Guest guest Posted August 12, 2004 Report Share Posted August 12, 2004 I have been stalked for 6 years now. I will tell you, I have taken her to court and had restaining orders and such placed. When I took her to court the judge said " This is the first proven case of stalking that I know of in Oklahoma " , and yet she still maintians stalking me. At one point she sat outside my work and confronted each and every female who came in and threatened them, then the police wouldnt enforce the protective order by saying she was on public property. Trust me the ones stalking have more rights than those being stalked. She has sliced my tires, late night phone calls, late night nocking on our doors and walls, and so on. Chass of Rundel aka Charinthalis Del Sans of the portable Chariot Honorable Recruiter of the House of the Red Shark (Have you seen my Belaying Pin??) People who " Stalk " us and what to do This is something that maybe some little people have dealt with, " Stalkers " . Some people for wahtever reason, become so obsessed with another person that they follow them around everywhere know everything they do and have to either talk about them or have them involved in their life somehow all the time. There are two or three people who " Stalk " Bonnie and have for eight years! Imagine that, get a life already, right? I am not altogether sure why. Maybe out of jealousy or envy or who knows, I wish I understodd this disfunction more, If a person says they do not like somone for whatever reason, most would leave them alone and move on or forget about them right? People who " Stalk " others don't, some are so attatched to the person they stalk, that without that in their life they have nothing else to do, nothing interesting, it's a sickness like drinking or drugs only worse, becuse they have crazy intentions, unlike people who are drug adicts who only do things to people if they are high or need drugs. Some stalkers go on forever unless they are put away or treated, some of these people can be dangerouse like the move " Fatle Attraction " , thats the scary part. If you ignore them they somehow find a way to do something that involves you or to cause trouble in your life. So, how do you beat a person like this? Many are delusonal or mentally ill. If you do something back to them to try teaching them to back off, they just come back and do more to you, so either way there is no escape. I guess you just let them go on untill they do something that will be reason enough to have them put in jail or put away somewhere that they can not hurt people anymore. Honestly, these types of people are worse than drug addicts or people who drink, they are addicted to drama and causing mentail or emotonal pain and strife in other people's lives, it's sad that maybe they are so misserable that they want to inflict that emotion of falure or unhappyness or not being able to control onto someone who does not have that problem. Kurt~~ === Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 12, 2004 Report Share Posted August 12, 2004 Are you making insinuations here, or are you physically being stalked? If so, you should think about getting a restraining order in place. Patty People who " Stalk " us and what to do This is something that maybe some little people have dealt with, " Stalkers " . Some people for wahtever reason, become so obsessed with another person that they follow them around everywhere know everything they do and have to either talk about them or have them involved in their life somehow all the time. There are two or three people who " Stalk " Bonnie and have for eight years! Imagine that, get a life already, right? I am not altogether sure why. Maybe out of jealousy or envy or who knows, I wish I understodd this disfunction more, If a person says they do not like somone for whatever reason, most would leave them alone and move on or forget about them right? People who " Stalk " others don't, some are so attatched to the person they stalk, that without that in their life they have nothing else to do, nothing interesting, it's a sickness like drinking or drugs only worse, becuse they have crazy intentions, unlike people who are drug adicts who only do things to people if they are high or need drugs. Some stalkers go on forever unless they are put away or treated, some of these people can be dangerouse like the move " Fatle Attraction " , thats the scary part. If you ignore them they somehow find a way to do something that involves you or to cause trouble in your life. So, how do you beat a person like this? Many are delusonal or mentally ill. If you do something back to them to try teaching them to back off, they just come back and do more to you, so either way there is no escape. I guess you just let them go on untill they do something that will be reason enough to have them put in jail or put away somewhere that they can not hurt people anymore. Honestly, these types of people are worse than drug addicts or people who drink, they are addicted to drama and causing mentail or emotonal pain and strife in other people's lives, it's sad that maybe they are so misserable that they want to inflict that emotion of falure or unhappyness or not being able to control onto someone who does not have that problem. Kurt~~ === Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 12, 2004 Report Share Posted August 12, 2004 I have found that these " stalkers " are usually mentally ill...and are on drugs/alcohol which fuels the fire. You hit the nail on the head when they try and involve you in their troubles, try and bring you down etc. The more you do to try and stop them...the more they are on a crusade to stop you? I have one in my apartment complex. These people usually do themselves in somehow. Karin People who " Stalk " us and what to do This is something that maybe some little people have dealt with, " Stalkers " . Some people for wahtever reason, become so obsessed with another person that they follow them around everywhere know everything they do and have to either talk about them or have them involved in their life somehow all the time. There are two or three people who " Stalk " Bonnie and have for eight years! Imagine that, get a life already, right? I am not altogether sure why. Maybe out of jealousy or envy or who knows, I wish I understodd