Guest guest Posted January 26, 2004 Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 Patty, Hi neighbor! To answer some of your questions. Christian was in Fairfax Hospital both times, he now sees Dr. Gewanter in Richmond. I really love him and so does Christian. Prior to seeing Dr. G, we were seeing another rheumy who just wasn't a good fit for us. Regarding school, after the holiday break Christian tried to attend 5 days a week for just the mornings but was unable to do so without the symptoms increasing. He attends school on no set scheudule, usually he goes in around 10:00 and will leave around 1:15, two days a week...sometimes three days a week. He just tires too much and is unable to do anymore than that right now. The homebound teacher happens to be a neighbor and is wonderful! She comes two days a week in the afternoon for about 2-3 hours each time. She concentrates on the core subjects, and it has worked well so far. He started homebound instruction in early December. Until that point he was too sick to even try school work. I plan to ask the Doctor tomorrow (hopefully) when he thinks he will be able to attend school full time again. Christian's biggest fear is to end up in the hospital again, so if we need to take it slow we will do so. Who do you take Caitlin to see? Not many in this area. > In a message dated 1/26/04 1:49:10 PM Eastern Standard Time, > knoblefamily@c... writes: > > << > It's interesting that you mentioned strep. Ten days prior to the outbreak > of Christian's rash, he had a " bug " and stayed home from school with a sore > throat. When he broke out in the rash he complained of a very bad sore throat. > When we went to the Doctors that afternoon, they looked at the throat but > didn't do a strep test. The next day we went back to the Doc and they did a strep > test which came up positive for strep. > >> > Hi : > > Sounds exactly like Caitlin. Only difference is her strep was negative by > throat, positive by blood. > > << > We live in VA (northern va.) and Fairfax County >> > > LOL you know when you mentioned the weather I thought to myself 'sounds like > our weather' - small world - now I know why, you are a neighbor. I am in No. > VA too, Loudoun County! > > <<many other school districts do not like to approve homebound services on a > part time basis. You sort of have to work the system. I have a good > relationship with our Principal and she has been a great advocate for doing what bests > suits my son. Having the Homebound Teacher along with having my son attend > school part time has been great....it allows him to still feel part of the > class while preventing him from a total decline in health. The Homebound teacher > is great and Christian is totally up to date in all his classes, even ahead in > a few!>> > > Fortunately, we have never had a problem in Loudoun County. I have one child > in special education and I have learned a lot about the ins and outs of my > county. We have never (knock on wood - knock knock knock) had a problem with > services, etc. Fortunately this followed with Caitlin receiving home bound > services. With other requests being put into play for her return, we have only > had " yes " responses WHOHOOO. How many hours a day is Christian at school? How > did they break up the day to ensure that he gets all subjects in? Do they > have him go early one day and late the other day to get all subjects? That's > great that he is not only caught up, but ahead in a few classes. Do the home > bound teachers in Fairfax County come during school hours or after school hours? > How long has Christian been on home bound instruction? How soon did he > attempt to go to school full time? > > > Hope Christian continues to improve quickly. > > Take care. > Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2004 Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 Originally we were seeing a Doc from town Hospital and then we switched to Dr. Gewanter in Richmond, our first visit with him was on Dec. 18, 2004. I too was concerned about the drive, we live in Clifton Va (Little Rocky Run). But, after meeting with Dr. G, oh my gosh...I would have driven 4 hours for him. I can't even begin to tell you how skilled he is and how wonderful he was with my son. He took the time to find out Christian's interests (football) and discussed the medical plan in terms of a football play...totally cool in Christian's eyes. The drive takes us just under two hours. It is something to consider when selecting a Doc but for us, it seems to be working. Isn't Dr. White going to see patients at G.W. soon? Good Luck. > To and Patty, I am interested in who you are seeing, since we > are Children's Hosp. orphans. Teddy sees Dr Jafaar for opthalmology at > the Fairfax satellite on Rte 50. We live in Oakton, but Richmond seems > so far! I know Liz says it's not that bad, but I would still like to see > what else is out there. hh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2004 Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 Hi, I wanted to say hello and welcome all of our newest members. Even though I'm replying to the message sent, I figured I'd provide some background info about our situation so that all of our newest list members will have an idea of what the JRA journey has been like for us. While our children all share some of the same features (namely, joint pain and inflammation) each case is also somewhat unique. My son was younger than Christian when the first symptoms of systemic JRA appeared. He had just had his 6th birthday in April (of 1995) and got sick in the month of May. He missed the last month or so of school but then had those few months of summer break to try to recuperate. Unfortunately, 's arthritis was unrelenting for the first few years. Mornings were always especially hard for him. He had a lot of joint stiffness and pain often lasting for at least a couple of hours. You'll read that many children with systemic JRA who have fevers usually have the high temps only in the evening. My son was different. He used to wake up each day with very high fevers which would subside by around noon on most days and then return in the evenings around 6pm or so. His cycle was twice daily. As you know from your own experience, painful mornings can make something as normal as