Guest guest Posted April 18, 2006 Report Share Posted April 18, 2006 HI Everyone this abit shameful to ask but is it possible to get candida " round the back " my bottom gets itchy and break out in a red rash that is very sore, could it be thrush? Many thanks for your help Janelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 18, 2006 Report Share Posted April 18, 2006 Hi Janelle: This is also embarassing to answer, but yes, I've had inflammation from front to back during my worst die-off times. Itchiness around the anus can last for a long time, much like the vaginal inflammation. It does eventually improve though. I took a lot of hot baths, sometimes three per day when I was at my worst last spring and summer. Jan > > HI Everyone > > this abit shameful to ask but is it possible to get candida " round the > back " my bottom gets itchy and break out in a red rash that is very > sore, could it be thrush? > > Many thanks for your help > > Janelle > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 18, 2006 Report Share Posted April 18, 2006 Janelle wrote: > > HI Everyone > > this abit shameful to ask but is it possible to get candida " round the back " my bottom gets itchy and break out in a red rash that is very sore, could it be thrush? ==>It isn't necessarily candida growing in those areas around your bottom, because candida grows in mucus membranes in the body. But rashes are caused by healing reactions because the body externalizes healing to the skin to protect vital inner organs. Stick to your diet, do enemas - see the Folder on them - and apply coconut oil to the rash and itchy areas. You can alternate applying baking soda on it (pat it on) and coconut oil. ==>Itching also is a healing reaction by the immune system which puts out histamines that causes the itching. It's not a bad thing, but it is uncomfortable. Also take epsom salt baths and ensure you are having the lemon and ocean sea salt which helps your body detoxify, especially the liver and adrenals. Bee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2006 Report Share Posted April 29, 2006 The first thing I would tell you... go see your doctor. Don't be embarassed at all. Doctors are very very used to situations such as yours. The next thing I would tell you... go see your doctor. to be fair to yourself and your fiance. He is worried about you... make both of you feel better and go see the doctor. Hugssss Jackie > > > I'm too shy to ask my doctor this, but you guys are so accepting, I hope noone is offended. I have not had a period in over a year and my body fat is very low (Tanita said 13% today and if it's off 5% like says, that's scary low! I don't feel like I look that lean though) Can low body fat and lack of periods cause a low sex drive? I'm getting married in 2 months, and I have NOOOO sex drive at ALL. I am a virgin, but I just have no desire to do it. My fiancee is really worried and I am too! I don't want to force myself and I want it to be something that we both enjoy. It's not my fiancee. I just have no interest in anything sexual, and I was wondering if it could be hormonal. Any thoughts or experiences would be welcome! > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2006 Report Share Posted April 29, 2006 I have gone to the Dr. concerning the lack of periods, and that is why she put me on birth control. The periods still have not come though unfortunately. I have kind of broached the subject of sex drive with her, but she didn't seem concerned b/c I had never had sex. It worries me and my future husband though! --------------------------------- New Messenger with Voice. Call regular phones from your PC and save big. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2006 Report Share Posted April 29, 2006 Tara worrying about your sex drive could partly be pre-wedding stress. felicity Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2006 Report Share Posted April 29, 2006 Yes - regular pre-wedding stress, increased further due to expectations of the honeymoon, and losing your virginity n At 08:34 AM 4/29/2006, you wrote: >Tara >worrying about your sex drive could partly be pre-wedding stress. >felicity Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2006 Report Share Posted April 29, 2006 Tara, I just wanted to say that if your doctor is not concerned about this enough to your liking perhaps you could try another. My experience (at age 36, a couple of years ago) was when I asked my ob/gyn, she brushed me off a bit, suggesting I have regular date nights w/my husband. Sure, that would be good, but I was wondering if my hormones were off. She didn't even mention hormones and in fact gave me a sample of bc pills. After reading someone else's post, progesterone would have been pretty easy to test. I think now that dr. was comfortable just w/the physical/medical part of my care, i.e. my pap, exam, etc. Not the more complicated stuff. Now a few years later, I have found out I have some hypothyroid symptoms (like yours low libido, dry hair, skin, tired, cold--not really sick, but not great. I'm not suggesting you're hypothyroid, but it could be something to check out. I'm learning it's really underdiagnosed). Next week I have an appt w/a new dr--endocrinologist (MD, but w/a holistic approach--they have an