Guest guest Posted December 28, 2004 Report Share Posted December 28, 2004 {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Melinda}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I'm so very sorry to hear what you are going thru. I'll keep your aunts, your family and you in my prayers. Love ya, Kiki Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2004 Report Share Posted December 29, 2004 Thanks, Jenni! That sweet message brought tears to my eyes. Melinda ) Fw: Christmas wrapping paper > > The story goes that some time ago a mother punished her 5-year > old daughter for wasting a roll of expensive wrapping paper. Money > was tight and she became even more upset when the child used the gold > paper to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. > > Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift box to her mother > the next morning and said, " This is for you, Mamma. " > > The mother was embarrassed by her earlier over reaction, but her > anger flared again when she opened the box and found it was empty. She > spoke to her daughter in a harsh manner. " Don't you know, young lady, > when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside > the package? " > > She had tears in her eyes and said, " Oh, Mamma, it's not empty! I > blew kisses into it until it was full. " > > The mother was crushed. She fell on her knees and put her arms > around her little girl, and she begged her forgiveness for her >thoughtless > anger. > > An accident took the life of the child only a short time later > and it is told that the mother kept that gold box by her bed for all the > years of her life. Whenever she was discouraged or faced difficult > problems she would open the box and take out an imaginary kiss and >remember > the love of the child who had put it there. > > In a very real sense, each of us, as human beings, have been > given a golden box filled with unconditional love and kisses from our > children, family, and friends. There is no more precious possession >anyone > could hold. > > You now have two choices: > > 1. Pass this on to your friends, or > 2. Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart. > > As you can see, I took choice No. 1. Friends are like angels who > lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2004 Report Share Posted December 29, 2004 Oh your welcome I love the final saying about the angels don't you? with love, Jenni Proud Air Force Mom! May God guide and protect our troops! Fw: Christmas wrapping paper > > The story goes that some time ago a mother punished her 5-year > old daughter for wasting a roll of expensive wrapping paper. Money > was tight and she became even more upset when the child used the gold > paper to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. > > Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift box to her mother > the next morning and said, " This is for you, Mamma. " > > The mother was embarrassed by her earlier over reaction, but her > anger flared again when she opened the box and found it was empty. She > spoke to her daughter in a harsh manner. " Don't you know, young lady, > when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside > the package? " > > She had tears in her eyes and said, " Oh, Mamma, it's not empty! I > blew kisses into it until it was full. " > > The mother was crushed. She fell on her knees and put her arms > around her little girl, and she begged her forgiveness for her >thoughtless > anger. > > An accident took the life of the child only a short time later > and it is told that the mother kept that gold box by her bed for all the > years of her life. Whenever she was discouraged or faced difficult > problems she would open the box and take out an imaginary kiss and >remember > the love of the child who had put it there. > > In a very real sense, each of us, as human beings, have been > given a golden box filled with unconditional love and kisses from our > children, family, and friends. There is no more precious possession >anyone > could hold. > > You now have two choices: > > 1. Pass this on to your friends, or > 2. Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart. > > As you can see, I took choice No. 1. Friends are like angels who > lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2004 Report Share Posted December 29, 2004 Yes, Jenni, I do like that last line. I'm struggling to say goodbye to a dying aunt this week, and waiting to hear what the doctors are going to say about my other dear aunt on Friday. This was a real comfort. Melinda Fw: Christmas wrapping paper > > The story goes that some time ago a mother punished her 5-year > old daughter for wasting a roll of expensive wrapping paper. Money > was tight and she became even more upset when the child used the gold > paper to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. > > Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift box to her mother > the next morning and said, " This is for you, Mamma. " > > The mother was embarrassed by her earlier over reaction, but her > anger flared again when she opened the box and found it was empty. She > spoke to her daughter in a harsh manner. " Don't you know, young lady, > when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside > the package? " > > She had tears in her eyes and said, " Oh, Mamma, it's not empty! I > blew kisses into it until it was full. " > > The mother was crushed. She fell on her knees and put her arms > around her little girl, and she begged her forgiveness for her >thoughtless > anger. > > An accident took the life of the child only a short time later > and it is told that the mother kept that gold box by her bed for all the > years of her life. Whenever she was discouraged or faced difficult > problems she would open the box and take out an imaginary kiss and >remember > the love of the child who had put it there. > > In a very real sense, each of us, as human beings, have been > given a golden box filled with unconditional love and kisses from our > children, family, and friends. There is no more precious possession >anyone > could hold. > > You now have two choices: > > 1. Pass this on to your friends, or > 2. Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart. > > As you can see, I took choice No. 1. Friends are like angels who > lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2004 Report Share Posted December 29, 2004 Thank you, Kiki, I really, really appreciate it. Both aunts have breast cancer, and one was in a bad car accident in late October along with her husband (he suffered closed head injuries and a back broken in 4 places). None of them are spring chickens. It's been a hard last few months. Thank you sooooooooooo much for a very needed cyber hug and your prayers! Love, Melinda ) Re: Christmas wrapping paper {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Melinda}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I'm so very sorry to hear what you are going thru. I'll keep your aunts, your family and you in my prayers. Love ya, Kiki Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2004 Report Share Posted December 29, 2004 Oh Melinda I will keep you and your Aunts in my prayers! I truly pray you will have some comfort this week. with love, Jenni Proud Air Force Mom! May God guide and protect our troops! Fw: Christmas wrapping paper > > The story goes that some time ago a mother punished her 5-year > old daughter for wasting a roll of expensive wrapping paper. Money > was tight and she became even more upset when the child used the gold > paper to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. > > Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift box to her mother > the next morning and said, " This is for you, Mamma. " > > The mother was embarrassed by her earlier over reaction, but her > anger flared again when she opened the box and found it was empty. She > spoke to her daughter in a harsh manner. " Don't you know, young lady, > when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside > the package? " > > She had tears in her eyes and said, " Oh, Mamma, it's not empty! I > blew kisses into it until it was full. " > > The mother was crushed. She fell on her knees and put her arms > around her little girl, and she begged her forgiveness for her >thoughtless > anger. > > An accident took the life of the child only a short time later > and it is told that the mother kept that gold box by her bed for all the > years of her life. Whenever she was discouraged or faced difficult > problems she would open the box and take out an imaginary kiss and >remember > the love of the child who had put it there. > > In a very real sense, each of us, as human beings, have been > given a golden box filled with unconditional love and kisses from our > children, family, and friends. There is no more precious possession >anyone > could hold. > > You now have two choices: > > 1. Pass this on to your friends, or > 2. Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart. > > As you can see, I took choice No. 1. Friends are like angels who > lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2004 Report Share Posted December 29, 2004 Prayers lifted , Melinda. Love, Connie Re: Christmas wrapping paper Yes, Jenni, I do like that last line. I'm struggling to say goodbye to a dying aunt this week, and waiting to hear what the doctors are going to say about my other dear aunt on Friday. This was a real comfort. Melinda Fw: Christmas wrapping paper > > The story goes that some time ago a mother punished her 5-year > old daughter for wasting a roll of expensive wrapping paper. Money > was tight and she became even more upset when the child used the gold > paper to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. > > Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift box to her mother > the next morning and said, " This is for you, Mamma. " > > The mother was embarrassed by her earlier over reaction, but her > anger flared again when she opened the box and found it was empty. She > spoke to her daughter in a harsh manner. " Don't you know, young lady, > when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside > the package? " > > She had tears in her eyes and said, " Oh, Mamma, it's not empty! I > blew kisses into it until it was full. " > > The mother was crushed. She fell on her knees and put her arms > around her little girl, and she begged her forgiveness for her >thoughtless > anger. > > An accident took the life of the child only a short time later > and it is told that the mother kept that gold box by her bed for all the > years of her life. Whenever she was discouraged or faced difficult > problems she would open the box and take out an imaginary kiss and >remember > the love of the child who had put it there. > > In a very real sense, each of us, as human beings, have been > given a golden box filled with unconditional love and kisses from our > children, family, and friends. There is no more precious possession >anyone > could hold. > > You now have two choices: > > 1. Pass this on to your friends, or > 2. Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart. > > As you can see, I took choice No. 1. Friends are like angels who > lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2004 Report Share Posted December 29, 2004 Thank you, Connie. I'm glad you and your daughter are doing well on your new weight loss journey. Prayers were just lifted for your daughter, too. I know about boyfriends cutting your self-esteem - she needs a lot of tender-loving care right now. Love to you both . . . . Melinda ) Fw: Christmas wrapping paper > > The story goes that some time ago a mother punished her 5-year > old daughter for wasting a roll of expensive wrapping paper. Money > was tight and she became even more upset when the child used the gold > paper to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. > > Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift box to her mother > the next morning and said, " This is for you, Mamma. " > > The mother was embarrassed by her earlier over reaction, but her > anger flared again when she opened the box and found it was empty. She > spoke to her daughter in a harsh manner. " Don't you know, young lady, > when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside > the package? " > > She had tears in her eyes and said, " Oh, Mamma, it's not empty! I > blew kisses into it until it was full. " > > The mother was crushed. She fell on her knees and put her arms > around her little girl, and she begged her forgiveness for her >thoughtless > anger. > > An accident took the life of the child only a short time later > and it is told that the mother kept that gold box by her bed for all the > years of her life. Whenever she was discouraged or faced difficult > problems she would open the box and take out an imaginary kiss and >remember > the love of the child who had put it there. > > In a very real sense, each of us, as human beings, have been > given a golden box filled with unconditional love and kisses from our > children, family, and friends. There is no more precious possession >anyone > could hold. > > You now have two choices: > > 1. Pass this on to your friends, or > 2. Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart. > > As you can see, I took choice No. 1. Friends are like angels who > lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2004 Report Share Posted December 29, 2004 Melinda, there is a wonderful book about dying and saying good bye -- can't think of the title but I'll look for it tonight -- wish I had read it when my father was dying. One of the things that impressed me most in that book was that dying people (those who are dying at a good age and peacefully), are frequently ready for the next " phase " but hang on for the living -- and that our giving them " permission " to leave makes their passage much easier. I think my father definitely hung on for my mother..... Of course, that doesn't help the grief that you have, and for that I offer you all the prayers and wishes that I can... Take care, Bonnie Re: Christmas wrapping paper Yes, Jenni, I do like that last line. I'm struggling to say goodbye to a dying aunt this week, and waiting to hear what the doctors are going to say about my other dear aunt on Friday. This was a real comfort. Melinda Fw: Christmas wrapping paper > > The story goes that some time ago a mother punished her 5-year > old daughter for wasting a roll of expensive wrapping paper. Money > was tight and she became even more upset when the child used the gold > paper to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. > > Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift box to her mother > the next morning and said, " This is for you, Mamma. " > > The mother was embarrassed by her earlier over reaction, but her > anger flared again when she opened the box and found it was empty. She > spoke to her daughter in a harsh manner. " Don't you know, young lady, > when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside > the package? " > > She had tears in her eyes and said, " Oh, Mamma, it's not empty! I > blew kisses into it until it was full. " > > The mother was crushed. She fell on her knees and put her arms > around her little girl, and she begged her forgiveness for her >thoughtless > anger. > > An accident took the life of the child only a short time later > and it is told that the mother kept that gold box by her bed for all the > years of her life. Whenever she was discouraged or faced difficult > problems she would open the box and take out an imaginary kiss and >remember > the love of the child who had put it there. > > In a very real sense, each of us, as human beings, have been > given a golden box filled with unconditional love and kisses from our > children, family, and friends. There is no more precious possession >anyone > could hold. > > You now have two choices: > > 1. Pass this on to your friends, or > 2. Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart. > > As you can see, I took choice No. 1. Friends are like angels who > lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2004 Report Share Posted December 29, 2004 Thank You Melinda. Love, Connie Re: Christmas wrapping paper Thank you, Connie. I'm glad you and your daughter are doing well on your new weight loss journey. Prayers were just lifted for your daughter, too. I know about boyfriends cutting your self-esteem - she needs a lot of tender-loving care right now. Love to you both . . . . Melinda ) Fw: Christmas wrapping paper > > The story goes that some time ago a mother punished her 5-year > old daughter for wasting a roll of expensive wrapping paper. Money > was tight and she became even more upset when the child used the gold > paper to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. > > Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift box to her mother > the next morning and said, " This is for you, Mamma. " > > The mother was embarrassed by her earlier over reaction, but her > anger flared again when she opened the box and found it was empty. She > spoke to her daughter in a harsh manner. " Don't you know, young lady, > when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside > the package? " > > She had tears in her eyes and said, " Oh, Mamma, it's not empty! I > blew kisses into it until it was full. " > > The mother was crushed. She fell on her knees and put her arms > around her little girl, and she begged her forgiveness for her >thoughtless > anger. > > An accident took the life of the child only a short time later > and it is told that the mother kept that gold box by her bed for all the > years of her life. Whenever she was discouraged or faced difficult > problems she would open the box and take out an imaginary kiss and >remember > the love of the child who had put it there. > > In a very real sense, each of us, as human beings, have been > given a golden box filled with unconditional love and kisses from our > children, family, and friends. There is no more precious possession >anyone > could hold. > > You now have two choices: > > 1. Pass this on to your friends, or > 2. Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart. > > As you can see, I took choice No. 1. Friends are like angels who > lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 30, 2004 Report Share Posted December 30, 2004 You know, Bonnie, that's what we've done with some of our dying family members. We tell them it's ok to let go if they feel it's time. It's a very sensitive, loving thing to do, I think. Somehow, knowing they're ready to go makes it a little easier. Melinda Fw: Christmas wrapping paper > > The story goes that some time ago a mother punished her 5-year > old daughter for wasting a roll of expensive wrapping paper. Money > was tight and she became even more upset when the child used the gold > paper to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. > > Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift box to her mother > the next morning and said, " This is for you, Mamma. " > > The mother was embarrassed by her earlier over reaction, but her > anger flared again when she opened the box and found it was empty. She > spoke to her daughter in a harsh manner. " Don't you know, young lady, > when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside > the package? " > > She had tears in her eyes and said, " Oh, Mamma, it's not empty! I > blew kisses into it until it was full. " > > The mother was crushed. She fell on her knees and put her arms > around her little girl, and she begged her forgiveness for her >thoughtless > anger. > > An accident took the life of the child only a short time later > and it is told that the mother kept that gold box by her bed for all the > years of her life. Whenever she was discouraged or faced difficult > problems she would open the box and take out an imaginary kiss and >remember > the love of the child who had put it there. > > In a very real sense, each of us, as human beings, have been > given a golden box filled with unconditional love and kisses from our > children, family, and friends. There is no more precious possession >anyone > could hold. > > You now have two choices: > > 1. Pass this on to your friends, or > 2. Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart. > > As you can see, I took choice No. 1. Friends are like angels who > lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 30, 2004 Report Share Posted December 30, 2004 Thank you, Jenni. They're my only 2 aunts. I don't want to lose either one. I just can't believe both are facing breast cancer at the same time. Melinda Fw: Christmas wrapping paper > > The story goes that some time ago a mother punished her 5-year > old daughter for wasting a roll of expensive wrapping paper. Money > was tight and she became even more upset when the child used the gold > paper to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. > > Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift box to her mother > the next morning and said, " This is for you, Mamma. " > > The mother was embarrassed by her earlier over reaction, but her > anger flared again when she opened the box and found it was empty. She > spoke to her daughter in a harsh manner. " Don't you know, young lady, > when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside > the package? " > > She had tears in her eyes and said, " Oh, Mamma, it's not empty! I > blew kisses into it until it was full. " > > The mother was crushed. She fell on her knees and put her arms > around her little girl, and she begged her forgiveness for her >thoughtless > anger. > > An accident took the life of the child only a short time later > and it is told that the mother kept that gold box by her bed for all the > years of her life. Whenever she was discouraged or faced difficult > problems she would open the box and take out an imaginary kiss and >remember > the love of the child who had put it there. > > In a very real sense, each of us, as human beings, have been > given a golden box filled with unconditional love and kisses from our > children, family, and friends. There is no more precious possession >anyone > could hold. > > You now have two choices: > > 1. Pass this on to your friends, or > 2. Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart. > > As you can see, I took choice No. 1. Friends are like angels who > lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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