Re: return of aggressive behavior

[Guest guest]

Hi Amy,

It can be the lack of clo as the efa's in clo are responsible for mood. Maybe

just cut back on the sugar or require he get his only sugar from fruit and

restart the clo and see where you are.

Tell him at 3, he doesn't get to make the decision about what he needs or

doesn't need. He sounds hysterical but I know that often times this stuff is

funny only if it's someone else's child, but hang on, 3 does pass.

My mother used to say " When they are 2 you'd like to kill them and when they're

3........you wonder why you didn't. " Just a little humor.

[ ] return of aggressive behavior

hi all I got a note from school yesterday that my little one has been

displaying aggressive behavior, shoving, pushing, yellowing, throwing

toys, hitting. Last week he told his teacher assistant that he

would " beat her a$$ " - he's only three. Needless to say he is a

handful. The school has been telling me he's just a normal kid. but

they don't know what I go through at home to maintain his balance.

I'm sort of glad they are getting to experience him, but, I'm also

saddened at the same time by how little it takes to get him out of

whack again.

He has recently been refusing to take some of his supplements saying he

does not " need " them. Vitamin C, CLO and zinc are the hardest to

give. Also, I have not been quite as good about the low sugar aspect

of his diet as I should be. I'm sick, and I've been exhausted. Even

though I want to make sure he take everything and does not eat sugar, I

just don't have the energy lately.

Could the behavior be caused by something else that I'm missing, or is

it really just the lack of these things for a few days that has caused

it to return so fast.

Thanks,

Amy

[Guest guest]

Amy,

I also wanted to add something from a grandmother who has been through a few

things. My dd as a baby was a dream, slept through the night on the very night I

brought her home from the hospital, walked and talked very early and even as a

young toddler was totally reasonable and would calmly walk away from anything I

asked her not to touch.

When she hit about 22 months the fit hit the shan and we battled frequently

until she was about three and a half while I tried to tamp down my panic that I

had spawned the devil child.

But by 4 she was back to her calm, cooperative self and remained that way all

through even her teenage and college years and is a delightful young woman that

never again caused either her father or I a moments worry, save for the years

between 2 and 4. Sometimes the battles just come early.

[ ] return of aggressive behavior

hi all I got a note from school yesterday that my little one has been

displaying aggressive behavior, shoving, pushing, yellowing, throwing

toys, hitting. Last week he told his teacher assistant that he

would " beat her a$$ " - he's only three. Needless to say he is a

handful. The school has been telling me he's just a normal kid. but

they don't know what I go through at home to maintain his balance.

I'm sort of glad they are getting to experience him, but, I'm also

saddened at the same time by how little it takes to get him out of

whack again.

He has recently been refusing to take some of his supplements saying he

does not " need " them. Vitamin C, CLO and zinc are the hardest to

give. Also, I have not been quite as good about the low sugar aspect

of his diet as I should be. I'm sick, and I've been exhausted. Even

though I want to make sure he take everything and does not eat sugar, I

just don't have the energy lately.

Could the behavior be caused by something else that I'm missing, or is

it really just the lack of these things for a few days that has caused

it to return so fast.

Thanks,

Amy

[Guest guest]

Mine gets back into anger problems when he misses his supplements. He's

17, and he thinks he doesn't need them too, and I still tell him he does

and make him take them when I can. Unfortunately, I'm not always there.

I remind him when the ugly behavior rears its head that this is why he

is taking them.

It could be something else environmental at the school too. Someone

else was having a problem with air fresheners. Anything at the school

change? Maybe the teachers added " holiday scents " to their classrooms?

P.

Amy wrote:

>

> hi all I got a note from school yesterday that my little one has been

> displaying aggressive behavior, shoving, pushing, yellowing, throwing

> toys, hitting. Last week he told his teacher assistant that he

> would " beat her a$$ " - he's only three. Needless to say he is a

> handful. The school has been telling me he's just a normal kid. but

> they don't know what I go through at home to maintain his balance.

> I'm sort of glad they are getting to experience him, but, I'm also

> saddened at the same time by how little it takes to get him out of

> whack again.