attending school very difficult. We were very fortunate in that staff at my son's elementary school was very cooperative with planning how best to accommodate for his needs. often went in late. Instead of arriving at 7:50 he could arrive at 10:00, right as morning recess was ending. That helped allow for a long early morning bath with time for him to do some range of motion exercises to help loosen up. Some days though, he just wasn't well enough to make it in. He tended to miss many more school days than a child who doesn't have a chronic illness. Still does, I guess, but not nearly as many now. He's gotten a lot of academic awards but has never yet been able to get a Perfect Attendance certificate. Still, I always felt that school was such an important part of a child's growth and socialization process so we strove to keep him enrolled full-time and work around his health issues. Most of the time I worked with and tutored him at home myself. He never wanted to fall behind in his studies and was usually a little bit ahead of the class. When he reached 4th grade the school wanted to provide a part-time tutor to have in place for whenever he needed it. The normal policy here, I think, is that a child needs to miss a week or more, consecutively, for tutoring services. They changed it for him. During flare ups, they had a tutor come to our home to work with him for an hour and a half during after school hours, the time of day when he was usually feeling his best. I'm not sure that was very helpful but it was better than having it at school because he'd be taken out of his regular class for the services and we didn't want that. When he was well enough to be in school he was. We were, however, on a first name basis with the health room aide. Fatigue has played such a big role in his disease course. We used to joke that he was like a modern day Rip van Winkle. He could go to sleep at 8pm and sleep till 7am. He'd bathe or shower, eat breakfast, and still be so tired that he'd want to nap again. He had anemia much of the time, anemia related to chronic illness which didn't improve much with additional iron supplementation. He always seemed to need more sleep than, say, his younger sister or his same-age friends. This aspect has changed some, since he began taking human growth hormone. It has really boosted his energy level during waking hours. He still does best when he has about 10 hours of sleep each night, though. You'll probably find, though, that as the child's arthritis is better controlled they tend to have more energy. asked about n's prednisone history. I felt I should point out an opposite extreme, since my son falls at the other end of the spectrum. He is among the minority of children with systemic JRA that have been on long-term steroid therapy. He's been taking prednisone daily for almost 9 years. He's had some of the typical side effects, like weight gain, increased appetite, extra hair growth, moodiness, but only at high doses. Later on, even when he was taking as much as 10 or 12.5mgs a day, these most noticeable changes disappeared. He's also had some of the other unwanted side effects, such as mild cataracts, stunted growth, and osteoporosis. At higher doses he also bruised more easily but the NSAIDs may have contributed to that, as well. We had lots of difficulty trying to taper his dose in the early years. 9mgs seemed to be the lowest dose that wouldn't trigger a flare and each time we tried to get lower we'd have to raise, usually double, the dose to control his symptoms and try to get back where we started again. 30mgs per day wasn't unheard of, before we switched from oral to injectable Methotrexate dosing. That really made a huge difference in his overall well-being. For the first 4 and a half years he took Methotrexate in pill form, starting at 7.5 and gradually increasing to 15mgs, and still struggled with persistently active arthritis despite aggressive treatment (which included Prednisone, NSAIDs, and another DMARD called Plaquenil). A month after Josh began taking MTX by injection his SED rate dropped to the high 30's which, though still elevated, was a major improvement for him. His hemoglobin and haematocrit levels were still off and his white blood cell count remained elevated but all of a sudden we saw new possibilities open up and knew that there was a good chance he'd be okay. Eventually all of his labs began to improve and it seemed like he was in a medicated remission. Successfully tapering his steroids became more feasible. He finally got down to a low of 2mgs per day, which is where he's at now. Since June! We see the doctor at the end of the month and it may be time to lower again. Probably to 1.5mgs. He still has some joint pain (right now only in his wrists and neck), some muscle pain, and morning stiffness even now on some days (he missed a day of school last week) but he's doing much better than before. When he catches a viral infection or something like that, it exasperates his arthritis symptoms each and every time and takes him longer to recover from ... but flareups are fewer and farther in between, no longer part of an 'almost everyday' scenario. Rash and fevers, which used to occur daily, have become rare. Even when he feels really sick and feels warm to the touch, he hardly ever has a temp. Many more good days than bad, nowadays, but he struggled allot for, in total, about 5 years. Moral of the story? The beginning is probably the hardest part. Coming to terms with your child's diagnosis. Learning to live with a family member who suddenly has a chronic illness and faces pain and mobility issues. Making lifestyle changes, having to schedule lots of doctor appointments instead of seeing them only once or twice a year. Trying to be patient while doctors try to tailor a workable therapy, finding a combination of the most effective meds with the fewest side effects, to try to alleviate symptoms and prevent continued joint destruction and progression of disease. A constant balancing act but with the advent of many new medications in the past decade it doesn't appear to be quite so 'hit or miss' anymore. The prognosis for a child with JRA, now, is better than ever before. Okay. Very wordy. But hopefully it will help someone to see what it was like from our perspective. I better stop