Guest guest Posted May 24, 2004 Report Share Posted May 24, 2004 I am so sorry to hear this! I send my prayers to you and your loved ones God will watch over them and protect them. Praise God for their life and progress. Blessings Dee Dee > I only have a few minutes befor going back to the hospital. As a few of you know, my sister Anne and her kids were in a car accident thurs nite. Anne and elaine were life watched from the accident, Anee was thrown 70 feet and the baby 10ft. The other 3 kids are all ok, just scratches. Elaine is off the vent and in reg peds ward. Anne remains on the vent, had surgury yesterday and is stable at this time. > > Jesus has been with them the whole time, this is the only reason anne is alive. Any prayers welcome. > > Betty > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 25, 2004 Report Share Posted May 25, 2004 Betty, I will keep your sister an her baby in my thoughts and prayers. Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 25, 2004 Report Share Posted May 25, 2004 dear betty, I am so sorry for u and pray and all be well. natasha > I only have a few minutes befor going back to the hospital. As a few of you know, my sister Anne and her kids were in a car accident thurs nite. Anne and elaine were life watched from the accident, Anee was thrown 70 feet and the baby 10ft. The other 3 kids are all ok, just scratches. Elaine is off the vent and in reg peds ward. Anne remains on the vent, had surgury yesterday and is stable at this time. > > Jesus has been with them the whole time, this is the only reason anne is alive. Any prayers welcome. > > Betty > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest guest Posted June 4, 2006 Report Share Posted June 4, 2006 Oh my , sorry to hear about your car accident. I sure hope that things start to get better soon for your family. Your plate is definetely full.. Hugs and Prayers, Babs Chronic illness Chronic Pain You are not alone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 4, 2006 Report Share Posted June 4, 2006 i can't over all of this; if it wasn't so messed up it would be funny. This has been like the worst two months of my life. not to mention all of our medical problems will be with us for who knows how long. car accidents, getting thrown in the crisis ward, untreated seizures and diseased discs, child protective services, i feel like im missing something... its unreal. thank you again for your continued support. i hope to get on here soon and have something positive to say. because i can't think of anything alse that could go wrong. where's that piece of wood...... rob No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no one cares or understands. >From: " Babs " <barbnal@...> >Reply-neck pain ><neck pain > >Subject: Re: car accident >Date: Sun, 4 Jun 2006 10:30:58 -0400 > >Oh my , sorry to hear about your car accident. I sure hope that >things start to get better soon for your family. Your plate is definetely >full.. >Hugs and Prayers, Babs > >Chronic illness Chronic Pain You are not alone _________________________________________________________________ Express yourself instantly with MSN Messenger! Download today - it's FREE! http://messenger.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200471ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2006 Report Share Posted June 5, 2006 Rob, I imagine it is hard to face all that you do. As I said I been down that road many times when everything that could go wrong did. But I can honestly say I know I am watched over. I have never gone to bed hungry and always had a roof over my head. My family near me and to me those are my greatest gifts in life. anything else I receive is small compared to those. Hugs and Prayers, Babs Chronic illness Chronic Pain You are not alone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2006 Report Share Posted June 5, 2006 Rob I am so worried about you and your family. I cannot believe you guys can never get a break. I thought it was suppose to come in threes. Yours has gone well beyond that. Watch your body closely the next week or so. I walked away from my car accident thinking I was just fine. How wrong I was. That changed my life forever and not in a good way. I cannot believe how it can take days or longer for a problem to show itself. I hope you are not going to have any bad afffects from this. How is Rae doing? Has there been any change or Docs to help figure things out better? I hope things are going in a good direction that way. Please don't feel like a bad parent. I have gotten to know you well enough to know that you love your boys and would not hurt them. Get a lawyer to help you with this. I am sure you would qualify for help through Legal Aid. I am bettin that they can get it pleaded down. And we can hope and pray for a dismissal of the charges. I think we all have a story or two we could tell when we felt at our worse as parents. About 12 years ago I was having a very hard time. Couldn't snap myself out of a funk after something bad had happened. I had slept late and my little one had gotten out of our apartment. He was headed to the store up the road. Thank heavens that a gal and her daughter saw him walking along this busy road. They got him and went looking for who he belonged to. I was asleep when the knock came on my door. I felt like the worst parent in the world. And thank heavens this gal didn't call the police on me, I am sure I would have been hauled off. Another time I had lost him at work and called my hubby and he came to my work from his. I almost called the police when he was finally found. He was playing hide and seek.Just hadn't told me he was. He had to have been the most patient kiddo at hiding. I remember just sobbing on the phone one day to my Dad. And he told me that when I was little they could set me on a blanket and come back and the room turned upside down and me no where to be found. My feet hit the ground and I was gone. He always can make me feel better about a crappy thing. LOL Please do not beat yourself up about this. Just do what needs to be done to take care of it and stay strong for your family. They need you! Please let me know if I can do anything. I keep hoping I will come onto this board to some good news from you. It is long past due. Take care, Katrina :-) > > oh man, can it get better soon please! i was in a car accident yesterday, i > got the ticket, even though the guy cut me off in the rain and stopped > short. my tires locked and i slid into him. now, my back is killing me, > but aside from that im not actually too upset. i crushed the back end of > his car (nissan altima) all that happened to me was my license plate fell > off. ( i have a jeep cherokee) i feel bad because its not my insurance > because its my father in laws vehicle; cant afford our own these days. oh > and the guy wouldnt move