>

> He has recently been refusing to take some of his supplements saying he

> does not " need " them. Vitamin C, CLO and zinc are the hardest to

> give. Also, I have not been quite as good about the low sugar aspect

> of his diet as I should be. I'm sick, and I've been exhausted. Even

> though I want to make sure he take everything and does not eat sugar, I

> just don't have the energy lately.

>

> Could the behavior be caused by something else that I'm missing, or is

> it really just the lack of these things for a few days that has caused

> it to return so fast.

>

> Thanks,

> Amy

>

>

[Guest guest]

My 6 year old gets extremely aggressive if she misses her dose of

P5P. Nothing else affects her aggression quite like that

supplement. She will literally chase down her older brother and

beat him up if she's not got enough in her system.

While I do believe getting the CLO back in and the sugar back outis

necessary, if you lack the ability to do those at this time, I would

suggest the P5P. Then when you feel a little better, maybe you can

tackle the CLO and sugar issues. P5P saved our sanity here...

HTH

Wyndie

>

> hi all I got a note from school yesterday that my little one has

been

> displaying aggressive behavior, shoving, pushing, yellowing,

throwing

> toys, hitting. Last week he told his teacher assistant that he

> would " beat her a$$ " - he's only three. Needless to say he is a

> handful. The school has been telling me he's just a normal kid.

but

> they don't know what I go through at home to maintain his

balance.

> I'm sort of glad they are getting to experience him, but, I'm also

> saddened at the same time by how little it takes to get him out of

> whack again.

>

> He has recently been refusing to take some of his supplements

saying he

> does not " need " them. Vitamin C, CLO and zinc are the hardest to

> give. Also, I have not been quite as good about the low sugar

aspect

> of his diet as I should be. I'm sick, and I've been exhausted.

Even

> though I want to make sure he take everything and does not eat

sugar, I

> just don't have the energy lately.

>

> Could the behavior be caused by something else that I'm missing,

or is

> it really just the lack of these things for a few days that has

caused

> it to return so fast.

>

> Thanks,

> Amy

>

[Guest guest]

I just went over there to the school yesterday and

there did not seem to be any changes in the room...

though he does have a new driver in the car. She was

wearing a santa hat this morning! She seems like a

fun lady, my son willingly walked out to the car by

himself and got himself in the car with her which is a

big positive change. So I don't think its her that is

leading to the behaviors... I think you're probably

right about the supplements being missed, I just

thought it might take more than a couple of days for

it to be noticeable. *sigh* Guess I was just getting

ahead of myself, he's been on a regimen for almost two

years and this is the first break I've taken. I think

this just made me realize that without chelation, the

regimen is just a bandaid and not curing anything.

But that is why we are going to a DAN! to get ready

for chelation...

--- " P. " <the.great.zambini@...> wrote:

> Mine gets back into anger problems when he misses

> his supplements. He's

> 17, and he thinks he doesn't need them too, and I

> still tell him he does

> and make him take them when I can. Unfortunately,

> I'm not always there.

> I remind him when the ugly behavior rears its head

> that this is why he

> is taking them.

>

> It could be something else environmental at the

> school too. Someone

> else was having a problem with air fresheners.

> Anything at the school

> change? Maybe the teachers added " holiday scents "

> to their classrooms?

> P.

>

> Amy wrote:

> >

> > hi all I got a note from school yesterday that my

> little one has been

> > displaying aggressive behavior, shoving, pushing,

> yellowing, throwing

> > toys, hitting. Last week he told his teacher

> assistant that he

> > would " beat her a$$ " - he's only three. Needless

> to say he is a

> > handful. The school has been telling me he's just

> a normal kid. but

> > they don't know what I go through at home to

> maintain his balance.

> > I'm sort of glad they are getting to experience

> him, but, I'm also

> > saddened at the same time by how little it takes

> to get him out of

> > whack again.

