Re: Sorry Debby, I thought nuts were ok (got confused with SC Diet)

[Guest guest]

--- Kerry Lo Bosco <mrsulu2001@...> wrote:

> Yes, you were a little too blunt. Everyone makes

> mistakes and now I

> realize I have to stick to the diet completely. I

> thought this site

> was for support not harsh criticism. Kerry

I think you should go back and be sure to read Bee's

required reading on the basics of the diet. I'd love

to offer you support but it's kind of hard to support

someone who doesn't read the material provided by Bee

as required reading.

I don't think support should equal enabling and

sometimes GREAT support can be a good kick in the butt

with a ballet shoe, when needed.

Here is a direct link to the article:

http://f2.grp.fs.com/v1/wGzpQxPr2tPaFcPeC8j4rz3MfYwxFdVsplixBx72w7Fa8y-52kq\

g24wRcxLwHi6ZimzPA5UVB7QSAk_i0QrplxVQF8ktT8I1J3fT/A%29%20Bee%27s%20Candida%20Art\

icles/A%29%20How%20to%20Successfully%20Overcome%20Candida.htm

Luv,

Debby

San , CA

Website for my son Hunter Hudson, born 10/11/04:

http://debbypadilla.0catch.com/hunter/

[Guest guest]

Well, Kerry, generally Bee and the moderators try not to be blunt but

rather encouraging. Realize that some people are under a great deal of

stress and pain and may not come across as pleasant as others. We do our

best but being sick often brings out the worst in people.

The files section is there for you; please take the time to read as much

as possible and realize it is the way to being well. It doesn't happen

in a day, either; that is the reason we're here - to encourage each other

a little. But the closer you follow Bee's recommendations, the better it

will get. Many of us have made vast improvements already. It's taken me

two years but I seem to have made it.

Zack

On Wed, 8 Feb 2006, Kerry Lo Bosco wrote:

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> Yes, you were a little too blunt. Everyone makes mistakes and now I

> realize I have to stick to the diet completely. I thought this site

> was for support not harsh criticism. Kerry

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[Guest guest]

Hi Kerry. When I first joined this site a little over a month ago, I

too had to revise the 'anti-candida diet' I had been on for the

previous 2 months, as it contained many things not allowed on Bee's

diet. It was a bit confusing (and also frustrating!) at first, as I

had paid good money to see a nutritionist to put me on an effective

anti-candida plan, yet felt I hadn't been making much progress.

In the past month that I have followed Bee's diet religiously, I've

been making steady progress (some of my symptoms have completely

disappeared, the rest have significantly improved) - now I honestly

can see the light at the end of the tunnel. I don't know how long I

have to follow this regime for, but the funny thing is, once you

realise that your body is healing as a direct consequence of what you

eat, it changes your whole perspective and really does become more

than just a diet you have to stick to begrdudgingly - it becomes a new

positive lifestyle. Well, that's where I am at anyway :-)

There's is a LOT of info in the files - it took me a while to digest

it all, and even now I still have to go back to read them every now

and then to check up on certain things. Take your time, and don't be

afraid to ask questions to help you on your way. Though I might not

post much, this site has proven a godsend for me.

Mike

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> Yes, you were a little too blunt. Everyone makes mistakes and now I

> realize I have to stick to the diet completely. I thought this site

> was for support not harsh criticism. Kerry

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[Guest guest]

> Yes, you were a little too blunt. Everyone makes mistakes and now

I realize I have to stick to the diet completely. I thought this

site was for support not harsh criticism. Kerry

==>Dearest Kerry. I apologize for Debby. She is also struggling and

sometimes when a person IS following the diet and program, and

they've had to sacrifice to accomplish what they have, they can

become frustrated with others. I feel that way sometimes myself.

But we all have to remember that this is a horrible disease and

nerves can be on the edge. Please forgive Debby Kerry. I've always

found her to be very kind and understanding so this is not a normal

response from her. Let's all support her too! She needs us.

Lots Hugs to you Kerry, and to Debby and to everyone,

Bee

[Guest guest]

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> > Yes, you were a little too blunt. Everyone makes mistakes and now I

> > realize I have to stick to the diet completely. I thought this site

> > was for support not harsh criticism. Kerry

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[Guest guest]

--- Bee Wilder <beeisbuzzing2003@...> wrote:

> ==>Dearest Kerry. I apologize for Debby. She is

> also struggling and

> sometimes when a person IS following the diet and

> program, and

> they've had to sacrifice to accomplish what they

> have, they can

> become frustrated with others.

I just want to say that my post was not intended to

offend anyone, but I am a straight shooter when it

comes to talking to people.. sometimes people need the

truth sugar coated but that is not my thing.

I truly believe that everyone should give Bee the

courtesy to at least read her introductory file and

info on the diet before posting.. I think it's rude to

post without doing at least that.

