Guest guest Posted December 11, 2006 Report Share Posted December 11, 2006 Loise, I admire all that you are doing for your daughter. I know it's exhausting. Having her in the hospital can take it all out of you and then to keep going and get her to the other doctors after her hospital release is a great feat. My daughter has special needs and was hospitalized twice this year so I know some of what you are experiencing. I hate to hear of young people diagnosed with any disease. I do believe that there is so much progress right now with our disease and a 3 new meds that I know of on the horizon...within the next 2 years so........there is hope. I was on Enbrel with great success for a short while but had to get off of it. It actually made me nails rock hard and marvelous. I was able to run up and down stairs like I could 5 years ago. And yes....you can be in constant hip pain from PA. Sometimes it hurts me to wear jeans too. If your daughter has seen the posters in the Rheumy's offices or online, it might scare her to death but reading the post on this site may give her some relief to know that it's not a given that your fingers will end up mangled. We have a few on here with that form of PA (there are five forms of the disease if I'm not mistaken). Keep doing what you are doing. Listen to each opinion and then be a Mom and listen to your gut. My daughter's condition is forever morphing on me and I'm constantly amazed at the acuracy of my maternal intincts. There really is something to it. Whether we carried our children in our womb or aquired them through other acts of love, Mom's just have this unworldly connection to what our kids need. Use it and trust it when you need to make a decision. I also want to tell you that MANY of us have been hospitalized and then released only to have the doctors say they have found nothing. This disease is illusive. Most of us can trace our symptoms to our youth. So if your daughter is getting diagnosed now, she will have a shot at a better future. Seems like she already has the most important thing on her side...YOU. Praying that the MRI comes back negative (I had a negative one for MS in Oct) and praying for continued strength and fortitude for you, your daughter and your family. I am learning some amazing things about children with with disease and disability. Feel free to contact me off group if you like. I can share some coping techniques that are helpful to my 12 year old and I. She has taught me so much. I'm happy to share the wealth. You can reach me at itsbetsy@.... Love Betz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2006 Report Share Posted December 11, 2006 louise, this is interesting. i have sensitivity. my 23 year old son has been staying with us for the last month and everytime he walks by he pokes of pinches or maybe a bear hug. this is great and im glad he loves me but.... it hurts. he can just poke my arm and i cry out. and i bruise! he doesnt understand it but he treats me a little gentler now ). so i guess at least with me, the sensitivity is greater. i dont know the reason it just is. the progression of your daughter sounds very much like what i went through. so i hope you get your answers soon. (i also had such bad pain in my legs, went through many PAINFULL TESTS. still had no answers. but im ok now! casey My 14-yr old daughter was diagnosed with PA on 11/15. She was hospitalized in the end of October with extreme hip pain that extended down into her foot. Her leg was sensitive to the touch. Her knee was swollen and the entire leg was off color. Rheumatologist - He is positive that she has PA. He put her on Enbrel. I agreed to keep her on Enbrel for 3 months while we have the Neuro tests done. My daughter does have P on her scalp. My brother has PA and I am familiar with the symptoms and what her fingers and toes may look like if she does have PA. My questions are: 1. Does anyone in the group have skin sensitivity? --------------------------------- Cheap Talk? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call rates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2006 Report Share Posted December 11, 2006 My questions are: 1. Does anyone in the group have skin sensitivity? 2. Is it common for the hip pain to be constant? 3. With the Enbrel, can you still have a flare-up? 4. Have any of you been on Enbrel and your nails got worse? She nails are fine now and she is terrified that they will become misfigured. I believe the Enbrel is helping somewhat. She can go a few hours without the crutches. But she is dying to get rid of them. She has a nasty rash under each arm. Sorry your poor dd is having so much pain and misery! Hopefully she will feel better and better on the Enbrel. To answer your questions from my personal experience: 1.) When I am having a flare, EVERYTHING hurts, whether it be joints, skin, muscles, tendons or what-have-you. 2.) My hip pain did not start out constant. Initially it was intermittent sharp pain that would occur with walking (a feeling like the hip joint was sliding out of its socket, or going to snap right in half) and would resolve with rest....but it continued to get worse over time. By the time I finally had my hip replaced in June of this year, the pain was constant and excruciating, even at rest, and I was limping VERY badly. My best guess....from the time the intermittent pains started happening until June when the hip was replaced.....about 15-18 years elapsed, and I was only diagnosed and started treatment for the PA and Sjogrens syndrome during the past 4- 5 years. 3.) When I first started the Enbrel, I didn't think I noticed much improvement.....until I had to go off it and the Methotrexate for nearly two months when I had my hip replaced. Believe me, during that two months period, I realized EXACTLY how much the Enbrel and Methotrexate had been helping me previously! Couldn't WAIT to go back on it. I find that I do still experience flares on my treatment, but they are less severe and not as lengthy. 