his vehicle off the road, and he called the cops. > this caused another accident behind us, while we sat in traffic. i am > having a lot of character built each and every day i guess. that was my > first accident that involved another vehicle, ive always been really good at > avoiding those, even if it meant driving into a guard rail or off the road > to miss another car. oh well, i kind of thought it was funny later with all > thats been going on, why not a car accident too. it sure did a job on my > back though. well, i hope your weekend went better then mine. ive printed > your email and hung it up for additional strength and a daily reminder that > god has a plan for me. it also helps remind me to lift weights so that i > dont get my butt kicked if i go to jail; gotta get my marine corps physique > back, and pronto. no, but seriously you helped me to open back up to > god, and trust in him. ive just been praying out of habit i guess for a > little while and not truly trying to communicate with him, so thank you, it > feels good to truly pray and confide in him. take care > > rob > > ps sorry for the whole religious thing for those of you who may or may not > have issues with it > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no > one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2006 Report Share Posted June 6, 2006 Hi Rob so sorry about the accident and hope you aren't hurt from it. Be careful of your back for a bit you may see it flare up later on. Problems don't always arise right at the accident but sometimes show up later on. Hopefully its just tender and sore and you will be ok, keep my fingers crossed for that. I know its tough my daughter had 3 mmm 4 car troubles last year and everytime she kept thinking " WHAT NEXT " it got to the point she was almost afraid to drive to work last winter cause of it all. One of them totalled her car that she had just paid off a month earlier. So she had to go into debt and get another car which she had not planned on doing. But I told her anymore you HAVE to drive defensively cause people are IDOTS out there. I was going to meet her after one accident where a guy in a truck rearended her at a light (trying to run a red light overtop of her car) and an IDOT almost did the same thing to me!!!!!!!!!!! Luckily I saw him coming and ran the light to get out of his way. But GEEZ its a road rally out there anymore. I almost wish they'd make peopel take driving test again every 5 yrs or so just so they'd remember HOW THE HECK they are SUPPOSED to DRIVE!!!!!. Good wishes hope your back is ok. Sharon Group Owner > > oh man, can it get better soon please! i was in a car accident yesterday, i > got the ticket, even though the guy cut me off in the rain and stopped > short. my tires locked and i slid into him. now, my back is killing me, > but aside from that im not actually too upset. i crushed the back end of > his car (nissan altima) all that happened to me was my license plate fell > off. ( i have a jeep cherokee) i feel bad because its not my insurance > because its my father in laws vehicle; cant afford our own these days. oh > and the guy wouldnt move his vehicle off the road, and he called the cops. > this caused another accident behind us, while we sat in traffic. i am > having a lot of character built each and every day i guess. that was my > first accident that involved another vehicle, ive always been really good at > avoiding those, even if it meant driving into a guard rail or off the road > to miss another car. oh well, i kind of thought it was funny later with all > thats been going on, why not a car accident too. it sure did a job on my > back though. well, i hope your weekend went better then mine. ive printed > your email and hung it up for additional strength and a daily reminder that > god has a plan for me. it also helps remind me to lift weights so that i > dont get my butt kicked if i go to jail; gotta get my marine corps physique > back, and pronto. no, but seriously you helped me to open back up to > god, and trust in him. ive just been praying out of habit i guess for a > little while and not truly trying to communicate with him, so thank you, it > feels good to truly pray and confide in him. take care > > rob > > ps sorry for the whole religious thing for those of you who may or may not > have issues with it > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no > one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > > > >From: " Sam & Marisol ..><> " <guijazrose@...> > >Reply-neck pain > ><neck pain > > >Subject: Re: OT for some: For Rob > >Date: Sat, 3 Jun 2006 19:30:20 -0400 > > > >Rob, you are MOST welcome! > >Just hang in there. > > > >God bless you, > >Marisol. > > > > RE: OT for some: For Rob > > > > > > > > thank you, im speachless. thank you for taking the time to help > >support > > me. im in tears - i really dont know what to say. its been so hard and > > everyone has been so great. its hard not to feel undeserving of > >everyones > > support. thank you so much. > > rob > > > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know > >no > > one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ > On the road to retirement? Check out MSN Life Events for advice on how to > get there! http://lifeevents.msn.com/category.aspx?cid=Retirement > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2006 Report Share Posted June 6, 2006 At 11:26 AM 6/4/06, you wrote: >i can't over all of this; if it wasn't so messed up it would be funny. My wife and I have been through similar bouts. Someone gave us a plaque that gives us a little humor when we need it most. " God only intrusts us with what we can handle, sometimes I wish he didn't trust me so much " . Mother Theresa. I pray for better times for you and your family. Dave & Laurie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 8, 2006 Report Share Posted June 8, 2006 thank you, im just trying to take it esy while we have a small break. my court was today, and my trial is at the end of august. social protective services people have been nice. they cAME BY THE HOUSE AND liked what they saw, also WE HAD A MEEeeting with them on monday and that went well. they are going to try and help me with the trial part. at least thats what they say. rae is walking around with her at home eeg test; she looks silly. thank you again. take carew rob <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no one cares or understands. </div></html> >From: " Babs " <barbnal@...> >Reply-neck pain ><neck pain > >Subject: Re: car accident >Date: Mon, 5 Jun 2006 07:17:25 -0400 > >Rob, I imagine it is hard to face all that you do. As I said I been down >that road many times when everything that could go wrong did. But I can >honestly say I know I am watched over. I have never gone to bed hungry and >always had a roof over my head. My family near me and to me those are my >greatest gifts in life. anything else I receive is small compared to those. >Hugs and Prayers, Babs > >Chronic illness Chronic Pain You are not alone _________________________________________________________________ Express yourself instantly with MSN Messenger! Download today - it's FREE! http://messenger.