Guest guest Posted December 14, 2000 Report Share Posted December 14, 2000 Thanks, Rosemary. My staff will be former professional wrestlers in full regalia, trained in the finer points of the GFOYF program - including " dealing " with problems... <grin> Seriously, abundance seems to lead to abuse in most cases. We eat more because its there/available/tastes great. (hmm, abundance of lawyers = abuse of lawsuits?) Shafer Converse, TX --- Rosemary Wedderburn <CookieMagic@...> wrote: > , your GFOYF solution is too much! Just make > sure you have > those folks sign a disclaimer so they don't sue you > when you have to > use your foot, as no doubt you will have to do. > > Rosemary __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 15, 2000 Report Share Posted December 15, 2000 The subject of obesity is one that is near and dear to my heart. I've spent most of my life as a fat woman. And, when I approached age 50, I had been told by Doctors, relatives, and others that I had a " naturally " slow metabolism, and that genetically, I would " naturally " expect to be overweight a little (most the women in my family carry extra fat). At age 50, I decided to start lifting. What has happened to me in the last two or more. In summary, my body has gone from very obese to exceptionally fit. (If you want specifics, just ask.) I find myself getting angry with the common wisdom about obesity, in middle aged women. I know I only have a statistically invalid sample of ONE as empirical evidence -- but having lost the weight, having obtained improved bone density, blood pressure and cholesterol numbers, and having become incredibly stronger and more agile -- I believe most of the medical information that we have been given through popular scientific " studies " is bogus. Further, I believe most of the advice I received from my own physicians is based on similar myths. (Now my docs think I am exceptional, of course.) Ok folks, here's where you as a community come in. I want to know if I am an anomoly, or if all women hold the potential to do what I have done. I really believe I am a normal person who just got motivated. If that's the case, then I plan on mounting a major campaign to get other women to do what I have done. I am seeking some validated research results that may indicate any of the following: - Post menopausal women can build *significant* muscle mass. - Middle aged women's metabolism does not get slower, unless inactivity, resluting in loss of muscle mass causes it to do so. - Lifting heavy weights regularly is beneficial to women. Any pointers to the research is most appreciated. Madeline Chen Colorado Springs, CO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 15, 2000 Report Share Posted December 15, 2000 Re: Obesity At age 50, I decided to start lifting. What has happened to me in the last two or more. In summary, my body has gone from very obese to exceptionally fit. (If you want specifics, just ask.) I find myself getting angry with the common wisdom about obesity, in middle aged women. I know I only have a statistically invalid sample of ONE as empirical evidence -- but having lost the weight, having obtained improved bone density, blood pressure and cholesterol numbers, and having become incredibly stronger and more agile -- I believe most of the medical information that we have been given through popular scientific " studies " is bogus. Further, I believe most of the advice I received from my own physicians is based on similar myths. (Now my docs think I am exceptional, of course.) Casler of BIO-FORCE writes: Madeline you are a true inspiration and I applaud not only your results, but your search for satisfaction against the " wrong advice " of others. It is truly rare that someone takes the challenge " dead on " and makes it work. You did! You have every right to feel proud. Regards, A. Casler BIO-FORCE, Inc. Los Angeles, CA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 15, 2000 Report Share Posted December 15, 2000 I would like to add here, that is it my great privilege to claim Madeline as live friend. She has come a long way - and is still traveling a great journey as she seeks her own way along the road to her ultimate fitness. Well Done, my friend! The Phantom Re: Obesity >The subject of obesity is one that is near and dear to my heart. >I've spent most of my life as a fat woman. And, when I approached >age 50, I had been told by Doctors, relatives, and others that I had >a " naturally " slow metabolism, and that genetically, I >would " naturally " expect to be overweight a little (most the women >in my family carry extra fat). > >At age 50, I decided to start lifting. What has happened to me in >the last two or more. In summary, my body has gone from very obese >to exceptionally fit. (If you want specifics, just ask.) > >I find myself getting angry with the common wisdom about obesity, in >middle aged women. I know I only have a statistically invalid sample >of ONE as empirical evidence -- but having lost the weight, having >obtained improved bone density, blood pressure and cholesterol >numbers, and having become incredibly stronger and more agile -- I >believe most of the medical information that we have been given >through popular scientific " studies " is bogus. Further, I believe >most of the advice I received from my own physicians is based on >similar myths. (Now my docs think I am exceptional, of course.) > >Ok folks, here's where you as a community come in. I want to know if >I am an anomoly, or