A lot of questions

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I am so glad i found you people!

Now this is my situation. I am married to a man who has what appears

to be hypogonadism. We married only last October, he was 53 and I

was 39 and both of us were virgins. To date we have not managed to

have sexual intercourse at all. He is convinced the problem is

size. I think it is plain simple ED. I would be most grateful to

have any advice from anyone.

Before we married he did actually go to the doctor and had blood

tests which showed all sorts of strange hormonal things. Marriage

meant a move 250 miles away though, and since coming to our present

address he refuses to visit a doctor at all. They had an appointment

with the specialist lined up for him and he never kept that because

it was the week after the wedding. We did not go on honeymoon and I

wanted him to keep the appointment but he cancelled it.

I am getting very frustrated and trying very hard not to show it for

fear of piling on the pressure and making things worse.