RE: Very personal question regarding intimacy

[Guest guest]

, we can talk in detail privately, but I have felt the same guilt and

protectiveness of those men I loved after I found I had Lyme and Ehrlichia.

Not to mention, the 35 years I faithfully gave blood. oups.

As in AIDS, it is easier as a woman to receive than to give our plague, but

givable. But right now in our predicament it is all about us and our health

- at least that's the way I have had to " settle " it in my mind. So if there

is anyway he can compromise your health, if it were me, I would NOT do it.

I can try and call later,

nancy

_____

From:

[mailto: ] On Behalf Of MG

Sent: Tuesday, September 07, 2010 12:09 PM

Subject: [ ] Very personal question regarding intimacy

Bright Blessings Everyone

I have a personal quqestion and my apologies in advance for anyone taking

offense. I have a boyfriend with whom we had unprotected relations 3 times

before knowing that i had Lyme(My Co's are Bart/Bab). Then used protection

etc because my guilt was hanging heavy on me of possible transmission to him

once diagnosed. We separated for awhile due to his own issues from his past,

but he is working on those and is still supporting me as i support him in

his journey to become whole.

I reminded him that we needed to be safe or just merely practice our tantra

love instead. He would rather forego protection while just not releasing

inside of me. i just lay and cry afterward knowing that it is his concious

choice but I feel horrible and also scared that anything he has that might

cross to me as far as just bacteria would cause me more grief or that he

will get lyme. I need ideas on how to approach this if anyone has good

suggestions. Anyone else feel this way or have this issue? And I meditate,

vibrate and raise energy as a Tantrika so my libido(very infrequently) is

still in tact through this....wish it was my brain instead lol. He is having

igenex testing in 3 weeks, but is not symptomatic.

Namaste

[Guest guest]

,

 

I look today off because i crashed yesterday so im here and welcome your call.

Hugs

From: <wilson33@...>

Subject: RE: [ ] Very personal question regarding intimacy

Date: Tuesday, September 7, 2010, 12:18 PM

 

, we can talk in detail privately, but I have felt the same guilt and

protectiveness of those men I loved after I found I had Lyme and Ehrlichia.

Not to mention, the 35 years I faithfully gave blood. oups.

As in AIDS, it is easier as a woman to receive than to give our plague, but

givable. But right now in our predicament it is all about us and our health

- at least that's the way I have had to " settle " it in my mind. So if there

is anyway he can compromise your health, if it were me, I would NOT do it.

I can try and call later,

nancy

_____

From:

[mailto: ] On Behalf Of MG

Sent: Tuesday, September 07, 2010 12:09 PM

Subject: [ ] Very personal question regarding intimacy

Bright Blessings Everyone

I have a personal quqestion and my apologies in advance for anyone taking

offense. I have a boyfriend with whom we had unprotected relations 3 times

before knowing that i had Lyme(My Co's are Bart/Bab). Then used protection

etc because my guilt was hanging heavy on me of possible transmission to him

once diagnosed. We separated for awhile due to his own issues from his past,

but he is working on those and is still supporting me as i support him in

his journey to become whole.

I reminded him that we needed to be safe or just merely practice our tantra

love instead. He would rather forego protection while just not releasing

inside of me. i just lay and cry afterward knowing that it is his concious

choice but I feel horrible and also scared that anything he has that might

cross to me as far as just bacteria would cause me more grief or that he

will get lyme. I need ideas on how to approach this if anyone has good

suggestions. Anyone else feel this way or have this issue? And I meditate,

vibrate and raise energy as a Tantrika so my libido(very infrequently) is

still in tact through this....wish it was my brain instead lol. He is having

igenex testing in 3 weeks, but is not symptomatic.

Namaste

[Guest guest]

,

When I met my boyfriend now fiance I was already sick. We both came from

marriages of many, many years. Used condoms for a while, but haven't in long

time as we have been together for almost eight years.

I wonder about that and feel guilty about that. We figure if he hasn't caught

it yet, chances are he won't. Hate that word chances in this subject anyway.

I did give him the choice with all the pros and cons. He chose not to. It's so

hard to say, we probably should be using protection or should have continued.

Oh well, now I am living with the what if. When we went to my llmd appt the

doctor didn't seem concerned. Guess not after being together for that length of

time.

I hear ya .

[ ] Very personal question regarding intimacy

 

Bright Blessings Everyone

 

I have a personal quqestion and my apologies in advance for anyone taking

offense. I have a boyfriend with whom we had unprotected relations 3 times

before knowing that i had Lyme(My Co's are Bart/Bab). Then used protection etc

because my guilt was hanging heavy on me of possible transmission to him once

diagnosed. We separated for awhile due to his own issues from his past, but he

is working on those and is still supporting me as i support him in his journey

to become whole.

 

I reminded him that we needed to be safe or just merely practice our tantra love

instead. He would rather forego protection while just not releasing inside of

me. i just lay and cry afterward knowing that it is his concious choice but I

feel horrible and also scared that anything he has that might cross to me as far

as just bacteria would cause me more grief or that he will get lyme. I need

ideas on how to approach this if anyone has good suggestions. Anyone else feel

this way or have this issue? And I meditate, vibrate and raise energy as a

Tantrika so my libido(very infrequently) is still in tact through this....wish

it was my brain instead lol. He is having igenex testing in 3 weeks, but is not

symptomatic.

