Guest guest Posted January 29, 2002 Report Share Posted January 29, 2002 rarely brings home homework. Usually it's math problems (that IMHO..need modified)..or a cut/paste sequence story with only 4 pictures. I should ask for spelling homework because he's going through a stage of finger spelling words. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2002 Report Share Posted January 29, 2002 Caty does these too. She seems to enjoy it. I don't think it's the most important thing she is learning, but I see it's importance. Does 's paper have the alphabet down the side so she can visually look at the alphabet? And do they let her cross out the words as she does them. Caty also has a 10 word spelling list. Hers all count but I have it written in the IEP if it becomes too much, too shorten the list to 5. Caty's homework only takes about 15 mins.-25 mins. I think that's about right. The kids in Reg.ed are supposed to do about 45 mins. a night when they are in 4th grade. Well, according to our school's guidelines anyway. homework > I am not a teacher, and therefore I don't understand everything about education. However, I think I have a good idea of what needs for the future. > brings home spelling words to learn over the course of the week. She is tested on 5 words out of the 10 on the list. They continue on to test her on the other 5, but don't count misses against her, correct answers are treated like extra credit. I have different ways of helping her learn to spell the words, seems to be working okay. > Now, knows her ABC's and the coordinating sounds. She is reading well on a solid first grade level, emerging high first grade to early second grade. What purpose is served by having her learn to write her words in ABC order? I know this might sound silly, but I can maintain her attention for homework for only so long. I would rather concentrate on spelling and reading. Having her write the words does help with retention, but the ABC order, I am not so sure about. > Anyone have any ideas? > > Sharon > Mom to (10, DS) and (6) > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2002 Report Share Posted January 29, 2002 Hi everyone (esp. Jill, , Cheryl and ) Thanks for the wonderful ideas and explanations about the ABC order homework. I guess I was so frustrated that I couldn't see of think clearly......now after reading your posts I have a much better understanding of why she needs this. And - your idea was great and I will definitely use this. Sharon Mom to (10, DS) and (6) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2002 Report Share Posted January 29, 2002 No, 's paper doesn't have the alphabet down the side, but after reading the wonderful answers to my question, it will. They sent home an alphabet timeline, but it is difficult for to follow because she has to look from one page to another constantly, and then write on a third page. I will show this to the teacher tomorrow. 's homework usually takes 25-30 minutes, which is a good amount of time for her. Sharon Mom to (10, DS) and (6) homework > > > > I am not a teacher, and therefore I don't understand everything about > education. However, I think I have a good idea of what needs for the > future. > > brings home spelling words to learn over the course of the week. > She is tested on 5 words out of the 10 on the list. They continue on to > test her on the other 5, but don't count misses against her, correct answers > are treated like extra credit. I have different ways of helping her learn > to spell the words, seems to be working okay. > > Now, knows her ABC's and the coordinating sounds. She is reading > well on a solid first grade level, emerging high first grade to early second > grade. What purpose is served by having her learn to write her words in ABC > order? I know this might sound silly, but I can maintain her attention for > homework for only so long. I would rather concentrate on spelling and > reading. Having her write the words does help with retention, but the ABC > order, I am not so sure about. > > Anyone have any ideas? > > > > Sharon > > Mom to (10, DS) and (6) > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2002 Report Share Posted January 30, 2002 In a message dated 1/29/02 7:25:56 PM Pacific Standard Time, cindysue@... writes: > rarely brings home homework. Usually it's math problems (that > IMHO..need modified)..or a cut/paste sequence story with only 4 pictures. > > I should ask for spelling homework because he's going through a stage of > finger spelling words. > > > > only brings home simple little printed up paper books that are supplements to the district wide program for communication arts. It is a nice series the teachers find it easy to adapt. Karyn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2002 Report Share Posted January 30, 2002 I think homework is useful for all children. There are many ways to modify assignments so that children can still do some homework but not the same load. I wouldn't hesitate to request homework from teachers that has been modified. I think homework is a valuable way to reinforce what they learned in class and show you what they are working on, give you a way to help out and perhaps teach your child another way of doing the work that the teacher may not have thought of so your child does master the skill without the frustration level that may come if they don't understand in school. My daughter has been in regular classes and