if all women hold the potential to do what I have >done. I really believe I am a normal person who just got motivated. >If that's the case, then I plan on mounting a major campaign to get >other women to do what I have done. > >I am seeking some validated research results that may indicate any of >the following: > > - Post menopausal women can build *significant* muscle mass. > - Middle aged women's metabolism does not get slower, unless >inactivity, resluting in loss of muscle mass causes it to do so. > - Lifting heavy weights regularly is beneficial to women. > >Any pointers to the research is most appreciated. > > >Madeline Chen >Colorado Springs, CO > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2000 Report Share Posted December 16, 2000 Re: Obesity > > At age 50, I decided to start lifting. What has happened to me in > the last two or more. In summary, my body has gone from very obese > to exceptionally fit. (If you want specifics, just ask.) Congrats on your wonderful achievement! > > I find myself getting angry with the common wisdom about obesity, in > middle aged women. Do more research on women and you'll spend a lot more time angry about the common wisdom (an oxymoronic term!). > > - Post menopausal women can build *significant* muscle mass. > - Middle aged women's metabolism does not get slower, unless > inactivity, resluting in loss of muscle mass causes it to do so. > - Lifting heavy weights regularly is beneficial to women. > A good place to start is Medline. Do a search on " women " and " strength " , " bone density " , " resistance training " , and other similar keywords and you should find what you're looking for. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi Also, I have a few books on women's training reviewed on my site at http://www.stumptuous.com/books.html . If you can find those books, particularly Weight Training for Women and Strength Training for Women (pub. Human Kinetics another good place to look http://www.humankinetics.com/), check their bibliographies for more reading and research. The research IS out there. Cheers Krista ------------------------- http://www.stumptuous.com/weights.html mistresskrista@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2000 Report Share Posted December 17, 2000 >From: FlexWriter@... >Over the year I worked with him, Rick dropped from 230 pounds to >179 pounds, gained substatial strength and cardiovascular fitness.... How do you test for " cardiovascular fitness " ? Joe Alden Atlanta USA _________________________________________________________________ Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2000 Report Share Posted December 17, 2000 re: Joe Alden's question on how to test for cardiovascular fitness: Would blood pressure, pulse, rate of a person's breathing, or cholesterol changes be some measurement of cardio/vascular fitness? As I became more fit, it was easier to keep my pulse within acceptable ranges when I exerted myself, and my bloodpressure has come down significantly since my weight came down from 225 to 145. Perhaps " fitness " is the wrong term here, but it seems to make sense to me. Madeline Chen Colorado Springs, Colorado At 12:46 PM 12/17/2000 -0500, you wrote: > >From: FlexWriter@... > > >Over the year I worked with him, Rick dropped from 230 pounds to > >179 pounds, gained substatial strength and cardiovascular fitness.... > >How do you test for " cardiovascular fitness " ? > >Joe Alden >Atlanta USA > >_________________________________________________________________ >Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 15, 2002 Report Share Posted June 15, 2002 There are certainly people who've had 100 or more pounds to lose and have had great success with BFL. Look in the Photos section under Mina's Transformation; she lost 75 pounds. BFL really works. Give it a try. Dani > Hello, > I amwondering if there are any people who have been obese to begin > with before starting this program and what the succes is. I am > approximately 100 pounds overweight and I am wondering about this > before I buy the book and look into it further. > > Thank you! > > from Minnesota Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2002 Report Share Posted June 16, 2002 Hi - I would qualify as having been obese when I started in November '01. I can't remember what the clinical definition of obesity is, but I am 5'4 " and weighed 225 lbs. I am now on my 3rd challenge - just ending week 3. I've lost 62 lbs (maybe another pound this week - weigh in day is tomorrow!) and about 9% bodyfat. I feel wonderful, energetic, and most importantly NOT HUNGRY!!! Park Obesity Hello, I amwondering if there are any people who have been obese to begin with before starting this program and what the succes is. I am approximately 100 pounds overweight and I am wondering about this before I buy the book and look into it further. Thank you! from Minnesota Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2002 Report Share Posted June 16, 2002 Hi ! I am on a quest to lose 100 pounds as well. I really believe BFL is the way to get the body I hope (will) have some day. There are quite a few people on this very site who have lost tremendous amounts of weight with the program. I have tried em' all and keep coming back to BFL. Unfortunately, I have never made it past the 4 week mark but am determined to make this effort different! I am on C1W1D1...yep...started today Buy the book...read it thoroughly and come join me in losing 100 pounds! Would love to have the