Guest guest Posted June 19, 2010 Report Share Posted June 19, 2010 Cinder,So glad to hear about your husband! I know it's tough for our support folks, tougher on us but they'll never know it!Teri's right, he had an epiphany! Yes, he realized you're going to dump poison into yourself for the next 48 weeks to heal yourself...and it sounds like he's accepted it! This is a good thing, lady. I sincerely hope he can stay the course, from your description of him he can.A weird question, have you asked him? Have you shown him any of the emails from this group? We'd love to support him also whenever we can. Your support group, in my opinion, can be critical in your completing treatment.We all love you, lady, and are proud of you....and your brave husband!SteveLife is much more fun when thought of as a scavenger hunt as opposed to a surprise party. Jimmy Buffett __._,___ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 20, 2010 Report Share Posted June 20, 2010 Yep I have showed him some of them. Most the time he doesn't act too intersted. Not sure why. If he is trying maybe to let me have my privacy. I wondered at one time still do if he did not start up a new email and maybe join one of the hep groups I am in like maybe this one. Like to keep tabs on me. Scared I will like meet up with someone here on the group. He likes to run the show. I am considered a bit of a lose cannon I guess. lol. I am headstrong. So is he. I did send back the paper work that came in that tx bag I got yesterday from the doctor. He said he would read it. I am also going to have him read your book when I am done. I plan on reading some more of it today. I seem to be running from one thing to another lately with no time in between. Well I had better go. I have a fathers day bbq to go to for a friend. Fathers day and birthday. He is gonna be I think 92. Later Cinder Check out datagrey's photos and profile! http://community.webshots.com/user/datagrey Find me on MySpace and be my friend. http://www.myspace.com/datagrey From: schandler21@... <schandler21@...>Subject: Re: [ ] Cinder- you rock! Date: Saturday, June 19, 2010, 11:23 PM Cinder,So glad to hear about your husband! I know it's tough for our support folks, tougher on us but they'll never know it!Teri's right, he had an epiphany! Yes, he realized you're going to dump poison into yourself for the next 48 weeks to heal yourself...and it sounds like he's accepted it! This is a good thing, lady. I sincerely hope he can stay the course, from your description of him he can.A weird question, have you asked him? Have you shown him any of the emails from this group? We'd love to support him also whenever we can. Your support group, in my opinion, can be critical in your completing treatment.We all love you, lady, and are proud of you....and your brave husband!SteveLife is much more fun when thought of as a scavenger hunt as opposed to a surprise party. Jimmy Buffett __._,_ __ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 22, 2010 Report Share Posted June 22, 2010 Excellent suggestion, SteveWho knows, perhaps I should have done that with my now ex!!! It would have been too easy too, because he has his own computer just to read e-mails.Gloria Cinder,So glad to hear about your husband! I know it's tough for our support folks, tougher on us but they'll never know it!Teri's right, he had an epiphany! Yes, he realized you're going to dump poison into yourself for the next 48 weeks to heal yourself...and it sounds like he's accepted it! This is a good thing, lady. I sincerely hope he can stay the course, from your description of him he can.A weird question, have you asked him? Have you shown him any of the emails from this group? We'd love to support him also whenever we can. Your support group, in my opinion, can be critical in your completing treatment.We all love you, lady, and are proud of you....and your brave husband!SteveLife is much more fun when thought of as a scavenger hunt as opposed to a surprise party. Jimmy Buffett __._,___ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2010 Report Share Posted June 23, 2010 I did not have to ask him. Soon after finding out I have Hep C he sat me down and looked into my eyes and told me he was with me all the way no matter what. I sat and bawled. He means the world to me. He is my love song. He felt so bad yesterday because of some bitch I will call her she deserves the name. She calls in sick yesterday and there is like noone to come and take her place so I can get off after my 13 hour shift. I ended up there 22 hours before I could get off work. Then got to come home from 5pm till 12 midnight and come back till 8 am this morning. Then will be back tonight at 7 tonight till 8 in the morning tomorrow morning. 22 hours is way too much.I am sure I have fibro now. I laid down and there was not anything on me that did not hurt. I just laid there and wanted to cry. My husband told me he wished he had a better job so I did not have to work at all so I could just work on getting to feeling better. Yesterday knowing how bad I felt really bothered him. he brought me diapers for my dog so she could sleep on my bed with me. She sometimes pees on my bed. So I put diapers on her and she don't pee the bed. Weak bladder. She loves wearing them too. Wierd dog. Well better get in bed. Oh I had him read all the stuff the doctor gave me from the be in charge program. I thought I had read it all. He found a bunch I missed. Wow. Just like him to not miss a thing. He will make sure I got it right. It also showed me he is really into knowing what is going on. He just was quiet and did not know what to say when I made the comment that if my daughter called and tried to start any trouble to tell her I am going through chemo and am putting some pretty lethal poison into my body and cannot take the time or trouble to deal with anything else right now. Hearing the lethal poison kind of got to him I think. Good night for me good morning to you all. Love Cinder. still reading on the book. Have been reading it at work. I fell asleep at work last night before getting much of anything read. I did not do anything at work till 6 am. I passed out cold. I have no idea what all went on there all night. I felt badly I fell that deep asleep. I was in a chair sitting up and still passed out. Love you all. Check out datagrey's photos and profile! http://community.webshots.com/user/datagrey Find me on MySpace and be my friend. http://www.myspace.com/datagrey From: Gloria <gadamscan@...>Subject: Re: [ ] Cinder- you rock! Date: Tuesday, June 22, 2010, 10:00 PM Excellent suggestion, SteveWho knows, perhaps I should have done that with my now ex!!! It would have been too easy too, because he has his own computer just to read e-mails.Gloria Cinder,So glad to hear about your husband! I know it's tough for our support folks, tougher on us but they'll never know it!Teri's right, he had an epiphany! Yes, he realized you're going to dump poison into yourself for the next 48 weeks to heal yourself...and it sounds like he's accepted it! This is a good thing, lady. I sincerely hope he can stay the course, from your description of him he can.A weird question, have you asked him? Have you shown him any of the emails from this group? We'd love to support him also whenever we can. Your support group, in my opinion, can be critical in your completing treatment.We all love you, lady, and are proud of you....and your brave husband!SteveLife is much more fun when thought of as a scavenger hunt as opposed to a surprise party. Jimmy Buffett __._,_ __ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.