had the same homework as the other children. I have always told teachers that if we had problems at home I would modify the homework and they were always agreeable to that. Spelling was and is her forte, she is an EXCELLENT speller. I think because it is such a concrete skill and she has a good memory. From second grade on they had 20 words a week. Every day you had to do something different with the words, one day sentences, one day alpha order, one day definitions, up to test day on Fridays. In elementary school, many times homework took her a LONG time to complete but she persisted. In middle school it was much better, because of block scheduling, they did most of their work in class. In high school she has much less homework, does it in study hall or in class when time is allotted. She comes home and immediately does her homework. It's a great habit she has developed and she applies it to all the things she must do, not just homework. Cheryl in VA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 25, 2005 Report Share Posted January 25, 2005 Homework has been becoming more and more of an issue. More and more tantrums and complaining every day. He's sitting there right now with easy (for him) but tedious homework that has been sitting in front of him for an hour. He is scribbling on his spelling sheet, keeps whining and picking at his head, kicking the bench and groaning an angry grown at the top of his lungs. He keeps saying "homework is pointless" over and over.There is noting I can do to "help" him short of doing it for him. Right now he's threatening to rip up the papers. I have let him get up and walk around..have a snack...etc.. ARH!-Charlotte Mom to 11 AS/ADHD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2005 Report Share Posted January 26, 2005 I had the same day as you. What makes me upset with this one is that the school is sending my son to the special eds teachers room when he has difficulty finishing his work, to talk about anything to her as well. Then he tells me, Mom don’t send snacks because I can’t have them, I go to Mrs. Brassaurds class during snack time. Isn’t that illegal? That wasn’t the deal in our last IEP meeting!! I knew at the meeting the teacher would be upset because they wanted to send him out of her room for a higher class in reading, they can’t do that I hear and its resulted to him going at snack time to this teacher I mentioned above. So he is starved when he gets home…I made him do each problem, reward him with cheese curl when he done one problem correct. I have the same problem w/homework. Deb’s Barry and Devin in Bama Re: Homework Homework has been becoming more and more of an issue. More and more tantrums and complaining every day. He's sitting there right now with easy (for him) but tedious homework that has been sitting in front of him for an hour. He is scribbling on his spelling sheet, keeps whining and picking at his head, kicking the bench and groaning an angry grown at the top of his lungs. He keeps saying " homework is pointless " over and over. There is noting I can do to " help " him short of doing it for him. Right now he's threatening to rip up the papers. I have let him get up and walk around..have a snack...etc.. ARH! -Charlotte Mom to 11 AS/ADHD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2005 Report Share Posted January 26, 2005 I have the same problem with my 5yr old . His homework is very easy and he doesn't see the point in doing it. MISSYSAHM to some special kids!!! I am who I am because that's who I am--, 5, Aspergers All kids are gifted; some just open theirpackages earlier than others. -- Carr Re: Homework Homework has been becoming more and more of an issue. More and more tantrums and complaining every day. He's sitting there right now with easy (for him) but tedious homework that has been sitting in front of him for an hour. He is scribbling on his spelling sheet, keeps whining and picking at his head, kicking the bench and groaning an angry grown at the top of his lungs. He keeps saying "homework is pointless" over and over.There is noting I can do to "help" him short of doing it for him. Right now he's threatening to rip up the papers. I have let him get up and walk around..have a snack...etc.. ARH!-Charlotte Mom to 11 AS/ADHD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2005 Report Share Posted January 26, 2005 >>I have the same problem with my 5yr old . His homework is very easy >>and he doesn't see the point in doing it. MISSY<< Can't say I blame him! Things are a bit different here now, but when my children were in infant school (age 4+ to 7), the only homework they got was to read their current reading book at home. So they brought home a new book they'd never read before, read it to me, with me helping where needed, went into school next day and were word perfect when reading to the teacher or a helper and moved up to the next book in the scheme. As they got a bit older, they also got a word list to learn for spelling, once a week. So homework was always new and challenging. At junior level (age 7+ to 11), there was a bit more to do but not much and certainly not every night. And not being forced to do pointless work has not affected their academic success - my daughter (NT) is currently at Oxford University and my son (AS) will be going to university next year. in England Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2005 Report Share Posted January 26, 