company! -Karyl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2002 Report Share Posted June 16, 2002 You wrote: Hello, I amwondering if there are any people who have been obese to begin with before starting this program and what the success is. I am approximately 100 pounds overweight and I am wondering about this before I buy the book and look into it further. My answer: At 5'4, I weighed 227.5 pounds just about a year ago. At that height, 175 pounds signifies a BMI that puts you in the obese zone. Now, I won't get into the details of BMI and how it can be an inappropriate measure for athletes, but let's just say I wasn't an athlete a year ago. I love this program and recommend it to anyone, even with 100 pounds to lose, and my total loss will probably end up being close enough to that to have an opinion. Here is why I think BFL is great: 1. simplicity--no food combining, special diet, etc.... just learning healthy eating patterns that are sustainable in most of life's situations including traveling, restaurants, special occasions, etc... 2. based on solid nutrition and exercise research 3. doesn't require spending all day and night working out 4. doesn't focus on deprivation 5. encourages women to build the muscle they need to maintain a healthy metabolism So, just take it one day at a time and start building that body you want now. Just be prepared to be patient and don't be swayed by all the unhealthy ways out there to " make you thin " in faster amounts of time. As you start seeing progress, you may start feeling, as I did, that, " I'm committed to living healthfully now...why can't the fat just disappear so I can have the healthy body I want. " Sadly, it doesn't work that way. Slow, steady weight loss is better for you. (Also, look back on our recent discussion of minimizing excess skin for more reasons for patience.) Good Luck! Beth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2002 Report Share Posted June 16, 2002 rdh363us wrote: > Hello, > I amwondering if there are any people who have been obese to begin > with before starting this program and what the succes is. I am > approximately 100 pounds overweight and I am wondering about this > before I buy the book and look into it further. > > Thank you! > > from Minnesota I started with more than 100 pounds to lose. Probably around 150 in fact. It's working wonderfully for me and, what I asked myself was, " what's the alternative? " The alternative was getting more fat. I love BFL.. it's working for me. Serenity -- http://www.theonion.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2002 Report Share Posted June 16, 2002 feelinfreeus wrote: > Hi ! > I am on a quest to lose 100 pounds as well. I really believe BFL is > the way to get the body I hope (will) have some day. There are quite > a few people on this very site who have lost tremendous amounts of > weight with the program. I have tried em' all and keep coming back to > BFL. Unfortunately, I have never made it past the 4 week mark but am > determined to make this effort different! I am on > C1W1D1...yep...started today Buy the book...read it thoroughly and > come join me in losing 100 pounds! Would love to have the company! > -Karyl Ooh.. I forgot to say.. " Get it from the library first if you're not sure " :) Serenity -- http://www.theonion.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2002 Report Share Posted June 16, 2002 Yes I was 5'3 and over 200 so I know what u are talking about =). The programs works great for someone really overweight. The closer you stick to the list of foods and the workout routine the better your resluts will be. I was averaging a 2lb per week loss and it was continual thoroughout my challenge. I went off and gained a few back but I am on my way to losing plu more now. You can see me in the photos folder under Metamorphasis in Progress. Dawnn > Hello, > I amwondering if there are any people who have been obese to begin > with before starting this program and what the succes is. I am > approximately 100 pounds overweight and I am wondering about this > before I buy the book and look into it further. > > Thank you! > > from Minnesota Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2004 Report Share Posted July 16, 2004 I do the same thing. I love that capris and 3/4 length tops are " in. " I also found the plus sizes at Gap fit her perfectly. I usually buy it on line because they do not carry much in the stores. Sears also carries plus sizes. The only thing that can be passed down in this family are the tops. Minti Ariana 12 (14-16 plus size) 10 (12 regular) Alaina 7 (7 slim) " I buy capri pants which are full length > pants on and 3/4 inch sleeved tops which are long sleeve on . " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2004 Report Share Posted July 20, 2004 > Baring real medical issues, obesity is fairly simple, but very difficult > to deal with. dear Rick alas, this is very true. Not only for the child but for the mom as well ( For all of her life, Fiona has faced more or less severe medical issues. The months and months I've spent with her on intensive care and cardiology units in hosptials were the reason I gained so much weight. The lack of execise or even normal moving around combined with the erratic eating whenever I could get away for a few minutes were definitely not good for my figure (( I used to be very thin (skinny, if i am to be honest) and gained more than 30 kilo. Loosing the excess weight again is a real challenge. I have got rid of