-- Re: Proaction: Getting it

[Guest guest]

Thank you Keely!

Wow, you think I'm there? At that nice place?

I'm working on staying there, and this proaction is

exactly what I needed.

I thought I was " the enemy " ..... lol! (paranoid I guess)

peacefully,

> Install the proaction we call " Getting it. "

>

> This is what you do especially when you hear something negative

about

> yourself, or receive a piece of news that you know isn't true, or

> have heard the thing 10 times before and aren't interested in

hearing

> it again. It's the willingness to simply be with that person and

> show him you've totally let in what he says and are using it --

> without needing to make a comment about its value. It's " Thank

you,

> I hear you. I really appreciate you for saying that. "

>

> There've been some nice posts recently from people who are living

> this proaction -- watching get to that nice place is a great

> example. If you're one of them, thank you for pushing through. If

> you've had trouble with this -- and we all do or have at one time

or

> another -- you can install it now.

>

> The statement is:

>

>

> - When somebody tells me something, I let it in without judgment or

> comment, no matter what it is, and am grateful to the person for

> saying it to me.

>

>

> When you test yes, you've installed this proaction.

>

> Proactions aren't affirmations -- when you've installed a proaction,

> you have a tendency toward acting that way. It describes you.

>

> More about how to install proactions in this skill:

> http://www.immunics.org/colleague/0lesson/0rec.htm

>

> Love,

> Keely Stahl

> 001(813) 672-0134 EDT USA (-0400 UTC)

>

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