Guest guest Posted February 27, 2003 Report Share Posted February 27, 2003 Message: 8 Date: Mon, 01 Oct 2001 02:14:51 -0000 From: techman@... Subject: Deb, , Trudy response Special thanks to and Trudy and (of course) Deb, my sis I have been a long time in posting to this group, although I have lurked, read, and appreciated all of your postings. The participants of this newsgroup have been a resource for links to alternative therapies. I thank you for this information and in advance for future information that will come forth. Cancer, just the word, has to be one of the most evil and devastating sounds uttered by mankind. It evokes fear and fright & it exposes weakness and vulnerability. Yet if we choose, the result of this intrusion upon life, good things may come as a product. Although I am ill qualified to make suggestions as to how one with cancer should proceed, I offer my experience that it may benefit someone. One year ago, last April 2000, my wife age 42, was suffering with hip and groin pain, pains that brought her to tears during the night. After going to the doctor and receiving muscle relaxing drugs and mild pain killers, there was no change. It was thought that she was suffering from arthritis or early osteoporosis. She is a teacher of twenty years and before returning for the 2000-2001 school year, I insisted she have a complete physical. This was late August of 2000. After a mammogram they discovered a lump in her left breast less than one inch in diameter. A subsequent needle biopsy confirmed our worse fears, malignant breast cancer. No lymph nodes were swollen but it was recommended that a mastectomy followed by chemo and radiation be performed. September 13th, I will never forget that date, as I spent the entire night on the Internet researching cancer. I found sites concerning raw and living foods, laetrile, gerson therapy, Hulda , Johanna Budwig, Flax seed, household toxins, Rife technology, Zappers, Syncronometers, CoQ-10, MSN, MGN, and last but not least " life style changes " . September 15th we engaged. Cleaned house, tossed all meats, dairy, banished processed foods, went raw, and no white poisons. I put my credit card to use on the internet and purchased numerous cancer modalities. We still did not feel safe. We sought second opinions, first a private oncologist that came very highly recommended, and secondly the University of Nebraska at Omaha. We were given the same recommendations. At this point we felt she had a very good chance for curbing the spread of the cancer, but she was still suffering immensely from pain in her hips, lower back, and groin. As a prerequisite of surgery, she was required to have a MRI and bone scan. We did that locally and to our total dismay, it was revealed to us that she had cancer in her bones. Not just a single bone, but throughout her skeleton. Her knees, hips, ileum, sternum, ribs, spine, essentially everything except her skull. A bone marrow sample was performed and confirmed the worst possible scenario, metastasized breast cancer to the bone, stage four. Date October 5th. I had, as a precaution, already made an appointment at Mayo Clinic, Rochester Minnesota, for what I though was going to be another of our second/second opinions concerning the lump and hence, called and confirmed. We packed for a three to four week stay, as instructed by Mayo, thinking there would be clinical studies or a modality that would give us hope. We arrived on a Monday, first appointment Tuesday at 6:45 AM and continued through the day with numerous exams including stereoscopic x-rays etc. At 5:30 P.M., the same day, we met with three specialists who had reviewed our tests. The verdict: get your affairs in order. Upon pressuring the lead specialist for a professional prognosis he stated, " You will be on morphine by January " . Upon further prodding for the time involved, i.e. " How much time do we have " he said, " Two months to possibly a year " . I asked the specialist, " How in the world can you call this breast cancer when she has been hurting in her hips since last April and the minute lump was found in September? " . He must of realized how stern I was for answers as his reply was, " Let me tell you how we developed nomenclature for cancers. The first cancer that is found is biopsied under a light microscope and a picture of the cell structure is sketched. Any subsequent cancers that appear are biopsied and if the cell structure is similar they are classified as a metastasized form of the primary cancer " . I thought, what bunk, as I wanted proof as in nuclear magnetic resonance spectrometry, cell studies, DNA analysis, or anything other than a non-artists rendition of cell shape. We headed back to Nebraska the next day in total shock. I was numb and hardly remember the trip. I did however remember one statement concerning the stereoscopic x-rays. The X-ray specialist said there appears to be healing sites in the ribs and sternum. I asked how he differentiated these from active cancer sites and he replied, " They appear as if osteoporosis has set in which is different than active cancer sites " . This was the ray of hope that I believe got us back home. After arriving home I could not get the words " healing sites " out of my mind. We had made a drastic dietary\environmental change just 20 days prior to the Mayo visit and I knew something was happening. Let me explain, this was nothing intuitive or spiritual but just plain apparent, as I had lost 18 lbs with the diet change. Not only the weight loss confirmed my hypothesis, but the total digestive health I was now experiencing was nothing less than phenomenal. I was a 6-8 pill-a-day xyantac user prior to the diet change, and now was acid reflux free! I could go on with details concerning our nutritional\life style changes but feel I have said enough tonight. This is a long posting and I apologize for my rambling. As this is my first posting to any newsgroup, I would appreciate responses. Thank you Deb (dear Sis) for breaking me out. Rex PS My wife is more alive than ever, teaching, loving, mothering, and celebrating life! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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