almost 10 kilo this last year, but it is hard work. At the moment Fiona herself is still a tiny little skinny wisp of a child, only weighs 16 kilo at 102 cm. She is 7 1/2 years old now. She has starting eating normally even if very slowly, and the first signs of eating for pleasure are showing (( There is no guarantee that the small skinny kids stay that way, especially not after onset of puberty. Excerise or any kind of sports are often not possible, she is already exhausted after a normal morning at school. But we go swimming regularly and I try to do active things with her as often as her health and endurance allow. Excess weight is definitely an issue for myself as I do not want to develope a diabetes (like my mother had) and I definitely do not want Fiona to develope a diabetes later on in life either. Among all of the other problems that can come with overweight, diabetes is one that we have a higher risk for, and if we can avoid it, I will do anything I can to do so. Gundula Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2004 Report Share Posted July 20, 2004 You mention below that Jan is 5'8 " tall, that is really tall for someone for DS, isn't it? She is lucky. I would LOVE to be that tall! ----- Original Message ----- From: " Rick Dill " <rdill@...> >> an active partner in exercise. Jan is 5'8 " and weighed 110 when she > graduated from high school and was fit. A year later, she was competing > at World Games at 125. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2004 Report Share Posted July 20, 2004 In a message dated 7/20/2004 2:06:50 AM Eastern Daylight Time, Rick Dill <rdill@...> writes: >Poor muscle tone is common among our kids, but many parents think of it >as " just how it is " . Â If you participate, you can often (not always) get >your child more active. Â Improving muscle tone gives our kids one less >handicap to deal with (IMHO). Local medical specialists, of different types, have told our support group that low tone for our children is neurologically induced, and all the exercise in the world will not change that for them. In fact, they told us of problems with ligaments not having the elasticity or tone they should, and what surgical interventions are used and why they don't always work. They mainly discussed some of the operations for hips that won't stay in joint and how as the kids with this problem eventually stop walking because of the pain and difficulty. If you see people with DS who walk with an exaggerated " Wayne " type roll, they might have the hip problem. Cheryl in VA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2004 Report Share Posted July 20, 2004 I have said before, and I still believe, that 's brain can't interpret the " I am full " signal from her stomach. We try to monitor closely what she eats, and the portions size. Her class the last 2 years have done units on the food pyramid, and we follow up with that at home. We also emphasize veggies and fruits, without trying to be too restrictive. Fast food is limited to one meal a week, and she generally gets milk with that. Afternoon snacks are fruit, crackers, yogurt for dipping. Many restaurants will substitute a small salad for fries. However sometimes we say, have the burger and fries, but have extra veggies at another meal that day. is also learning to read the serving size on the labels, we are teaching what that means. If we didn't watch the amounts she eats, I swear she would gorge herself. For instance, the other night she had a baked chicken drumstick, biscuit, broccoli, mashed sweet potatoes, and cantelope. She ate it all, wanted more biscuits and sweet potatoes. I said no, offered her more broccoli, which she turned down. She will also eat out of boredom, and always wants chips. If I say no, and offer her fruit, she will then say " I " m not hungry " . I know one family of a now grown man with DS that had to put locks on their refrig and cabinets. After attending courses at a local community center, he has lost weight, and now reminds his Mom what is healthy and not healthy. Sharon H. Mom to , (12, DS) and , (9) South Carolina Obesity Baring real medical issues, obesity is fairly simple, but very difficult to deal with. There are three factors. Caloric intake is one and that is balanced (or not) by exercise. Then there is individual metabolic make-up. Look, some people can eat and eat and never get fat (DS or not). From the time my daughter was about seven until she left home after high school, I played two roles. I was the cook (and the one who doled out school lunches or lunch money). I also was the gymnastics coach and an active partner in exercise. Jan is 5'8 " and weighed 110 when she graduated from high school and was fit. A year later, she was competing at World Games at 125. I was still coach, but not in charge of diet. Five years later she had gotten to 170 and retired from gymnastics. Clearly, she couldn't manage the balance herself at that point. Her counsellors were mostly obese and little help. Since then Jan's had her share of problems healthwise and after her bone marrow transplant kept dropping in weight. She bottomed at near 90 and is now about 100 and proud of how she looks and how she feels. She can run again! How it will go in long term independent life is still unknown. Poor muscle tone is common among our kids, but many parents think of it as " just how it is " . If you participate, you can often (not always) get your child more active. Improving muscle tone gives our kids one less handicap