2005 I had the same day as you. What makes me upset with this one is that the school is sending my son to the special eds teachers room when he has difficulty finishing his work, to talk about anything to her as well. Then he tells me, Mom don’t send snacks because I can’t have them, I go to Mrs. Brassaurds class during snack time. Isn’t that illegal? That wasn’t the deal in our last IEP meeting!! I knew at the meeting the teacher would be upset because they wanted to send him out of her room for a higher class in reading, they can’t do that I hear and its resulted to him going at snack time to this teacher I mentioned above. So he is starved when he gets home…I made him do each problem, reward him with cheese curl when he done one problem correct. I have the same problem w/homework. Deb’s Barry and Devin in Bama *************Response: when my son was in Ps. I made arrangements that he have a chance to have a snack around 10:00. He really needed this. It would be wise for the school to allow him to do this as he will be out of sorts without it. ly, it is common sense. Now possibly they don’t realize he has and needs a snack. I know my son would have never thought to tell anyone on his own……Gail Homework has been becoming more and more of an issue. More and more tantrums and complaining every day. He's sitting there right now with easy (for him) but tedious homework that has been sitting in front of him for an hour. He is scribbling on his spelling sheet, keeps whining and picking at his head, kicking the bench and groaning an angry grown at the top of his lungs. He keeps saying " homework is pointless " over and over. There is noting I can do to " help " him short of doing it for him. Right now he's threatening to rip up the papers. I have let him get up and walk around..have a snack...etc.. ARH! -Charlotte Mom to 11 AS/ADHD *****************Response: I am major anti homework because of what I went through with my son. Your son is right it is “pointless”. I have said this before, but we would spend hours on end doing math in first grade and he went into fourth grade not knowing 3+4. I think our kids need the afternoon and evening to re-group from a stressful day. Tony Atwood www.tonyatwood.com has an article on HW, he is not for it. Even my son’s Principal said no homework for in fourth grade, he was too stressed. Home work is one of those words that makes my blood pressure rise……….good luck, Gail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2005 Report Share Posted January 26, 2005 has sentences to do every night. He has words to study, a book report once a week and then numerous worksheets. If he refuses to do it at home then he does it at school and then has to stand during recess and not run around----torture to an ADHD child. MISSY SAHM to some special kids!!! I am who I am because that's who I am --, 5, Aspergers All kids are gifted; some just open their packages earlier than others. -- Carr Re: Homework > > >>>I have the same problem with my 5yr old . His homework is very easy >>>and he doesn't see the point in doing it. > MISSY<< > > Can't say I blame him! > > Things are a bit different here now, but when my children were in infant > school (age 4+ to 7), the only homework they got was to read their current > reading book at home. So they brought home a new book they'd never read > before, read it to me, with me helping where needed, went into school next > day and were word perfect when reading to the teacher or a helper and > moved > up to the next book in the scheme. As they got a bit older, they also got > a > word list to learn for spelling, once a week. > > So homework was always new and challenging. > > At junior level (age 7+ to 11), there was a bit more to do but not much > and > certainly not every night. > > And not being forced to do pointless work has not affected their academic > success - my daughter (NT) is currently at Oxford University and my son > (AS) > will be going to university next year. > > in England > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2005 Report Share Posted January 26, 2005 We have a similar problem here with recess, they take this time away for him to finish any work in the "responsibility room" NICE! Like he doesn't have enough problems, the other kids perceive this as him being "in trouble" PLUS, he looses valuable "steam run off time" during the day! I have complained over and over...and now they have to notify me if they "need" to do this for some reason! -Charlotte RE: Homework I had the same day as you. What makes me upset with this one is that the school is sending my son to the special eds teachers room when he has difficulty finishing his work, to talk about anything to her as well. Then he tells me, Mom don’t send snacks because I can’t have them, I go to Mrs. Brassaurds class during snack time. Isn’t that illegal? That wasn’t the deal in our last IEP meeting!! I knew at the meeting the teacher would be upset because they wanted to send him out of her room for a higher class in reading, they can’t do that I hear and its resulted to him going at snack time to this teacher I mentioned above. So he is starved when he gets home…I made him do each problem, reward him with cheese curl when he done one problem correct. I have the same problem w/homework. Deb’s Barry and Devin in Bama -----Original Message-----From: designs [mailto:scottdesigns@...] Sent: Tuesday, January 25, 2005 3:27 PMAutism and Aspergers Treatment Subject: Re: Homework Homework has been becoming more and more of an issue. More and more tantrums and complaining every day. He's sitting there right now with easy (for him) but tedious homework that has been sitting in front of him for an hour. He is scribbling on his spelling sheet, keeps whining and picking at his head, kicking the bench and groaning an angry grown at the top of his lungs. He keeps saying "homework is pointless" over and over.There is noting I can do to "help" him short of doing it for him. Right now he's threatening to rip up the papers. I have let him get up and walk around..have a snack...etc.. ARH!