Guest guest Posted February 1, 2006 Report Posted February 1, 2006 's suggestion was right-on. Amazing how testing leads us to answers we would never dream of otherwise. Great story! Love, Keely > > > > > > > > > > > > Time is at present the greatest difficulty. Not enough time to do even the most essential things as she is so slow. Now she has always had that problem of not being able to work within a time frame and if she does her blood pressure shoots up, and she gets heart palpitations. She is always at least a hour late for an appointment. Even in primary school she would be late. suggested that we work on testing, which is her problem. So we started testing and eventually found out what lies behind it all. First of all we found it had to do with her mother, then that it had something to do with her while she was still in the womb; then we found it was an implant and it was from her father. We both tested independently and that was what we found out. Her father was always telling her mother that she would be late for her own funeral and remarks like that. Six weeks before she was due to be born, one night while in bed, her father said to her mother: " You've got 6 weeks to go. You had better start to get ready now,. you are always so slow! It is important not to be slow! So don't be slow!! " Here was Janet totally open and vulnerable in the womb, her father very commanding, trying to impress his wife with the serious consequences of her slowness, giving the command of BE SLOW 3 times -- apparently the " no " does not get processed. So to be slow was something so strongly implanted in her that it became her way of functioning. She always felt that she had no control over time and that time was running away from her. And yesterday we found out that she has chosen not to connect to people emotionally. By always being late or not being able to be there at all, she avoided having to make the connection with others. A very interesting aspect of this was how we got the wording of the command given by her father. First we got the number of words. Then we knew it had to be something with " slow, " so we found slow was in it 3 times. Then we asked where in the command it was, and when we eventually got it all together, we realized that without the 3 " no " s or " not " s it was exactly the right number of words! Love from Nel. Quote
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