Guest guest Posted January 27, 2003 Report Share Posted January 27, 2003 I am 24 yrs old and was wondering whether there is anyone of a similar age with pa to talk to as there isn't anyone my age I know who can relate to the way i feel due to pa. i had been an active person until about a year ago, when pa flared up, and would like to know what would be the best way of dealing with it and getting on with a normal life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2003 Report Share Posted January 27, 2003 Hello jimmared. Let me start off by telling you that I am 28, but the disease started about 23, so I have been living with this disease for over 5 years. My advice to you is simple - attack the disease before it attacks you. Enbrel or Remicade ASAP. I played college hockey until I was 21 years old and now, at 28, I can't even skate. My doc's took the traditional approach and I started with motrin, indocin, cortisone shots, vioxx, etc.. Then about 1 year ago I went on Azulfidine and it did not help at all. Currently, I take 12.5 mg MTX weekly, 25 mg Vioxx daily, and 750 mg Vicodin for pain as needed (everyday!). I have been on MTX 11 weeks with zero relief. I have a rheumy appt on Friday and I am demanding Enbrel. I won't leave there until he says yes. I have a child on the way and plan on being able to hold him and play with him as he gets older. If left untreated or mildly treated with NSAIDS, you will be in poor shape by 28 years of age. So, my advice is attack it ASAP. I use to think along with my docs, but this disease is miserable and I believe it needs quick, aggressive biologic therapy. Good luck - Marty > I am 24 yrs old and was wondering whether there is anyone of a > similar age with pa to talk to as there isn't anyone my age I know > who can relate to the way i feel due to pa. i had been an active > person until about a year ago, when pa flared up, and would like to > know what would be the best way of dealing with it and getting on > with a normal life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2003 Report Share Posted January 27, 2003 Jimmared, I completely agree with the below. I am 29 and was diagnosed a year ago. Luckily, my doc believed that agressive treatment is the only treatment, especially when this disease rears it's ugly head so early. There is no reason to have long-term joint destruction, when there are treatments that can stop that. I was on MTX for about three months, still was having no relief, am now on Remicade and, generally, living symptom-free. Before the Remicade, there were mornings I couldn't get out of bed, couldn't walk up or down stairs. I felt like a [very young] old woman. So, aggressive treatment is key to living your life again. Jenn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2003 Report Share Posted January 27, 2003 A lot of people's advice is to be aggressive. I think that is, at least in part, a reflection that many people have not been given the preventative care, particularly the appropriate DMAR they should have been on. That is, they were given the NSID to treat the current symptoms, but not the DMAR to deal with possible joint destruction over the long haul. I too believe in an aggressive approach, however, some caution is needed too. All the DMARs have side effects, some short term some long term. Not everyone's disease progresses the same way, or at the same speed, or even ever. Also different people have different responses to each DMAR. If you are not on a DMAR, you should be pushing your rheumy to change that. As to which one, they can be very different for different people. I'm on Plaquenil. It's relatively easy for me to tolerate, with little size effects. However, some people P's really act up from being on this drug. Not mine and I've been on it for 10 years. Every drug has similar issues, benefits and deficits. This is where the art of medicine comes in. It's also where the patient has to be knowledgeable advocate for him or herself. > Jimmared, > > I completely agree with the below. I am 29 and was diagnosed a year ago. > Luckily, my doc believed that agressive treatment is the only treatment, > especially when this disease rears it's ugly head so early. There is no > reason to have long-term joint destruction, when there are treatments that > can stop that. > > I was on MTX for about three months, still was having no relief, am now on > Remicade and, generally, living symptom-free. Before the Remicade, there > were mornings I couldn't get out of bed, couldn't walk up or down stairs. I > felt like a [very young] old woman. So, aggressive treatment is key to > living your life again. > > Jenn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2003 Report Share Posted January 27, 2003 Hi my name is Naomi and I am 33yrs old and have P and possibly PA. I have pain in my legs and knees for years. It has gotten so much worse and I don't know what to think anymore. You are not alone. Take care Naomi [ ] Re: young people with PA Hello jimmared. Let me start off by telling you that I am 28, but the disease started about 23, so I have been living with this disease for over 5 years. My advice