I made sure I read every file that Bee sent me before

posting. I don't understand where Bee gets the

patience from to help people who won't even help

themselves and read the info first... she must be a

Saint.

Luv,

Debby

San , CA

Website for my son Hunter Hudson, born 10/11/04:

http://debbypadilla.0catch.com/hunter/

[Guest guest]

I truly believe that everyone should give Bee the

courtesy to at least read her introductory file and

info on the diet before posting.. I think it's rude to

post without doing at least that.

Debby,

Please keep in mind that the BEGINNING of the Candida

diet is different than the one later on, as you get

the candida under control. I know that Bee adds some

grains and nuts as things get under control and this

can be confusing to people. Also, we are all at a

different stage in this and may post about the diet in

the later stages, like myself.

My Candida is under control, have had SEVERAL tests

using different methods, all came out negative

repeatedly, not that tests are perfectly accurate, but

I have lost the symptoms. However, I still have much

healing to do, as my adrenals are somewhat shot, etc.

etc. So please allow for differing stages on the

diet. Juli ps. Also, there is so much to read, and

we can forget!!!

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[Guest guest]

>Thank you Juli . I know I read somewhere that some nuts are

OK. I have read mostly everything in the files, but as time goes by

I tend to forget. I was feeling better, that is why I added the

nuts. I think my problem came from the rasins. Thanks for your

support. Kerry

> I truly believe that everyone should give Bee the

> courtesy to at least read her introductory file and

> info on the diet before posting.. I think it's rude to

> post without doing at least that.

>

> Debby,

>

> Please keep in mind that the BEGINNING of the Candida

> diet is different than the one later on, as you get

> the candida under control. I know that Bee adds some

> grains and nuts as things get under control and this

> can be confusing to people. Also, we are all at a

> different stage in this and may post about the diet in

> the later stages, like myself.

>

> My Candida is under control, have had SEVERAL tests

> using different methods, all came out negative

> repeatedly, not that tests are perfectly accurate, but

> I have lost the symptoms. However, I still have much

> healing to do, as my adrenals are somewhat shot, etc.

> etc. So please allow for differing stages on the

> diet. Juli ps. Also, there is so much to read, and

> we can forget!!!

>

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[Guest guest]

Dear Debby,

I understand how you did not intend to offend anyone, and there is

nothing wrong with being a straight shooter. The truth can sometimes

wake people UP. lol!

I agree with you that everyone should read the files, however I have

found some people are either too sick or not good at reading as

well. Sometimes we do need to help them through the information step

by step.

Hugs, Bee

Debby wrote;

> I just want to say that my post was not intended to

> offend anyone, but I am a straight shooter when it

> comes to talking to people.. sometimes people need the

> truth sugar coated but that is not my thing.

>

> I truly believe that everyone should give Bee the

> courtesy to at least read her introductory file and

> info on the diet before posting.. I think it's rude to

> post without doing at least that.

>

> I made sure I read every file that Bee sent me before

> posting. I don't understand where Bee gets the

> patience from to help people who won't even help

> themselves and read the info first... she must be a

> Saint.

[Guest guest]

--- Juli <rank35@...> wrote:

> Please keep in mind that the BEGINNING of the

> Candida

> diet is different than the one later on, as you get

> the candida under control. I know that Bee adds

This person stated that they couldn't see the light at

the end of the tunnel yet they weren't following the

diet - they clearly were not ready for a later stage

of the diet.

It occurred to me that they either didn't read the

required reading or they didn't think the rules

applied to them or that they could bend them.

Sorry but to me if you don't follow the plan because

you neglected to read up on it or thought you could

bend the rules, I don't have much sympathy.

To me I would be asking that person why they didn't

read the rules thoroughly or why they cheated. I

don't think it's very helpful to give a person like

that a pat on the back - to me that is enabling.

Everyone here has a choice of how they follow the plan

to the letter, and that they read the required

reading. If you make a bad choice please be an adult

and take accountability for your own actions instead

of blaming the diet you weren't following in the first

place.

Luv,

Debby

San , CA

Website for my son Hunter Hudson, born 10/11/04:

http://debbypadilla.0catch.com/hunter/

[Guest guest]

--- Bee Wilder <beeisbuzzing2003@...> wrote:

> I agree with you that everyone should read the

> files, however I have

> found some people are either too sick or not good at

> reading as

> well. Sometimes we do need to help them through the

> information step

> by step.

Hi Bee,

I don't think there is anything wrong with helping

people step by step.. but definitely they can help

themselves too, you know?

Luv,

Debby

San , CA

Website for my son Hunter Hudson, born 10/11/04:

http://debbypadilla.0catch.com/hunter/

[Guest guest]

I agree with you Debby. People can help themselves too. Compassion

and understanding go a long ways however.

Luv, Bee

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> I don't think there is anything wrong with helping

> people step by step.. but definitely they can help

> themselves too, you know?