Guest guest Posted October 18, 2006 Report Share Posted October 18, 2006 Then I am just one more exception to the rule, I guess. I breast-fed both of my sons until they walked at 9 months and were too busy to bother with Mom anymore :>) -- because I suspected they would be lactose-intolerant like me (they are), because I wanted to give them my immunities (they both were pretty healthy babies), and because I'd hoped that by doing this I would help them avoid having to wear braces on their teeth when they were older (they both had to anyway). And yes, somewhere in all of that, I was hoping to give myself a better chance of avoiding breast cancer down the line. I was diagnosed with breast cancer anyway. Go figure. Cheryl I think the reason that there is an epidemic is because the women who give birth who elect not to breast-feed are routinely given a strong hormone to shut down the natural purpose of the breast, which is to lactate for babies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2006 Report Share Posted October 18, 2006 Me, too. I breastfed all three of my little ones to 9-12 months of age. I'm definitely not in the " most likely " stats! Tina You wrote: Then I am just one more exception to the rule, I guess. I breast-fed both of my sons until they walked at 9 months and were too busy to bother with Mom anymore :>) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2006 Report Share Posted October 18, 2006 --Guess I was one of the ones who has breast cancer and did indeed breast feed both my babies for months. So.........truly trying to find cause is just not worth it. I went to my naturopath today and he wants me in for an MRI and the totally suggests surgery for removal immediately. Why? should I ask, there's no point I am resolute with my faith and am thanking the Lord daily for my healing.. Praise God! Frann - In , Ellen & Bob <rhudy@...> wrote: > Not breastfeeding is > risking your life. > Ellen > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2006 Report Share Posted October 18, 2006 --Cheryl: How are you doing and what are you doing? I guess I have to agree with you and truthfully I was told by some that because we breast fed and probably got an infection somewhere along the way thats why we " might " have breast cancer. You can figure a million reasons and it doesn't really matter its how you got at it and how you fight and how you live you life thats going to make the difference. " I will live and NOT die " Frann , " ymisty7 " <misty777@...> wrote: > > Then I am just one more exception to the rule, I guess. > > I breast-fed both of my sons until they walked at 9 months and were > too busy to bother with Mom anymore :>) -- And yes, somewhere in all of that, I was hoping to give myself a better chance of avoiding breast cancer down the line. > > I was diagnosed with breast cancer anyway. Go figure. > > Cheryl > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2006 Report Share Posted October 18, 2006 I breast-fed the two I gave birth to for 4 years and 5 years and I have bilateral breast cancer. I don't think it helped me (at least not in cancer prevention). Hopefully, they got something out of it! ----- Original Message ----- From: ymisty7 Then I am just one more exception to the rule, I guess. I breast-fed both of my sons until they walked at 9 months and were Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 Frann: There might be a million reasons why we might have gotten breast cancer. I do agree how we live our life is important. I do feel finding the reason we got it is important also; in that we can help secure the babies we breast fed! Since so many of us breast fed we already discovered something. That doing just that isn't what prevents cancer. Now how many of us have a mouthful of mercury fillings and how long? Lina > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 I also breast fed---for a total of about 4 yrs and was diagnosed shortly after the birth of my 7th child. As a matter of fact I had to wean 2 of my children to have my surgery. I did have a mastectomy with lymph node dissection due to the fact that my Dr waited SO long to find out what my lump was that by the time I switched Dr''s I could not even put my arm down because my lymph nodes were so out of control. I have no regrets with having my breast removed!!! Its just a breast that happened to be hosting a huge tumor. I was not so attatched that I couldn't bear to lose it. It does not nor ever has defined who I am as a woman. I did pray a lot before I had my surgery and had a great peace from God and never once was even a little sad about my decision. I also did not do reconstruction. I am now 38 and expecting my 8th child next month who will be breastfeeding on my uni-boob! LOL!!! I did not do any other conventional treatments other than the surgery even though I was left with a huge lymph node that they missed. It was hiding high up under my muscle. It took 6 months but it disappeared. My Dr wants me to get a CT scan and bone scan after I deliver but I've decided I'm not doing that. I feel like PET scans are somewhat safer. I also realize thermography is even better but I'm in a small town where they have not discovered them yet....Soooo, I guess we'll see. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 Greetings, I am the opposite end of the spectrum, I had a hysterectomy when I was 21 and pregnant with my first child. Needless to say I have never breast fed. I did have the fibrous cysts so bad that a bra was totally painful as were clothes. Because of this, they started me on mammograms at age 25. When I did get breast cancer at age 31, I found the lump a mere 3 months after a clear mammogram. They called it a precancerous mass and told me it had to come out, but then due to socialized medicine in Canada, I went on a waiting list to get the surgery. By the time they removed the mass 7 months later, it had turned to cancer. I was told they got all of it in the surgery and I refused the radiation treatments they wanted me to have just to be sure. At the time I asked them what was the point of early detection when they wouldn't do anything about what was found in a timely manner. I have never had another mammogram, since obviously they give a very false sense of security. I am not sure why I refused the radiation therapy, but I am glad that I did. Now, I know why that was a good decision, but then, it was only a feeling that it was not a good idea. I have had melanoma which was cut out since then, back in 1998. I decided that enough was enough. I started do real research into why cancer forms and what can be done about it. The changes I have made to my diet have improved my health to the point where I am now the healthiest I have ever been. My genetic sire's family had a lot of cancer, with many aunts and uncles dying from it. I refuse to do so. Bright Blessings, Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 Kim, do you use iodine supplementation for your breasts? ----- Original Message ----- From: Garth & Kim , I am the opposite end of the spectrum, I had a hysterectomy when I was 21 and pregnant with my first child. Needless to say I have never breast fed. I did have the fibrous cysts so bad that a bra was totally painful as were clothes. Because of this, they started me on mammograms at age 25. When I did get breast cancer at age 31, Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 Greetings, I first heard about iodine supplementation back in the 1980s when I suffered from fibrous cysts. Information was sketchy to put it mildly, then. And it was expensive. The one thing the doctors had right was that menopause would end that problem, permanently. It did. I have not had any cysts for over 15 years now, so I have no need to take the iodine. Bright Blessings, Kim At 10:59 AM 10/19/2006, you wrote: Kim, do you use iodine supplementation for your breasts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 You are an amazing woman ! I think your attitude alone will save you! Putting so much importance in breasts belongs to people that can't find happiness in anything else. You have discovered the real meaning of life by unattaching yourself from the physical. The first step in healing the body is healing your spirit. and I think you've got it. There is a lot of advise in this forum. You will know what 's best for you. Lots of love Lina Subject: [ ] Re: Breast cancer statistics for Frann I have no regrets with having my breast removed!!! Its just a breast that happened to be hosting a huge tumor. I was not so attatched that I couldn't bear to lose it. It does not nor ever has defined who I am as a woman. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 --Kim: Can you tell me more about the iodine and how you test for it and where do you get it. thanks for the info. Frann > In , Garth & Kim <gartht@...> wrote: > > Greetings, > I first heard about iodine supplementation back in the 1980s when I > suffered from fibrous cysts. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 -Kim: Thank you so much for sharing so candidly. I guess I am in a similar spot except one thing I chose to be here. I have made the changes way back in Dec to organic but am convinced now that if you don't do it full heartedly you're kidding yourself. I was still eating some meat and thats just not good. Any suggestions would be wonderful at this point. Frann In , Garth & Kim <gartht@...> wrote: > > Greetings, > > I am the opposite end of the spectrum, I had a hysterectomy when I > was 21 and pregnant with my first child. Needless to say I have > never breast fed. > > Bright Blessings, > Kim > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 --: What is your position right now? What was your decision with your cancer? I don't recall ever reading it before. Thanks for your response. Frann In , " King's Song " <melanie@...> wrote: > > I breast-fed the two I gave birth to for 4 years and 5 years and I have bilateral breast cancer. I don't think it helped me (at least not in cancer prevention). Hopefully, they got something out of it! > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 I just sent an e-mail about that! I'm on so many lists that I have difficulty remembering where I've said what. So far I have gone totally nutritional/natural therapies. I have not done any type of medical treatment. My doctor's words to me on Tuesday were that the breast " moves more freely on the chest than before " and that the skin is " softer " (I call it more squishy). The tumor is not actually smaller at this point, but it will be soon! When I went to the doctor 3 months ago and was told that I most likely had cancer there was very significant dimpling in the breast with the larger tumor, and the dimpling is almost completely gone. From: fmschwegler :...What was your decision with your cancer? I don't recall ever reading it before. Frann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 -: Thank you for sharing your testimony and post with me. I have felt Gods peace from the moment this was found and even with the changes I still don't feel that peace going away. I am resolved to the fact that I have a part to play in this and I can't be complacent at all. I will have the MRI but I don't think I will let anyone touch the lymph nodes whats the difference if they're cancerous or not if your working to heal they will heal also. Would love to hear from you privately so I can ask some questions that may not be appropriate on the site. Again thank you sharing and I pray that all works out perfectly for YOU. Frann In , Farley <read_isaiah_53_5@...