Sexually Abused Aspie-I really need advice

[Guest guest]

Most of you know that my husband and I recently learned out 13 yr

old, adopted, aspie, son has been sexually molested by his now 15 yr

old biological brother, during bi-annual visits, for the past five

years. Noah recently acted out with inappropriate sexual behavior and

is scheduled for comprehensive psych and psychosexual testing over the

next 2 weeks.

My question: If you were in my shoes, how would you handle this

situation when new peers come into Noah's life? Would you handle the

situation the same when your NT child wants to have a play mate over

to your home? Would you be angry if any of your children went to play

at a home that involved a situation like mine and you weren't told?

I'll take all the advice you can give; don't worry about having to say

things gently to me, I'm more interested in truth than in soothing my

feelings.

Thanks All

Kelley