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200471ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 8, 2006 Report Share Posted June 8, 2006 -Hi Rob glad to hear something is going right for you that your court went well for you today. And that they seem to want to help you with your trial. Hopefully it will all go well in Aug. They have her wearing a eeg test thing at home??? Never heard of one of those. Is it supposed to keep checking her out to see what is making the seizures happen??? How is your back doing after your accident?? Does it seem like it will be oek?? Sure hope so, thats not something you needed to happen so close after your surgery, thats for sure. Hope it works out with your wife and they figure it all out soon. Will keep you and your family in my prayers that things look brighter each day. Best wishes Sharon Group Owner- - In neck pain , " Gehle " <robgehle@...> wrote: > > thank you, > > im just trying to take it esy while we have a small break. my court was > today, and my trial is at the end of august. social protective services > people have been nice. they cAME BY THE HOUSE AND liked what they saw, also > WE HAD A MEEeeting with them on monday and that went well. they are going > to try and help me with the trial part. at least thats what they say. rae > is walking around with her at home eeg test; she looks silly. thank you > again. take carew > > rob > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no > one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 9, 2006 Report Share Posted June 9, 2006 thank you so much katrina, so far eveything is going ok. we meet with protective services and they seem to be on my side; even offered to call the prosecuters and talk to them on our behalf. hopefully everything will go ok ; trial is set for aug 31st. thank yu again, and take care rob <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no one cares or understands. </div></html> >From: " Katrina " <sweettoobeme@...> >Reply-neck pain >neck pain >Subject: Re: car accident >Date: Mon, 05 Jun 2006 23:14:58 -0000 > >Rob I am so worried about you and your family. I cannot believe you >guys can never get a break. I thought it was suppose to come in >threes. Yours has gone well beyond that. > >Watch your body closely the next week or so. I walked away from my >car accident thinking I was just fine. How wrong I was. That changed >my life forever and not in a good way. I cannot believe how it can >take days or longer for a problem to show itself. I hope you are not >going to have any bad afffects from this. > >How is Rae doing? Has there been any change or Docs to help figure >things out better? I hope things are going in a good direction that >way. > >Please don't feel like a bad parent. I have gotten to know you well >enough to know that you love your boys and would not hurt them. Get a >lawyer to help you with this. I am sure you would qualify for help >through Legal Aid. I am bettin that they can get it pleaded down. And >we can hope and pray for a dismissal of the charges. >I think we all have a story or two we could tell when we felt at our >worse as parents. About 12 years ago I was having a very hard time. >Couldn't snap myself out of a funk after something bad had happened. >I had slept late and my little one had gotten out of our apartment. >He was headed to the store up the road. Thank heavens that a gal and >her daughter saw him walking along this busy road. They got him and >went looking for who he belonged to. I was asleep when the knock came >on my door. I felt like the worst parent in the world. And thank >heavens this gal didn't call the police on me, I am sure I would have >been hauled off. Another time I had lost him at work and called my >hubby and he came to my work from his. I almost called the police >when he was finally found. He was playing hide and seek.Just hadn't >told me he was. He had to have been the most patient kiddo at hiding. >I remember just sobbing on the phone one day to my Dad. And he told >me that when I was little they could set me on a blanket and come >back and the room turned upside down and me no where to be found. My >feet hit the ground and I was gone. He always can make me feel better >about a crappy thing. LOL > > Please do not beat yourself up about this. Just do what needs to be >done to take care of it and stay strong for your family. They need >you! >Please let me know if I can do anything. I keep hoping I will come >onto this board to some good news from you. It is long past due. > >Take care, >Katrina :-) > > > > > > > > > > oh man, can it get better soon please! i was in a car accident >yesterday, i > > got the ticket, even though the guy cut me off in the rain and >stopped > > short. my tires locked and i slid into him. now, my back is >killing me, > > but aside from that im not actually too upset. i crushed the back >end of > > his car (nissan altima) all that happened to me was my license >plate fell > > off. ( i have a jeep cherokee) i feel bad because its not my >insurance > > because its my father in laws vehicle; cant afford our own these >days. oh > > and the guy wouldnt move his vehicle off the road, and he called >the cops. > > this caused another accident behind us, while we sat in traffic. i >am > > having a lot of character built each and every day i guess. >that was my > > first accident that involved another vehicle, ive always been >really good at > > avoiding those, even if it meant driving into a guard rail or off >the road > > to miss another car. oh well, i kind of thought it was funny later >with all > > thats been going on, why not a car accident too. it sure did a job >on my > > back though. well, i hope your weekend went better then mine. ive >printed > > your email and hung it up for additional strength and a daily >reminder that > > god has a plan for me. it also helps remind me to lift weights so >that i > > dont get my butt kicked if i go to jail; gotta get my marine corps >physique > > back, and pronto. no, but seriously you helped me to open back >up to > > god, and trust in him. ive just been praying out of habit i guess >for a > > little while and not truly trying to communicate with him, so thank >you, it > > feels good to truly pray and confide in him. take care > > > > rob > > > > ps sorry for the whole religious thing for those of you who may or >may not > > have issues with it > > > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to >know no > > one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > > > > > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ Don’t just search. 