accupuncturist on staff). So maybe I'll get some answers myself. I've rambled on a bit, but my main point to you is if you feel something is not right, keep educating yourself and looking for a professional who is willing to listen and give you the help you might need. Listen to yourself! Good luck. I hope you can relax a bit and feel better and really enjoy this time of your life. Candace > > I have gone to the Dr. concerning the lack of periods, and that is why she put me on birth control. The periods still have not come though unfortunately. I have kind of broached the subject of sex drive with her, but she didn't seem concerned b/c I had never had sex. It worries me and my future husband though! > > > --------------------------------- > New Messenger with Voice. Call regular phones from your PC and save big. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2006 Report Share Posted April 29, 2006 This is a great point Candace felicity <<<<< if you feel > something is not right, keep educating yourself and looking for a > professional who is willing to listen and give you the help you might > need. Listen to yourself!>>>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2006 Report Share Posted April 29, 2006 Tara, On the sex drive subject... I was a virgin when I got married last year, at the age of 30. I'm not sure if you're asking if waiting so long might lessen your sex drive or if you're eating issues do? Anyway, sex drive aside I've found that " lovin " is a great way to share my heart with my husband, whether I have the " drive " to do it or not. If you want to talk off the board about this feel free to email me directly. heather --------------------------------- Messenger with Voice. Make PC-to-Phone Calls to the US (and 30+ countries) for 2¢/min or less. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2006 Report Share Posted April 29, 2006 Hi Tara-- Another thing you may want to think about. Have you always felt this way? Or has the lack of libido only been since you've been at this low body weight? I realize you are a virgin, but even so, we get urges and feel a certain way when around our significant other even when not participating in sex. Although I am not medically trained, I can relate my own experience, and that is that stress, anxiety, and hormones can DEFINITELY suppress libido. Ask any woman on here who has experienced motherhood!!! A good ob/gyn will listen and take your concerns seriously. A female gyn will understand in a way a man just cannot. You are going through so much...anxiety over an upcoming wedding, anxiety over sex, body image issues, birth control pills, and a low body fat which may well be throwing off your hormonal levels. Jen -- In , Tara Winnett wrote: > > > I'm too shy to ask my doctor this, but you guys are so accepting, I hope noone is offended. I have not had a period in over a year and my body fat is very low (Tanita said 13% today and if it's off 5% like says, that's scary low! I don't feel like I look that lean though) Can low body fat and lack of periods cause a low sex drive? I'm getting married in 2 months, and I have NOOOO sex drive at ALL. I am a virgin, but I just have no desire to do it. My fiancee is really worried and I am too! I don't want to force myself and I want it to be something that we both enjoy. It's not my fiancee. I just have no interest in anything sexual, and I was wondering if it could be hormonal. Any thoughts or experiences would be welcome! > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2006 Report Share Posted April 29, 2006 I've NEVER had a sex drive though n wrote: Yes - regular pre-wedding stress, increased further due to expectations of the honeymoon, and losing your virginity n At 08:34 AM 4/29/2006, you wrote: >Tara >worrying about your sex drive could partly be pre-wedding stress. >felicity Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 Tara, I've been holding off on giving my opinions because I don't want to come across too strong; plus I'm NOT a docotor or psychiatrist, and even if I were I would really have so little to go on, just reading what you choose to share with us on the list. All that being said, I want to encourage you to find counceling. You have concerns and issues that a professional can help you wade through. You and your boyfriend should go. You say you have no sex drive, well it is hard to want to share yourself with someone else when you have such a low self-image. You are an intelligent caring woman. The advise you give to others on this list is sound and full of concern for them and their success. You add much to our lives every day. You have to give some of that care to yourself, too. You said that you tried counceling and " it didn't work " . Well, I believe we choose our auto mechanics with more care than we choose our health care professionals. I know you can find someone that can speak to your heart; someone that will help you see how you can be a beautiful, healthy, happy woman, in charge of your life and happy in your own skin, no matter how much realestate it takes up. Again, my heart goes out to you. I wish I could be of more help. Barbara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 I have to agree with what everyone has been saying... Everyone has different