Help!!!

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> I just got over a rotten case of pneumonia...really scarey when my

> mastoid bone started hurting. Things have just started getting back

> to normal and I found I have a new issue to tend with.....shingles.

Lysine

Dana

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I wanted to thank you all that responded....I appreciate your

input...sometimes it seems ya run into things ya think ya know...but

when you are in the middle...ya don't know if that makes sense....tired

mom talking..

thanks again

Ronni

> > I just got over a rotten case of pneumonia...really scarey when

my

> > mastoid bone started hurting. Things have just started getting

back

> > to normal and I found I have a new issue to tend

with.....shingles.

>

>

> Lysine

>

> Dana

>

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Kelley,

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[ ] HELP!!!

Hello!

I'm sorry I didn't inform you about my traveling... am presently in London,

United Kingdom on short vacation and as i write to you now.. its

unbelievable am stuck here,got mugged at gun point on my way to the hotel

and my money,credit cards,phone and other valuable things were taken off me

at gun point, thanking Almighty God for save keeping my passport,i really

need your urgent assistance quickly ? I JUST NEED $1,950 TO SORT OUT MY

HOTEL BILLS AND i promise to refund it back to you once i get to the state

cause i still have some cash in my account but i can't access any here right

now,already canceled all my cards immediately after the muggers took my

things off me!!! still at the public internet library where am making use of

the free internet access, i will forever be grateful if you can help

me,Waiting to hear from you quickly cos my return flight leaves soon but

need to sort the hotel bills and please save me from been embarrassed

__

Kelley.

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I'm feeling very sorry for myself and my son's situation today. He's 8, got mad

at his brother and threw a scooter at him, knocking him to the ground. We had

to drag him to his room where he screamed " I don't care about my life! " How do

you deal with something like that? I'm so afraid my son with Aspergar's is

headed for out of home placement. Has anyone ever been faced with that

decision?

I appreciate this group more than you will ever know...

>

> I need to talk to someone who is going through what I am as a mother...

>

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I can only say that my daughter, 15 was the same way. It is getting better now, but still can become volatile. She also has had the mantra since she was about 10 that she hates her life and would be better off dead. She has learned that this will get a response especially in school and she will get attention. She has never made a suicide attempt, nor do I think she will. She just uses the key phrases that she has seen on TV etc. I can only hope she grows up eventually, although my 48 year old brother who I think is also an Aspie, just had a tirade against me, over a small thing, and has said that he hates me because I am the golden child and he would have been the child they would have aborted if they had had abortions then.. No rationality at all. I emailed him back and reassured him that they did

have abortions then and didn't want to abort him.. This is a upper middle aged man... He has had no therapy or meds though, so maybe that will be the difference for our kids.. From: rushen janice <jrushen@...> Sent: Wed, August 4, 2010 1:13:34 AMSubject: Re: ( ) Help!!!

A lot of times they don't know how to control their anger and what to do with it...my son slams walls or throws things. We have to remember paitence and keep working with them. At that point where he is screaming and such....just let him sit in his room until he is calm and collected. When he is calm....maybe the next day...talk to him...ask him what happened...role play...show him how he could have handled the situation. And, remember, whatever he says in his rage....he doesn't truly mean...my son tells me he hates us and we are the worst parents in the world and so on and so on. Our children just don't know how to handle the situation and the feelings...such as Anger. We have to work with them on it. And, remember in those horrible moments...patience and quiet voice...no yelling.

jan

"In the Midst of Difficulty lies Opportunity" Albert Einstein

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From: <kevin8btinternet (DOT) com> Sent: Tue, August 3, 2010 8:04:07 PMSubject: Re: ( ) Help!!!

i think he is saying things that he doesn't mean and the best thing to do is ignore it and he'll calm down.

From: Ginger <gngrbnks (DOT) com>Subject: ( ) Help!!! Date: Wednesday, 4 August, 2010, 0:55

I'm feeling very sorry for myself and my son's situation today. He's 8, got mad at his brother and threw a scooter at him, knocking him to the ground. We had to drag him to his room where he screamed "I don't care about my life!" How do you deal with something like that? I'm so afraid my son with Aspergar's is headed for out of home placement. Has anyone ever been faced with that decision?I appreciate this group more than you will ever know...>> I need to talk to someone who is going through what I am as a mother...>------------ --------- --------- ------

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Dear Ginger:

Interview your son. He probably is totally clueless on how to interact with people out side of your house. His life sounds like mine at eight. He is probably in third grade if I have my math right. When I was in third grade my parents started me seeing a psychrist, I was that depressed. He may have only one good friend. He is at risk to fall in with the "Bad Crowd", because no other people want to deal with him.

