Re: was Heartbroken........love yourself first

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Hi Madeleine,

Sure you are angry, you are speaking as a victim.

I don't think we are turning on you.......and you can't expect to call out

for help..........and get only what YOU WANT to hear for

responses..........I think everyone is telling you to work on YOU!!

Love yourself first!!!!!!!!!!!

Your issues are so much deeper than your break-up with your

boyfriend................therapy and reading have been suggested to help

you........I don't think the lyme has very much if anything to do with your

break-up.....you need to let go....... start concentrating on you, Stop

chasing him, even stop discussing it...its only hurting you more.... you see

yourself as a victim, and all the helpful suggestions people posting, are

viewed as attacking......that's what victims do...then they get

angry..........and they run for protection.

Therapy can really help.........you don't have to be a victim any more.

Hang in there, broken hearts do hurt...........they hurt a lot...........and

we will all still be here for you......after the anger ends, after the

hurting stops..............

Connie

Leave no stone unturned.......