Guest guest Posted May 31, 2009 Report Share Posted May 31, 2009 Kathy I am very sorry that you feel that you have to leave the group. I have always felt that you had the groups best interest at heart. I DID NOT agree with what Mike did or that he asked the group for help with his finances. I felt it was way out there but chalked it up to all his personal issues. I hoped that you talking to him would take care of that. So, I felt it was best to just keep my trap shut and delete. I also have no problem with anyone practicing their religion in ANY way they see fit but I do not want to see it here on the group. I feel that there are some spiritual things that could be beneficial such as meditation or some such but these do not stick anyone's beliefs down anyone elses throats. I also deleted those posts. I think its better to delete than to get all upset at times. However, I dont want this list to become someone's religious agenda either. That is NOT what I joined for. If this is the type of thing that is going to take place in the group in the future I do not know how much longer I will be here. Kim From: KGAVI@... <KGAVI@...> Subject: Kathy G. thanks you all Stimulator Cc: MIKE2BOYS@..., bluejeans412003@..., BUTTERFLIESRFREE309@..., Photobug33777@..., teews2@..., teewskathy@... Date: Sunday, May 31, 2009, 9:51 PM Hello Everyone, I have had the privilege to be in your lives as the Co-Owner of this wonderful group for some time now. I thank all of you for your friendship, prayers and chats that we have had. I feel that I must step down as the Co-Owner due to Mike's recent behavior. I can no longer represent him in this group. I believe that he needs to keep his financial affairs out of the group. I am extremely upset that he asked the group members for money. Although he did apologize for this, in the same letter he STILL requested money saying that " no amount is too small. " I wrote to Mike personally today and told him that what he did was totally wrong and that if a member of the group did that we would be all over him or her and most likely ban them from the group. Mike has told me tonight that he STILL doesn't understand why members are so upset and what the big deal is....so I really can't say that his apologies were sincere at all. He thought that this was a family...full of friends...so what is the big deal. I find that totally offensive, and WILL NOT be a part of this group, especially as a Co-Owner any longer. Even though I will greatly miss being in the group, I must follow what my conscience tells me to do. With regards to the many beautiful friends that I have made, you know my email and my phone number. You are most welcome to continue to write, email and call me. I hope that you will, as your friendships mean a lot to me. For those who do not know my information, it is : _Kgavi@..._ (mailto:Kgavi@...) or _Eyes4Lenny@ .com_ (mailto:Eyes4Lenny (DOT) com) . I wish the group my very best. It is with a heavy heart that I am leaving, but as I have said, I really believe that Mike no longer has the group's best interest at heart, and I will NOT be a part of that. I wish you all much happiness and success in your future. I will keep the group members in my daily prayers for chronic pain relief. I know that we all have different ailments, but one is shared by all....chronic pain. I wish for us all pain free days and sleep filled nights. Gentle Hugs, Kathy Gavi ************ **We found the real ‘Hotel California’ and the ‘Seinfeld’ diner. What will you find? Explore WhereItsAt.com. (http://www.whereits at.com/#/ music/all- spots/355/ 47.796964/ -66.374711/ 2/Youve-Found- Where-Its- At?ncid=eml cntnew00000007) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 31, 2009 Report Share Posted May 31, 2009 Kathy, I agree with everything Kim said. I doubt I can stay long with this group either, where the group owner is asking for money, and preaching religion when we are here to discuss medical issues and neurostimulation to help us deal with those issues. Where do we go from here? Is there another group we can join that will give us what we had here, minus the religion and pleas for cash? If someone starts an alternate group, please let me know. I have the greatest admiration for the listmembers here, and was looking forward to getting to know you all better. It's sad that it has come to this point. Lee At 09:01 PM 5/31/2009, you wrote: >Kathy >I am very sorry that you feel that you have to leave the group. I have always felt that you had the groups best interest at heart. I DID NOT agree with what Mike did or that he asked the group for help with his finances. I felt it was way out there but chalked it up to all his personal issues. I hoped that you talking to him would take care of that. So, I felt it was best to just keep my trap shut and delete. >I also have no problem with anyone practicing their religion in ANY way they see fit but I do not want to see it here on the group. I feel that there are some spiritual things that could be beneficial such as meditation or some such but these do not stick anyone's beliefs down anyone elses throats. I also deleted those posts. I think its better to delete than to get all upset at times. However, I dont want this list to become someone's religious agenda either. That is NOT what I joined for. >If this is the type of thing that is going to take place in the group in the future I do not know how much longer I will be here. >Kim > > > >From: <mailto:KGAVI%40aol.com>KGAVI@... <<mailto:KGAVI%40aol.com>KGAVI@...> >Subject: Kathy G. thanks you all ><mailto:Stimulator%40>Stimulator >Cc: <mailto:MIKE2BOYS%40MSN.COM>MIKE2BOYS@..., <mailto:bluejeans412003%40>bluejeans412003@..., <mailto:BUTTERFLIESRFREE309%40.COM>BUTTERFLIESRFREE309@..., <mailto:Photobug33777%40sbcglobal.net>Photobug33777@..., <mailto:teews2%40cox.net>teews2@..., <mailto:teewskathy%40>teewskathy@... >Date: Sunday, May 31, 2009, 9:51 PM > >Hello Everyone, > >I have had the privilege to be in your lives as the Co-Owner of this > >wonderful group for some time now. > >I thank all of you for your friendship, prayers and chats that we have had. > >I feel that I must step down as the Co-Owner due to Mike's recent > >behavior. I can no longer represent him in this group. I believe that he needs to > >keep his financial affairs out of the group. I am extremely upset that he > >asked the group members for money. Although he did apologize for this, > >in the same letter he STILL requested money saying that " no amount is too > >small. " > >I wrote to Mike personally today and told him that what he did was totally > >wrong and that if a member of the group did that we would be all over him > >or her and most likely ban them from the group. > >Mike has told me tonight that he STILL doesn't understand why members are > >so upset and what the big deal is....so I really can't say that his > >apologies were sincere at all. He thought that this was a family...full of > >friends...so what is the big deal. I find that totally offensive, and WILL NOT > >be a part of this group, especially as a Co-Owner any longer. > >Even though I will greatly miss being in the group, I must follow what my > >conscience tells me to do. > >With regards to the many beautiful friends that I have made, you know my > >email and my phone number. You are most welcome to continue to write, email > >and call me. I hope that you will, as your friendships mean a lot to me. > >For those who do not know my information, it is : <mailto:_Kgavi%40aol.com>_Kgavi@..._ > >(mailto:Kgavi@...) or _Eyes4Lenny@ .com_ (mailto:Eyes4Lenny (DOT) com) . > >I wish the group my very best. It is with a heavy heart that I am > >leaving, but as I have said, I really believe that Mike no longer has the group's > >best interest at heart, and I will NOT be a part of that. > >I wish you all much happiness and success in your future. > >I will keep the group members in my daily prayers for chronic pain relief. > >I know that we all have different ailments, but one is shared by > >all....chronic pain. > >I wish for us all pain free days and sleep filled nights. > >Gentle Hugs, > >Kathy Gavi > >************ **We found the real ‘Hotel California’ and the ‘Seinfeld’ > >diner. What will you find? Explore WhereItsAt.com. > >(<http://www.whereits>http://www.whereits at.com/#/ music/all- spots/355/ 47.796964/ -66.374711/ 2/Youve-Found- Where-Its- At?ncid=eml > >cntnew00000007) > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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