When he says "I don't care about my life", he is saying that he does not know how to get along with the rest of the world and enjoy life. He is saying he needs help. He does not have the phrases to say, I need help with this and that. He can not verbalize his problems. He is not trying to twist your life upside down. He is trying to say "Please help Me". He has no hidden ajenda. He does not know how to say in three or four words, to ask for help. I do not know why you should feel sorry for your self. Feel sorry for your son. Use this emotional reaction to tell your son, that you see that he is having a very hard time dealing with life. Say that you need to tell me the things that cause you problems in your life. Lastly say that hurting others is not some thing that will help you or any one else. I said the anti-violence thing last because I know that the "Acting Out" thing can be more effectively attacked, by looking at the frustrations that were only triggered by his brother. The problem not looked at properly for ten years will cause the greatest problem.

I do not condone the hitting of your son's brother in any way. A dialog needs to be started. The dialog will also help your son let of steam.Talk with him every day. Sit him down after school. Mom and I used to have Tea and Cookies from third grade on. Make if fun. Make it a regular thing if at alll possible. Ask him how his day went. This talk, can be part of a formal and informal interview of your son, and his problems. This regular conversation will show him that talking is a much better way to solving problems. I can see you care about your son. This will show him, in a very concrete way, you care about him, and his problems. This is a good way to head off problems in his life.

Thornton

( ) Help!!!

I'm feeling very sorry for myself and my son's situation today. He's 8, got mad at his brother and threw a scooter at him, knocking him to the ground. We had to drag him to his room where he screamed "I don't care about my life!" How do you deal with something like that? I'm so afraid my son with Aspergar's is headed for out of home placement. Has anyone ever been faced with that decision?I appreciate this group more than you will ever know...>> I need to talk to someone who is going through what I am as a mother...>

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My son says these kinds of things all the time, well when he's having a melt down. He'll say he hates his life, doesn't want to live here, yada yada. I know he doesn't mean it, but that doesn't make it hurt any less. I know what you're going through. MicheleSent from Michele's iPhoneOn Aug 3, 2010, at 8:04 PM, <kevin8@...> wrote:

i think he is saying things that he doesn't mean and the best thing to do is ignore it and he'll calm down.From: Ginger <gngrbnks >Subject: ( ) Help!!! Date: Wednesday, 4 August, 2010, 0:55I'm feeling very sorry for myself and my son's situation today. He's 8, got mad at his brother and threw a scooter at him, knocking him to the ground. We had to drag him to his room where he screamed "I don't care about my life!" How do you deal with something like that? I'm so afraid my son with Aspergar's is headed for out of home placement. Has

anyone ever been faced with that decision?I appreciate this group more than you will ever know...>> I need to talk to someone who is going through what I am as a mother...>------------------------------------

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You might talk to a doctor about depression, if you find that it applies, of course. My own ds (13 yo, hfa) suffers from depression and he often will get into that rut of saying negative things, wishing he were dead, feeling sorry for himself excessively and then lashing out angrily at everyone around him. He now takes meds for depression and we have had a hard time finding something that works! But I think we finally have and it is nice not to have him yelling and angry all the time and also, not listening to him put himself down constantly. Your ds might not fit this example, but thought I would throw it out there to consider.

Roxanna

Whenever I feel blue, I start breathing again.

( ) Help!!!

I'm feeling very sorry for myself and my son's situation today. He's 8, got mad at his brother and threw a scooter at him, knocking him to the ground. We had to drag him to his room where he screamed "I don't care about my life!" How do you deal with something like that? I'm so afraid my son with Aspergar's is headed for out of home placement. Has anyone ever been faced with that decision?

I appreciate this group more than you will ever know...

>

> I need to talk to someone who is going through what I am as a mother...

>

[Guest guest]

I found a lot of meds made my son worse and he had more aggression....going to try Intuiv again before school starts....I am at a loss. Keep in mind my son was diagnosed with just ADHD and anxiey. Been through many many meds...... They really do not mean what they are doing. But I cannot let my son out of my sight. He does and says crazy things and makes up stories. I know how you feel and school is right around the corner!?!?!? punching a pillow or tearing paper may help him redirect it does work sometimes....

From: Roxanna <MadIdeas@...>Subject: Re: ( ) Help!!! Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010, 10:55 AM

You might talk to a doctor about depression, if you find that it applies, of course. My own ds (13 yo, hfa) suffers from depression and he often will get into that rut of saying negative things, wishing he were dead, feeling sorry for himself excessively and then lashing out angrily at everyone around him. He now takes meds for depression and we have had a hard time finding something that works! But I think we finally have and it is nice not to have him yelling and angry all the time and also, not listening to him put himself down constantly. Your ds might not fit this example, but thought I would throw it out there to consider.

