Guest guest Posted July 3, 2004 Report Share Posted July 3, 2004 Hi Jan -- I don't know why you think Sheila left because of you Jan? She left because she wants to concentrate on her art. She was very devoted to this list, read every post & responded to most of them and it was taking up a lot of her time. I think she enjoyed this list -- but she wanted to pursue her creative outlets now that she's feeling so much better -- which this group helped her to advocate for the right meds etc. Please don't take it personally that she left Jan --and besides you have lots of input on this list -- if you leave we'll be down another good person! take care, - Should I leave? Ok, I wanna say once again I never meant to offend or upset Sheila, but apparently I still made her leave. , if you want me to go so I don't offend other people and they leave too, you can tell me or just cancel my membership, whatever is easier. I don't *want* to leave, but if I run people off without meaning to... I don't wanna make a big deal out of it, but I also don't want it to be as if I am the kind of person who enjoys running people off, cause I am not. Jan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2004 Report Share Posted July 3, 2004 This situation is very difficult because we here do not know the ENTIRE story since this was a conflict on another board. But our loss is great losing Shelia and I don't know what went on but Jan needs to fix this with Sheila so we can continue on. My personal opinion would be for Jan to start her own group since she has very firm opinions. Jan has been on this group in the past and just recently has come back. But if this has caused our Shelia to leave than this is not right. Shelia is one of the longest memebers on this group--longer than I and we need her!!! She supplies some of the best work and it would be too big of a loss without her for all of us involved. Just my thoughts---tina > Hi Jan -- > I don't know why you think Sheila left because of you Jan? > > She left because she wants to concentrate on her art. She was very devoted to this list, read every post & responded to most of them and it was taking up a lot of her time. I think she enjoyed this list -- but she wanted to pursue her creative outlets now that she's feeling so much better -- which this group helped her to advocate for the right meds etc. > > Please don't take it personally that she left Jan --and besides you have lots of input on this list -- if you leave we'll be down another good person! > take care, > > - Should I leave? > > > Ok, I wanna say once again I never meant to offend or upset Sheila, but > apparently I still made her leave. , if you want me to go so I > don't offend other people and they leave too, you can tell me or just > cancel my membership, whatever is easier. I don't *want* to leave, but > if I run people off without meaning to... I don't wanna make a big deal > out of it, but I also don't want it to be as if I am the kind of person > who enjoys running people off, cause I am not. > > Jan > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2004 Report Share Posted July 6, 2004 , On one of the posts she said something about not wanting stress due to my negativity or something similar... That was why. But if I haven't offended you or other people, it is great then. Jan Hodgson wrote: >Hi Jan -- >I don't know why you think Sheila left because of you Jan? > >She left because she wants to concentrate on her art. She was very devoted to this list, read every post & responded to most of them and it was taking up a lot of her time. I think she enjoyed this list -- but she wanted to pursue her creative outlets now that she's feeling so much better -- which this group helped her to advocate for the right meds etc. > >Please don't take it personally that she left Jan --and besides you have lots of input on this list -- if you leave we'll be down another good person! >take care, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2004 Report Share Posted July 6, 2004 Jan wrote: <<On one of the posts she said something about not wanting stress due to my negativity or something similar... That was why.>> Really??? I don't ever remember seeing a post like that from Sheila -- I've never seen her accuse anyone of anything on this list, she's always been so helpful and positive....hmmmm. Are you sure you are not mixing up our group with another group Jan? I was wondering why you directed your post to - which I assumed was me -- since I'm the only here lately -- I've only been here about 6 months though-- happily so I might add!!! I really do miss Sheila here -- she added so much to our group -- it does make me sad if in fact she left due to bad feelings -- she's such a kind soul ~ & I know she wouldn't hurt a flea. Re: Jan - Should I leave? , On one of the posts she said something about not wanting stress due to my negativity or something similar... That was why. But if I haven't offended you or other people, it is great then. Jan Hodgson wrote: >Hi Jan -- >I don't know why you think Sheila left because of you Jan? > >She left because she wants to concentrate on her art. She was very devoted to this list, read every post & responded to most of them and it was taking up a lot of her time. I think she enjoyed this list -- but she wanted to pursue her creative outlets now that she's feeling so much better -- which this group helped her to advocate for the right meds etc. > >Please don't take it personally that she left Jan --and besides you have lots of input on this list -- if you leave we'll be down another good person! >take care, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2004 Report Share Posted July 6, 2004 You brought YOUR fight over to this group--we did not go seeking it and caused Shelia to leave--why don't you two divide the groups up-- you take one and Shelia comes back to us---It was EXTREMEMLY PEACEFUL here before you brought this to our attention. And I am calling it as I see it--- here is not the person your letter is addressed too now is it????