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Guest guest Posted June 9, 2006 Report Share Posted June 9, 2006 I am so sorry for all the bad luck you have been having lately! I really am! Last year, I got in a car accident the day after finishing physical therapy for my neck. The sun glare made it impossible to see but (knowing from the day before) I was careful and could see the wheels of the car ahead of me. Unfortunately, the guy behind me wasn't that smart. It was a red light and I stopped a few feet from the car ahead of me. The guy behind me hit me so hard I went into the car ahead of me. Both my bumpers were crushed. There was a huge snow bank to the right of us on the sidewalk and traffic to the left. As we got out to call 911 and (stupidly) were standing between our cars, another car crashed into his car and pushed us physically between the two cars. Like you, it was both humorous and pathetic.. Pamala >From: " Gehle " <robgehle@...> >Reply-neck pain >neck pain >Subject: car accident >Date: Sun, 04 Jun 2006 08:24:16 -0400 > >oh man, can it get better soon please! i was in a car accident yesterday, >i >got the ticket, even though the guy cut me off in the rain and stopped >short. my tires locked and i slid into him. now, my back is killing me, >but aside from that im not actually too upset. i crushed the back end of >his car (nissan altima) all that happened to me was my license plate fell >off. ( i have a jeep cherokee) i feel bad because its not my insurance >because its my father in laws vehicle; cant afford our own these days. oh >and the guy wouldnt move his vehicle off the road, and he called the cops. >this caused another accident behind us, while we sat in traffic. i am >having a lot of character built each and every day i guess. that was >my >first accident that involved another vehicle, ive always been really good >at >avoiding those, even if it meant driving into a guard rail or off the road >to miss another car. oh well, i kind of thought it was funny later with >all >thats been going on, why not a car accident too. it sure did a job on my >back though. well, i hope your weekend went better then mine. ive printed >your email and hung it up for additional strength and a daily reminder that >god has a plan for me. it also helps remind me to lift weights so that i >dont get my butt kicked if i go to jail; gotta get my marine corps physique >back, and pronto. no, but seriously you helped me to open back up to >god, and trust in him. ive just been praying out of habit i guess for a >little while and not truly trying to communicate with him, so thank you, it >feels good to truly pray and confide in him. take care > >rob > >ps sorry for the whole religious thing for those of you who may or may not >have issues with it > ><html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no >one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > > > >From: " Sam & Marisol ..><> " <guijazrose@...> > >Reply-neck pain > ><neck pain > > >Subject: Re: OT for some: For Rob > >Date: Sat, 3 Jun 2006 19:30:20 -0400 > > > >Rob, you are MOST welcome! > >Just hang in there. > > > >God bless you, > >Marisol. > > > > RE: OT for some: For Rob > > > > > > > > thank you, im speachless. thank you for taking the time to help > >support > > me. im in tears - i really dont know what to say. its been so hard >and > > everyone has been so great. its hard not to feel undeserving of > >everyones > > support. thank you so much. > > rob > > > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to >know > >no > > one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > > > > > > > > > > > >_________________________________________________________________ >On the road to retirement? Check out MSN Life Events for advice on how to >get there! http://lifeevents.msn.com/category.aspx?cid=Retirement > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 thank you sharonmy back is super sore, but hopefully thats it. this was my first accident that was my fault. usually i ve been able to avoid other cars. ugh gotta run kidas are calling take care rob thank you!!!!!!!! <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no one cares or understands. </div></html> >From: " darkstarzz1019 " <darkstarzz1019@...> >Reply-neck pain >neck pain >Subject: Re: car accident >Date: Tue, 06 Jun 2006 11:45:39 -0000 > >Hi Rob so sorry about the accident and hope you aren't hurt from it. >Be careful of your back for a bit you may see it flare up later on. >Problems don't always arise right at the accident but sometimes show >up later on. Hopefully its just tender and sore and you will be ok, >keep my fingers crossed for that. I know its tough my daughter had 3 >mmm 4 car troubles last year and everytime she kept thinking " WHAT >NEXT " it got to the point she was almost afraid to drive to work >last winter cause of it all. One of them totalled her car that she >had just paid off a month earlier. So she had to go into debt and >get another car which she had not planned on doing. But I told her >anymore you HAVE to drive defensively cause people are IDOTS out >there. I was going to meet her after one accident where a guy in a >truck rearended her at a light (trying to run a red light overtop of >her car) and an IDOT almost did the same thing to me!!!!!!!!!!! >Luckily I saw him coming and ran the light to get out of his way. >But GEEZ its a road rally out there anymore. I almost wish they'd >make peopel take driving test again every 5 yrs or so just so they'd >remember HOW THE HECK they are SUPPOSED to DRIVE!!!!!. Good wishes >hope your back is ok. Sharon Group Owner > > > > > > > oh man, can it get better soon please! i was in a car accident >yesterday, i > > got the ticket, even though the guy cut me off in the rain and >stopped > > short. my tires locked and i slid into him. now, my back is >killing me, > > but aside from that im not actually too upset. i crushed the back >end of > > his car (nissan altima) all that happened to me was my license >plate fell > > off. ( i have a jeep cherokee) i feel bad because its not my >insurance > > because its my father in laws vehicle; cant afford our own these >days. oh > > and the guy wouldnt move his vehicle off the road, and he called >the cops. > > this caused another accident behind us, while we sat in traffic. >i am > > having a lot of character built each and every day i guess. >that was my > > first accident that involved another vehicle, ive always been >really good at > > avoiding those, even if it meant driving into a guard rail or off >the road > > to miss another car. oh well, i kind of thought it was funny >later with all > > thats been going on, why not a car accident too. it sure did a >job on my > > back though. well, i hope your weekend went better then mine. >ive printed > > your email and hung it up for additional strength and a daily >reminder that > > god has a plan for me. it also helps remind me to lift weights so >that i > > dont get my butt kicked if i go to jail; gotta get my marine corps >physique > > back, and pronto. no, but seriously you helped me to open >back up to > > god, and trust in him. ive just been praying out of habit i guess >for a > > little while and not truly trying to communicate with him, so >thank you, it > > feels good to truly pray and confide in him. take care > > > > rob > > > > ps sorry for the whole religious thing for those of you who may or >may not > > have issues with it > > > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to >know no > > one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > > > > > > > > >From: " Sam & Marisol ..