Re: Sensitive -- Arousal and Coconut Oil for Lubrication

[Guest guest]

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I was the one who mentioned coconut oil. I took it out of the contaner I bought it and put it in a smaller plastic container. When a friend told me about it I set it in hot water and it turned to a liquid. To be honest that was much messier. Now I just swab some out (it is hard but not as hard as lard, more like a salve consistency. as soon as it is on the body it melts. I found this less messy then warming it first. I think for a massage it would be great warmed.

I have to agree on the massage. I am a massage therapist and my boyfriend and I do that quite a bit. For us it is very erotic. The coconut oil is nice for that. Just be careful if you are using massage oil that it doesnt go anywhwere. A nice foot massage is great! Jasmine is my favorite. (my boyfriend hates anything that masks the smell of the human body so I dont use it) Jasmine is an aphrodisiac. It dates back to Cleopatra who would have the sails soaked in it and make sure the winds were just right when she would sail to see Mark or is it Marc Antony or is it ...Or at least it was told to me in an aromatherapy class. I do have to agree with my boyfriend on one account. I think if two people are a nice match then the smell of someone can be very arousing. I have always been a smeller. Love to inhale the scent of my children and man.

I think sometimes just down time alone talking and playing can be nice. Good Luck! The object of the game is to have fun. For me it is about the funnest legal activity there is.

gigi <kmabbadi@...> wrote:

For whoever asked about libido -- have your partner give you a massage (both of you naked, natch) with ylang-ylang oil. (I use one by Natural Traditions.) Ylang-ylang and massage are both arousing.For whoever mentioned coconut oil for lubrication, how does that work? The coconut oil is solid at room temp.Cheers,

[Guest guest]

I love massage and have actually thought about going to school for

this. Do you like that profession? Is it a growing one???

> For whoever asked about libido -- have your partner give you a

> massage (both of you naked, natch) with ylang-ylang oil. (I use

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> by Natural Traditions.) Ylang-ylang and massage are both arousing.

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> For whoever mentioned coconut oil for lubrication, how does that

> work? The coconut oil is solid at room temp.

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> Cheers,

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[Guest guest]

Well, I do think it is growing but getting a clientele base I think takes time. Not sure if it is a manifestation of my beliefs or the case. I am now looking for a job in psychology and will continue massaging the clients I have on the side. If you are doing it and don't need to make money for a few years then I think it is a fun and rewarding career. I absolutely love it. For me the inconsistency of the money is debilitating.

What I love is everyone leaves me feeling good. I connect with people in a way I dont think I would in any other field. (I Love working with people) And it is nice touching people all day, both physically and more deeply then that. It is a very nice fit for me.

So try it if it is a passion for you. I lived in Florida and went to school for 7 months. It was fun learning more about anatomy and physiology. Being in the field of psych I took Neuropsychology but really only got a smattering of systems and functions. I have enjoyed it and dont regret learning it. It is nice to know when you are in a relationship as well.

Let me know how you do and what you decide to do.

love to you and yours,

gigikiki_anne65 <kiki_anne65@...> wrote:

I love massage and have actually thought about going to school for this. Do you like that profession? Is it a growing one???> For whoever asked about libido -- have your partner give you a > massage (both of you naked, natch) with ylang-ylang oil. (I use one > by Natural Traditions.) Ylang-ylang and massage are both arousing.> > For whoever mentioned coconut oil for lubrication, how does that > work? The coconut oil is solid at room temp.> > Cheers,> > > > >

[Guest guest]

I would need a steady income so that maybe wouldn't be the best

thing for me to do for a living. I am looking at starting a new

business and maybe WHEN it gets to be successful (Like I know it

will) I could do that for fun.

My beliefs tend to be a bit on the new age myself.

> > For whoever asked about libido -- have your partner give you a

> > massage (both of you naked, natch) with ylang-ylang oil. (I use

> one

> > by Natural Traditions.) Ylang-ylang and massage are both

arousing.

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> > For whoever mentioned coconut oil for lubrication, how does that

> > work? The coconut oil is solid at room temp.

> >

> > Cheers,

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[Guest guest]

Thanks for the suggesstion Me and my hub did just that last night and it got the libido going Just used lotion for massaging though have no ylang ylang oil. That lying naked and massaging sure does the trick I feel like a new person and used the coconut oil also!!

Sheree <kmabbadi@...> wrote:

For whoever asked about libido -- have your partner give you a massage (both of you naked, natch) with ylang-ylang oil. (I use one by Natural Traditions.) Ylang-ylang and massage are both arousing.For whoever mentioned coconut oil for lubrication, how does that work? The coconut oil is solid at room temp.Cheers,

[Guest guest]

Thanks for the suggesstion Me and my hub did just that last night and it got the libido going Just used lotion for massaging though have no ylang ylang oil. That lying naked and massaging sure does the trick I feel like a new person and used the coconut oil also!!

Sheree <kmabbadi@...> wrote:

For whoever asked about libido -- have your partner give you a massage (both of you naked, natch) with ylang-ylang oil. (I use one by Natural Traditions.) Ylang-ylang and massage are both arousing.For whoever mentioned coconut oil for lubrication, how does that work? The coconut oil is solid at room temp.Cheers,

[Guest guest]

Kim,

I am in the same boat, and looking for something too. Let me know

what you come up with

Deborah

> I would need a steady income so that maybe wouldn't be the best

> thing for me to do for a living. I am looking at starting a new

> business and maybe WHEN it gets to be successful (Like I know it

> will) I could do that for fun.

>

> My beliefs tend to be a bit on the new age myself.

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[Guest guest]

It is about 7 grand to go to school. Or that is what I paid 4 years ago and then the time to get established. I dont regret having done it. I will always massage at least on the side. Good luck with the business. What kind are you starting?gigikiki_anne65 <kiki_anne65@...> wrote:

I would need a steady income so that maybe wouldn't be the best thing for me to do for a living. I am looking at starting a new business and maybe WHEN it gets to be successful (Like I know it will) I could do that for fun. My beliefs tend to be a bit on the new age myself. > > For whoever asked about libido -- have your partner give you a > > massage (both of you naked, natch) with ylang-ylang oil. (I use > one > > by Natural Traditions.) Ylang-ylang and massage are both arousing.> > > > For whoever mentioned coconut oil for lubrication, how does that > > work? The coconut oil is solid at room temp.> > > > Cheers,> > > > > > > > > >

[Guest guest]

Thanks for letting me know, Sheree. I'm so happy for you and glad to know I could help.

I haven't been able to make love to my husband since we got past the fertile period this month. I was sexually assaulted (a juvenile delinquent grabbed my chest while I was walking home), my doc had me do some liver cleaning, and I've been feeling sick off and on since. It's my day off, and I spent it going to the bathroom #2 12 times -- ugh! I think my colon is totally cleaned out now, though!

Best,

Sheree <powerp818@...> wrote:

Thanks for the suggesstion Me and my hub did just that last night and it got the libido going Just used lotion for massaging though have no ylang ylang oil. That lying naked and massaging sure does the trick I feel like a new person and used the coconut oil also!!

Sheree <kmabbadi@...> wrote:

For whoever asked about libido -- have your partner give you a massage (both of you naked, natch) with ylang-ylang oil. (I use one by Natural Traditions.) Ylang-ylang and massage are both arousing.For whoever mentioned coconut oil for lubrication, how does that work? The coconut oil is solid at room temp.Cheers,