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Hi Jan --

I don't know why you think Sheila left because of you Jan?

She left because she wants to concentrate on her art. She was very devoted to

this list, read every post & responded to most of them and it was taking up a

lot of her time. I think she enjoyed this list -- but she wanted to pursue her

creative outlets now that she's feeling so much better -- which this group

helped her to advocate for the right meds etc.

Please don't take it personally that she left Jan --and besides you have lots of

input on this list -- if you leave we'll be down another good person!

take care,

- Should I leave?

Ok, I wanna say once again I never meant to offend or upset Sheila, but

apparently I still made her leave. , if you want me to go so I

don't offend other people and they leave too, you can tell me or just

cancel my membership, whatever is easier. I don't *want* to leave, but

if I run people off without meaning to... I don't wanna make a big deal

out of it, but I also don't want it to be as if I am the kind of person

who enjoys running people off, cause I am not.

Jan

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This situation is very difficult because we here do not know the

ENTIRE story since this was a conflict on another board.

But our loss is great losing Shelia and I don't know what went on but

Jan needs to fix this with Sheila so we can continue on.

My personal opinion would be for Jan to start her own group since she

has very firm opinions.

Jan has been on this group in the past and just recently has come

back. But if this has caused our Shelia to leave than this is not

right. Shelia is one of the longest memebers on this group--longer

than I and we need her!!!

She supplies some of the best work and it would be too big of a loss

without her for all of us involved.

Just my thoughts---tina

> Hi Jan --

> I don't know why you think Sheila left because of you Jan?

>

> She left because she wants to concentrate on her art. She was very

devoted to this list, read every post & responded to most of them and

it was taking up a lot of her time. I think she enjoyed this list --

but she wanted to pursue her creative outlets now that she's feeling

so much better -- which this group helped her to advocate for the

right meds etc.

>

> Please don't take it personally that she left Jan --and besides you

have lots of input on this list -- if you leave we'll be down another

good person!

> take care,

>

> - Should I leave?

>

>

> Ok, I wanna say once again I never meant to offend or upset

Sheila, but

> apparently I still made her leave. , if you want me to go so

I

> don't offend other people and they leave too, you can tell me or

just

> cancel my membership, whatever is easier. I don't *want* to

leave, but

> if I run people off without meaning to... I don't wanna make a

big deal

> out of it, but I also don't want it to be as if I am the kind of

person

> who enjoys running people off, cause I am not.

>

> Jan

>

>

>

>

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,

On one of the posts she said something about not wanting stress due to

my negativity or something similar... That was why.

But if I haven't offended you or other people, it is great then.

Jan

Hodgson wrote:

>Hi Jan --

>I don't know why you think Sheila left because of you Jan?

>

>She left because she wants to concentrate on her art. She was very devoted to

this list, read every post & responded to most of them and it was taking up a

lot of her time. I think she enjoyed this list -- but she wanted to pursue her

creative outlets now that she's feeling so much better -- which this group

helped her to advocate for the right meds etc.

>

>Please don't take it personally that she left Jan --and besides you have lots

of input on this list -- if you leave we'll be down another good person!

>take care,

>

>

>

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Jan wrote:

<<On one of the posts she said something about not wanting stress due to

my negativity or something similar... That was why.>>

Really??? I don't ever remember seeing a post like that from Sheila -- I've

never seen her accuse anyone of anything on this list, she's always been so

helpful and positive....hmmmm.

Are you sure you are not mixing up our group with another group Jan? I was

wondering why you directed your post to - which I assumed was me -- since

I'm the only here lately -- I've only been here about 6 months though--

happily so I might add!!!

I really do miss Sheila here -- she added so much to our group -- it does make

me sad if in fact she left due to bad feelings -- she's such a kind soul ~ & I

know she wouldn't hurt a flea.

Re: Jan - Should I leave?

,

On one of the posts she said something about not wanting stress due to

my negativity or something similar... That was why.

But if I haven't offended you or other people, it is great then.

Jan

Hodgson wrote:

>Hi Jan --

>I don't know why you think Sheila left because of you Jan?

>

>She left because she wants to concentrate on her art. She was very devoted

to this list, read every post & responded to most of them and it was taking up a

lot of her time. I think she enjoyed this list -- but she wanted to pursue her

creative outlets now that she's feeling so much better -- which this group

helped her to advocate for the right meds etc.

>

>Please don't take it personally that she left Jan --and besides you have lots

of input on this list -- if you leave we'll be down another good person!

>take care,

>

>

>

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You brought YOUR fight over to this group--we did not go seeking it

and caused Shelia to leave--why don't you two divide the groups up--

you take one and Shelia comes back to us---It was EXTREMEMLY PEACEFUL

here before you brought this to our attention.

And I am calling it as I see it--- here is not the person your

letter is addressed too now is it????---why don't you tell the truth

and let us get back to normal!!!!!!!

Shelia will come back once you go back to that other group. It's the

only fair solution I see. Why should Shelia be without her group and

you get both????

tina

-- In hypothyroidism , Janaina Viggiano <janaina@v...>

wrote:

> Wow I had no idea I was such a terrible person I had to be confined

in

> my own group... nice to know.