><> " <guijazrose@...> > > >Reply-neck pain > > ><neck pain > > > >Subject: Re: OT for some: For Rob > > >Date: Sat, 3 Jun 2006 19:30:20 -0400 > > > > > >Rob, you are MOST welcome! > > >Just hang in there. > > > > > >God bless you, > > >Marisol. > > > > > > RE: OT for some: For Rob > > > > > > > > > > > > thank you, im speachless. thank you for taking the time to >help > > >support > > > me. im in tears - i really dont know what to say. its been >so hard and > > > everyone has been so great. its hard not to feel undeserving >of > > >everyones > > > support. thank you so much. > > > rob > > > > > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual >than to know > > >no > > > one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ > > On the road to retirement? 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Guest guest Posted June 11, 2006 Report Share Posted June 11, 2006 lol, yeah apparently he has me mixed up with someone else. thanks for the support and i hope things are ging well for you dave. i am definately ready for things to start turning around soon. i dont think i can handle anymore excitement in my life i hope to be talking soon about some positive stuff or at least offering up support for other people instead of dwelling on my own issues. pretty muh think ive beaten mine to death. take it easy dave rob <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no one cares or understands. </div></html> >From: Cruikshank <d.cruikshank@...> >Reply-neck pain >neck pain >Subject: Re: car accident >Date: Tue, 06 Jun 2006 09:54:02 -0400 > >At 11:26 AM 6/4/06, you wrote: > >i can't over all of this; if it wasn't so messed up it would be funny. > >My wife and I have been through similar bouts. Someone gave us a plaque >that gives us a little humor when we need it most. > > " God only intrusts us with what we can handle, sometimes I wish he didn't >trust me so much " . Mother Theresa. > >I pray for better times for you and your family. Dave & Laurie > > _________________________________________________________________ On the road to retirement? Check out MSN Life Events for advice on how to get there! http://lifeevents.msn.com/category.aspx?cid=Retirement Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 12, 2006 Report Share Posted June 12, 2006 yeah, finally some good news, im still pinching myself to make sure its real. they said i had a " lovely HOme " and that i seem to be a very caring father, blah, blah,blah. they told me some horror stories of messed up parents, so hopfully things will continue to go well as i dont have 15 kids living in one room and im not telling them to mind their own business; or that these are my kids and ill do what i want. i cant believe people get in trouble with these guys and act like that. im too scared to tell them where to stick it. seems like some of these prayers are starting to get answered. my back is killing me, i might check it out this week; it doesnt feel messed up it just hurts more then usual. she had to wear that thing for 24 hours to monitor her brain waves all day. its stupid cause its just to confirm wheter or not shes having them, and even then it wont show up for her because her father's eeg's were all normal but he still has seizures. we are having trouble getting medical info from her family to help prove the history of seizures in her family. it can only get better, it can only get better..... take care rob No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no one cares or understands. >From: " darkstarzz1019 " <darkstarzz1019@...> >Reply-neck pain >neck pain >Subject: Re: car accident >Date: Fri, 09 Jun 2006 05:13:21 -0000 > >-Hi Rob glad to hear something is going right for you that your >court went well for you today. And that they seem to want to help >you with your trial. Hopefully it will all go well in Aug. They have >her wearing a eeg test thing at home??? Never heard of one of those. >Is it supposed to keep checking her out to see what is making the >seizures happen??? How is your back doing after your accident?? Does >it seem like it will be oek?? Sure hope so, thats not something you >needed to happen so close after your surgery, thats for sure. Hope >it works out with your wife and they figure it all out soon. Will >keep you and your family in my prayers that things look brighter >each day. Best wishes Sharon Group Owner- > > >- In neck pain , " Gehle " ><robgehle@...> wrote: > > > > thank you, > > > > im just trying to take it esy while we have a small break. my >court was > > today, and my trial is at the end of august. social protective >services > > people have been nice. they cAME BY THE HOUSE AND liked what they >saw, also > > WE HAD A MEEeeting with them on monday and that went well. they >are going > > to try and help me with the trial part. at least thats what they >say. rae > > is walking around with her at home eeg test; she looks silly. >thank you > > again. take carew > > > > rob > > > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to >know no > > one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ Express yourself instantly with MSN Messenger! Download today - it's FREE! http://messenger.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200471ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 12, 2006 Report Share Posted June 12, 2006 Hi Rob & Family! So happy to hear the good news too! The Lord is good! I hope Rae is doing better and that the medical issue's get cleared up soon! Some doctors are just clueless and this is coming from a person with doctors IN our family. You can have the BEST education in the world, but without common sense ... you are lost! I hope your back pain starts to get better as well. Keep up your strength and faith. You are in our prayers. Love, Peace and Joy-lumped with Smiles and lots of Hugs to you and yours, Marisol. & Family. ********* Isaiah 42:3 Re: car accident >Date: Fri, 09 Jun 2006 05:13:21 -0000 > >-Hi Rob glad to hear something is going right for you that your >court went well for you today. And that they seem to want to help >you with your trial. Hopefully it will all go well in Aug. They have >her wearing a eeg test thing at home??? Never heard of one of those. >Is it supposed to keep checking her out to see what is making the >seizures happen??? How is your back doing after your accident?? Does >it seem like it will be oek?? Sure hope so, thats not something you >needed to happen so close after your surgery, thats for sure. Hope >it works out with your wife and they figure it all out soon. Will >keep you and your family in my prayers that things look brighter >each day. Best wishes Sharon Group Owner- > > >- In neck pain , " Gehle " ><robgehle@...