this disfunction more, If a person says they do not like somone for whatever reason, most would leave them alone and move on or forget about them right? People who " Stalk " others don't, some are so attatched to the person they stalk, that without that in their life they have nothing else to do, nothing interesting, it's a sickness like drinking or drugs only worse, becuse they have crazy intentions, unlike people who are drug adicts who only do things to people if they are high or need drugs. Some stalkers go on forever unless they are put away or treated, some of these people can be dangerouse like the move " Fatle Attraction " , thats the scary part. If you ignore them they somehow find a way to do something that involves you or to cause trouble in your life. So, how do you beat a person like this? Many are delusonal or mentally ill. If you do something back to them to try teaching them to back off, they just come back and do more to you, so either way there is no escape. I guess you just let them go on untill they do something that will be reason enough to have them put in jail or put away somewhere that they can not hurt people anymore. Honestly, these types of people are worse than drug addicts or people who drink, they are addicted to drama and causing mentail or emotonal pain and strife in other people's lives, it's sad that maybe they are so misserable that they want to inflict that emotion of falure or unhappyness or not being able to control onto someone who does not have that problem. Kurt~~ === Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 12, 2004 Report Share Posted August 12, 2004 Wow man that's pretty intense. Our stalkers are not to that point yet, I think if they lived close enoughthey would tho. The one has contacted my brother, harrassed my 83 year old mother, somehow managed to obtain my fiances step mothers phone number and call her and harrass her, she has sent things in the mail and contacted people via emails etc. The other one use to be a friend of Bonnie's and as the result of a misunderstanding over some dorky pot head guy that she was in la la land over she became angery and jelous and went so far as to steal Bonnie's credit card numbers and then lie about it. She ran up the bill to $300 all out of anger about the pot head! Once Bonnie realized this she cut herslef off from her. At one point I sorta wondered if maybe there could have been some slim chance she did not do this, but after seeing how she operates, I now know she was and has always been behind it all along. To this day this person follows us around, contacts our friends and harrasses them and will do anything possable to instagte trouble for us and then act as if it was not her or that she was not involved in it. Your right they turn it around and make us become the criminal and they the victom's. This person has followd stalked Bonnie for 8 years over something so childish and stupid. And the other one is going on four years now! It must be some type of a mentail illness or something, most " Normail " people just get angry then forget about it and leave things at that. But to threaten people or cause harm to them for 3 4 5 or 6 years, man talk about screw balls! Kurt~~ > I have been stalked for 6 years now. I will tell you, I have taken her to court and had restaining orders and such placed. When I took her to court the judge said " This is the first proven case of stalking that I know of in Oklahoma " , and yet she still maintians stalking me. At one point she sat outside my work and confronted each and every female who came in and threatened them, then the police wouldnt enforce the protective order by saying she was on public property. Trust me the ones stalking have more rights than those being stalked. She has sliced my tires, late night phone calls, late night nocking on our doors and walls, and so on. > > Chass of Rundel aka > Charinthalis Del Sans of the portable Chariot > Honorable Recruiter of the House of the Red Shark (Have you seen my Belaying Pin??) > > People who " Stalk " us and what to do > > > This is something that maybe some little people have dealt > with, " Stalkers " . > > Some people for wahtever reason, become so obsessed with another > person that they follow them around everywhere know everything they > do and have to either talk about them or have them involved in their > life somehow all the time. > > There are two or three people who " Stalk " Bonnie and have for eight > years! Imagine that, get a life already, right? I am not altogether > sure why. Maybe out of jealousy or envy or who knows, I wish I > understodd this disfunction more, If a person says they do not like > somone for whatever reason, most would leave them alone and move on > or forget about them right? > > People who " Stalk " others don't, some are so attatched to the person > they stalk, that without that in their life they have nothing else to > do, nothing interesting, it's a sickness like drinking or drugs only > worse, becuse they have crazy intentions, unlike people who are drug > adicts who only do things to people if they are high or need drugs. > > Some stalkers go on forever unless they are put away or treated, some > of these people can be dangerouse like the move " Fatle Attraction " , > thats the scary part. If you ignore them they somehow find a way to > do something that involves you or to cause trouble in your life. So, > how do you beat a person like this? Many are delusonal or mentally > ill. > > If you do something back to them to try teaching them to back off, > they just come back and do more to you, so either way there is no > escape. I guess you just let them go on untill they do something > that will be reason enough to have them put in jail or put away > somewhere that they can not hurt people anymore. > > Honestly, these types of people are worse than drug addicts or people > who drink, they are addicted to drama and causing mentail or emotonal > pain and strife in other people's lives, it's sad that maybe they are > so misserable that they want to inflict that emotion of falure or > unhappyness or not being able to control onto someone who does not > have that problem. > > Kurt~~ > > > > === > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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