to deal with (IMHO). As a family, we use exercise as a therapy. I probably shouldn't be walking today given that I trashed my leg more than 30 years ago. I try to hike three or more miles, often uphill, multiple times a week. Yes, I ski and my favorite ski partner is Jan. We are both pretty good, given our handicaps. My MD wife is very clear, " use it or lose it " . Jan has been my exercise trainer after therapy and I've been hers. Still, there is the tendency to veg out. I hike with friends (who also need it) and I'm the one who keeps it moving. Jan needs encouragement, although she will work on the exercise machine in front of the TV (when required by her parents) or go hiking with her walkman for a couple of miles. So, in September, I'll get the exercise bike back in her apartment. There is no sound from the TV unless she pedals at least slowly. Your child will be different, but all of us, DS or not, need the exercise. Rick .. dad to 31 year old Jan Click reply to all for messages to go to the list. Just hit reply for messages to go to the sender of the message. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2004 Report Share Posted July 20, 2004 In a message dated 7/20/2004 11:44:09 AM Eastern Daylight Time, " Sharon " <huie@...> writes: >I have said before, and I still believe, that 's brain can't interpret the " I am full " signal from her Determining if our kids have an understanding or feeling of satiation has been the topic of discussion for many of the moms here. We think some of the kids have a lack of that. Could be a gene on #21 has control of that! Cheryl in VA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2004 Report Share Posted July 20, 2004 Determining if our kids have an understanding or feeling of satiation has been the topic of discussion for many of the moms here. We think some of the kids have a lack of that. Could be a gene on #21 has control of that! > Cheryl in VA I just got home from bowling (which means it's pizza night) and Tim met me outside. snuck and got more pizza than he was given- eating a total of 8 slices (minus the crust) without anyone knowing. Last night, he found a box of little Debbies and ate all but one (so much for hiding food). I refuse to stop buying snacks that the other kids occasionally enjoy. We are going to have to get some type of locks for the cabinets. On the flip side, stubborness overrules hunger. refused to take a bath last Saturday. I told him he could not have a hamburger and other fixins until he bathed. He went to bed hungry. I'm not an advocate for withholding food - and I thought he would have given in. In the morning, he again refused to bathe and again, we told him no breakfast until he did (out of anger, he put a hole in the wall the day before and I was afraid what his response would be.) He finally gave up and took a bath and washed his hair. He came downstairs showing and telling me how clean he was and asked for his hamburger (not breakfast!!)....lol. prefers milk to soda - thank goodness! --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.720 / Virus Database: 476 - Release Date: 7/16/2004 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2004 Report Share Posted July 20, 2004 What a timely subject! I noticed tonight that Karrie now has an actual roll of fat around her what used to be waist. Her meds are part of the problem, but also the fact that her tonsils are touching make it hard for her to swallow. She finally gets in to see the ENT tomorrow to see about getting T & A's removed, due to clinically dx'd sleep apnea. Once this is resolved, her limited repertoire of foods is going to change. Also, after her cardiology appt. and I know she is cleared to begin an exercise program, her limited exercise routine will change. I feel like a wimp, waiting for these doctors' appts., but feel given all the other issues, this is the only way. Sue mom to Kate 14 and Karrie 8 w/ds and other issues (who could give a run for his money concerning pizza.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2004 Report Share Posted July 21, 2004 Sharon, I don't disagree. If there is brown sugar at home, then it will disappear quickly onto cereal, so there is no brown sugar. If there is an attack on the butter, the butter is gone. There are NO chips or non-diet soda . There isn't ice cream ... etc. I cook very low fat with lots of veggies. There are lots of veggies in the house and low calorie frozen entrees. If it isn't in the fridge or cabinets, you don't need locks. OK, the same rules hold for everyone in the household. Is that a problem? I am in charge at home .. or my wife is when I'm not home. Yes, we have to deal with our own weight issues, though we hardly would be classified obese. We exercise and we expect Jan to do so as well. When Jan and I go to MdD's together we can get a salad or at worst one of their lower fat chickens without fries. If she goes alone, she will buy the " deal " of a double something with big fat and supersize fries. When Jan is on her own it is much harder. That is why she went from 110 to 170 before crashing. We aren't in charge and counsellors on the heavy side don't have a clue. It isn't about " feeling full " , but rather about a balance between intake, exercise, and metabolic level. Jan know it all, but the discipline is hard .. so that isn't a whole lot different than most of the population. Jan likes how she is now and is a whole lot easier to deal with on weight than when she was significantly overweight. Still, it