sex drives, everyone has different opinions on what constitutes a healthy sex drive, everyone is different... That being said... I hoping to be midwife as well as a marriage/couples counselor (or sex therapist, as some would call it), so my mind has been churning over all the info that you have provided and what everyone else has said... From what I have read, first of all you have SO many things going on right now. Even someone with a large sex drive would probably find it dimished with everything you have going on right now. You have to go see an OB/GYN or general practioner who is going to seriously look at you with at least half the concern and questions that all of us have been... Low BF wrecks your estrogen and estrogen does help women feel, well, more like a woman, and many woman consider their sexuality a very important part of their identity. So it won't affect you like a testosterone shortage would, which would probably take away more of the URGE for sex, but low estrogen can just make you feel, well, a little off, which can absolutely affect your sexuality. It's so much more than just the act of intercourse that defines your sexuality and sex drive, so keep that in mind... So yes, DOCTOR DOCTOR DOCTOR. That should be your first priority. Then I would look into maybe seeking some help from a marriage counselor or any other therapist. The therapist could help you work thru perhaps the psychological aspect of your low sex drive. There are two assumptions that could be made, especially if you have never felt like you had a sex drive. One, that there is perhaps an under lying physical issue that has been there since puberty, probably a hormonal imbalance. Or two, perhaps there's a psychological barrier. Again, since I don't know what YOUR specific situation is, I don't want you to think that I am just flat out saying it's one of those things, or both... it's just probably what you would want to expect from both your Dr. and therapist. You said you fiancee was concerned about this too... What exactly is he concerned about? I understand this is an uncomfortable topic but is sexuality a part of your relationship now? I absolutely respect and admire your decision to stay a virgin until marriage, and that's going to probably stress you out too because how can you know if you have a 'sex drive' if you haven't actually had a chance to have sex (just always keep in mind that there is so much more to sex than intercourse). So that's why I was wondering if the concept of you and your fiance being sexual persons, without engaging in intercourse, is something that is happening now. And here's another thing... when I don't have sex for awhile, or when me and my detachable showerhead haven't spent some " quality time " together for awhile, I seem to almost forget about sex. So with EVERYTHING that you have on your plate, on top of the fact that you might just not feel the desire or a drive because you aren't sexually active, I'm POSITIVE that it's totally something you can overcome. I would really look into making sure your hormones are ok, getting your period back, and staying in amazing shape with maybe a little bit higher body fat And of course, once you start to get that under control, maybe you could then look into a therapist who could help you with the anorexia and low sex drive, if the drive hasn't solved itself on its own. Hope that helps, I know it's just reitterating what everyone else has said, but we all just want you to know that we are here for ya, and hope you can work thru everything you have going on Re: embarassing question > Tara, > > I've been holding off on giving my opinions because I don't want to > come across too strong; plus I'm NOT a docotor or psychiatrist, and > even if I were I would really have so little to go on, just reading > what you choose to share with us on the list. > > All that being said, I want to encourage you to find counceling. You > have concerns and issues that a professional can help you wade > through. You and your boyfriend should go. You say you have no sex > drive, well it is hard to want to share yourself with someone else > when you have such a low self-image. > > You are an intelligent caring woman. The advise you give to others on > this list is sound and full of concern for them and their success. You > add much to our lives every day. You have to give some of that care to > yourself, too. > > You said that you tried counceling and " it didn't work " . Well, I > believe we choose our auto mechanics with more care than we choose our > health care professionals. I know you can find someone that can speak > to your heart; someone that will help you see how you can be a > beautiful, healthy, happy woman, in charge of your life and happy in > your own skin, no matter how much realestate it takes up. > > Again, my heart goes out to you. I wish I could be of more help. > > Barbara > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 This may sound weird, but doing intimate things seems like a waste of time to me. I always feel gross afterwards and feel the need to shower. Once we actually start kissing and cuddling, I don't hate it or anything. I'm just not really excited by it and feel like I could take it or leave it. I never feel the need to initiate anything