Yelling at kids, throwing things up and giggling as they fall, running then

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....giggling while being reprimanded in time out...

Sigh. My daughter is almost 4. We moved about a month ago so this could be

acting out, or just normal toddler behavior, or yeast or a combo of everything.

Her teacher just called to suggest that she leave school during nap time since

she spends the entire time yelling at the kids (apparently the other 4 kids are

actually laying down and quiet) to lay down and be quiet. Nap time is at

12:45-1:30. She leaves at 1:30 to come home. They're suggesting she leave at

12:30.

This is a spec needs class.

I'm frustrated. She's my only child so I'm not sure what's normal where teacher

communication with parents go. I get the impression that the teacher can't

figure out what to do with her. Shouldn't she? We haven't spoken yet (she left

a message). I thought spec ed teachers had procedures they followed. I

certainly have no clue what to do.

Any suggestions? My inclination is to give her time to adjust (she's been there

since the beginning of October - is that enough time?).

But then again, if SHE were the one napping quietly and another kid was

disruptive and loud I wonder if I'd feel differently.

I plan to go visit the class tomorrow to observe her behavior and meet with the

teacher. But I thought I'd come here to some of you vets with older kids to see

what you've done in these types of situations since I anticipate this may happen

again when she's older.

Thanks!