>

>

> Jan

>

> tina83862 wrote:

>

> >This situation is very difficult because we here do not know the

> >ENTIRE story since this was a conflict on another board.

> >

> >But our loss is great losing Shelia and I don't know what went on

but

> >Jan needs to fix this with Sheila so we can continue on.

> >

> >My personal opinion would be for Jan to start her own group since

she

> >has very firm opinions.

> >

> >Jan has been on this group in the past and just recently has come

> >back. But if this has caused our Shelia to leave than this is not

> >right. Shelia is one of the longest memebers on this group--longer

> >than I and we need her!!!

> >

> >She supplies some of the best work and it would be too big of a

loss

> >without her for all of us involved.

> >

> >Just my thoughts---tina

> >

> >

> >

> >

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Do you want all the letters?? do you think I research info without

back up like you do???

You have not changed at all from the Jan you were before--good try

though!!!!

-- In hypothyroidism , Janaina Viggiano <janaina@v...>

wrote:

> What fight? I never fought with anybody. Are you in grade school or

> something? I never considered that a fight. I have no idea

what " truth "

> I am supposed to tell, but you are pretty scary, really. You seem

to

> have a lot of rage.

>

> Sheila never said she would come back if I left, but I think if she

did

> say that, it is a problem for the moderator, isn't it? I am not

the one

> doing the whole " it is me or her " petty childish drama, you are (I

am

> not even gonna say Sheila is cause I didn't hear this from her,

only

> from you). " Getting all the groups " as if they are property to be

> divided...

>

>

> Jan

>

> tina83862 wrote:

>

> >You brought YOUR fight over to this group--we did not go seeking

it

> >and caused Shelia to leave--why don't you two divide the groups up-

-

> >you take one and Shelia comes back to us---It was EXTREMEMLY

PEACEFUL

> >here before you brought this to our attention.

> >

> >And I am calling it as I see it--- here is not the person

your

> >letter is addressed too now is it????---why don't you tell the

truth

> >and let us get back to normal!!!!!!!

> >

> >Shelia will come back once you go back to that other group. It's

the

> >only fair solution I see. Why should Shelia be without her group

and

> >you get both????

> >

> >tina

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >-- In hypothyroidism , Janaina Viggiano

<janaina@v...>

> >wrote:

> >

> >

> >>Wow I had no idea I was such a terrible person I had to be

confined

> >>

> >>

> >in

> >

> >

> >>my own group... nice to know.

> >>

> >>

> >>Jan

> >>

> >>tina83862 wrote:

> >>

> >>

> >>

> >>>This situation is very difficult because we here do not know the

> >>>ENTIRE story since this was a conflict on another board.

> >>>

> >>>But our loss is great losing Shelia and I don't know what went

on

> >>>

> >>>

> >but

> >

> >

> >>>Jan needs to fix this with Sheila so we can continue on.

> >>>

> >>>My personal opinion would be for Jan to start her own group

since

> >>>

> >>>

> >she

> >

> >

> >>>has very firm opinions.

> >>>

> >>>Jan has been on this group in the past and just recently has

come

> >>>back. But if this has caused our Shelia to leave than this is

not

> >>>right. Shelia is one of the longest memebers on this group--

longer

> >>>than I and we need her!!!

> >>>

> >>>She supplies some of the best work and it would be too big of a

> >>>

> >>>

> >loss

> >

> >

> >>>without her for all of us involved.

> >>>

> >>>Just my thoughts---tina

> >>>

> >>>

> >>>

> >>>

> >>>

> >>>

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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Maybe that comment was on the goodbye to the other group - I do get them

all in the same inbox.

Jan

Hodgson wrote:

>Jan wrote:

><<On one of the posts she said something about not wanting stress due to

>my negativity or something similar... That was why.>>

>

>Really??? I don't ever remember seeing a post like that from Sheila -- I've

never seen her accuse anyone of anything on this list, she's always been so

helpful and positive....hmmmm.

>

>Are you sure you are not mixing up our group with another group Jan? I was

wondering why you directed your post to - which I assumed was me -- since

I'm the only here lately -- I've only been here about 6 months though--

happily so I might add!!!

>

>I really do miss Sheila here -- she added so much to our group -- it does make

me sad if in fact she left due to bad feelings -- she's such a kind soul ~ & I

know she wouldn't hurt a flea.

>

>

>

> Re: Jan - Should I leave?

>

>

> ,

>

> On one of the posts she said something about not wanting stress due to

> my negativity or something similar... That was why.

>

> But if I haven't offended you or other people, it is great then.

>

>

> Jan

>

> Hodgson wrote:

>

> >Hi Jan --

> >I don't know why you think Sheila left because of you Jan?

> >

> >She left because she wants to concentrate on her art. She was very devoted

to this list, read every post & responded to most of them and it was taking up a

lot of her time. I think she enjoyed this list -- but she wanted to pursue her

creative outlets now that she's feeling so much better -- which this group

helped her to advocate for the right meds etc.

> >

> >Please don't take it personally that she left Jan --and besides you have

lots of input on this list -- if you leave we'll be down another good person!

> >take care,

> >

> >

> >

>

>

>

>

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