and my fiancee is pretty lazy about that kind of stuff. He's not very romantic or into cuddling or anything like that. Felicity wrote: what do you mean never? never at all? do you like kissing and cuddling? did you think boys were cute in high school? are there movie stars that make you feel hot? sometimes when people are freaked out about something they think " never " and " always " and it's not really true, just your mind amplifying the problem how long have you been anorexic? the reason I ask that is wondering if it is physical or psychological not that any specific answer would tell if it were physical or psychological but how long has your body been low energy, low hormones etc? so that would be a physical reason for low sex drive sometimes people might become anorexic as a way to avoid sex or because sex is scary or freaks them out the only scary thing about sex is that it is very very intimate if intimacy freaks you out, sex might how are you and your finance with intimacy? by which i mean sharing deep dark feelings or showing your embarrassing parts of yourselves or being able to tell the truth about things -- like i am or am not in the mood to talk/cuddle/do anything you expect me to do you don't even have to love sexual satisfaction or be in the mood for your own satisfaction to enjoy sex it can just be a very big cuddle, a way of being close and sharing a very intimate activity it makes feeling close to someone even that much better like if you enjoy a really good date, or a really good talk with your boyfriend this is the same idea only it has a special way of making you feel very, very close with that other person there is nothing in the world wrong with having a low sex drive if it is the real you some people are high, some low you just need to sort it out is it physical? psychological? intimacy issues? or is it just the way you are according the " the pathway " aka " the solution " food obsessions (or any obsession -- spending money, alcohol, -- joke--) is partly about not knowing how to be intimate with ourselves which means really accept ourselves just the way we are once we can be intimate with ourselves we can be intimate with others fyi -- sex is really lots of fun:) > I've NEVER had a sex drive though > > n wrote: Yes - regular pre- > wedding stress, increased further due to expectations of > the honeymoon, and losing your virginity > n > > At 08:34 AM 4/29/2006, you wrote: > >Tara > >worrying about your sex drive could partly be pre-wedding stress. > >felicity > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 Just having people on here for support and sharing really helps me more than you guys know! I think it would help me a lot if I could stop weighing myself and writing down what I eat and how many calories I've had. But then, I read the BFL guestbook, and these people are like, you can't eat a banana or peanut butter or popcorn or bread or crackers or even low fat cheese and milk...it makes me feel guilty and I feel like I need to eat " perfectly " . Usually, something like a taste of cake or icing leads me into feeling like the day is " blown " and then I'll stuff myself. I have a hard time with portion control which is why I think I choose to eat the same things every day. I don't trust myself with an open box of crackers or a whole casserole or something. I will eat either none of it or all of it, even if it makes me sick. alysd38 <no_reply > wrote: Tara, I've been holding off on giving my opinions because I don't want to come across too strong; plus I'm NOT a docotor or psychiatrist, and even if I were I would really have so little to go on, just reading what you choose to share with us on the list. All that being said, I want to encourage you to find counceling. You have concerns and issues that a professional can help you wade through. You and your boyfriend should go. You say you have no sex drive, well it is hard to want to share yourself with someone else when you have such a low self-image. You are an intelligent caring woman. The advise you give to others on this list is sound and full of concern for them and their success. You add much to our lives every day. You have to give some of that care to yourself, too. You said that you tried counceling and " it didn't work " . Well, I believe we choose our auto mechanics with more care than we choose our health care professionals. I know you can find someone that can speak to your heart; someone that will help you see how you can be a beautiful, healthy, happy woman, in charge of your life and happy in your own skin, no matter how much realestate it takes up. Again, my heart goes out to you. I wish I could be of more help. Barbara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 Thanks for your input. My gyno just seems to think that my sex drive will just " happen " if I gain weight, but I'm not so sure. My fiancee is worried b/c he doesn't want to go the rest of his life with no sex. I just always seem to be so tired and run down that sex is the last thing on my mind. Neither of us are very sexual people at all. Like I've said, when we do fool around, he's pretty lazy and just likes to kind of lay there. To me, it almost feels like work, which I know is wrong. E wrote: I have to agree with what everyone has