> >

> > He has recently been refusing to take some of his

> supplements saying he

> > does not " need " them. Vitamin C, CLO and zinc are

> the hardest to

> > give. Also, I have not been quite as good about

> the low sugar aspect

> > of his diet as I should be. I'm sick, and I've

> been exhausted. Even

> > though I want to make sure he take everything and

> does not eat sugar, I

> > just don't have the energy lately.

> >

> > Could the behavior be caused by something else

> that I'm missing, or is

> > it really just the lack of these things for a few

> days that has caused

> > it to return so fast.

> >

> > Thanks,

> > Amy

> >

> >

>

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[Guest guest]

Have looked into Oxytocin. It is supposed to stop a meltdown in

seconds of being sprayed in one nostril. Your DAN doc can prescribe it

and it's filled by a compounding pharmacy.

Zurama

> > >

> > > hi all I got a note from school yesterday that my

> > little one has been

> > > displaying aggressive behavior, shoving, pushing,

> > yellowing, throwing

> > > toys, hitting. Last week he told his teacher

> > assistant that he

> > > would " beat her a$$ " - he's only three. Needless

> > to say he is a

> > > handful. The school has been telling me he's just

> > a normal kid. but

> > > they don't know what I go through at home to

> > maintain his balance.

> > > I'm sort of glad they are getting to experience

> > him, but, I'm also

> > > saddened at the same time by how little it takes

> > to get him out of

> > > whack again.

> > >

> > > He has recently been refusing to take some of his

> > supplements saying he

> > > does not " need " them. Vitamin C, CLO and zinc are

> > the hardest to

> > > give. Also, I have not been quite as good about

> > the low sugar aspect

> > > of his diet as I should be. I'm sick, and I've

> > been exhausted. Even

> > > though I want to make sure he take everything and

> > does not eat sugar, I

> > > just don't have the energy lately.

> > >

> > > Could the behavior be caused by something else

> > that I'm missing, or is

> > > it really just the lack of these things for a few

> > days that has caused

> > > it to return so fast.

> > >

> > > Thanks,

> > > Amy

> > >

> > >

> >

>

>

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

He could have yeast from all the sugar he normally does not eat. This

will cause aggression, or at least it does in my house.

Do your best when you get better to rid your house of these foods.

That way he has nothing else to choose from but healthy foods.

Schools always say they are normal..but a three year old saying he

wants to beat the teacher's butt is not normal. I saw this type of

anger in my son before we began chelation. If you little one is

toxic...consider chelation.

If already doing that..disregard

>

> hi all I got a note from school yesterday that my little one has been

> displaying aggressive behavior, shoving, pushing, yellowing, throwing

> toys, hitting. Last week he told his teacher assistant that he

> would " beat her a$$ " - he's only three. Needless to say he is a

> handful. The school has been telling me he's just a normal kid. but

> they don't know what I go through at home to maintain his balance.

> I'm sort of glad they are getting to experience him, but, I'm also

> saddened at the same time by how little it takes to get him out of

> whack again.

>

> He has recently been refusing to take some of his supplements saying he

> does not " need " them. Vitamin C, CLO and zinc are the hardest to

> give. Also, I have not been quite as good about the low sugar aspect

> of his diet as I should be. I'm sick, and I've been exhausted. Even

> though I want to make sure he take everything and does not eat sugar, I

> just don't have the energy lately.

>

> Could the behavior be caused by something else that I'm missing, or is

> it really just the lack of these things for a few days that has caused

> it to return so fast.

>

> Thanks,

> Amy

>

[Guest guest]

>

> hi all I got a note from school yesterday that my little one has been

> displaying aggressive behavior, shoving, pushing, yellowing, throwing

> toys, hitting. Last week he told his teacher assistant that he

> would " beat her a$$ " - he's only three. Needless to say he is a

> handful. The school has been telling me he's just a normal kid.

If the school is sending you a note, he is not a normal kid.

> Could the behavior be caused by something else that I'm missing, or is

> it really just the lack of these things for a few days that has caused

> it to return so fast.

Try insisting that he take them, tell him the school is sending home

notes and that is why he needs them. If he is still having problems

after adding them back, then explore other options.

Dana