---why don't you tell the truth and let us get back to normal!!!!!!! Shelia will come back once you go back to that other group. It's the only fair solution I see. Why should Shelia be without her group and you get both???? tina -- In hypothyroidism , Janaina Viggiano <janaina@v...> wrote: > Wow I had no idea I was such a terrible person I had to be confined in > my own group... nice to know. > > > Jan > > tina83862 wrote: > > >This situation is very difficult because we here do not know the > >ENTIRE story since this was a conflict on another board. > > > >But our loss is great losing Shelia and I don't know what went on but > >Jan needs to fix this with Sheila so we can continue on. > > > >My personal opinion would be for Jan to start her own group since she > >has very firm opinions. > > > >Jan has been on this group in the past and just recently has come > >back. But if this has caused our Shelia to leave than this is not > >right. Shelia is one of the longest memebers on this group--longer > >than I and we need her!!! > > > >She supplies some of the best work and it would be too big of a loss > >without her for all of us involved. > > > >Just my thoughts---tina > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2004 Report Share Posted July 6, 2004 Do you want all the letters?? do you think I research info without back up like you do??? You have not changed at all from the Jan you were before--good try though!!!! -- In hypothyroidism , Janaina Viggiano <janaina@v...> wrote: > What fight? I never fought with anybody. Are you in grade school or > something? I never considered that a fight. I have no idea what " truth " > I am supposed to tell, but you are pretty scary, really. You seem to > have a lot of rage. > > Sheila never said she would come back if I left, but I think if she did > say that, it is a problem for the moderator, isn't it? I am not the one > doing the whole " it is me or her " petty childish drama, you are (I am > not even gonna say Sheila is cause I didn't hear this from her, only > from you). " Getting all the groups " as if they are property to be > divided... > > > Jan > > tina83862 wrote: > > >You brought YOUR fight over to this group--we did not go seeking it > >and caused Shelia to leave--why don't you two divide the groups up- - > >you take one and Shelia comes back to us---It was EXTREMEMLY PEACEFUL > >here before you brought this to our attention. > > > >And I am calling it as I see it--- here is not the person your > >letter is addressed too now is it????---why don't you tell the truth > >and let us get back to normal!!!!!!! > > > >Shelia will come back once you go back to that other group. It's the > >only fair solution I see. Why should Shelia be without her group and > >you get both???? > > > >tina > > > > > > > > > >-- In hypothyroidism , Janaina Viggiano <janaina@v...> > >wrote: > > > > > >>Wow I had no idea I was such a terrible person I had to be confined > >> > >> > >in > > > > > >>my own group... nice to know. > >> > >> > >>Jan > >> > >>tina83862 wrote: > >> > >> > >> > >>>This situation is very difficult because we here do not know the > >>>ENTIRE story since this was a conflict on another board. > >>> > >>>But our loss is great losing Shelia and I don't know what went on > >>> > >>> > >but > > > > > >>>Jan needs to fix this with Sheila so we can continue on. > >>> > >>>My personal opinion would be for Jan to start her own group since > >>> > >>> > >she > > > > > >>>has very firm opinions. > >>> > >>>Jan has been on this group in the past and just recently has come > >>>back. But if this has caused our Shelia to leave than this is not > >>>right. Shelia is one of the longest memebers on this group-- longer > >>>than I and we need her!!! > >>> > >>>She supplies some of the best work and it would be too big of a > >>> > >>> > >loss > > > > > >>>without her for all of us involved. > >>> > >>>Just my thoughts---tina > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2004 Report Share Posted July 9, 2004 Maybe that comment was on the goodbye to the other group - I do get them all in the same inbox. Jan Hodgson wrote: >Jan wrote: ><<On one of the posts she said something about not wanting stress due to >my negativity or something similar... That was why.>> > >Really??? I don't ever remember seeing a post like that from Sheila -- I've never seen her accuse anyone of anything on this list, she's always been so helpful and positive....hmmmm. > >Are you sure you are not mixing up our group with another group Jan? I was wondering why you directed your post to - which I assumed was me -- since I'm the only here lately -- I've only been here about 6 months though-- happily so I might add!!! > >I really do miss Sheila here -- she added so much to our group -- it does make me sad if in fact she left due to bad feelings -- she's such a kind soul ~ & I know she wouldn't hurt a flea. > > > > Re: Jan - Should I leave? > > > , > > On one of the posts she said something about not wanting stress due to > my negativity or something similar... That was why. > > But if I haven't offended you or other people, it is great then. > > > Jan > > Hodgson wrote: > > >Hi Jan -- > >I don't know why you think Sheila left because of you Jan? > > > >She left because she wants to concentrate on her art. She was very devoted to this list, read every post & responded to most of them and it was taking up a lot of her time. I think she enjoyed this list -- but she wanted to pursue her creative outlets now that she's feeling so much better -- which this group helped her to advocate for the right meds etc. > > > >Please don't take it personally that she left Jan --and besides you have lots of input on this list -- if you leave we'll be down another good person! > >take care, > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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