4.) My nails got worse during the 2 months period I had to be off the meds for surgery. They have not gotten any worse since I restarted the meds, but they have not gotten better either. One note about the crutches and arm rash: she should NOT be leaning on the crutches so that they are jammed into the armpit to CAUSE rash or discomfort. Doesn't sound like they are properly fitted for her if that's the case. There should be at least an inch gap or so between the top of the crutch and her armpit. When she walks with the crutches, her elbows should be only very slightly bent, and her weight should primarily be falling on her wrists and balls of her palms as she grips them; the crutches should NOT be digging up into her armpits or causing any pressure there whatsoever. I had to use crutches for a couple of weeks postop, (progressed from non-weight bearing to weight bearing) and that is what my physical therapist told me. Blessings and wishes for good health to you and dd! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 13, 2006 Report Share Posted December 13, 2006 your daughter may have lupus . I have been told that I had psoriatic arthritis for 18 years . too much to tell . thought I had ms . two neurologists were confused and puzzled and came to no conclusion but have recently had tests . NOW the doctors say it is rheumatoid arthritis and LUPUs but are not obligating themselves [best doctors in boston ] and are quietly saying very little . I have had 3 hip replacements and other stuff. Since your not supposed to go in sun then 18 years of sun because I had PSORIATIC ARTRITIS and no w have skin cancer on my neck That is another whole story . Anyway make sure they keep testing for lupus . as far as rash goes . switch to dove soap for sensitive skin . make sure it is the kind that says for sensitive skin . Do not use the liquid soap . ITs different . The doctor can prescribe dovenex to get rid of that rash . also get an unscented deodorant . Dove unscented doedorant is good . I have also used form of vaseline . [been given hydrolatem .] it is available over the counter and is a hydrolated [has water in it]. It comes in a big tub for 11 dollars. It is callled HYDROLATUM . PETROLEUM VASELINE.You can buy online just type in name. It is safe for diabetics and is very soothing . It is a little messy so use sparingly . If u use it then wait about 15 minutes for it to absorb before you get dressed . It can be a little messy so dont use a lot. GReat for diabetics and dry skin . IT helped my dry skin a lot . After i take a shower I towel dry my skin and then put on sparingly . wait 15 min. and get dressed . Also found its great for my feet. I can't reach t my feet so I put it on a paper plate and put my feet on plate and swish my feet around and then put on my socks . I have trouble bending . cathy from ma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 13, 2006 Report Share Posted December 13, 2006 Oh Yeah and I have been on enbrel for for almost 8 years and it doesn't always clear up skin and you can have aflare while on it and I guess it works for everything . Anyway your daughter can take msm capsules to help her nails and skin . cathy from ma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 13, 2006 Report Share Posted December 13, 2006 I noticed in your post that your daughter has a rash under her arms, that is usually the first sign that I am in for trouble. I have PA, through I was recently diagnosed (within the last year or so) I have been having trouble for a long time. I hope your daughter feels better soon, currently I do not and have not had hip trouble. I am on humira and methotrexate, and I have expericed much relief from both. [ ] New Member - I need help with symptoms!!! My 14-yr old daughter was diagnosed with PA on 11/15. She was hospitalized in the end of October with extreme hip pain that extended down into her foot. Her leg was sensitive to the touch. Her knee was swollen and the entire leg was off color. After many tests in the hospital and nothing being found, she was released. She has been on crutches since then. Her hip continues to hurt and you cannot even brush up against the leg. She cries out in pain. She cannot wear jeans because the weight of the pants makes her hip hurt. After she was released from the hospital, I took her to the following doctors: Vascular Surgeon - he could not find anything wrong. Orthopedic Surgeon - He feels she has RSD, but referred me to a neurologist and a Rhuematologist. Neurologist - Feels she may have MS. She had some tests last week and we are going for an MRI tomorrow. Rheumatologist - He is positive that she has PA. He put her on Enbrel. I agreed to keep her on Enbrel for 3 months while we have the Neuro tests done. My daughter does have P on her scalp. My brother has PA and I am familiar with the symptoms and what her fingers and toes may look like if she does have PA. My questions are: 1. Does anyone in the group have skin sensitivity? 2. Is it common for the hip pain to be constant? 3. With the Enbrel, can you still have a flare-up? 4. Have any of you been on Enbrel and your nails got worse? She nails are fine now and she is terrified that they will become misfigured. I believe the Enbrel is helping somewhat. She can go a few hours without the crutches. But she is dying to get rid of them. She has a nasty rash under each arm. Sorry of the winded message, but I really need to hear from someone who can answer my questions. Thank you, Louise ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Cheap talk? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call rates. http://voice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2007 Report Share Posted January 31, 2007 In a message dated 11/12/2006 12:25:42 GMT Standard Time, lyaskulka@... writes: My 14-yr old daughter was diagnosed with PA on 11/15. She was hospitalized in the end of October with extreme hip pain that extended down into her foot. Her leg was sensitive to the touch. Her knee was swollen and the entire leg was off color. Hi Louise, Welcome to the group.....................a very late welcome. I hope by now you got your questions answered. If not, let me know and I will have a go but I'm sure that someone will have responded. I'm sorry that it looks like you daughter may have this disease but glad that you found us. I'm just reading through your subsequent posts and see that she has improved on the Enbrel. That is great to hear. I hope she can stay on it beyond the three months if it is working for her. Take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2007 Report Share Posted January 31, 2007 Hi , Thanks for the warm welcome. na's last blood tests revealed that she definitely has PA. The Enbrel is working great, but she is having issues with having to get an injection every week. She is also have a very hard time accepting this disease, so tomorrow I am seeing a psychologist for a consult before na sees her for the first time. na is now out of school and I think she is really missing it, although she says she isn't. This group has been great, and I am very happy that na found it on . She is going to try and connect with another teen whose mom is in this group. na needs to talk to someone her own age and realize that she is not alone. We are a 9/11 family (my husband lost his mom) and na has been through a lot in the last few years. Now she is dealt with another blow and it is a little too much for her to deal with right now. She is making her confirmation this March and she is really questioning God. Last night she had a hard time giving herself the Enbrel and she wound up misfiring it. That set her off and she cried for about 2 hours. Questioning everything " bad " that has happened to her. Why did her Grandma Myrna has to die on 9/11, why is her Dad disabled, why did 9/11 have to happen and I left my job in the city and now make a lot less money, why does she have to be different than her friends and have PA, when will the pain go away, when will she be able to wear jeans, shoes or sneakers again.... the list just went on and on. I just let her rant. Had no idea what to say to her. I tried to speak to her and explain that she is responding to the meds, so things are looking up, but being a teenager, she thinks I don't know what I am talking about. She is a great kid and I will do everything I possibly can to make her well and happy. Thanks for letting me ramble, Louise > > > In a message dated 11/12/2006 12:25:42 GMT Standard Time, lyaskulka@... > writes: > > My 14-yr old daughter was diagnosed with PA on 11/15. She was > hospitalized in the end of October with extreme hip pain that > extended down into her foot. Her leg was sensitive to the touch. > Her knee was swollen and the entire leg was off color. > > > > Hi Louise, > > Welcome to the group.....................a very late welcome. I hope by now > you got your questions answered. If not, let me know and I will have a go but > I'm sure that someone will have responded. > I'm sorry that it looks like you daughter may have this disease but glad that > you found us. > > I'm just reading through your subsequent posts and see that she has improved > on the Enbrel. That is great to hear. I hope she can stay on it beyond the > three months if it is working for her. > > Take care, > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2007 Report Share Posted January 31, 2007 Louise, I am sooo sorry for what you and na are going thru..I worked in the mental field for about 15 years..I worked with adolescents part of that time..I believe she needs to find her strengths and hopefully the therapist can help her find them..It is hard for an adult to accept this disease must less a child..My daughter too has symptoms of pa..she already has p. She is also 14..I could get her to send na a private email if you are comfortable with that..Her name is . 's legs get discolored and her ankles hurt her..She wants to play sports but has not been able to the last 3 years..She also has problems with her knees but no pain or swelling in them yet. The dr's keep saying she is having growing pains in her ankles but I am concerned because I have this disease..I dont mean to be pessimistic but I am looking for one tiny little thing that might convince the Dr's she may have beginning stages..She takes motrin and it seems to help most of the time and uses a heating pad. I am so sorry I got off my daughter..back to na..She is gonna need a little bit of time and just love her like you never have before..I will pray for her..I think it is normal for her to be angry at God right now especially if she is not mature spiritually and most 14 years olds arent..I dont know your beliefs but we are christian and does Bible study geared toward teens in difficult circumstances..She really likes doing those..I wish I had a magic answer for you I really do..My heart goes out to you..I am so sorry that you all have been thru so much with 9/11 and now this...I cant imagine how you must feel..I am praying right now for comfort for you and your whole family..It is so senseless why this had to happen.. You hang in there and we are here for you and na!! Give her a big hug for me! Vickey Louise <lyaskulka@...