been saying... Everyone has different sex drives, everyone has different opinions on what constitutes a healthy sex drive, everyone is different... That being said... I hoping to be midwife as well as a marriage/couples counselor (or sex therapist, as some would call it), so my mind has been churning over all the info that you have provided and what everyone else has said... From what I have read, first of all you have SO many things going on right now. Even someone with a large sex drive would probably find it dimished with everything you have going on right now. You have to go see an OB/GYN or general practioner who is going to seriously look at you with at least half the concern and questions that all of us have been... Low BF wrecks your estrogen and estrogen does help women feel, well, more like a woman, and many woman consider their sexuality a very important part of their identity. So it won't affect you like a testosterone shortage would, which would probably take away more of the URGE for sex, but low estrogen can just make you feel, well, a little off, which can absolutely affect your sexuality. It's so much more than just the act of intercourse that defines your sexuality and sex drive, so keep that in mind... So yes, DOCTOR DOCTOR DOCTOR. That should be your first priority. Then I would look into maybe seeking some help from a marriage counselor or any other therapist. The therapist could help you work thru perhaps the psychological aspect of your low sex drive. There are two assumptions that could be made, especially if you have never felt like you had a sex drive. One, that there is perhaps an under lying physical issue that has been there since puberty, probably a hormonal imbalance. Or two, perhaps there's a psychological barrier. Again, since I don't know what YOUR specific situation is, I don't want you to think that I am just flat out saying it's one of those things, or both... it's just probably what you would want to expect from both your Dr. and therapist. You said you fiancee was concerned about this too... What exactly is he concerned about? I understand this is an uncomfortable topic but is sexuality a part of your relationship now? I absolutely respect and admire your decision to stay a virgin until marriage, and that's going to probably stress you out too because how can you know if you have a 'sex drive' if you haven't actually had a chance to have sex (just always keep in mind that there is so much more to sex than intercourse). So that's why I was wondering if the concept of you and your fiance being sexual persons, without engaging in intercourse, is something that is happening now. And here's another thing... when I don't have sex for awhile, or when me and my detachable showerhead haven't spent some " quality time " together for awhile, I seem to almost forget about sex. So with EVERYTHING that you have on your plate, on top of the fact that you might just not feel the desire or a drive because you aren't sexually active, I'm POSITIVE that it's totally something you can overcome. I would really look into making sure your hormones are ok, getting your period back, and staying in amazing shape with maybe a little bit higher body fat And of course, once you start to get that under control, maybe you could then look into a therapist who could help you with the anorexia and low sex drive, if the drive hasn't solved itself on its own. Hope that helps, I know it's just reitterating what everyone else has said, but we all just want you to know that we are here for ya, and hope you can work thru everything you have going on Re: embarassing question > Tara, > > I've been holding off on giving my opinions because I don't want to > come across too strong; plus I'm NOT a docotor or psychiatrist, and > even if I were I would really have so little to go on, just reading > what you choose to share with us on the list. > > All that being said, I want to encourage you to find counceling. You > have concerns and issues that a professional can help you wade > through. You and your boyfriend should go. You say you have no sex > drive, well it is hard to want to share yourself with someone else > when you have such a low self-image. > > You are an intelligent caring woman. The advise you give to others on > this list is sound and full of concern for them and their success. You > add much to our lives every day. You have to give some of that care to > yourself, too. > > You said that you tried counceling and " it didn't work " . Well, I > believe we choose our auto mechanics with more care than we choose our > health care professionals. I know you can find someone that can speak > to your heart; someone that will help you see how you can be a > beautiful, healthy, happy woman, in charge of your life and happy in > your own skin, no matter how much realestate it takes up. > > Again, my heart goes out to you. I wish I could be of more help. > > Barbara > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 I know what you mean about eating one bad thing... When I was doing weight watchers my leader mentioned something similar to that and said " When people are saving money, if they spend a little too much one day, they don't think 'ok that's it, I'm taking all my money out and spending it right