typing now and continue reading all the posts I have to catch up with. Take Care, Georgina knoblefamily wrote: > , > Thanks for the warm welcome and the great tip about the diary. I will > start to use one, great idea. Just last night my husband asked me if I > have heard of anyone developing systemic JRA at our son's age (11) and I > hadn't but now it sounds like that is the age that it happened with your > daughter. How long did it take her to be able to attend school and > participate in activities? Christian has been out of school since Oct. > and still can't attend because he gets too tired and the symptoms start > to increase. What type of medicine is your daughter taking now? > Christian is now dealing with insomnia..yuck. We give him benadryl at > night which works...but I hate to give him yet another drug. How long > was your daughter on prednisone? Sorry I'm asking all these questions > but I'm so thrilled to find someone who can tell me about a systemic > child and who is the same age when the symptoms started. > > Thanks so much > (Christian, 12, systemic) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2004 Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 n says that it comes and goes. She may have it in the morning, and then it disappears. Or it may be in the evening and then leaves. When she has it, she says it really hurts. It will hurt to breathe, her throat that is. I hope that helps. Hope that helps. Re: New Mom dealing with JRA In a message dated 1/26/04 2:09:18 PM Eastern Standard Time, bc.price@... writes:<< , The sore throat is part of the disease. n will get it, and she now knows the difference between her arthritis sore throat and a regular one. >>Hi :If Caitlin is dx'd systemic onset JRA, I would like to know how n differentiates between an arthritis sore throat and a regular one (or strep one). Actually, I'd like to know whether Caitlin is dx'd JRA or not. Could you ask n to explain as best she can how she tells the difference in sore throats if she'd be willing? I know each child is different, but if I can give Caitlin any information to key into it would be great. Thank you. Take care.Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2004 Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 Thanks for sharing your story, I really appreciate it. Just found out that our appt. for tomorrow will need to be rescheduled due to weather...darn! Hopefully, we will be " fit in " soon. > > , > > Thanks for the warm welcome and the great tip about the diary. I will > > start to use one, great idea. Just last night my husband asked me if I > > have heard of anyone developing systemic JRA at our son's age (11) and I > > hadn't but now it sounds like that is the age that it happened with your > > daughter. How long did it take her to be able to attend school and > > participate in activities? Christian has been out of school since Oct. > > and still can't attend because he gets too tired and the symptoms start > > to increase. What type of medicine is your daughter taking now? > > Christian is now dealing with insomnia..yuck. We give him benadryl at > > night which works...but I hate to give him yet another drug. How long > > was your daughter on prednisone? Sorry I'm asking all these questions > > but I'm so thrilled to find someone who can tell me about a systemic > > child and who is the same age when the symptoms started. > > > > Thanks so much > > (Christian, 12, systemic) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2004 Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 Hi Patty. Yes, they just announced this month that the rheum clinic at Children's is shutting down on Jan 31, I have several options for a new doctor, but I was just looking for any more info to help me make my decision. Dr White is likely starting a practice in DC, but that isn't set yet. I have heard great things about Gewanter, and liked him at the AJAO meeting this summer, so I know I can't go wrong in going down to Richmond. My problem is that I have 3 other kids, all younger than Teddy, and it's a hassle to go that far on a school day. We're in Oakton, pretty close to the Vienna metro. hh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 In a message dated 1/26/04 5:57:48 PM Eastern Standard Time, knoblefamily@... writes: << Christian was in Fairfax Hospital both times, he now sees Dr. Gewanter in Richmond. I really love him and so does Christian. Prior to >> Hi : Caitlin was in Fairfax too. For all we know they could have been there at the same time LOL. When I mentioned your son to Caitlin, she said it would be great to have someone her age to talk to regarding this illness. Doesn't Liz go to Dr. Gewanter? Were you able to get to your appointment today? <<Christian's biggest fear is to end up in the hospital again, so if we need to take it slow we will do so>> I can understand that fear. Who wants to go back to the hospital:( Slow is the best approach. I hope he gets back to school full time soon. I am sure he's missing his friends, etc. <<Who do you take Caitlin to see? Not many in this area.>> We see Dr. Nguyen in Reston. He sees adults and children, though he is not a pediatric rheumatologist. He did train under the pediatric rheumy at town. Caitlin thinks he's great. He's been right on top of everything with her. Worried about her and called daily from his family vacation during the holidays to check in on her. He is taking an aggressive approach with her treatment too. He is very calm and gentle with Caitlin. I always feel better after leaving his office (well except when he mentioned a bone marrow biopsy, then I left feeling nauseated and panicked). Take care. Stay warm. Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 In a message dated 1/26/04 8:24:36 PM Eastern Standard Time, knoblefamily@... writes: << The drive takes us just under two hours. It is something to consider when selecting a Doc but for us, it seems to be working. Isn't Dr. White going to see patients at G.W. soon? >> Hi : I, too, would drive a long way for a great doctor. When you think about it, it can take over an hour to get into DC/Childrens Hospital and an hour and a half to get to Hopkins, so it's not much longer a commute. Take care. Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 Thanks . I think I will add a sore throat area to my journal of Caitlin's symptoms and see if any kind of pattern appears. Take care. Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 In a message dated 1/27/04 1:43:34 PM Eastern Standard Time, helenchollingsworth@... writes: << Hi Patty. Yes, they just announced this month that the rheum clinic at Children's is shutting down on Jan 31, I have several options for a new doctor, but I was just looking for any more info to help me make my decision. Dr White is likely starting a practice in DC, but that isn't set yet. I have heard great things about Gewanter, and liked him at the AJAO meeting this summer, so I know I can't go wrong in going down to Richmond. My problem is that I have 3 other kids, all younger than Teddy, and it's a hassle to go that far on a school day. We're in Oakton, pretty close to the Vienna metro. hh >> Hi Helen: Do you like Dr. White? What is the AJAO? I understand the difficulty in traveling far on a school day with three younger children! That would be a tough one. Any family/friends/neighbors nearby that can watch them a little bit after school one day? You aren't far from me either:) We should all get together for coffee someday:) Take care and stay warm. Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 Hi : Yeah, I am thrilled that you were able to make your appointment too today. You certainly had a much longer commute than I did with this lovely ice and snow. Glad it was a safe trip. Did you and Liz know eachother would be there or was is a pleasant surprise? That would be funny if it was just a surprise. Drive 2 hours and meet someone you know there LOL. When my husband and I were on our honeymoon in Disney/Florida we saw a couple we knew from my husband's work there too LOL (we were living in MA at that point in time) - small world. That's great that you all had a nice lunch date together. I hope the prednisone tapers goes smoothly for Christian. Bummer about the not returning to school. Was Christian really upset by that? You are right about taking it slowly. I am starting to question Caitlin's return to school next week, something I want to post in a few minutes. <<Did your daughter have the bone marrow biopsy? Christian had one in the hospital and it was the only proceedure that I was totally not prepared for, there was more to it than I expected. >> Yes, Caitlin did have a bone marrow biopsy done. She had it done on an emergency basis (rheumy late afternoon, Children's next am) at Children's Hospital on, of all days, Christmas Eve Day. The one word I can explain a bone marrow biopsy: nightmare. It was so painful for Caitlin (can't numb bone), her reaction to the meds freaked me out (strange to see your 11 year old drugged up) and it was heartwreching for me to watch. I do know that it had to be done. Georgina told me a story about a young boy who was dx'd JRA when, in fact, he had leukemia and this sweet, innocent little boy died a year later:( So I am grateful the rheumy ordered the test and even more grateful her results were negative, thank God. When Caitlin was at Fairfax they never even mentioned luekemia or a bone marrow biopsy. <<Christian, being a boy, isn't always the most expressive but today at lunch I noticed that he listened to Liz's daughter as she spoke of her experiences. It would be nice to get all the kids together, we're close enough to do so. I'll check with Liz too, or maybe she will read this.>> That would be great if we could get them together. I know Christian is Caitlin's age, but I don't know how old Liz's daughter is - how old is she? Maybe us mom could get together too:) Take care and stay warm, it's nasty out there. Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 Patty, Yes, I did get our appointment in today. I saw Liz there and we took the kids for lunch after their appointments...it was nice. Dr. G wants Christian to remain at 20mg methotrexate and will begin to decrease the predisone 2 1/2 mg. every two weeks if Christian can handle it. He doesn't feel that Christian will be able to return to school on a full time basis this year and wants him to continue with homebound instruction and attending school on a very part time basis. He gave us some alternatives to deal with the insomnia, relaxation ideas. So, for the most part it was a good visit. I was disappointed to hear that Christian won't be attending school full time this year but I've learned to embrace his slowly improving health. Did your daughter have the bone marrow biopsy? Christian had one in the hospital and it was the only proceedure that I was totally not prepared for, there was more to it than I expected. Christian, being a boy, isn't always the most expressive but today at lunch I noticed that he listened to Liz's daughter as she spoke of her experiences. It would be nice to get all the kids together, we're close enough to do so. I'll check with Liz too, or maybe she will read this. > In a message dated 1/26/04 5:57:48 PM Eastern Standard Time, > knoblefamily@c... writes: > > << Christian was in > Fairfax Hospital both times, he now sees Dr. Gewanter in Richmond. I > really love him and so does Christian. Prior to >> > > Hi : > > Caitlin was in Fairfax too. For all we know they could have been there at > the same time LOL. When I mentioned your son to Caitlin, she said it would be > great to have someone her age to talk to regarding this illness. > > Doesn't Liz go to Dr. Gewanter? Were you able to get to your appointment > today? > > <<Christian's biggest fear is to end up in the hospital again, > so if we need to take it slow we will do so>> > > I can understand that fear. Who wants to go back to the hospital: ( Slow is > the best approach. I hope he gets back to school full time soon. I am sure > he's missing his friends, etc. > > <<Who do you take Caitlin > to see? Not many in this area.