Re: My wife has been diagnosed

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Daveyb wrote:

> Hi Notan

Welcome back. I am glad you are still here.

> So sorry i did not reply to you eariler

No problem. It may be best sometimes to just ignore me. I don't mind

that either.

> True i did not get it at all

> Now after a year i do get it

Then she is lucky. There are some here that would love to have someone

that gets it.

> As her husband i do worry a lot but put that worry to the back burner for me

to sort out " later " lol

I remember before my surgery seeing tears on my wife's face when I had a

bad achalasia moment. I know it can be hard for those that love us. I

told my wife not to worry. I was in no danger. Don't you worry either.

There are problems to deal with in this and they are a pain but you can

deal with them. Don't worry about that. The two of you will sort it out

together with some help.

> I live for her and do everything i can to make life easy for her

> I have learned to listen a lot and take it in from Lorrain

You are lucky too. You have ears that can hear (don't take that

literally, though in the context of an esophagus that can't swallow it

could be temping).

> I feel so lucky that Lorrain is now opening up a bit as denial and not

accepting the condition has brought her down so much

> Today feels like a new start for Lorrain and i hope it florishes for her

I hope so too. Try not to get too far ahead of her. It took me six years

of thinking about getting treatment before I gave in and had the

surgery. In the meantime there may be a void that food and food related

events have left in your lives. Be sure to find other things to enjoy

together. There is much more to life than achalasia and the things it

make difficult.

notan

[Guest guest]

Hi everyone

Well not been here for a while now, Lorrain has had the Botox injections last

week and it does not seem to be working

Lorrain has a follow up with the consultant who carried out the operation to see

how things are going

Lorrain has been so low in her self but I am trying to build her up it's hard

More later this week after the follow up visit

DaveyB

[Guest guest]

Hi dave

I am emailing you direct. I saw your email to the group. Where in the uk are

you. I am after getting treated by a surgeon with experience in this thing. Feel

free to call me if you want . My brothers wife is a doctor and she is trying to

find who is the main man in london for this so my doctor can refer me there. I

am based in chester in the north west. 07966 695982

Stuart McCormick

Mobile Inventory Program

Chester. CH3 6EG

www.mobileinventory.co.uk

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On 8 Nov 2011, at 08:52, " d_r_electrical@... "

<dpr_electrical@...> wrote:

> Hi everyone

> Well not been here for a while now, Lorrain has had the Botox injections last

week and it does not seem to be working

> Lorrain has a follow up with the consultant who carried out the operation to

see how things are going

> Lorrain has been so low in her self but I am trying to build her up it's hard

>

> More later this week after the follow up visit

>

> DaveyB

>

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