now!' because that doesn't make sense. They still have MOST of their savings, and as long as they continue to keep saving, they will reach their goal of have x amount of dollars' It's the same way about eating too much... if you eat too much at one meal, it doesn't mean that what you had done earlier in the day wasn't good, or what you are going to do later the rest of the day wont be good, it just matters that in the long run you are working towards a goal of overall healthy eating.. It worked really well with WW because it's a point system, but you could do the same thing with calories Re: Re: embarassing question > Just having people on here for support and sharing really helps me more > than you guys know! I think it would help me a lot if I could stop > weighing myself and writing down what I eat and how many calories I've > had. But then, I read the BFL guestbook, and these people are like, you > can't eat a banana or peanut butter or popcorn or bread or crackers or > even low fat cheese and milk...it makes me feel guilty and I feel like I > need to eat " perfectly " . Usually, something like a taste of cake or icing > leads me into feeling like the day is " blown " and then I'll stuff myself. > I have a hard time with portion control which is why I think I choose to > eat the same things every day. I don't trust myself with an open box of > crackers or a whole casserole or something. I will eat either none of it > or all of it, even if it makes me sick. > > alysd38 <no_reply > wrote: Tara, > > I've been holding off on giving my opinions because I don't want to > come across too strong; plus I'm NOT a docotor or psychiatrist, and > even if I were I would really have so little to go on, just reading > what you choose to share with us on the list. > > All that being said, I want to encourage you to find counceling. You > have concerns and issues that a professional can help you wade > through. You and your boyfriend should go. You say you have no sex > drive, well it is hard to want to share yourself with someone else > when you have such a low self-image. > > You are an intelligent caring woman. The advise you give to others on > this list is sound and full of concern for them and their success. You > add much to our lives every day. You have to give some of that care to > yourself, too. > > You said that you tried counceling and " it didn't work " . Well, I > believe we choose our auto mechanics with more care than we choose our > health care professionals. I know you can find someone that can speak > to your heart; someone that will help you see how you can be a > beautiful, healthy, happy woman, in charge of your life and happy in > your own skin, no matter how much realestate it takes up. > > Again, my heart goes out to you. I wish I could be of more help. > > Barbara > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 Well.. Let's say your gyno is right... and I guess we can just wait and see on that for you... And about it feeling like work? Trust me, I lived with my boyfriend for 2 years and there were definitely times when it felt like work.. it was just like 'oh man, I am just not that excited about doing all of this right now'... which didn't mean that I didn't love him or find him attractive, it's just that somedays, I was just too tired and didn't feel like doing ANYTHING... Do you think maybe the fact that your fiancee knows that sex isn't something that will be happening until the wedding maybe that could be why he's not super interested and putting a lot of effort into fooling around? I think maybe you should just work on baby steps right now, maybe just work really hard and getting really intimate and sweet and close physically with each other, and then maybe see how things are a few weeks into your marriage... Just a thought... Re: embarassing question > > >> Tara, >> >> I've been holding off on giving my opinions because I don't want to >> come across too strong; plus I'm NOT a docotor or psychiatrist, and >> even if I were I would really have so little to go on, just reading >> what you choose to share with us on the list. >> >> All that being said, I want to encourage you to find counceling. You >> have concerns and issues that a professional can help you wade >> through. You and your boyfriend should go. You say you have no sex >> drive, well it is hard to want to share yourself with someone else >> when you have such a low self-image. >> >> You are an intelligent caring woman. The advise you give to others on >> this list is sound and full of concern for them and their success. You >> add much to our lives every day. You have to give some of that care to >> yourself, too. >> >> You said that you tried counceling and " it didn't work " . Well, I >> believe we choose our auto mechanics with more care than we choose our >> health care professionals. I know you can find someone that can speak >> to your heart; someone that will help you see how you can be a >> beautiful, healthy, happy woman, in charge of your life and happy in >> your own skin, no matter how much realestate it takes up. >> >> Again, my heart goes out to you. I wish I could be of more help. >> >> Barbara >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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