 

Namaste

[Guest guest]

I have had this conversation with my partner and fear is there. My llmd says

" relax, have sex " he won't take that away..... " we have so many restrictions to

live with this one has not been defined so live a little, guilt free. "

Many couples have gone through this and have been fine. This one think

positively on.

Monty

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[ ] Very personal question regarding intimacy

 

Bright Blessings Everyone

 

I have a personal quqestion and my apologies in advance for anyone taking

offense. I have a boyfriend with whom we had unprotected relations 3 times

before knowing that i had Lyme(My Co's are Bart/Bab). Then used protection etc

because my guilt was hanging heavy on me of possible transmission to him once

diagnosed. We separated for awhile due to his own issues from his past, but he

is working on those and is still supporting me as i support him in his journey

to become whole.

 

I reminded him that we needed to be safe or just merely practice our tantra love

instead. He would rather forego protection while just not releasing inside of

me. i just lay and cry afterward knowing that it is his concious choice but I

feel horrible and also scared that anything he has that might cross to me as far

as just bacteria would cause me more grief or that he will get lyme. I need

ideas on how to approach this if anyone has good suggestions. Anyone else feel

this way or have this issue? And I meditate, vibrate and raise energy as a

Tantrika so my libido(very infrequently) is still in tact through this....wish

it was my brain instead lol. He is having igenex testing in 3 weeks, but is not

symptomatic.

 

Namaste

[Guest guest]

Jeannie,

 

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. It is scary because i do not wish

this on my worst enemy. My ND said that is his methylation is good then he

likely will not get it, but he is also blood type A so that makes me wonder.

Again thank you

 

From: Jeannie <gemstar727@...>

Subject: Re: [ ] Very personal question regarding intimacy

Date: Tuesday, September 7, 2010, 12:35 PM

,

When I met my boyfriend now fiance I was already sick.  We both came from

marriages of many, many years.  Used condoms for a while, but haven't in long

time as we have been together for almost eight years.

I wonder about that and feel guilty about that.  We figure if he hasn't caught

it yet, chances are he won't.  Hate that word chances in this subject anyway.

I did give him the choice with all the pros and cons.  He chose not to.  It's so

hard to say, we probably should be using protection or should have continued.

Oh well, now I am living with the what if.  When we went to my llmd appt the

doctor didn't seem concerned. Guess not after being together for that length of

time.

I hear ya .

[ ] Very personal question regarding intimacy

 

Bright Blessings Everyone

 

I have a personal quqestion and my apologies in advance for anyone taking

offense. I have a boyfriend with whom we had unprotected relations 3 times

before knowing that i had Lyme(My Co's are Bart/Bab). Then used protection etc

because my guilt was hanging heavy on me of possible transmission to him once

diagnosed. We separated for awhile due to his own issues from his past, but he

is working on those and is still supporting me as i support him in his journey

to become whole.

 

I reminded him that we needed to be safe or just merely practice our tantra love

instead. He would rather forego protection while just not releasing inside of

me. i just lay and cry afterward knowing that it is his concious choice but I

feel horrible and also scared that anything he has that might cross to me as far

as just bacteria would cause me more grief or that he will get lyme. I need

ideas on how to approach this if anyone has good suggestions. Anyone else feel

this way or have this issue? And I meditate, vibrate and raise energy as a

Tantrika so my libido(very infrequently) is still in tact through this....wish

it was my brain instead lol. He is having igenex testing in 3 weeks, but is not

symptomatic.

 

Namaste

     

[Guest guest]

Thank you monty. i hope your feeling better today. Hugs

From: montylife@... <montylife@...>

Subject: Re: [ ] Very personal question regarding intimacy

" Lyme Aid Buhner " < >

Date: Tuesday, September 7, 2010, 12:42 PM

I have had this conversation with my partner and fear is there. My llmd says

" relax, have sex " he won't take that away..... " we have so many restrictions to

live with this one has not been defined so live a little, guilt free. "

Many couples have gone through this and have been fine. This one think

positively on.

Monty

Sent via BlackBerry by AT & T

[ ] Very personal question regarding intimacy

 

Bright Blessings Everyone

 

I have a personal quqestion and my apologies in advance for anyone taking

offense. I have a boyfriend with whom we had unprotected relations 3 times

before knowing that i had Lyme(My Co's are Bart/Bab). Then used protection etc

because my guilt was hanging heavy on me of possible transmission to him once

diagnosed. We separated for awhile due to his own issues from his past, but he

is working on those and is still supporting me as i support him in his journey

to become whole.

