birthdays, locations, medical resources, counselling via email, and a whole bunch of free things. http://www.elderwyn.com/members Message Archives and Digest Attachment Pictures:- messages/ Chat:- Scheduled Daily Chats at # on IRC DALnet. chat.html Sharing our resources:- Add a website URL you have found useful. Personal Complaints or problems:- Please contact a moderator should you require assistance with anything technical or if you are upset by another. The email address for the moderators is <-owneregroups> Subscription Details:- 1) Individual email - means that every email sent to the list you receive. 2) Daily Digest - sends you 25 messages in one single email for you to browse. This is an excellent option if you receive alot of email. 3) Web only/No mail - means that you can pop into eGroups at your convenience and receive no email. To modify your subscription settings please visit mygroups To subscribe or unsubscribe subscribe/ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ “Hold on to what is good, even if it's a handful of earth. Hold on to what you believe, even if it's a tree that stands by itself. Hold on to what you must do even, if it's a long way from here. Hold on to your life, even if it's easier to let go. " - Pueblo Prayer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2000 Report Share Posted October 18, 2000 I'm in the NE corner-- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2000 Report Share Posted October 18, 2000 Melinda, I wasn't being nosy, I jusst wondered how close we were milage wise.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2000 Report Share Posted October 18, 2000 I am about an hour on the other side of Springfield. Right down Rt 90 or 84. Ever heard of Worcester? Or the big medical city here-Worcester Medical Center? So actulaay we are not that far away? Do you know how to get to Six Flaggs New England in Agawam? Later kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2000 Report Share Posted October 18, 2000 Oh geeze, Sorry, No i didnt think you were being nosey. Im not sure where your town is. I dont think ive ever heard of it. The closest " Big " town is Greenfield or hmm, Springfield MA, Springfield is about an hour or so away from us but its BIG. ( well it is to me.lol) so are we close?? melinda Re: FAMILY FUED Melinda, I wasn't being nosy, I jusst wondered how close we were milage wise.. The Being Sick Community Visual problems with colors? Click the link below and select the modify link to your right. Then select the **Send Plain Text Email** option. This will stop you receiving emails with colored or enlarged fonts. Members Lounge:- Photo Album, memorial page, members profiles, birthdays, locations, medical resources, counselling via email, and a whole bunch of free things. http://www.elderwyn.com/members Message Archives and Digest Attachment Pictures:- messages/ Chat:- Scheduled Daily Chats at # on IRC DALnet. chat.html Sharing our resources:- Add a website URL you have found useful. Personal Complaints or problems:- Please contact a moderator should you require assistance with anything technical or if you are upset by another. The email address for the moderators is <-owneregroups> Subscription Details:- 1) Individual email - means that every email sent to the list you receive. 2) Daily Digest - sends you 25 messages in one single email for you to browse. This is an excellent option if you receive alot of email. 3) Web only/No mail - means that you can pop into eGroups at your convenience and receive no email. To modify your subscription settings please visit mygroups To subscribe or unsubscribe subscribe/ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ “Hold on to what is good, even if it's a handful of earth. Hold on to what you believe, even if it's a tree that stands by itself. Hold on to what you must do even, if it's a long way from here. Hold on to your life, even if it's easier to let go. " - Pueblo Prayer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2000 Report Share Posted October 18, 2000 HAHA ya I used to go before it was six flaggs! lol you arent that far at all. We go down to the Holyoke mall all the time and you arent that much farther away. Small world. Melinda Re: FAMILY FUED I am about an hour on the other side of Springfield. Right down Rt 90 or 84. Ever heard of Worcester? Or the big medical city here-Worcester Medical Center? So actulaay we are not that far away? Do you know how to get to Six Flaggs New England in Agawam? Later kelly The Being Sick Community Visual problems with colors? Click the link below and select the modify link to your right. Then select the **Send Plain Text Email** option. This will stop you receiving emails with colored or enlarged fonts. Members Lounge:- Photo Album, memorial page, members profiles, birthdays, locations, medical resources, counselling via email, and a whole bunch of free things. http://www.elderwyn.com/members Message Archives and Digest Attachment Pictures:- messages/ Chat:- Scheduled Daily Chats at # on IRC DALnet. chat.html Sharing our resources:- Add a website URL you have found useful. Personal Complaints or problems:- Please contact a moderator should you require assistance with anything technical or if you are upset by another. The email address for the moderators is <-owneregroups> Subscription Details:- 1) Individual email - means that every email sent to the list you receive. 2) Daily Digest - sends you 25 messages in one single email for you to browse. This is an excellent option if you receive alot of email. 3) Web only/No mail - means that you can pop into eGroups at your convenience and receive no email. To modify your subscription settings please visit mygroups To subscribe or unsubscribe subscribe/ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ “Hold on to what is good, even if it's a handful of earth. Hold on to what you believe, even if it's a tree that stands by itself. Hold on to what you must do even, if it's a long way from here. Hold on to your life, even if it's easier to let go. " - Pueblo Prayer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 20, 2000 Report Share Posted October 20, 2000 "Moms sis, mom and dad just could not deal with the lifestyle change of having a 30 year old come home and have reacted like I am faking this or exagerating to get out of work, this is all obvious to my aunt and she is angry that they are not supporting me emotionally financially or anything." So sorry to hear this Colleen ... Family can be so cruel. You would think they would be the ones to support you when you need, but I guess they are too caught up in their own expectations of you or who you are that they refuse to. It must be horrible to have your own parents against you. I am the oposite. My mad aunt (who ironically lives with her parents) was the one who labelled me a faker cause I have a "need to be looked after" and all that other psycho rubbish. What a load of crap. Give me back my independance any day! I often think people label you based on themselves and how they feel. How does everyone cope with all the shit they get from their families? Love Aisha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2000 Report Share Posted October 23, 2000 Hi Colleen, "The most recent as of this week is that my aunt fired off a letter to my mom that they just should not talk for a while. My mom says she should mind her own business, but my aunt says she cant just act like they are OK when parents are treating me like crap and like a faker. If I were going to fake anything it sure would not be constant eye irritation." Geez hon your family and mine must be related! Except it was my aunt who was the bad guy. We even did the letter writing thing also! It totally stressed me out. I hated seeing all the discord. Especially from people I loved. How are you coping with it? And as for faking! I think we'd all rather fake an illness that allows us to do what we want, without any pain, rather then something that takes our life away. *hugs* Love Aisha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2000 Report Share Posted October 23, 2000 Thanks AISHA You summed it all up perfectly. If I were faking something, It would be something that would have allowed me to stay in Tucson and to hike and be out at those pools every day! I am doing my best to get through each day. Thats about all I can do right now. This list helps so much and you all are the only people who seem to really understand what some of this is like, I appreciate it a great deal Hugs Colleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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