> wrote: > > > > thank you, > > > > im just trying to take it esy while we have a small break. my >court was > > today, and my trial is at the end of august. social protective >services > > people have been nice. they cAME BY THE HOUSE AND liked what they >saw, also > > WE HAD A MEEeeting with them on monday and that went well. they >are going > > to try and help me with the trial part. at least thats what they >say. rae > > is walking around with her at home eeg test; she looks silly. >thank you > > again. take carew > > > > rob > > > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to >know no > > one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ Express yourself instantly with MSN Messenger! Download today - it's FREE! http://messenger.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200471ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2006 Report Share Posted June 14, 2006 thank you! financial issues aside, im sending rae in for a 7 hour spa treatment tomorrow as a surprise. there is no occassion other then she is very special to me and never treats herself to anything as she always puts the boys or me first. so im excited by that too. take care and thank your for everything. rob in va <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no one cares or understands. </div></html> >From: " Sam & Marisol ..><> " <guijazrose@...> >Reply-neck pain ><neck pain > >Subject: Re: Re: car accident >Date: Mon, 12 Jun 2006 08:50:30 -0400 > >Hi Rob & Family! > >So happy to hear the good news too! >The Lord is good! > >I hope Rae is doing better and that the medical issue's get cleared up >soon! Some doctors are just clueless and this is coming from a person with >doctors IN our family. You can have the BEST education in the world, but >without common sense ... you are lost! >I hope your back pain starts to get better as well. Keep up your strength >and faith. You are in our prayers. > >Love, Peace and Joy-lumped with >Smiles and lots of Hugs to you and yours, >Marisol. & Family. >********* >Isaiah 42:3 > > > > Re: car accident > >Date: Fri, 09 Jun 2006 05:13:21 -0000 > > > >-Hi Rob glad to hear something is going right for you that your > >court went well for you today. And that they seem to want to help > >you with your trial. Hopefully it will all go well in Aug. They have > >her wearing a eeg test thing at home??? Never heard of one of those. > >Is it supposed to keep checking her out to see what is making the > >seizures happen??? How is your back doing after your accident?? Does > >it seem like it will be oek?? Sure hope so, thats not something you > >needed to happen so close after your surgery, thats for sure. Hope > >it works out with your wife and they figure it all out soon. Will > >keep you and your family in my prayers that things look brighter > >each day. Best wishes Sharon Group Owner- > > > > > >- In neck pain , " Gehle " > ><robgehle@...> wrote: > > > > > > thank you, > > > > > > im just trying to take it esy while we have a small break. my > >court was > > > today, and my trial is at the end of august. social protective > >services > > > people have been nice. they cAME BY THE HOUSE AND liked what they > >saw, also > > > WE HAD A MEEeeting with them on monday and that went well. they > >are going > > > to try and help me with the trial part. at least thats what they > >say. rae > > > is walking around with her at home eeg test; she looks silly. > >thank you > > > again. take carew > > > > > > rob > > > > > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to > >know no > > > one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ > Express yourself instantly with MSN Messenger! Download today - it's >FREE! > http://messenger.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200471ave/direct/01/ > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2006 Report Share Posted June 14, 2006 THAT IS AWESOME ROB!! God bless you all!!! Lord knows that Rae deserves it! (sorry if this is out of line but, I'm speaking from what I know of her through you) She sounds like a wonderful Wife and Mother! Peace and Joy-lumped with Smiles and lots of Hugs to you and yours, Sam, Marisol & Family. ************************** ~*~Isaiah 42:3~*~ Re: car accident > >Date: Fri, 09 Jun 2006 05:13:21 -0000 > > > >-Hi Rob glad to hear something is going right for you that your > >court went well for you today. And that they seem to want to help > >you with your trial. Hopefully it will all go well in Aug. They have > >her wearing a eeg test thing at home??? Never heard of one of those. > >Is it supposed to keep checking her out to see what is making the > >seizures happen??? How is your back doing after your accident?? Does > >it seem like it will be oek?? Sure hope so, thats not something you > >needed to happen so close after your surgery, thats for sure. Hope > >it works out with your wife and they figure it all out soon. Will > >keep you and your family in my prayers that things look brighter > >each day. Best wishes Sharon Group Owner- > > > > > >- In neck pain , " Gehle " > ><robgehle@...> wrote: > > > > > > thank you, > > > > > > im just trying to take it esy while we have a small break. my > >court was > > > today, and my trial is at the end of august. social protective > >services > > > people have been nice. they cAME BY THE HOUSE AND liked what they > >saw, also > > > WE HAD A MEEeeting with them on monday and that went well. they > >are going > > > to try and help me with the trial part. at least thats what they > >say. rae > > > is walking around with her at home eeg test; she looks silly. > >thank you > > > again. take carew > > > > > > rob > > > > > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to > >know no > > > one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ > Express yourself instantly with MSN Messenger! Download today - it's >FREE! > http://messenger.