to you is simple - attack the disease before it attacks you. Enbrel or Remicade ASAP. I played college hockey until I was 21 years old and now, at 28, I can't even skate. My doc's took the traditional approach and I started with motrin, indocin, cortisone shots, vioxx, etc.. Then about 1 year ago I went on Azulfidine and it did not help at all. Currently, I take 12.5 mg MTX weekly, 25 mg Vioxx daily, and 750 mg Vicodin for pain as needed (everyday!). I have been on MTX 11 weeks with zero relief. I have a rheumy appt on Friday and I am demanding Enbrel. I won't leave there until he says yes. I have a child on the way and plan on being able to hold him and play with him as he gets older. If left untreated or mildly treated with NSAIDS, you will be in poor shape by 28 years of age. So, my advice is attack it ASAP. I use to think along with my docs, but this disease is miserable and I believe it needs quick, aggressive biologic therapy. Good luck - Marty > I am 24 yrs old and was wondering whether there is anyone of a > similar age with pa to talk to as there isn't anyone my age I know > who can relate to the way i feel due to pa. i had been an active > person until about a year ago, when pa flared up, and would like to > know what would be the best way of dealing with it and getting on > with a normal life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2003 Report Share Posted January 28, 2003 Hi, I am a 28 year old female and was diagnosed at age 27. I am amazed at the progess I have made with the help of a few good drugs! The methtrexate took a while to kick in and I had to take pretty high doses. Now I have been on Enbrel for the past month along with the mtx. My Psoriasis is completely gone and the arthritis is 90 % better. At least I can function now. I can certainly deal with a few stiff joints now and again compared to what I used to feel like. I agree with Jenn, I think the agressive treatment is the way to go. I had 8 months of intense pain and that was enough! I am glad my doctor did not mess around and started me off with aggressive treatment. Don't feel like this is the end of life as you know it. You may never be the same again, You may always be on some kind of meds, but hopefully you will get on a good regimine of medications that will allow you to lead an active, happy life. Good Luck with your treatment! Meredith PS I have found that on the days when I feel I can not get out of bed it is best to get up and take a hot shower. The more I stay in bed the worse I feel. After a couple of hours after being up I always feel better! > I am 24 yrs old and was wondering whether there is anyone of a > similar age with pa to talk to as there isn't anyone my age I know > who can relate to the way i feel due to pa. i had been an active > person until about a year ago, when pa flared up, and would like to > know what would be the best way of dealing with it and getting on > with a normal life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2003 Report Share Posted January 29, 2003 Hey, I'm 19 and have had PA since 14. I have found that there are a surprising number of young people with it. After all these years I'm finding some comfort in Metho, but my doctor is very conservative with drug prescriptions for me because of my age. I know it sounds crazy but I am kind of glad I developed the disease so early. I figure it gave me time to get used to it before I had a family of my own to support. (This assuming I was going to get it eventually anyway) I wish you the best of luck, and remember you aren't alone in it. Alyssa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2003 Report Share Posted January 29, 2003 Hi there, Sure I think about my P and PA when starting to date someone. I have made it a point to consider myself and make myself an amazing woman. For years I have watched women with debilitating diseases make themselves into admirable women who any man would love to be with... I just never thought I would be in a position to be that woman. Make yourself into someone you love to be... and make this disease part of that person. Be that woman that people look at and admire for the way you are dealing with this disease, and the way you give to others around you. If you live a proud confident life, when someone finds out you have this disease they will be even more amazed at the amazing woman you are. I hope that makes a little sense. I want a man that is amazed that I do all I do for myself and others while living with this disease. My P is pretty bad right now, (even a small spot on my face... does anyone else have this?) but most of it doesn't show unless my clothes are off... which I don't do until I know someone is into me for the right reasons anyway. I am 28 also, diagnosed at 23. I do have some deformity in my feet and a small amount in my hands. In a message dated 1/29/03 3:22:36 AM Eastern Standard Time, phatsharpei@... writes: > Well, my pa started when I was 20, now I'm 28. Only 3 > years ago I started Enbrel and the demage is done > already, althoughy the pain seems more controlled. I > wish I took it together with mtx. from the begining, I > wouldn't have my hands deformed like that. It surely > impared my social life, since I don't like peolple > knowing about my condition and feeling sorry for me > (...so young...).Did any of you had/have social > problems because of that? > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2004 Report Share Posted February 18, 2004 leonoraseinfeld@... writes: <<I am 26 and just diagnosed. I was wondering if there are many others out there who suffer from PA at a young age, and how they cope>> Hi Leonora, I am 34 and was diagnosed at 32. Everyone copes differently...for me, I have decided to work part time instead of full time, which gives me the time I need to get adequate rest and do the exercise that keeps me strong and flexible. I went for 18 months just taking Bextra but have just added Azulfadine as my knee joints were starting to show some deterioration. Other than this group, I try to also read and learn as much as I can about the disease, and also about alternative treatments like change in diet, etc. You have a choice with this disease...you can constantly regret that you have it, or you can channel your energy into trying to live as well as you can. There are times when it is hard to handle, but you can't change that you have it, you can only change how you deal with it. Good luck, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2004 Report Share Posted February 18, 2004 leonoraseinfeld@... writes: > I am 26 and just diagnosed. I was wondering if there are many others out > there who suffer from PA at a young age, and how they cope. Hi There, There are MANY of us who are/were diagnosed at a young age. The onset of PA is most often before the age of 35 years old, so as you can see age has NOTHING to do with it. I started having symptoms at 22 and was diagnosed by 1999 (25 years old). I cope with a positive attitude and activity. I don't allow myself to wonder why mew any longer. I did that for the first few years and realized it was only progressing the disease. I also take Enbrel, and where I use to wonder what would become of my life as I age, I seldom have that fear. It's amazing how pain can cause fear in your body. When I was in pain I was constantly fearful about the idea that I would never have kids and if/when I did have them I couldn't be active with them. I worried about the possibility of deformities and being wheel chair bound one day. Now at 29 I am almost as active as I was before all of this hit. I wake up every morning and feel thankful for another pain free day, and I many times forget that I even have PA. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2004 Report Share Posted February 18, 2004 I got PA at age 32. Psoriasis at 19... LeAnn Cayer & Furbrats Blossom & Meriko Heart Bandits American Eskimo Dog Rescue Railroad Coordinator www.heartbandits.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2004 Report Share Posted February 18, 2004 Leonora, I am 32 and was diagnosed at 22. I'm not going to lie, it gets hard- but the medicine is getting better, so treatment options are vastly improved from even just 10 years ago. Get a good rheumetologist and stay positive. -Larry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2004 Report Share Posted February 18, 2004 Hi Leonora I'm 27 and have had PA since 20. It gets easier when you get your medication organised. Have you been to a Rhematoligist? If you want to write to me you can at sarahm_76@... I'd be glad to talk and help out as much as I can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 19, 2004 Report Share Posted February 19, 2004 pookiegut@... writes: <<I am 26 and just diagnosed. I was wondering if there are many others out there who suffer from PA at a young age, and how they cope.>> I started having joint pain in my mid twenties. I just turned 50 this year and I was only properly diagnosed about a year ago. I had to get much worse before the diagnosis was made. Hopefully some you you here do not have to get to that point. JANET Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 19, 2004 Report Share Posted February 19, 2004 im 17... i didnt send in any college applications becuase i was going to be a fireman but then this stuff happens a couple months after college deadlines, had to quit smoking weed becuase that made it worse, most of my friends smoke so i cant really hang around them anymore that much, i was really into weight lifting buti had to stop... This really screwed me over and it couldnt be at such a horrible time to get. I started enbrel a week ago and i already notice a diffrence in my Arthrtis but im still covered in scabs. Hopefully it will work better in the coming months on my feet (Thats really the only place it still is) and if it works theres a chance i may still go into fire science but that may be a bad idea becuase what if it becomes worse and im screwed out of my job and i dont have the time or money to go back to school? How do i cope? Weed brownies and im just sticking onto hope that this enbrel works and i can do what i want to do and if i cant i have no idea what the hell im gonna do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 