> wrote: Hi , Thanks for the warm welcome. na's last blood tests revealed that she definitely has PA. The Enbrel is working great, but she is having issues with having to get an injection every week. She is also have a very hard time accepting this disease, so tomorrow I am seeing a psychologist for a consult before na sees her for the first time. na is now out of school and I think she is really missing it, although she says she isn't. This group has been great, and I am very happy that na found it on . She is going to try and connect with another teen whose mom is in this group. na needs to talk to someone her own age and realize that she is not alone. We are a 9/11 family (my husband lost his mom) and na has been through a lot in the last few years. Now she is dealt with another blow and it is a little too much for her to deal with right now. She is making her confirmation this March and she is really questioning God. Last night she had a hard time giving herself the Enbrel and she wound up misfiring it. That set her off and she cried for about 2 hours. Questioning everything " bad " that has happened to her. Why did her Grandma Myrna has to die on 9/11, why is her Dad disabled, why did 9/11 have to happen and I left my job in the city and now make a lot less money, why does she have to be different than her friends and have PA, when will the pain go away, when will she be able to wear jeans, shoes or sneakers again.... the list just went on and on. I just let her rant. Had no idea what to say to her. I tried to speak to her and explain that she is responding to the meds, so things are looking up, but being a teenager, she thinks I don't know what I am talking about. She is a great kid and I will do everything I possibly can to make her well and happy. Thanks for letting me ramble, Louise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 1, 2007 Report Share Posted February 1, 2007 - I have a good friend who was diagnosed in her teen years as well. She's been on Enbrel for a few years and is virtually symptom free. She's 20 now - and rides horses regularly (she's shown horses at competition for number of years), attends college and has a very active life! In fact, she just coached me on giving myself the Enbrel shot! Hope that gives your daughter some hope.... I'm sure it's tough now, but with any luck, it will get better! Best, Patty Re: [ ] New Member - I need help with symptoms!!! In a message dated 11/12/2006 12:25:42 GMT Standard Time, lyaskulka@... <mailto:lyaskulka%40aol.com> writes: My 14-yr old daughter was diagnosed with PA on 11/15. She was hospitalized in the end of October with extreme hip pain that extended down into her foot. Her leg was sensitive to the touch. Her knee was swollen and the entire leg was off color. Hi Louise, Welcome to the group.....................a very late welcome. I hope by now you got your questions answered. If not, let me know and I will have a go but I'm sure that someone will have responded. I'm sorry that it looks like you daughter may have this disease but glad that you found us. I'm just reading through your subsequent posts and see that she has improved on the Enbrel. That is great to hear. I hope she can stay on it beyond the three months if it is working for her. Take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 1, 2007 Report Share Posted February 1, 2007 - My daughter went through a trauma when she was younger - and her psychologist helped her immensely. As her counselor used to say, " Sometimes kids just need a place to get their 'mad' out. " In my daughter's case, she got her " mad " out in that safe environment (even physically hitting teddy bears, etc.) and eventually learned how to help herself cope through future crisis. She's a much stronger young lady today - with no ill effects. Sometimes I think she's even stronger than I am emotionally. It sounds like you're doing the smart thing for her! Hang in there! Patty [ ] Re: New Member - I need help with symptoms!!! Hi , Thanks for the warm welcome. na's last blood tests revealed that she definitely has PA. The Enbrel is working great, but she is having issues with having to get an injection every week. She is also have a very hard time accepting this disease, so tomorrow I am seeing a psychologist for a consult before na sees her for the first time. na is now out of school and I think she is really missing it, although she says she isn't. This group has been great, and I am very happy that na found it on . She is going to try and connect with another teen whose mom is in this group. na needs to talk to someone her own age and realize that she is not alone. We are a 9/11 family (my husband lost his mom) and na has been through a lot in the last few years. Now she is dealt with another blow and it is a little too much for her to deal with right now. She is making her confirmation this March and she is really questioning God. Last night she had a hard time giving herself the Enbrel and she wound up misfiring it. That set her off and she cried for about 2 hours. Questioning everything " bad " that has happened to her. Why did her Grandma Myrna has to die on 9/11, why is her Dad disabled, why did 9/11 have to happen and I left my job in the city and now make a lot less money, why does she have to be different than her friends and have PA, when will the pain go away, when will she be able to wear jeans, shoes or sneakers again.... the list just went on and on. I just let her rant. Had no idea what to say to her. I tried to speak to her and explain that she is responding to the meds, so things are looking up, but being a teenager, she thinks I don't know what I am talking about. She is a great kid and I will do everything I possibly can to make her well and happy. Thanks for letting me ramble, Louise > > > In a message dated 11/12/2006 12:25:42 GMT Standard Time, lyaskulka@... > writes: > > My 14-yr old daughter was diagnosed with PA on 11/15. She was > hospitalized in the end of October with extreme hip pain that > extended down into her foot. Her leg was sensitive to the touch. > Her knee was swollen and the entire leg was off color. > > > > Hi Louise, > > Welcome to the group.....................a very late welcome. I hope by now > you got your questions answered. If not, let me know and I will have a go but > I'm sure that someone will have responded. > I'm sorry that it looks like you daughter may have this disease but glad that > you found us. > > I'm just reading through your subsequent posts and see that she has improved > on the Enbrel. That is great to hear. I hope she can stay on it beyond the > three months if it is working for her. > > Take care, > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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