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200471ave/direct/01/ > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2006 Report Share Posted June 14, 2006 Rob your so cool! What a neat thing to do for Rae. It can make a word of difference to just have things to take our minds off our troubles. My dad keeps telling me that we can't seem to get a break(My lil one broke his leg AGAIN) and everytime he says it I think of you guys. I wish I could do something to help out. I am so glad to hear some good things happening your way. Like the people that said you have a lovely home. This too shall pass, Right? YOu are a good example to me to keep pluggin along and doing what has to be done. I keep wanting to play ostrich. Thank you for your posts even when they are not happy ones it is good to hear from you and how things are going. How is your spine doing after your accident? Does it look as though you will be ok from that? Please take care, Katrina :-) > > thank you! > > financial issues aside, im sending rae in for a 7 hour spa treatment > tomorrow as a surprise. there is no occassion other then she is very > special to me and never treats herself to anything as she always puts the > boys or me first. so im excited by that too. take care and thank your for > everything. > > rob in va > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no > one cares or understands. </div></html> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2006 Report Share Posted June 17, 2006 good morning, the spa day went very well. she said they were all so nice, and talked with her all day. (My baby is a talker, and im not, so she loved that they gave her some crazy nice flip flops, a gourmet lunch, a 18$ bottle of hair stuff, cuz she got it colored, and styled. she had the biggest smile on her face when i icked her up. it wasn't very expoensive, so i was worried about her experience not being that great but..... she would have been upset if it went bad, she is a sensitive person, she'll take things the wrong way first and find out about it later type person. but all went better then expected; my oldest is out in colorado camping with all of his realitives, and i had a baby sitter for a couple of hours and we went out to eat at olive garden. it was a much needed, tension free day for everyone! I DONT KNOW ABOUT MY BACK. I HAVE NOT HAD IT CHECKED OUT AS I AM STILL (stupid caps l;ock) Waiting for my new pain doc appt. it hurts more, but ive also been more active, with cleaning and school getting out etc. thank you for the post, i could not have gotten this far with out the strength i get from you, and your kind words, so after i get that jam we'll call it even take care > it sucks that we all hurt so much, i get angry when i read some posts, i dont think its fair; whats happening to us. it would be so great if we could meet up (the group) for an annual get together or something, but i know we are all struggling just to get out of bed, let alone paying for our bills and such, you are all great people and it would be nice to meet you all someday. take care rob >Rob your so cool! APPARENTLY I AM COOL ALL THE LADIES AT THE SPA WERE GUSHING WHEN I TOLD THEM I WAS DOING IT JUST BECAUSE AND NOT FOR A BIRTHDAY OR SOMETHING. MY EGO FELT LIKE IT WENT TO THE SPA TOO! >What a neat thing to do for Rae. It can make a word of difference to >just have things to take our minds off our troubles. >My dad keeps telling me that we can't seem to get a break(My lil one >broke his leg AGAIN) and everytime he says it I think of you guys. >I wish I could do something to help out. I am so glad to hear some >good things happening your way. Like the people that said you have a >lovely home. This too shall pass, Right? >YOu are a good example to me to keep pluggin along and doing what has >to be done. I keep wanting to play ostrich. Thank you for your posts >even when they are not happy ones it is good to hear from you and how >things are going. How is your spine doing after your accident? Does >it look as though you will be ok from that? >Please take care, >Katrina :-) > > > > thank you! > > > > financial issues aside, im sending rae in for a 7 hour spa >treatment > > tomorrow as a surprise. there is no occassion other then she is >very > > special to me and never treats herself to anything as she always >puts the > > boys or me first. so im excited by that too. take care and thank >your for > > everything. > > > > rob in va > > > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to >know no > > one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ Don’t just search. Find. Check out the new MSN Search! http://search.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200636ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2006 Report Share Posted June 17, 2006 That is AWESOME Rob!! So glad you finally had a tension free day. You guys deserve it!! Peace, Love, and Joy-lumped with Smiles and lots of Hugs to you and yours, Sam, Marisol & Family. ************************** ~*~Isaiah 42:3~*~ RE: Re: car accident good morning, the spa day went very well. she said they were all so nice, and talked with her all day. (My baby is a talker, and im not, so she loved that they gave her some crazy nice flip flops, a gourmet lunch, a 18$ bottle of hair stuff, cuz she got it colored, and styled. she had the biggest smile on her face when i icked her up. it wasn't very expoensive, so i was worried about her experience not being that great but..... she would have been upset if it went bad, she is a sensitive person, she'll take things the wrong way first and find out about it later type person. but all went better then expected; my oldest is out in colorado camping with all of his realitives, and i had a baby sitter for a couple of hours and we went out to eat at olive garden. it was a much needed, tension free day for everyone! I DONT KNOW ABOUT MY BACK. I HAVE NOT HAD IT CHECKED OUT AS I AM STILL (stupid caps l;ock) Waiting for my new pain doc appt. it hurts more, but ive also been more active, with cleaning and school getting out etc. thank you for the post, i could not have gotten this far with out the strength i get from you, and your kind words, so after i get that jam we'll call it even take care > it sucks that we all hurt so much, i get angry when i read some posts, i dont think its fair; whats happening to us. it would be so great if we could meet up (the group) for an annual get together or something, but i know we are all struggling just to get out of bed, let alone paying for our bills and such, you are all great people and it would be nice to meet you all someday. take care rob >Rob your so cool! APPARENTLY I AM COOL ALL THE LADIES AT THE SPA WERE GUSHING WHEN I TOLD THEM I WAS DOING IT JUST BECAUSE AND NOT FOR A BIRTHDAY OR SOMETHING. MY EGO FELT LIKE IT WENT TO THE SPA TOO! >What a neat thing to do for Rae. It can make a word of difference to >just have things to take our minds off our troubles. >My dad keeps telling me that we can't seem to get a break(My lil one >broke his leg AGAIN) and everytime he says it I think of you guys. >I wish I could do