hangs in the balance. Rick ... is this child/adult abuse? also, it isn't easy. Sharon wrote: > I have said before, and I still believe, that 's brain can't > interpret the " I am full " signal from her stomach. We try to monitor > closely what she eats, and the portions size. Her class the last 2 > years have done units on the food pyramid, and we follow up with that > at home. We also emphasize veggies and fruits, without trying to be > too restrictive. Fast food is limited to one meal a week, and she > generally gets milk with that. Afternoon snacks are fruit, crackers, > yogurt for dipping. Many restaurants will substitute a small salad > for fries. However sometimes we say, have the burger and fries, but > have extra veggies at another meal that day. > is also learning to read the serving size on the labels, we are > teaching what that means. > > If we didn't watch the amounts she eats, I swear she would gorge > herself. For instance, the other night she had a baked chicken > drumstick, biscuit, broccoli, mashed sweet potatoes, and cantelope. > She ate it all, wanted more biscuits and sweet potatoes. I said no, > offered her more broccoli, which she turned down. She will also eat > out of boredom, and always wants chips. If I say no, and offer her > fruit, she will then say " I " m not hungry " . > > I know one family of a now grown man with DS that had to put locks on > their refrig and cabinets. After attending courses at a local > community center, he has lost weight, and now reminds his Mom what is > healthy and not healthy. > > Sharon H. > Mom to , (12, DS) and , (9) > South Carolina > > * Obesity > > Baring real medical issues, obesity is fairly simple, but very > difficult > to deal with. There are three factors. Caloric intake is one and > that > is balanced (or not) by exercise. Then there is individual metabolic > make-up. Look, some people can eat and eat and never get fat (DS > or not). > > From the time my daughter was about seven until she left home after > high school, I played two roles. I was the cook (and the one who > doled > out school lunches or lunch money). I also was the gymnastics > coach and > an active partner in exercise. Jan is 5'8 " and weighed 110 when she > graduated from high school and was fit. A year later, she was > competing > at World Games at 125. I was still coach, but not in charge of > diet. > Five years later she had gotten to 170 and retired from gymnastics. > Clearly, she couldn't manage the balance herself at that point. Her > counsellors were mostly obese and little help. > > Since then Jan's had her share of problems healthwise and after > her bone > marrow transplant kept dropping in weight. She bottomed at near > 90 and > is now about 100 and proud of how she looks and how she feels. > She can > run again! How it will go in long term independent life is still > unknown. > > Poor muscle tone is common among our kids, but many parents think > of it > as " just how it is " . If you participate, you can often (not > always) get > your child more active. Improving muscle tone gives our kids one > less > handicap to deal with (IMHO). > > As a family, we use exercise as a therapy. I probably shouldn't be > walking today given that I trashed my leg more than 30 years ago. > I try > to hike three or more miles, often uphill, multiple times a week. > Yes, > I ski and my favorite ski partner is Jan. We are both pretty good, > given our handicaps. > > My MD wife is very clear, " use it or lose it " . Jan has been my > exercise trainer after therapy and I've been hers. > > Still, there is the tendency to veg out. I hike with friends (who > also > need it) and I'm the one who keeps it moving. Jan needs > encouragement, > although she will work on the exercise machine in front of the TV > (when > required by her parents) or go hiking with her walkman for a > couple of > miles. > > So, in September, I'll get the exercise bike back in her apartment. > There is no sound from the TV unless she pedals at least slowly. > > Your child will be different, but all of us, DS or not, need the > exercise. > > Rick .. dad to 31 year old Jan > > > > Click reply to all for messages to go to the list. Just hit reply > for messages to go to the sender of the message. > > > * Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2004 Report Share Posted July 21, 2004 Cheryl, That's an interesting observation, but according to the reports, all of the people in the US have a 21st chromosome. Is that why the nation is overweight if I believe almost every report in the last decade. Rick Wildwards@... wrote: >In a message dated 7/20/2004 11:44:09 AM Eastern Daylight Time, " Sharon " <huie@...> writes: > > > >>I have said before, and I still believe, that 's brain can't interpret the " I am full " signal from her >> >> > >Determining if our kids have an understanding or feeling of satiation has been the topic of discussion for many of the moms here. We think some of the kids have a lack of that. Could be a gene on #21 has control of that! >Cheryl in VA > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2004 Report Share Posted July 21, 2004 In a message dated 7/20/2004 7:49:08 PM Central Daylight Time, cindysue@... writes: > He came downstairs showing and telling me how clean he was and asked for > his > hamburger (not breakfast!!)....lol. > > So don't leave us hangin....did he get his burger?A LOL!! Loree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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