& Edie

[Guest guest]

Once again I want to thank you both for a couple of specific

reasons...

First, you are beautiful examples of how important it is to think

through decisions, choose what is best FOR YOU, and then go forward

with no regrets. Especially in this crazy journey with

scoliosis/flatback, the mental peace that comes from researching,

praying, exploring options, thinking things over, DECIDING,

proceeding, and MOVING ON are critical to a life that you are in

control of. I think it is really easy to feel like you are a victim

when you go through all of this crap and that in and of itself can

be devastating! YOU are both examples of very strong women who have

created your lives (with all of the hurdles) to be exactly what you

want them to be. Sure it hasn't been easy and it has included a

great deal of pain, but you are both overcomers and creators and it

inspires me and many others who read these posts. Thank you!

Second, you are evidence that it is totally OK for us to choose

different paths and still benefit from the dialogue that leads us to

these paths. While our experiences began somewhat the same, we have

chosen slightly different paths and I have complete faith that we

will all be grateful for the decisions we made...timing,

surgeons, " work " schedules, rehab methods, all of it. We are all

very strong, phenomenal women and it is so great to have you to

sharpen me. You two (and several others on this board) are the

reason that I do have peace about my decision. Questioning

everything - as is my nature - and having a real live sounding board

with experienced answers has allowed me to make the best decisions

for me. Please remind me of all of this in about four months when I

wonder what the h#$% I was thinking!

It is a joy to have come into contact with the two of you and I do

hope that we can all get together some day and walk a few miles

together!

kam