19, 2004 Report Share Posted February 19, 2004 I have had symptoms since I was 16. It was diagnosed as osteo arthritis and then rheumatoid arthritis and then both and finally at age 40 (2 years ago) a rheumatologist finally put 2 and 2 together (paid attention to the psoriasis as well) and said I had psoriatic arthritis. The psoriasis was only in my hair and disagnosed as being just a stress rash (FOR 24 YEARS !!!). The Rheumatologist put me on 10mg methatrexate every Friday night. It didn't do a thing. I am now on 40 mg once a week and that is being described as being a " heroic dose " by 3 different reumatologists who won't let me increase it any further. Two have said that a dermatologist would prescribe a higher dose. The 40 mg only holds the psoriasis as it is now. Reducing it at all makes the rash spread across my face and shoulders within days. I am also on Dolobid 40 mg a day to control the pain. It doesn't do a thing. They are talking about putting me on morphine for the pain. And have been talking about it for the last 16 months. Meanwhile my life is ruined. In 2000, I was bitten by tropical bedbugs and got ITP which causes your spleen to swell up and kill all your white blood cells/platelets. It nearly killed me. I got down to just one platelet per litre of blood. They gave me a huge dose of prednisone 400 mg three times a day which saved my life but then being on prednisone for the next 3.5 years while I weaned myself off it, gave me diabetes. Mind you - while I was on the prednisone = NO PAIN !!! No prednisone also meant no diabetes. I saw a new rheumatologist 3 weeks ago and he put me back on just 5mg of prednisone a day to fight the psoriasis and relieve the pain. Now, the diabetes is back, the pain is less and the heat of the Australian summer is making the psoriasis worse. It is spreading onto my shoulders and through my beard. Heat does seem to have a lot to do with it. Do you think it is time I saw a dermatologist instead ? Greg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 19, 2004 Report Share Posted February 19, 2004 hey i was dianosed a year ago- i'm only 17- where are all the teenagers in this group? if anyone knows anywhere I can talk pls let me know! anyway hope ur coping- i know what it feels likes like i had one the severest forms- last summer I was bedridden for more than 3 weeks! it really shoiok my confidence, and i got depressed, and a lot of my friends abandoned me cuz they couldn't deal. but i still got sum real gud friends that hav stuk with me no matta what- and if any1 needs to talk, I'm here! Ruth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2004 Report Share Posted February 20, 2004 Hey Leonora, I was 22 when I was diagnosed with PA, but had Psoriasis since I was 17. Of course I had pain and signs of PA a few years before diagnosis, but last year was my worst. TO make things worse I have tendonitis on top which make moving at all very painful. So once I got a Rhemy and meds which controlled the pain, I started swimming in order to keep the joints moving. I also have stayed away from tomatos and began to eat a lot more fish. These things just help the severety of an episode. Mentally, I try to keep busy and accepted that I can't be as active as I was. There are so many things I still want to do with my life...but I won't let this stop me. Really best thing to do is find the best way you can deal with it. Their is lots of website and info on different approaches and I know if you look into the archives you will find other people suggestions and storys. Good luck with it all!!! ***Mel*** Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2004 Report Share Posted February 20, 2004 I'm 35 and just started to develop real problems with PA last year. It's no fun. But I'm hopeful the advances in medicine will continue to improve. I just posted something about this on my web site: http://chuckcurrie.blogs.com/chuck_currie/2004/02/psoriatic_arthr.htm l Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2004 Report Share Posted February 20, 2004 ccurrie@... writes: <<http://chuckcurrie.blogs.com/chuck_currie/2004/02/psoriatic_arthr.htm>> I could not get anything from this website. The page could not be displayed JANET Eds. note: the address line was truncated, deleting the last " l " -- try this: http://chuckcurrie.blogs.com/chuck_currie/2004/02/psoriatic_arthr.html RAH Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2004 Report Share Posted February 20, 2004 Greg, hasn't any rheumatologist suggested Enbrel, Remicade, or Humira? I don't know which of these drugs is available in Australia, but it sounds like MTX isn't doing it for either the PA or the P; and at least with Enbrel I know it has a good track record for helping the P as well as the PA. And no, you shouldn't be seeing a dermatologist " instead " . Maybe " in addition to " , but not " instead " . But maybe you need a better rheumatologist! I met this woman at the Arthritis Society here in Canada a while ago who had PA very badly. She could hardly walk and reminded me of myself at my worst point. However, while MY rheumatologist has done all he can for me and is