-Charlotte Mom to 11 AS/ADHD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2005 Report Share Posted January 26, 2005 That's it, I am moving to England. -Charlotte Re: Homework >>I have the same problem with my 5yr old . His homework is very easy >>and he doesn't see the point in doing it.MISSY<<Can't say I blame him!Things are a bit different here now, but when my children were in infant school (age 4+ to 7), the only homework they got was to read their current reading book at home. So they brought home a new book they'd never read before, read it to me, with me helping where needed, went into school next day and were word perfect when reading to the teacher or a helper and moved up to the next book in the scheme. As they got a bit older, they also got a word list to learn for spelling, once a week.So homework was always new and challenging.At junior level (age 7+ to 11), there was a bit more to do but not much and certainly not every night.And not being forced to do pointless work has not affected their academic success - my daughter (NT) is currently at Oxford University and my son (AS) will be going to university next year. in England Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2005 Report Share Posted January 26, 2005 OH THATS JUST WRONG!!! Re: Homework>>>>>I have the same problem with my 5yr old . His homework is very easy>>>and he doesn't see the point in doing it.> MISSY<<>> Can't say I blame him!>> Things are a bit different here now, but when my children were in infant> school (age 4+ to 7), the only homework they got was to read their current> reading book at home. So they brought home a new book they'd never read> before, read it to me, with me helping where needed, went into school next> day and were word perfect when reading to the teacher or a helper and > moved> up to the next book in the scheme. As they got a bit older, they also got > a> word list to learn for spelling, once a week.>> So homework was always new and challenging.>> At junior level (age 7+ to 11), there was a bit more to do but not much > and> certainly not every night.>> And not being forced to do pointless work has not affected their academic> success - my daughter (NT) is currently at Oxford University and my son > (AS)> will be going to university next year.>> in England>>>>>>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2005 Report Share Posted January 26, 2005 I never have and I never will know what the point of HW is!! -Charlotte RE: Homework I had the same day as you. What makes me upset with this one is that the school is sending my son to the special eds teachers room when he has difficulty finishing his work, to talk about anything to her as well. Then he tells me, Mom don’t send snacks because I can’t have them, I go to Mrs. Brassaurds class during snack time. Isn’t that illegal? That wasn’t the deal in our last IEP meeting!! I knew at the meeting the teacher would be upset because they wanted to send him out of her room for a higher class in reading, they can’t do that I hear and its resulted to him going at snack time to this teacher I mentioned above. So he is starved when he gets home…I made him do each problem, reward him with cheese curl when he done one problem correct. I have the same problem w/homework. Deb’s Barry and Devin in Bama *************Response: when my son was in Ps. I made arrangements that he have a chance to have a snack around 10:00. He really needed this. It would be wise for the school to allow him to do this as he will be out of sorts without it. ly, it is common sense. Now possibly they don’t realize he has and needs a snack. I know my son would have never thought to tell anyone on his own……Gail Homework has been becoming more and more of an issue. More and more tantrums and complaining every day. He's sitting there right now with easy (for him) but tedious homework that has been sitting in front of him for an hour. He is scribbling on his spelling sheet, keeps whining and picking at his head, kicking the bench and groaning an angry grown at the top of his lungs. He keeps saying "homework is pointless" over and over.There is noting I can do to "help" him short of doing it for him. Right now he's threatening to rip up the papers. I have let him get up and walk around..have a snack...etc.. ARH!-Charlotte Mom to 11 AS/ADHD *****************Response: I am major anti homework because of what I went through with my son. Your son is right it is “pointless”. I have said this before, but we would spend hours on end doing math in first grade and he went into fourth grade not knowing 3+4. I think our kids need the afternoon and evening to re-group from a stressful day. Tony Atwood www.tonyatwood.com has an article on HW, he is not for it. Even my son’s Principal said no homework for in fourth grade, he was too stressed. Home work is one of those words that makes my blood pressure rise……….good luck, Gail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2005 Report Share Posted January 26, 2005 I would call an ARD........... they can make accomodations for these guys to NOT HAVE HOMEWORK (or modify the amount of homework to be completed)........ Most AS kids are just so literally wiped out after a long day of keeping it together that they need THEIR DOWN TIME!!!! IT CAN BE DONE....................... We are still in the process and our 2nd grade teacher is understanding and doesn't push it with us.... Kody either CAN or CAN'T at night........... There is NO ANDS IFS OR BUTS ABOUT IT!............... AND WHEN HE CAN WE DO and if not WE DON'T! From: designs [mailto:scottdesigns@...] Sent: Wednesday, January 26, 2005 4:01 PMttyreeSubject: Re: Homework We have a similar problem here with recess, they take this time away for him to finish any work in the "responsibility room" NICE! Like he doesn't have enough problems, the other kids perceive this as him being "in trouble" PLUS, he looses valuable "steam run off time" during the day! I have complained over and over...and now they have to notify me if they "need" to do this for some reason! -Charlotte RE: Homework I had the same day as you. What makes me upset with this one is that the school is sending my son to the special eds teachers room when he has difficulty finishing his work, to talk about anything to her as well. Then he tells me, Mom don’t send snacks because I can’t have them, I go to Mrs. Brassaurds class during snack time. Isn’t that illegal? That wasn’t the deal in our last IEP meeting!! I knew at the meeting the teacher would be upset because they wanted to send him out of her room for a higher class in reading, they can’t do that I hear and its resulted to him going at snack time to this teacher I mentioned above. So he is starved when he gets home…I made him do each problem, reward him with cheese curl when he done one problem correct. I have the same problem w/homework. Deb’s Barry and Devin in Bama -----Original Message-----From: designs [mailto:scottdesigns@...] Sent: Tuesday, January 25, 2005 3:27 PMAutism and Aspergers Treatment Subject: Re: Homework Homework has been becoming more and more of an issue. More and more tantrums and complaining every day. He's sitting there right now with easy (for him) but tedious homework that has been sitting in front of him for an hour. He is scribbling on his spelling sheet, keeps whining and picking at his head, kicking the bench and groaning an angry grown at the top of his lungs. He keeps saying "homework is pointless" over and over.There is noting I can do to "help" him short of doing it for him. Right now he's threatening to rip up the papers. I have let him get up and walk around..have a snack...etc.. ARH!-Charlotte Mom to 11 AS/ADHD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2005 Report Share Posted January 26, 2005 Micah, at age 6, has sentences to copy, spelling words to write repeatedly, and a reading book that they are supposed to read enough times to be proficient at it before she goes back to school the next day. Needless to say, most days she has almost 1 hour of homework and she is gone to school from 7:30am to 2:45pm, so if you combine it all, she is putting in an 8 hour school day at the age of 6!!! Rabecca Re: Homework>>>>>I have the same problem with my 5yr old . His homework is very easy>>>and he doesn't see the point in doing it.> MISSY<<>> Can't say I blame him!>> Things are a bit different here now, but when my children were in infant> school (age 4+ to 7), the only homework they got was to read their current> reading book at home. So they brought home a new book they'd never read> before, read it to me, with me helping where needed, went into school next> day and were word perfect when reading to the teacher or a helper and > moved> up to the next book in the scheme. As they got a bit older, they also got > a> word list to learn for spelling, once a week.>> So homework was always new and challenging.>> At junior level (age 7+ to 11), there was a bit more to do but not much > and> certainly not every night.>> And not being forced to do pointless work has not affected their academic> success - my daughter (NT) is currently at Oxford University and my son > (AS)> will be going to university next year.>> in England>>>>>>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2005 Report Share Posted January 26, 2005 I'm no EXPERT.......... but that's just too much for these already "BRIGHT" kids............ Kody can spell almost anything and was reading at 4 1/2 yrs of age. His favorite thing now is to "bug" me with Street Signs....................... lol Have you ever just wanted a few minutes of quite time in the car????? lol Anyway, These teachers need to give this already extremely bright kids a break! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2005 Report Share Posted January 27, 2005 Hiya…don’t get me started on school. I continually get graded papers weekly with the same topic. Written in red it’s always Devin had more time to finish his work than any others, was given xx amount of time to complete. The work will have a bad grade on it because he has skipped problems-not finished. IM so beyond this I want to rush down to the school and tell them a thing or two. I know I would only be heard in one ear and out the other. 