something to help out. I am so glad to hear some >good things happening your way. Like the people that said you have a >lovely home. This too shall pass, Right? >YOu are a good example to me to keep pluggin along and doing what has >to be done. I keep wanting to play ostrich. Thank you for your posts >even when they are not happy ones it is good to hear from you and how >things are going. How is your spine doing after your accident? Does >it look as though you will be ok from that? >Please take care, >Katrina :-) > > > > thank you! > > > > financial issues aside, im sending rae in for a 7 hour spa >treatment > > tomorrow as a surprise. there is no occassion other then she is >very > > special to me and never treats herself to anything as she always >puts the > > boys or me first. so im excited by that too. take care and thank >your for > > everything. > > > > rob in va > > > > <html><div>No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to >know no > > one cares or understands. </div></html> > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ Don't just search. Find. Check out the new MSN Search! http://search.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200636ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2007 Report Share Posted February 21, 2007 Hi Jeannie, It sounds like the other driver pulled out in front of you - probably making a left turn and you hit the side of their car. Too many times, other people will wave a drive through trying to make a left turn and the driver just assumes it's safe to go even though they can't see all the oncoming traffic. I've heard that it's not uncommon for airbags not to deploy. When airbags first came out they were too sensitive and deployed too easily. As for your car, there could be a lot more damage done under the hood. Since it's only been 7 or 8 months since your surgery and it's probably not fully healed. I'm sure your head and neck went back at the time of the accident. This could have cause some damage to your neck. I'm not big on people suing over trivial things, but I agree with your doctor about consulting a lawyer. You don't know what damage has been done to your neck, how long you may have pain from this accident, what kind of treatment you'll need and how long it will take to heal. You should not be held responsible for these additional medical cost when it was not your fault that someone drove out in front of your car when you had the right of way. I don't know if you have a job. If you do, then there's also lose of wages. I'm a Christain and I try to do the right thing. I try to forgive, not be spiteful or get revenge. But you do have to look out and protect yourself. Especially in your case because you don't know what the long term effects will be. Good Luck, Cyndi in MI Abbott <jeannieboo1@...> wrote: Hi I was in a minor car accident last week, I ran into another car-they say I " T-Boned " -and it wasn't my fault, I was wearing my seat belt. It was slow enough that my air bag wasn't deployed, and nothing happened to the other car, or driver. My car lost it's front bumper, but no major injuries, no ambulance required. That nite, my neck started hurting-and since i just had a neck fusion in July, I wanted to see my surgeon, who was on vacation till yesterday. By then, I was really in pain, my neck and below throbbing, and creaking when I turned it, little headaches-I was just letting the insurance duke it out, but my dr. suggested an attorney. He said my neck is still fragile, I need an MRI, he gave me a Toradol shot, and I have to go to PT. He said he can't really tell yet from the xrays what is wrong, to wait for the MRI, which has to be approved, and kept telling me how fragile my neck is, and I should consult an attorney. Has anyone had to deal with something like this before? Any helpful ideas? Thanks Jeannie ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Music Unlimited Access over 1 million songs. http://music./unlimited Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2007 Report Share Posted February 21, 2007 Hi Jeannie, It sounds like the other driver pulled out in front of you - probably making a left turn and you hit the side of their car. Too many times, other people will wave a drive through trying to make a left turn and the driver just assumes it's safe to go even though they can't see all the oncoming traffic. I've heard that it's not uncommon for airbags not to deploy. When airbags first came out they were too sensitive and deployed too easily. As for your car, there could be a lot more damage done under the hood. Since it's only been 7 or 8 months since your surgery and it's probably not fully healed. I'm sure your head and neck went back at the time of the accident. This could have cause some damage to your neck. I'm not big on people suing over trivial things, but I agree with your doctor about consulting a lawyer. You don't know what damage has been done to your neck, how long you may have pain from this accident, what kind of treatment you'll need and how long it will take to heal. You should not be held responsible for these additional medical cost when it was not your fault that someone drove out in front of your car when you had the right of way. I don't know if you have a job. If you do, then there's also lose of wages. I'm a Christain and I try to do the right thing. I try to forgive, not be spiteful or get revenge. But you do have to look out and protect yourself. Especially in your case because you don't know what the long term effects will be. Good Luck, Cyndi in MI Abbott <jeannieboo1@...> wrote: Hi I was in a minor car accident last week, I ran into another car-they say I " T-Boned " -and it wasn't my fault, I was wearing my seat belt. It was slow enough that my air bag wasn't deployed, and nothing happened to the other car, or driver. My car lost it's front bumper, but no major injuries, no ambulance required. That nite, my neck started hurting-and since i just had a neck fusion in July, I wanted to see my surgeon, who was on vacation till yesterday. By then, I was really in pain, my neck and below throbbing, and creaking when I turned it, little headaches-I was just letting the insurance duke it out, but my dr. suggested an attorney. He said my neck is still fragile, I need an MRI, he gave me a Toradol shot, and I have to go to PT. He said he can't really tell yet from the xrays what is wrong, to wait for the MRI, which has to be approved, and kept telling me how fragile my neck is, and I should consult an attorney. Has anyone had to deal with something like this before? Any helpful ideas? Thanks Jeannie ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Music Unlimited Access over 1 million songs. http://music./unlimited Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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