wonderful in every way, HERS wouldn't even put her on MTX, let alone one of the biologics. This woman was in extreme pain constantly and could scarcely take a step, and yet her rheumy was only treating her with NSAIDs. I say this to illustrate that sometimes rheumies don't take the proper care in treating us. MTX hasn't been enough for me (it has helped, but only so much), so my rheumy has tried other things. If MTX isn't enough for you, your rheumy should be doing the same. At the very least, if biologics aren't readily available in Australia, you could be on sulfasalazine or gold. Get a better rheumatologist, Greg... You deserve better care than you're getting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2004 Report Share Posted February 20, 2004 Dear all mixed up What do you want from your life? What do you perceive as a 'normal' life? If you perceive 'normal' as smoking weed, lifting weights and being a fireman then you may be disappointed. You can't have everything you want in life, and somethings take time. Don't be beaten by your own frustration for a quick answer, and don't think your life is over because you might have to give up the weed! Get real, open your mind. There is a world out there beyond weed, weights and careers! I think it's great that you know what you want to do in life but if it doesn't work out you will find another career, another hobby, new friends etc. Life does go on. You will cope. Please don't complain on this website about not being able to consume foreign substances because of your PA or medication. That isn't fair to those who have real problems related to PA. Having to give up weed doesn't rank on my top ten list of earth shattering things to give up one day give because of PA! I really do wish you all the best with this nasty disease. Keep positive, don't give up on your dream career just yet! Hang on in there. Darren Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2004 Report Share Posted February 21, 2004 Hi , Greg's post, to which you (in my opinion, at any rate) responded so aptly, reminded me of my own travails (and so many others', as well). Your suggestion he find a better rheumatologist strikes me as smack on target, too. Many years past, I also (like Greg) wound up with Type II Diabetes, courtesy prednisone. And I went through (as so many of us have) the challenges, debates, the arguments (in which, so often, the more vociferously and insistently you postulate your critical need for adequate pain relief, the more resistant to that notion physicians may become-- often mistaking a patient's legitimate fears and anxiousness regarding obtaining pain meds (e.g., the " taint " of societal/familial attitudes towards narcotics; one's fears regarding the ability to work or perform other tasks & actions--maybe even lose, or not get, a job, etc.). Given the MTX and prednisone dosages Greg has been taking, he likely will need a serious painkiller (i.e., a Schedule III, maybe even II, narcotic), which means it's time to see a pain management specialist. It's important to understand, if the capacity to function at a near- normal level is neccessary or important--or both, to you, and multi- site pain prevents that (single-site pain--perhaps even 2 or 3-site-- might conceivably be managed alternatively), then narcotic meds can represent arguably the best possible answer--for some (but not all) of us. (For those who haven't already learned their strengths & weaknesses, Schedule II narcotics can be an extremely effective, and utterly unforgiving, educator.) Unlike other docs, the pain management docs are used to (where appropriate) prescribing in appropriate dosages. By and large, they are not as worried (given their specialty) as other docs about nastygrams from state & federal regulators. It was only after many, many years of trying to manage pain meds with/through my internist, and perpetually being forced to limit my activities, that I asked for a referral to a hospital-based pain management group. It is a HUGE relief, to now have a real partner in adequately managing the PA pain. I can work full time, and get things done at home too; much less couch potato time... D. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2004 Report Share Posted February 21, 2004 Ruth, What do you think may have given you this flare? One of my sisters had a severe flare at 14 with the p after getting a sunburn. Have you had any physical trauma that may have caused your bed ridden situation? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 22, 2004 Report Share Posted February 22, 2004 Hey mel i hope you read this cuase i have something that has a pretty high success rate with curing tendonitis. I don't know if you've ever heard of ART (Active Realease Techniques) but it works wonderfully as far as tendonitis and stress reltated injuries go... You should check out www.activereleasetechniques.com and find a provider in your area, millions swear by it (including me, save me from surgery many times over the course of my weight lifting career ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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