2nd Grade my Devin is to complete a math work sheet, a literature work sheet and study spelling words. Tonight was a bit better with his homework just to get him started was a challenge. The way they were going to handle this before, he was to be sent to another teachers room to help him stay on task, to get his work done. But only during HIS break time! That seems so unfair and I agree where I read earlier in a post….they need this break to work off the excessive energy! Anyway, These teachers need to give this already extremely bright kids a break! < agree!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2005 Report Share Posted January 27, 2005 Yep. is in kindergarten. MISSYSAHM to some special kids!!! I am who I am because that's who I am--, 5, Aspergers All kids are gifted; some just open theirpackages earlier than others. -- Carr Re: Homework>>>>>I have the same problem with my 5yr old . His homework is very easy>>>and he doesn't see the point in doing it.> MISSY<<>> Can't say I blame him!>> Things are a bit different here now, but when my children were in infant> school (age 4+ to 7), the only homework they got was to read their current> reading book at home. So they brought home a new book they'd never read> before, read it to me, with me helping where needed, went into school next> day and were word perfect when reading to the teacher or a helper and > moved> up to the next book in the scheme. As they got a bit older, they also got > a> word list to learn for spelling, once a week.>> So homework was always new and challenging.>> At junior level (age 7+ to 11), there was a bit more to do but not much > and> certainly not every night.>> And not being forced to do pointless work has not affected their academic> success - my daughter (NT) is currently at Oxford University and my son > (AS)> will be going to university next year.>> in England>>>>>>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2005 Report Share Posted January 27, 2005 Outside of spelling words, I do not remember getting homework as often as my kids do. (8) I think it is unfair, and it is and ongoing issue with Ethan's teacher and us. Did I just end the last to sentences incorrectly. Yikes, maybe I need to hit the books again. --- Missy Feldhaus <itchy10@...> wrote: > Yep. is in kindergarten. > MISSY > SAHM to some special kids!!! > > I am who I am because that's who I am > --, 5, Aspergers > > > All kids are gifted; some just open their > packages earlier than others. > > -- Carr > > Re: Homework > > > > > > > >>>I have the same problem with my 5yr old > . His homework is very easy > >>>and he doesn't see the point in doing it. > > MISSY<< > > > > Can't say I blame him! > > > > Things are a bit different here now, but > when my children were in infant > > school (age 4+ to 7), the only homework they > got was to read their current > > reading book at home. So they brought home a > new book they'd never read > > before, read it to me, with me helping where > needed, went into school next > > day and were word perfect when reading to > the teacher or a helper and > > moved > > up to the next book in the scheme. As they > got a bit older, they also got > > a > > word list to learn for spelling, once a > week. > > > > So homework was always new and challenging. > > > > At junior level (age 7+ to 11), there was a > bit more to do but not much > > and > > certainly not every night. > > > > And not being forced to do pointless work > has not affected their academic > > success - my daughter (NT) is currently at > Oxford University and my son > > (AS) > > will be going to university next year. > > > > in England > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2005 Report Share Posted January 27, 2005 Does he have an IEP plan???? I would call an ARD and discuss it further. Do you have an Advocate that could help you further or are you in "good" with your district??? If they need persuasion, I'd get someone to go with you. Good Luck! REMEBER, if you Don't ADVOCATE FOR THEM NOBODY WILL! Mom4kody P.S. KEEP PLUGGIN ALONG! From: Barry Hitchcock [mailto:bazndeb@...] Sent: Wednesday, January 26, 2005 7:46 PMttyreeSubject: RE: Homework Hiya…don’t get me started on school. I continually get graded papers weekly with the same topic. Written in red it’s always Devin had more time to finish his work than any others, was given xx amount of time to complete. The work will have a bad grade on it because he has skipped problems-not finished. IM so beyond this I want to rush down to the school and tell them a thing or two. I know I would only be heard in one ear and out the other. 2nd Grade my Devin is to complete a math work sheet, a literature work sheet and study spelling words. Tonight was a bit better with his homework just to get him started was a challenge. The way they were going to handle this before, he was to be sent to another teachers room to help him stay on task, to get his work done. But only during HIS break time! That seems so unfair and I agree where I read earlier in a post….they need this break to work off the excessive energy! Anyway, These teachers need to give this already extremely bright kids a break! < agree!