RoxannaWhenever I feel blue, I start breathing again.

( ) Help!!!

I'm feeling very sorry for myself and my son's situation today. He's 8, got mad at his brother and threw a scooter at him, knocking him to the ground. We had to drag him to his room where he screamed "I don't care about my life!" How do you deal with something like that? I'm so afraid my son with Aspergar's is headed for out of home placement. Has anyone ever been faced with that decision?I appreciate this group more than you will ever know...>> I need to talk to someone who is going through what I am as a mother...>

[Guest guest]

Roxana,Which meds have worked for you? I am taking my 8 year old son to the doc tomorrow to discuss meds again. We have tried stimulants before, but took him off after he started having facial tics. I believe his aggression and fits stem from stress, anxiety, and/or depression and am inclined to try to treat these symptoms this time. I am interested to know what you have tried and what is working for you guys.....How much of a difference did you notice? What things did it help?Thanks!Aug 10, 2010 01:13:14 PM, wrote:>

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I found a lot of meds made my son worse and >he had more aggression....going to try Intuiv again before school starts....I am >at a loss. Keep in mind my son was diagnosed with just ADHD and anxiey. >Been through many many meds...... They really do not mean what they >are doing. But I cannot let my son out of my sight. He does and says >crazy things and makes up stories. I know how you feel and school is right >around the corner!?!?!? punching a pillow or tearing paper may help him redirect >it does work sometimes....>>>

>>From: Roxanna <MadIdeas@...>>Subject: Re: ( ) Help!!!> >Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010, 10:55 AM>>

>>You might >talk to a doctor about depression, if you find that it applies, of course. >My own ds (13 yo, hfa) suffers from depression and he often will get into that rut >of saying negative things, wishing he were dead, feeling sorry for himself excessively >and then lashing out angrily at everyone around him. He now takes meds for >depression and we have had a hard time finding something that works! But I >think we finally have and it is nice not to have him yelling and angry all the time >and also, not listening to him put himself down constantly. Your ds might >not fit this example, but thought I would throw it out there to consider. >

>

Roxanna>Whenever I feel blue, I start breathing again.

>

>

-----Original >Message----->From: Ginger <gngrbnks@...>> >Sent: Tue, Aug 3, 2010 7:55 pm>Subject: ( ) Help!!!>>

I'm feeling very sorry for myself and my son's situation today. He's 8, got >mad at his brother and threw a scooter at him, knocking him to the ground. We had >to drag him to his room where he screamed "I don't care about my life!" How do you >deal with something like that? I'm so afraid my son with Aspergar's is headed for >out of home placement. Has anyone ever been faced with that decision?>>I appreciate this group more than you will ever know...>>>>>> I need to talk to someone who is going through what I am as a mother...>>>>

>>

[Guest guest]

Well said!

From: Ginger <gngrbnks (DOT) com>Subject: ( ) Help!!! Date: Wednesday, 4 August, 2010, 0:55

I'm feeling very sorry for myself and my son's situation today. He's 8, got mad at his brother and threw a scooter at him, knocking him to the ground. We had to drag him to his room where he screamed "I don't care about my life!" How do you deal with something like that? I'm so afraid my son with Aspergar's is headed for out of home placement. Has anyone ever been faced with that decision?I appreciate this group more than you will ever know...>> I need to talk to someone who is going through what I am as a mother...>------------ --------- --------- ------

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My name is Stacey. Im going to check out the articles. Thanks for responding.

Im a little better today just having a headache.

> >

> > Ive been taking nystatin powder for 1 week now and I feel awful! I have flu

symptoms and my whole body aches. My doctor says this is normal and stay the

course. What helps with these symptoms? Im also following the candida diet and

drinking water, what else should I do? How long will this last!!! Thanks

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Hi Stacey,

It's good to know your name! I'm glad you're feeling better today. I had one

doozy of a headache the other day, so I totally know where you're coming from.

I'm glad you're going to check out those articles. This program is truly

life-changing!

(a group moderator)

>

> My name is Stacey. Im going to check out the articles. Thanks for

responding. Im a little better today just having a headache.

>

[Guest guest]

Ive read the articles and I have some concerns. Im allergic to coconut and am

vitamin d deficient. Im taking supplements including vitamin d3. I will add

Bees supplements also. Hopefully this program will help with the allergy issues.

I will continue the Nystatin as tested positive for yeast allergy and it has

been found in my blood also-systemic yeast. I really feel I need the Nystatin at

least temporarily to get a grip on the yeast issue. I came close to being put

in the hospital for IV antifungals but my MD is giving me a try on Nystatin

first.