>> > > We see Dr. Nguyen in Reston. He sees adults and children, though he is not a > pediatric rheumatologist. He did train under the pediatric rheumy at > town. Caitlin thinks he's great. He's been right on top of everything with > her. Worried about her and called daily from his family vacation during the > holidays to check in on her. He is taking an aggressive approach with her > treatment too. He is very calm and gentle with Caitlin. I always feel better after > leaving his office (well except when he mentioned a bone marrow biopsy, then > I left feeling nauseated and panicked). > > Take care. Stay warm. > Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 I totally agree. Where do you live and how long does it take to get to the Docs? > In a message dated 1/26/04 8:24:36 PM Eastern Standard Time, > knoblefamily@c... writes: > > << The drive takes us just under two hours. It is > something to consider when selecting a Doc but for us, it seems to be > working. Isn't Dr. White going to see patients at G.W. soon? > >> > Hi : > > I, too, would drive a long way for a great doctor. When you think about it, > it can take over an hour to get into DC/Childrens Hospital and an hour and a > half to get to Hopkins, so it's not much longer a commute. > > Take care. > Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 , Your ped rheumy takes a different approach than ours did. When n was missing school and the doctor found out about it, he said that was not acceptable. He said her symtoms had to be under better control so she could function in daily life. That is when she had to start steroids. Since your son is already on them, maybe that is why your doctor said that. I hope he gets to feeling better soon. (n, 15, systemic) Re: New Mom dealing with JRA Patty,Yes, I did get our appointment in today. I saw Liz there and we took the kids for lunch after their appointments...it was nice. Dr. G wants Christian to remain at 20mg methotrexate and will begin to decrease the predisone 2 1/2 mg. every two weeks if Christian can handle it. He doesn't feel that Christian will be able to return to school on a full time basis this year and wants him to continue with homebound instruction and attending school on a very part time basis. He gave us some alternatives to deal with the insomnia, relaxation ideas. So, for the most part it was a good visit. I was disappointed to hear that Christian won't be attending school full time this year but I've learned to embrace his slowly improving health.Did your daughter have the bone marrow biopsy? Christian had one in the hospital and it was the only proceedure that I was totally not prepared for, there was more to it than I expected.Christian, being a boy, isn't always the most expressive but today at lunch I noticed that he listened to Liz's daughter as she spoke of her experiences. It would be nice to get all the kids together, we're close enough to do so. I'll check with Liz too, or maybe she will read this. > In a message dated 1/26/04 5:57:48 PM Eastern Standard Time, > knoblefamily@c... writes:> > << Christian was in > Fairfax Hospital both times, he now sees Dr. Gewanter in Richmond. I > really love him and so does Christian. Prior to >>> > Hi :> > Caitlin was in Fairfax too. For all we know they could have been there at > the same time LOL. When I mentioned your son to Caitlin, she said it would be > great to have someone her age to talk to regarding this illness.> > Doesn't Liz go to Dr. Gewanter? Were you able to get to your appointment > today?> > <<Christian's biggest fear is to end up in the hospital again, > so if we need to take it slow we will do so>>> > I can understand that fear. Who wants to go back to the hospital:( Slow is > the best approach. I hope he gets back to school full time soon. I am sure > he's missing his friends, etc.> > <<Who do you take Caitlin > to see? Not many in this area.>>> > We see Dr. Nguyen in Reston. He sees adults and children, though he is not a > pediatric rheumatologist. He did train under the pediatric rheumy at > town. Caitlin thinks he's great. He's been right on top of everything with > her. Worried about her and called daily from his family vacation during the > holidays to check in on her. He is taking an aggressive approach with her > treatment too. He is very calm and gentle with Caitlin. I always feel better after > leaving his office (well except when he mentioned a bone marrow biopsy, then > I left feeling nauseated and panicked).> > Take care. Stay warm.> Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 Patty, When Liz and I scheduled our appts. we had no idea they were on the same day and just an hour apart...funny! As the appts. grew closer we realized they would be on the same day. Too funny. Will Caitlin return to school full time next week? I do hope it goes well, Christian just was unable to keep up physically. He was tremendously fatigued and the symptoms started to increase so the Doc felt it best to take it slow. Gosh, Christian had the same reaction with the biopsy, it was a very emotional experience for me. You know what I mean. I don't like to think about it too often. My thoughts and well wishes are with you as Caitlin goes back to school. Please keep me posted, I really hope she does well. I know you mentioned it before but please tell me when Caitlin had her first symptoms. Hang in there. > Hi : > > Yeah, I am thrilled that you were able to make your appointment too today. > You certainly had a much longer commute than I did with this lovely ice and > snow. Glad it was a safe trip. > > Did you and Liz know eachother would be there or was is a pleasant surprise? > That would be funny if it was just a surprise. Drive 2 hours and meet > someone you know there LOL. When my husband and I were on our honeymoon in > Disney/Florida we saw a couple we knew from my husband's work there too LOL (we were > living in MA at that point in time) - small world. That's great that you all > had a nice lunch date together. > > I hope the prednisone tapers goes smoothly for Christian. Bummer about the > not returning to school. Was Christian really upset by that? You are right > about taking it slowly. I am starting to question Caitlin's return to school > next week, something I want to post in a few minutes. > > > <<Did your daughter have the bone marrow biopsy? Christian had one in > the hospital and it was the only proceedure that I was totally not > prepared for, there was more to it than I expected. > >> > > Yes, Caitlin did have a bone marrow biopsy done. She had it done on an > emergency basis (rheumy late afternoon, Children's next am) at Children's Hospital > on, of all days, Christmas Eve Day. The one word I can explain a bone marrow > biopsy: nightmare. It was so painful for Caitlin (can't numb bone), her > reaction to the meds freaked me out (strange to see your 11 year old drugged up) > and it was heartwreching for me to watch. I do know that it had to be done. > Georgina told me a story about a young boy who was dx'd JRA when, in fact, he > had leukemia and this sweet, innocent little boy died a year later: ( So I am > grateful the rheumy ordered the test and even more grateful her results were > negative, thank God. When Caitlin was at Fairfax they never even mentioned > luekemia or a bone marrow biopsy. > > > <<Christian, being a boy, isn't always the most expressive but today at > lunch I noticed that he listened to Liz's daughter as she spoke of > her experiences. It would be nice to get all the kids together, > we're close enough to do so. I'll check with Liz too, or maybe she > will read this.