Guest guest Posted October 20, 2004 Report Share Posted October 20, 2004 Hi Helen, I have some suggestions for you. While I have been tapping for five or six years, I am not a psychotherapist. This is just my view based on my non-professional experience. > > I have always had a good rapport with this lad, both he and his > brother...He is very open and at ease with me and I think he would > be prepared to work with me. Having rapport is a good beginning. > > My feeling is that he has never confronted the trauma of his mother's > death properly, especially about finding her like that. You have no concrete knowledge as to why the boy is out of sorts now. You only have an idea based on your feeling. So my advice is to ignore any ideas about what you think is best for the boy and just treat whatever is bothering him that day. Let him tell you what's wrong. Maybe something totally unknown to you is bothering him. While he probably isn't over his mother's death, if he isn't feeling upset about his mother's death during a session, bringing it up will only make him feel worse. >He may be > blaming himself (the perpetrator was a friend of his), repressing > anger at the perpetrator and/or blocking out the horror of what he > saw. Maybe all these and more besides. Also his girlfriend leaving > him recently probably tipped the balance. Don't get caught up in the details of his background. Just tap on what's bothering him NOW. One of the great things about EFT is that you usually DON'T have to dredge up the past to get over it. If the past needs to be brought up, it will happen when the person is ready for it. He may tap on some feeling and out of the blue he'll say, " this reminds me of when I was younger and _____ happened. " Then you can tap on the past because then the boy is obviously ready for it. But tap on the feeling before you try something like the movie method. Don't make this more complicated than it already is. > The psychiatrist will probably prescribe drugs for him and schedule > counselling sessions. I would also like to try EFT to help him. My > query to you good people is on where do I start, what set-up and > reminder phrases would you suggest to use, would the tell-the-story > method be good for this situation (my feeling is that it might be > overwhelming in the first instance). The set up and reminder phrases will largely be given to you by the boy. You shouldn't have to think up anything on your own. Once you explain how to do EFT, he will fill in the blanks of the set up and reminder phrases with his own words. If the word isn't right, he'll fix it. I'll often change what I'm tapping on while rubbing the sore spot. I'll start rubbing and realize the right words for I'm really feeling and change the set up phrase. All the right words come out when you get out of the way and let them flow. Also be prepared to tap on whatever the boy worked on in with his counsellor. So one of your set up phrases may be " Even though I already worked on this feeling of ______ with my psychiatrist... " I hope he lets you teach him EFT. This doesn't sound like it's going to be one of those " five minute miracles " we like to read about but I'm sure he'll be thankful for the relief you provide him no matter what the issues turn out to be or how long it takes. Bob Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest guest Posted August 10, 2006 Report Share Posted August 10, 2006 There have been a number of testimonials posted on the silver-list@... of CS (ionized silver solution) curing oral cancer. You can make it for pennies a gallon over the cost of distilled water with 3 9 volt batteries, 2 wires with clips on the ends, and 2 5 " to 6 " pieces of ..999 silver wire. check the above mentioned site. Bob [ ] your advice please > Hello, I am from India and a great believer of natural healing. I have > been diagnosed for oral cancer (area between middle gum & right cheek) > and have undergone tests & biopsy. > > Doctors are now pushing me for " an aggressive chemo & radiation " for 3 > days every 21 days and promise that the condition can be reversed. I > am quite aware of the diabolic side-effects of these therapies. > > Can u pls. suggest/advice any sure-shot alternative/natural protocol > which will heal me completely. > > Request treat this on top priority and help. > > Warm regards/Shrinivasan, INDIA > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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