Guest guest Posted February 27, 2003 Report Share Posted February 27, 2003 What? No email inquiry yet from Szukidavis for what BHT is? Maybe she got my point. JR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 27, 2003 Report Share Posted February 27, 2003 What? No email inquiry yet from Szukidavis for what BHT is? Maybe she got my point. JR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2003 Report Share Posted February 28, 2003 In a message dated 2/27/03 11:44:53 PM Eastern Standard Time, jrtex@... writes: > What? No email inquiry yet from Szukidavis for > what BHT is? Maybe she got my point. JR > > What is your point and what gives you a right to be insulting, arrogant and down right rude? Who are you? Why are you on this list? I have never been on a list where this kind of nastiness is allowed and particularly on a health list where positive thoughts are essential to healing...that's health 101 or didn't you know that? If you don't have someone nice to say, bite your tongue! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2003 Report Share Posted February 28, 2003 In a message dated 2/27/03 11:44:53 PM Eastern Standard Time, jrtex@... writes: > What? No email inquiry yet from Szukidavis for > what BHT is? Maybe she got my point. JR > > What is your point and what gives you a right to be insulting, arrogant and down right rude? Who are you? Why are you on this list? I have never been on a list where this kind of nastiness is allowed and particularly on a health list where positive thoughts are essential to healing...that's health 101 or didn't you know that? If you don't have someone nice to say, bite your tongue! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2003 Report Share Posted February 28, 2003 In a message dated 2/28/03 12:08:00 PM Eastern Standard Time, jrtex@... writes: > If my " insulting remarks " help you to do more > research on your own instead of asking us to > do it for you then I've accomplished my purpose. I think that your response was a bit rough around the edges and I was offended. If you are not the list master than I think it proper to leave those judgements to the person in charge and it should be done privately. This is basic good manners. I am on the list to learn. If I wanted to spend my life researching I wouldn't have time to do anything else. There is nothing wrong with asking for information or an explanation when a topic arises. If you don't have something nice to say, it is best not to say anything at all and if you can't restrain yourself, at least do it privately and with grace. If I neglected to thank you for information you generously provided I extend my apologies to you and offer a belated thanks. I do an extensive amount of medical and behavorial counseling on a voluntary basis for dogs. I also provide referrals. I have had to repeat myself, deal with ignorance and all kinds of situations and personalities and I always try to maintain my center and call upon my patience when necessary. Being judgemental or offensive is not in the best interest of healing or communication. If someone forgets to thank me I am not offended because my reward is in the results of the help I offer. Every bit of important information I obtain on this list is forwarded to people in need of it. I spend a tremendous amount of time doing this and have little left for extensive research. I would hope that you would be supportive, not adversarial. If you have the information to give, give it with a warm and generous heart. The rewards will come back ten fold...it is absolutly true that the more you give, the more you get. <A HREF= " www.bednbiscuit.com " >www.bednbiscuit.com</A> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2003 Report Share Posted February 28, 2003 In a message dated 2/28/03 12:08:00 PM Eastern Standard Time, jrtex@... writes: > If my " insulting remarks " help you to do more > research on your own instead of asking us to > do it for you then I've accomplished my purpose. I think that your response was a bit rough around the edges and I was offended. If you are not the list master than I think it proper to leave those judgements to the person in charge and it should be done privately. This is basic good manners. I am on the list to learn. If I wanted to spend my life researching I wouldn't have time to do anything else. There is nothing wrong with asking for information or an explanation when a topic arises. If you don't have something nice to say, it is best not to say anything at all and if you can't restrain yourself, at least do it privately and with grace. If I neglected to thank you for information you generously provided I extend my apologies to you and offer a belated thanks. I do an extensive amount of medical and behavorial counseling on a voluntary basis for dogs. I also provide referrals. I have had to repeat myself, deal with ignorance and all kinds of situations and personalities and I always try to maintain my center and call upon my patience when necessary. Being judgemental or offensive is not in the best interest of healing or communication. If someone forgets to thank me I am not offended because my reward is in the results of the help I offer. Every bit of important information I obtain on this list is forwarded to people in need of it. I spend a tremendous amount of time doing this and have little left for extensive research. I would hope that you would be supportive, not adversarial. If you have the information to give, give it with a warm and generous heart. The rewards will come back ten fold...it is absolutly true that the more you give, the more you get. <A HREF= " www.bednbiscuit.com " >www.bednbiscuit.com</A> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2003 Report Share Posted February 28, 2003 In a message dated 2/28/03 12:50:37 PM Eastern Standard Time, rbeiswenger@... writes: > Nicely said, . I understand JR's point, but I believe one can be > tactful and polite while being direct. > > Bob > Thanks Bob. I am fairly new to the list and it is nice to find some support. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2003 Report Share Posted February 28, 2003 In a message dated 2/28/03 12:50:37 PM Eastern Standard Time, rbeiswenger@... writes: > Nicely said, . I understand JR's point, but I believe one can be > tactful and polite while being direct. > > Bob > Thanks Bob. I am fairly new to the list and it is nice to find some support. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2003 Report Share Posted February 28, 2003 If my " insulting remarks " help you to do more research on your own instead of asking us to do it for you then I've accomplished my purpose. I've spent the last 5 years surviving a very aggressive cancer that would not be the case unless I did extensive research on my own in addition to what this site and others provide. There really is nothing personal. If you do more research yourself you will most likely learn a lot more. I am simply being direct. And I did give you info in earlier messages that you do not even thank me for. Best, anyway, JR. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2003 Report Share Posted February 28, 2003 If my " insulting remarks " help you to do more research on your own instead of asking us to do it for you then I've accomplished my purpose. I've spent the last 5 years surviving a very aggressive cancer that would not be the case unless I did extensive research on my own in addition to what this site and others provide. There really is nothing personal. If you do more research yourself you will most likely learn a lot more. I am simply being direct. And I did give you info in earlier messages that you do not even thank me for. Best, anyway, JR. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2003 Report Share Posted February 28, 2003 Nicely said, . I understand JR's point, but I believe one can be tactful and polite while being direct. Bob Re: BHT 6 grams per day will kill all Herpes Viruses. > In a message dated 2/28/03 12:08:00 PM Eastern Standard Time, jrtex@... > writes: > > > > If my " insulting remarks " help you to do more > > research on your own instead of asking us to > > do it for you then I've accomplished my purpose. > > I think that your response was a bit rough around the edges and I was > offended. If you are not the list master than I think it proper to leave > those judgements to the person in charge and it should be done privately. > This is basic good manners. > > I am on the list to learn. If I wanted to spend my life researching I > wouldn't have time to do anything else. There is nothing wrong with asking > for information or an explanation when a topic arises. > > If you don't have something nice to say, it is best not to say anything at > all and if you can't restrain yourself, at least do it privately and with > grace. > > If I neglected to thank you for information you generously provided I extend > my apologies to you and offer a belated thanks. > > I do an extensive amount of medical and behavorial counseling on a voluntary > basis for dogs. I also provide referrals. I have had to repeat myself, deal > with ignorance and all kinds of situations and personalities and I always try > to maintain my center and call upon my patience when necessary. Being > judgemental or offensive is not in the best interest of healing or > communication. If someone forgets to thank me I am not offended because my > reward is in the results of the help I offer. > > Every bit of important information I obtain on this list is forwarded to > people in need of it. I spend a tremendous amount of time doing this and > have little left for extensive research. I would hope that you would be > supportive, not adversarial. If you have the information to give, give it > with a warm and generous heart. The rewards will come back ten fold...it is > absolutly true that the more you give, the more you get. > > > <A HREF= " www.bednbiscuit.com " >www.bednbiscuit.com</A> > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2003 Report Share Posted February 28, 2003 Nicely said, . I understand JR's point, but I believe one can be tactful and polite while being direct. Bob Re: BHT 6 grams per day will kill all Herpes Viruses. > In a message dated 2/28/03 12:08:00 PM Eastern Standard Time, jrtex@... > writes: > > > > If my " insulting remarks " help you to do more > > research on your own instead of asking us to > > do it for you then I've accomplished my purpose. > > I think that your response was a bit rough around the edges and I was > offended. If you are not the list master than I think it proper to leave > those judgements to the person in charge and it should be done privately. > This is basic good manners. > > I am on the list to learn. If I wanted to spend my life researching I > wouldn't have time to do anything else. There is nothing wrong with asking > for information or an explanation when a topic arises. > > If you don't have something nice to say, it is best not to say anything at > all and if you can't restrain yourself, at least do it privately and with > grace. > > If I neglected to thank you for information you generously provided I extend > my apologies to you and offer a belated thanks. > > I do an extensive amount of medical and behavorial counseling on a voluntary > basis for dogs. I also provide referrals. I have had to repeat myself, deal > with ignorance and all kinds of situations and personalities and I always try > to maintain my center and call upon my patience when necessary. Being > judgemental or offensive is not in the best interest of healing or > communication. If someone forgets to thank me I am not offended because my > reward is in the results of the help I offer. > > Every bit of important information I obtain on this list is forwarded to > people in need of it. I spend a tremendous amount of time doing this and > have little left for extensive research. I would hope that you would be > supportive, not adversarial. If you have the information to give, give it > with a warm and generous heart. The rewards will come back ten fold...it is > absolutly true that the more you give, the more you get. > > > <A HREF= " www.bednbiscuit.com " >www.bednbiscuit.com</A> > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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