 

I reminded him that we needed to be safe or just merely practice our tantra love

instead. He would rather forego protection while just not releasing inside of

me. i just lay and cry afterward knowing that it is his concious choice but I

feel horrible and also scared that anything he has that might cross to me as far

as just bacteria would cause me more grief or that he will get lyme. I need

ideas on how to approach this if anyone has good suggestions. Anyone else feel

this way or have this issue? And I meditate, vibrate and raise energy as a

Tantrika so my libido(very infrequently) is still in tact through this....wish

it was my brain instead lol. He is having igenex testing in 3 weeks, but is not

symptomatic.

 

Namaste

     

[Guest guest]

Thanks. Hanging on by a thread. Pain is persistent. Able to work from home/bed

today so it will be a short week. Thanks for the wishes.

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[ ] Very personal question regarding intimacy

 

Bright Blessings Everyone

 

I have a personal quqestion and my apologies in advance for anyone taking

offense. I have a boyfriend with whom we had unprotected relations 3 times

before knowing that i had Lyme(My Co's are Bart/Bab). Then used protection etc

because my guilt was hanging heavy on me of possible transmission to him once

diagnosed. We separated for awhile due to his own issues from his past, but he

is working on those and is still supporting me as i support him in his journey

to become whole.

 

I reminded him that we needed to be safe or just merely practice our tantra love

instead. He would rather forego protection while just not releasing inside of

me. i just lay and cry afterward knowing that it is his concious choice but I

feel horrible and also scared that anything he has that might cross to me as far

as just bacteria would cause me more grief or that he will get lyme. I need

ideas on how to approach this if anyone has good suggestions. Anyone else feel

this way or have this issue? And I meditate, vibrate and raise energy as a

Tantrika so my libido(very infrequently) is still in tact through this....wish

it was my brain instead lol. He is having igenex testing in 3 weeks, but is not

symptomatic.

 

Namaste

     

[Guest guest]

My wife has Chronic Lyme and Bartonella. As far as I know I have never

contracted these diseases in the 3 years she has had them. We do not use any

protection.

Women on the other hand seem more susceptible to catching things from men.

Especially if their immune system is compromised via Lyme.

www.lyme-resource.com

You can lead a person to a fact, but you can't make them think! -

> [ ] Very personal question regarding intimacy

>

>  

> Bright Blessings Everyone

>  

> I have a personal quqestion and my apologies in advance for

> anyone taking offense. I have a boyfriend with whom we had

> unprotected relations 3 times before knowing that i had

> Lyme(My Co's are Bart/Bab). Then used protection etc because

> my guilt was hanging heavy on me of possible transmission to

> him once diagnosed. We separated for awhile due to his own

> issues from his past, but he is working on those and is still

> supporting me as i support him in his journey to become whole.

>  

> I reminded him that we needed to be safe or just merely

> practice our tantra love instead. He would rather forego

> protection while just not releasing inside of me. i just lay

> and cry afterward knowing that it is his concious choice but

> I feel horrible and also scared that anything he has that

> might cross to me as far as just bacteria would cause me more

> grief or that he will get lyme. I need ideas on how to

> approach this if anyone has good suggestions. Anyone else

> feel this way or have this issue? And I meditate, vibrate and

> raise energy as a Tantrika so my libido(very infrequently) is

> still in tact through this....wish it was my brain instead

> lol. He is having igenex testing in 3 weeks, but is not symptomatic.

>  

> Namaste

>

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Thank you

From: <msadams@...>

Subject: RE: [ ] Very personal question regarding intimacy

Date: Tuesday, September 7, 2010, 1:41 PM

 

My wife has Chronic Lyme and Bartonella. As far as I know I have never

contracted these diseases in the 3 years she has had them. We do not use any

protection.

Women on the other hand seem more susceptible to catching things from men.

Especially if their immune system is compromised via Lyme.

www.lyme-resource.com

You can lead a person to a fact, but you can't make them think! -

> [ ] Very personal question regarding intimacy

>

>  

> Bright Blessings Everyone

>  

> I have a personal quqestion and my apologies in advance for

> anyone taking offense. I have a boyfriend with whom we had

> unprotected relations 3 times before knowing that i had

> Lyme(My Co's are Bart/Bab). Then used protection etc because

> my guilt was hanging heavy on me of possible transmission to

> him once diagnosed. We separated for awhile due to his own

> issues from his past, but he is working on those and is still

> supporting me as i support him in his journey to become whole.

>  

> I reminded him that we needed to be safe or just merely

> practice our tantra love instead. He would rather forego

> protection while just not releasing inside of me. i just lay

> and cry afterward knowing that it is his concious choice but

> I feel horrible and also scared that anything he has that

> might cross to me as far as just bacteria would cause me more

> grief or that he will get lyme. I need ideas on how to

> approach this if anyone has good suggestions. Anyone else

> feel this way or have this issue? And I meditate, vibrate and

> raise energy as a Tantrika so my libido(very infrequently) is

> still in tact through this....wish it was my brain instead

> lol. He is having igenex testing in 3 weeks, but is not symptomatic.

>  

> Namaste

>

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

> Mimi - were you undergoing treatment for lyme during your pregnancy?

> - Jen\

No. I didn't even know I had Lyme until he was about 2 -- I also

breastfed him for 2 years.

~Mimi

www.iammimi.com