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2005 Report Share Posted January 27, 2005 Yes we have established an IEP. A company came to the school to give a second opinion of his AS. This company met with me afterwards to discuss her learning’s. It happened to be that we had to meet in a class room where the special ed teacher was so she was present and eventually started asking her own questions. After the meeting the school figured out what the company suggested that they are unable to do; Seems to be against their rules. They had suggested Devin be sent to the fourth grade class for reading (he is in 2nd grade) this would challenge him more and I was excited for him, I thought it was a grand idea and even suggested it myself before. The special Ed teacher spoke up when this company gave this suggestion she had concerns for Devin’s class teacher knowing she doesn’t like Devin being out of the class and having to miss a lot with counselors, gifted program etc. she was already aware the teacher would have a problem with this. The school didn’t call to tell me….” Oh we can’t do this”. They waited until I called for an unofficial meeting, weeks later. It is the point of them just taking it on themselves without me more importantly my son doing without snacks so the teacher can have time to do what she wishes with him, not as it’s professionally suggested. They told me they are not allowed to advance someone with a label of “special student” (IM not sure of the words they exactly used this was about a month ago) Instead they are doing this: When Devin isn’t finishing, staying on task etc…they send him to another teachers room the Special Ed teacher’s room. Devin tells me he doesn’t have snack, can talk to her about ANYTHING during this time. All I see is his grades failing week after week when his class teacher staples all his work for the week it always reads in red “He gets more time than anyone to do his work. He plays with his pencils, I consistently remind him to do his work”. Or “Devin does not follow directions” this was a math sheet with 20 problems he made a 45. Other pages at times will read “Finished on Time!” Another example: she had one work sheet of the same stapled in with all the others, showing me how she made him try and try again…written in pen highlighted in yellow she states “Devin had 30 minutes to do this. He spent his time playing with his pencil. I remind him several times to do his work.” A BiG RED ZERO on the top of the page. I have told the school several times till IM blue in the face, he is failing….it’s getting worse and worse. They aren’t listening and I am outraged. I think Devin knows how to do this it’s just distractions, not wanting to do it. Suggestions anyone? RE: Homework Hiya…don’t get me started on school. I continually get graded papers weekly with the same topic. Written in red it’s always Devin had more time to finish his work than any others, was given xx amount of time to complete. The work will have a bad grade on it because he has skipped problems-not finished. IM so beyond this I want to rush down to the school and tell them a thing or two. I know I would only be heard in one ear and out the other. 2nd Grade my Devin is to complete a math work sheet, a literature work sheet and study spelling words. Tonight was a bit better with his homework just to get him started was a challenge. The way they were going to handle this before, he was to be sent to another teachers room to help him stay on task, to get his work done. But only during HIS break time! That seems so unfair and I agree where I read earlier in a post….they need this break to work off the excessive energy! Anyway, These teachers need to give this already extremely bright kids a break! < agree!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2005 Report Share Posted January 27, 2005 Hi, This is only a suggestion but is easy to try out. He might be losing track of the time himself and so something visual to help him see that he is running out of time could help. I've used egg timers with pupils before - you can get them for various lengths of time. The idea is to set a reasonable amount of work for the time the egg timer lasts e.g. 3 sums in 5 minutes (or whatever is appropriate). The pupil who liked it best used to use it for writing. If he had to stop to correct spelling or similar he used to lay the timer on it's side so that he did the right amount of time! If the teacher is always hassling him it will knock both his concentration and his self esteem. Pupils need to be praised. Regards RE: Homework Hiya…don’t get me started on school. I continually get graded papers weekly with the same topic. Written in red it’s always Devin had more time to finish his work than any others, was given xx amount of time to complete. The work will have a bad grade on it because he has skipped problems-not finished. IM so beyond this I want to rush down to the school and tell them a thing or two. I know I would only be heard in one ear and out the other. 2nd Grade my Devin is to complete a math work sheet, a literature work sheet and study spelling words. Tonight was a bit better with his homework just to get him started was a challenge. The way they were going to handle this before, he was to be sent to another teachers room to help him stay on task, to get his work done. But only during HIS break time! That seems so unfair and I agree where I read earlier in a post….they need this break to work off the excessive energy! Anyway, These teachers need to give this already extremely bright kids a break! < agree!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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