> >

> > Ive been taking nystatin powder for 1 week now and I feel awful! I have flu

symptoms and my whole body aches. My doctor says this is normal and stay the

course. What helps with these symptoms? Im also following the candida diet and

drinking water, what else should I do? How long will this last!!! Thanks

> >

>

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Hi Stacey,

Glad you've read the articles. They will be a big help to you.

Bee doesn't believe that we can be allergic to whole foods from nature. The

reactions we get from them are actually healing reactions because these foods

are good for us.

Your vitamin deficiency will eventually balance itself out on this program, so

there's no need to take extras than what Bee recommends.

My sister thought she was 'allergic' to nuts so she was really afraid of taking

coconut oil, too. She started with taking 1/8 teaspoon and made sure another

adult was home so that they could take her to the hospital if need be. She

never ended up needing to go to the hospital and now takes 6 Tbsp. of coconut

oil per day without a problem.

Just today, Bee wrote to another member about taking Nystatin. This is what she

wrote:

***

Nystatin won't help you at all, since Candida cannot be cured by " killing it

off " with nystatin drugs, or even with natural antifungals.

That is because candida is only cured by building up the immune system, which is

done by:

1) Consuming " proper nutrients " (diet plus supplements),

2) Eliminating toxins and foods that feed candida (they also feed bacteria and

cancer),

3) Eliminating damaging foods, and

4) Eliminating toxins in general.

When the immune system is strong enough it will automatically " make " candida (or

any bug, cancer, etc.) change back into the organism it is supposed to be when

the body is healthy.

It's like the manure pile and the flies, with the manure pile representing the

poor condition of the body. You cannot get rid of the manure pile by killing off

the flies. You must clean up the manure pile instead, which means building up

your immune system.

Taking nystatin will interfere with the healing processes, so I don't think you

should take it.

Nothing speeds up the healing processes anyway since it still take 1 month of

natural healing for every year you've been unhealthy, and for most people today

that is since before they were born.

***

I hope that helps!

(a group moderator)

>

> Ive read the articles and I have some concerns. Im allergic to coconut and am

vitamin d deficient. Im taking supplements including vitamin d3. I will add

Bees supplements also. Hopefully this program will help with the allergy issues.

I will continue the Nystatin as tested positive for yeast allergy and it has

been found in my blood also-systemic yeast. I really feel I need the Nystatin at

least temporarily to get a grip on the yeast issue. I came close to being put

in the hospital for IV antifungals but my MD is giving me a try on Nystatin

first.

[Guest guest]

Hi Stacey, my daughter was severely 'allergic' to many foods including coconut

oil, would come out in welts if we even put it on her skin, but is now, thanks

to Bee, on her full dose, and eating other foods that would have caused an

anaphylactic style response too. Read carefuly her articles on allergy and

healing reactions. Your response to them actualy shows how desperate your body

needs them; but go very very slowly. Don't overwhelm your body. Good luck!

Best wishes,

>

> Ive read the articles and I have some concerns. Im allergic to coconut and am

vitamin d deficient. Im taking supplements including vitamin d3.

[Guest guest]

Thank you Roxanna, I will...crossing my fingers and saying my prayers! :-)ne> >>From: Roxanna <MadIdeasaol (DOT) com>>Subject: Re: ( ) Help!!!> >Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010, 10:55 AM>>

>>You might >talk to a doctor about depression, if you find that it applies, of course. >My own ds (13 yo, hfa) suffers from depression and he often will get into that rut >of saying negative things, wishing he were dead, feeling sorry for himself excessively >and then lashing out angrily at everyone around him. He now takes meds for >depression and we have had a hard time finding something that works! But I >think we finally have and it is nice not to have him yelling and angry all the time >and also, not listening to him put himself down constantly. Your ds might >not fit this example, but thought I would throw it out there to consider.

>

>

Roxanna>Whenever I feel blue, I start breathing again.

>

>

-----Original >Message----->From: Ginger <gngrbnks (DOT) com>> >Sent: Tue, Aug 3, 2010 7:55 pm>Subject: ( ) Help!!!>>

I'm feeling very sorry for myself and my son's situation today. He's 8, got >mad at his brother and threw a scooter at him, knocking him to the ground. We had >to drag him to his room where he screamed "I don't care about my life!" How do you >deal with something like that? I'm so afraid my son with Aspergar's is headed for >out of home placement. Has anyone ever been faced with that decision?>>I appreciate this group more than you will ever know...>>>>>> I need to talk to someone who is going through what I am as a mother...>>>>

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