>> > > That would be great if we could get them together. I know Christian is > Caitlin's age, but I don't know how old Liz's daughter is - how old is she? Maybe > us mom could get together too:) > > Take care and stay warm, it's nasty out there. > Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 , Sometimes I feel like were caught in a Catch 22 regarding the school issue. Christian really tried to go back but the fatigue and the symptoms began to increase immediately. The Doc said that much of this is due to Christian being so sick for so long, it was before we found this Doctor. He told us today the deconditioning is a big issue with Christian and gave him some exercises to do. Christis really likes school, he's a good student but just doesn't have the energy to attend regularly. You mentioned your Ped rheumy had a different approach. I hope I didn't give you the impression that our Doc is comfortable with Christian missing school. He is trying to get him back in the game but I suppose this is a slow process. Do you have any suggestions on how to expedite the process? Christian is taking 15mg. methotrexate and 20 mg. Prednisone right now, all labs look good except for the d-dimers which is still extremely elevated. Thanks > > In a message dated 1/26/04 5:57:48 PM Eastern Standard Time, > > knoblefamily@c... writes: > > > > << Christian was in > > Fairfax Hospital both times, he now sees Dr. Gewanter in > Richmond. I > > really love him and so does Christian. Prior to >> > > > > Hi : > > > > Caitlin was in Fairfax too. For all we know they could have been > there at > > the same time LOL. When I mentioned your son to Caitlin, she said > it would be > > great to have someone her age to talk to regarding this illness. > > > > Doesn't Liz go to Dr. Gewanter? Were you able to get to your > appointment > > today? > > > > <<Christian's biggest fear is to end up in the hospital again, > > so if we need to take it slow we will do so>> > > > > I can understand that fear. Who wants to go back to the hospital: > ( Slow is > > the best approach. I hope he gets back to school full time soon. > I am sure > > he's missing his friends, etc. > > > > <<Who do you take Caitlin > > to see? Not many in this area.>> > > > > We see Dr. Nguyen in Reston. He sees adults and children, though > he is not a > > pediatric rheumatologist. He did train under the pediatric rheumy > at > > town. Caitlin thinks he's great. He's been right on top of > everything with > > her. Worried about her and called daily from his family vacation > during the > > holidays to check in on her. He is taking an aggressive approach > with her > > treatment too. He is very calm and gentle with Caitlin. I always > feel better after > > leaving his office (well except when he mentioned a bone marrow > biopsy, then > > I left feeling nauseated and panicked). > > > > Take care. Stay warm. > > Patty > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------------- ---------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2004 Report Share Posted January 28, 2004 In a message dated 1/27/04 9:33:09 PM Eastern Standard Time, knoblefamily@... writes: << I totally agree. Where do you live and how long does it take to get to the Docs? >> Hi : I am in Sterling. Right now it only takes 15 minutes to get to her rheumy's office YIPPIE! Of course, we do the drive into DC for her and her two sisters more often than I like to think about, but it's a great place for their specific needs. That drive, depending on traffic, usually takes about an hour. We always seem to hit traffic one way and takes up to an hour and a half. I think the drive into DC is horrible, we even get hit while taking Caitlin in to her bone marrow test (hit from behind). Now that we know the ins and outs a bit more, it's getting easier, just not a city driver here anymore LOL. Is the trip into Richmond a fairly easy one? Can you believe the sun is shining:) Take care. Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2004 Report Share Posted January 28, 2004 That is funny you both had appointments the same day. Next time you two should commute together. Be nice to have some adult company:) Caitlin will go back next week starting out with a half day schedule. She only wants to do this for one week, but I will wait and see how she does medically/physically before deciding that one. Personally, I'd like to keep her home away from the germs, but I know she can't live in a bubble (nor would I want her to) and needs to get back to normal in all areas. YEs, I know what you mean with the biopsy. Something I don't like to think about to often either. Thank you for her well wishes with her return to school. I pray she stays stable, she's come a long way already I hate to have anything set her back. Caitlin had her first symptoms two weeks before Thanksgiving. Take care. Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2004 Report Share Posted January 28, 2004 Since Caitlin seems to have improved with the fatigue maybe she will handle school just fine. I really hope so for her and for you. Being in sixth grade is being the top dog at the school and it's a fun year for the kids. I'll be thinking and hoping for the best! Has your Doctor run the d-dimers test? We didn't have this one run until going to Dr.G who feels it can sometimes be a good marker with systemic kids. It has proven to be a consistant marker for Christian. It went down to elevated when he was feeling better, then when he started school and the fatigue and arthritis increased it went back up to the marked elevated level. How great that Caitlin felt well enough to play outside, wonderful news! Go Caitlin. That makes me smile to know that she felt well enough to be a kid! I know must have made you smile too. Christian first got the rash on Oct. 16 and it continued until mid December. He got it everywhere, even the face one time. Towards the end of the rash breakout, he only would get it on his hands (more spots than a rash) and on his upper thighs. Christian's rash never itched. Can I post pictures of the rash here? I would like to see Caitlin's too. Hang in there. Sounds like Caitlin and Christian are similar in many ways. > That is funny you both had appointments the same day. Next time you two > should commute together. Be nice to have some adult company:) > > Caitlin will go back next week starting out with a half day schedule. She > only wants to do this for one week, but I will wait and see how she does > medically/physically before deciding that one. Personally, I'd like to keep her home > away from the germs, but I know she can't live in a bubble (nor would I want > her to) and needs to get back to normal in all areas. > > YEs, I know what you mean with the biopsy. Something I don't like to think > about to often either. > > Thank you for her well wishes with her return to school. I pray she stays > stable, she's come a long way already I hate to have anything set her back. > > Caitlin had her first symptoms two weeks before Thanksgiving. > > Take care. > Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2004 Report Share Posted January 28, 2004 In a message dated 1/28/04 10:41:04 AM Eastern Standard Time, knoblefamily@... writes: << Since Caitlin seems to have improved with the fatigue maybe she will handle school just fine. I really hope so for her and for you. Being in sixth grade is being the top dog at the school and it's a fun year for the kids. I'll be thinking and hoping for the best! >> Thanks . She is actually on the low rung of the school ladder in middle school. Loudoun County starts middle school in the 6th grade. A whole new world LOL. <Has your Doctor run the d-dimers test? We didn't have this one run until> I have never heard of this test. I don't remember seeing it on any of her labs at all. Is there another name for it? <<ow great that Caitlin felt well enough to play outside, wonderful news! Go Caitlin. That makes me smile to know that she felt well enough to be a kid! I know must have made you smile too.>> Thank you. Yes, it sure did make me smile. She had a blast:) Hopefully, Christian will be out there enjoying himself soon too. They can have a snowball fight, well, maybe build a snowman - that would be better. <<Christian first got the rash on Oct. 16 and it continued until mid December. He got it everywhere, even the face one time. Towards the end of the rash breakout, he only would get it on his hands (more spots than a rash) and on his upper thighs. Christian's rash never itched. Can I post pictures of the rash here? I would like to see Caitlin's too. >> Did he have the rash everywhere for that long? Caitlin had it all over for about 2 weeks and, at that point, it itched her like crazy. Her face too. Now hands/spots - sounds like Christian. I know people have posted pictures here before. Unfortunately, we do not have a digital camera, etc. to post pictures. I have regular printed pictures in hand. We should try to get together and chat/compare pictures. <<Hang in there. Sounds like Caitlin and Christian are similar in many wa>> Thank you. I think they sound alike in many ways too. Take care. Patty Christi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2004 Report Share Posted January 28, 2004 .. I have posted pics of Nicks rash to the list, I would be very interested in seeing the ones you have. of course I never did think to take pictures when Nicks rash was the worse, that was pre-dx days when i had no idea JRA even exsisted. I never did think to ask about posting pictures... i sure hope it was ok and I didnt break any of the list rules... Georgina.. are pictures ok??? Hugs helen, mom to (6,systemic) Hugs..Helen DH Dan DS's (20)(14)(11)Zachary(9)(6) And DD Yuping Burger, adopted May 9th 2000 DuChang, JiangXi, China DOB 3/29/99 ACR 0-9 mths (11 mths at referral) DTC 7/22/99 DOR 2/25/00 (219 days of waiting) DOT 5/5-5/20/00>From: "katherine_knoble" >Reply- > >Subject: Re: New Mom dealing with JRA >Date: Wed, 28 Jan 2004 15:33:22 -0000 > >Since Caitlin seems to have improved with the fatigue maybe she will >handle school just fine. I really hope so for her and for you. Being >in sixth grade is being the top dog at the school and it's a fun year >for the kids. I'll be thinking and hoping for the best! > >Has your Doctor run the d-dimers test? We didn't have this one run >until going to Dr.G who feels it can sometimes be a good marker with >systemic kids. It has proven to be a consistant marker for >Christian. It went down to elevated when he was feeling better, then >when he started school and the fatigue and arthritis increased it >went back up to the marked elevated level. > >How great that Caitlin felt well enough to play outside, wonderful >news! Go Caitlin. That makes me smile to know that she felt well >enough to be a kid! I know must have made you smile too. > >Christian first got the rash on Oct. 16 and it continued until mid >December. He got it everywhere, even the face one time. Towards the >end of the rash breakout, he only would get it on his hands (more >spots than a rash) and on his upper thighs. Christian's rash never >itched. Can I post pictures of the rash here? I would like to see >Caitlin's too. > >Hang in there. Sounds like Caitlin and Christian are similar in many >ways. > > > > > > That is funny you both had appointments the same day. Next time >you two > > should commute together. Be nice to have some adult company:) > > > > Caitlin will go back next week starting out with a half day >schedule. She > > only wants to do this for one week, but I will wait and see how she >does > > medically/physically before deciding that one. Personally, I'd >like to keep her home > > away from the germs, but I know she can't live in a bubble (nor >would I want > > her to) and needs to get back to normal in all areas. > > > > YEs, I know what you mean with the biopsy. Something I don't like >to think > > about to often either. > > > > Thank you for her well wishes with her return to school. I pray >she stays > > stable, she's come a long way already I hate to have anything set >her back. > > > > Caitlin had her first symptoms two weeks before Thanksgiving. > > > > Take care. > > Patty > There are now three new levels of MSN Hotmail Extra Storage! Learn more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2004 Report Share Posted January 28, 2004 Thanks Helen! How did you post the pictures and where do I find them? Help me through how I go about submitting them, I'm willing to do so just not sure if I should (or can) start a folder for systemic rashes or if I'm suppose to send them to the site. I'm looking forward to viewing yours, just need to find out where they are. Thanks so much. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2004 Report Share Posted January 28, 2004 Helen is correct~~ AJAO is the American Juvenile Arthritis Organization. This year the conference is, indeed, in San Diego from July 22 til the 25th. Patty, because you are in Loudon County you are technically associated with the Virginia Chapter of the Arthritis Foundation which is based in Richmond, but because you live closer to DC you may prefer to attend functions hosted by the Metropolitan Washington Chapter. Helen and I did meet last year at the Holiday Party hosted by the DC chapter. And, as said, we were put in touch with one another through the Foundation. It would be fun to get together. Caitlin, Teddy, Christian and are all the same age. Christian and actually share a birthday! Liz New Mom dealing with JRA Hi Patty. Glad to hear you made your appointment. I haven't met Dr White, but I've had her as an on-call doc 4 or 5 times in the past year, and I like her. She seems very caring and concerned about the patients, even though she'd never seen us before. She has a great reputation. The AJAO is the kids' Arthritis foundation (?American Juvenile Arthritis Org?). I think it's part of the bigger foundation, but it is geared towards kids and their parents. They publish a newsletter " kids get arthritis too, " which I like. It encompasses jra plus many other rheumatic diseases. In our area, they have several local get-togethers a year (3 or 4) that are a lot of fun for the kids and are an opportunity for parents to network. This is how I met Liz . They also have an annual meeting, sometimes national (this year, in San Diego I think) and sometimes regional (last year, in burg). The meeting has seminars, round table discussions, lectures etc for the parents, a bunch of stuff for young adults, and an extensive kid's program, which the kids really enjoy. Our whole family went last year. I heard Dr Gewanter in several sessions, which is why I mentioned him in the other email. I liked what he had to say, and he seemed like he had a good rapport with the kids. I think if you go to the Arthritis Foundation website, you can find info on how to hook up with this group and how to get the newsletter. I agree, we should get together some time. I can say for myself that the first year of this was extremely hard for our family, and would be happy to offer any help I can. I especially think it helps the kids to meet other kids like them, because it's so foreign to them and because their friends don't often understand. hh Groups Links · To visit your group on the web, go to: / · Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2004 Report Share Posted January 28, 2004 In a message dated 1/28/04 3:04:39 PM Eastern Standard Time, helenchollingsworth@... writes: << The AJAO is the kids' Arthritis foundation (?American Juvenile Arthritis Org?). I think it's part of the bigger foundation, but it is geared towards kids and their parents. They publish a newsletter " kids get arthritis too, " which I like. It encompasses jra plus many other rheumatic diseases. In our area, they have several local get-togethers a year (3 or 4) that are a lot of fun for the kids and are an opportunity for pare >> Hi Helen: This sounds like a great organization! Thank you for telling me about it. << I agree, we should get together some time. I can say for myself that the first year of this was extremely hard for our family, and would be happy to offer any help I can. I especially think it helps the kids to meet other kids like them, because it's so foreign to them and because their friends don't often understand. hh >> I, and Caitlin, would LOVE to get together. All four of us Virginians should and anyone who is close neighbors (DC, MD, etc.). Take care. Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2004 Report Share Posted January 28, 2004 In a message dated 1/28/04 3:21:02 PM Eastern Standard Time, liz_smith@... writes: << Patty, because you are in Loudon County you are technically associated with the Virginia Chapter of the Arthritis Foundation which is based in Richmond, but because you live closer to DC you may prefer to attend functions hosted by the Metropolitan Washington Chapter. Helen and I did meet last year at the Holiday Party hosted by the DC chapter. And, as said, we were put in touch with one another through the Foundation. It would be fun to get together. Caitlin, Teddy, Christian and are all the same age. Christian and actually share a birthday! Liz >> Hi Liz: Thank you for the information. Which group are you a part of? I realized Christian and shared a birthday when I looked at the JRA Directory List LOL, they can celebrate together. My oldest daughter shares her birthday with a boy down the street who has been in almost all her classes since preschool (she's 13). His mom and I would always coordinate who brought vanilla cupcakes vs. chocolate cupcakes and/or candy, drinks, etc. That way we never brought the same thing and the whole class PIGGED OUT LOL, they loved Alyssa and 's birthday. Isn't it weird that they are all the same age. Plus the fact that they all live relatively close. I think they are all systemic JRA too, aren't they? We should arrange a get together for the kids and adults or just adults, whichever works out. Take care. Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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