> wrote: > > I also breast fed---for a total of about 4 yrs and was diagnosed shortly after the birth of my 7th child. As a matter of fact I had to wean 2 of my children to have my surgery. I did have a mastectomy with lymph node dissection due to the fact that my Dr waited SO long to find out what my lump was that by the time I switched Dr''s I could not even put my arm down because my lymph nodes were so out of control. I have no regrets with having my breast removed!!! Its just a breast that happened to be hosting a huge tumor. I was not so attatched that I couldn't bear to lose it. It does not nor ever has defined who I am as a woman. I did pray a lot before I had my surgery and had a great peace from God and never once was even a little sad about my decision. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 --Lina: Since my diagnosis I have read hundreds if not thousands of hours of articles on beast cancer. They say it could be caused by breast feeding, by fillings in your mouth or even a root canal or bad tooth presently in your mouth, they also say a car accident that julted your boobs, they even go so far as to say seat belts might be the cause. WHO CARES LETS JUST FIND THE CURE ALREADY.. With all the monies spent you'd think someone would have gotten something right already. Its NOT going to happen here in the US because of the pharmaceutical companies and the billions they will loose. But that doesn't mean that people like you and me can't search and find alternative that work. Right now I am praying for someone to tell me something that will shrink this thing inside me quickly. I have read so much and sometimes its just one big blur but I know its out there and right now Johanna Budwig is what I am following. I have God's peace. Thank you, Frann - In , " kneadlina " <kneadlina@...> wrote: > > Frann: > There might be a million reasons why we might have gotten breast cancer. I do agree how we live our life is important. > > Lina > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 21, 2006 Report Share Posted October 21, 2006 Frann. Don't you think we already have most of the answers? Sometimes we make it more difficult because of our fears. Lets say we did most of the cleanses. Got rid of the mercury, did a kidney cleanse..parasite cleanse..liver and colon cleanse; and we still face that thing in our breast. What then? We're eating whole organic food, cut the soy, but that thing is still haunting you? What if your conscious self is fearless, but your unconscious self is not - its crying like a baby. That is harder to clean up. It requires looking into our hurts from the past and forgiving ourselves and others. Seems impossible? I had a client with severe frozen shoulder that it affected the position of his head..it was tilted. He said he had it for thirty years! I thought it was unusual that no one was able to do anything for that long. I asked him if anything emotional happened at that time? He said yes but he was used to it now and he doesn't think about it anymore. His son died at seven years old! I asked him " and you don't see the connection with that crisis and your shoulder? That was the first time I " saw " someone connect with his sub-conscious...he went into shock. His eyes were glazed and he looked like he wanted to respond but couldn't talk. Its funny how you just know its the truth when you hear it. What I understand about past pain.is if you don't find a positive thought to replace that negative..you will carry it the rest of your life..In this case He carried quilt. Every parent feels responsible. We punish ourselves even though we think we don't. We want good for ourselves but deep down we haven't let go of something. What does this have to do with a tumor? The tumour could be the manifestation of you not forgiving yourself. People blame themselves for things that couldn't be helped...that is just who we are. This is just another way of looking at this. Hope it helps Lina Peace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 22, 2006 Report Share Posted October 22, 2006 --Thank you again for all this wisdom and encouragement I am so blessed. You are right about forgiveness. It can form a bitter root if we let it. I have been in prayer about my past as you are the third person to say this. " Wonder if God is trying to tell me something here " ? I need some quiet to time alone to really sit and just listen.. Again thank you, Frann - In , " kneadlina " <kneadlina@...> wrote: > The tumour could be the manifestation of you not forgiving yourself. > > People blame themselves for things that couldn't be helped...that is just who we are. This is just another way of looking at this. > Hope it helps > > Lina > Peace > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 22, 2006 Report Share Posted October 22, 2006 ---: So you are simply just changing your eating habits and the things you use externally on your body? No outside supplemnts in this? And your seeing shrinkage and a softer tumor? I never had breast wall envolvement either and my tunor is just hard and always has been. It hasn't changed in size he's just concerned because there are signs external now that weren't there before. I am using creams to rectify those. " King's Song " <melanie@...> wrote: > So far I have gone totally nutritional/natural therapies. I have not done any type of medical treatment. My doctor's words to me on Tuesday were that the breast " moves more freely on the chest than before " and that the skin is " softer " (I call it more squishy). The tumor is not actually smaller at this point, but it will be soon! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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