Guest guest Posted December 30, 2007 Report Share Posted December 30, 2007 Sounds like control games to me. That's so sad and immature of her. Poor . RoxannaAutism Happens ( ) Wants to come Home I e-mailed 's mother this morning & told her if wants to come back home before the New Year to call me because I promised he could. He's been there since Dec.24th but was at dad's the weekend of the 21st, then right down to his mom's. A few minutes later I get a voice mail from Jon saying to please call him which I did. I got the mom on the phone instead with loud music in the back ground & she says can come home tomorrow after she takes her daughter to the hospital for some tests at 2:30 (like he really wants to spend time sitting in the hospital) & all his clothes were in the washer anyway so he'd just have to wait. This was at 7pm tonight.I said I could meet her at 7:30 tonight. But she said all his clothes were being washed. She said had a meltdown wanting to come home to play with his new Wii (game system) & he needed to know that just because he wanted to come home he wasn't going to go ASAP so she then said she just let him go on with his meltdown & ignored him. I told her that I will meet her at 12:30 tomorrow not after her daughter gets tests & the wash was done. I can bet she hurried & threw all his clothes in the washer because he wanted to come back home. A Control thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 31, 2007 Report Share Posted December 31, 2007 He's homesick and that is such a normal response. Poor kid. A true mother would Understand that. A true mother would per her own selfish feelings aside and let him come home. I am glad he has you in his life. He is obviously in better care there. He needs his routine back and any child would be overwhelmed ( as most of us adults are) At this holiday season. -- Re: ( ) Wants to come Home Sounds like control games to me. That's so sad and immature of her. Poor . RoxannaAutism Happens ( ) Wants to come Home I e-mailed 's mother this morning & told her if wants to come back home before the New Year to call me because I promised he could. He's been there since Dec.24th but was at dad's the weekend of the 21st, then right down to his mom's. A few minutes later I get a voice mail from Jon saying to please call him which I did. I got the mom on the phone instead with loud music in the back ground & she says can come home tomorrow after she takes her daughter to the hospital for some tests at 2:30 (like he really wants to spend time sitting in the hospital) & all his clothes were in the washer anyway so he'd just have to wait. This was at 7pm tonight.I said I could meet her at 7:30 tonight. But she said all his clothes were being washed. She said had a meltdown wanting to come home to play with his new Wii (game system) & he needed to know that just because he wanted to come home he wasn't going to go ASAP so she then said she just let him go on with his meltdown & ignored him. I told her that I will meet her at 12:30 tomorrow not after her daughter gets tests & the wash was done. I can bet she hurried & threw all his clothes in the washer because he wanted to come back home. A Control thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 31, 2007 Report Share Posted December 31, 2007 Yes he is & he may say & mean he misses his Wii but it's us he misses. That sent her over the edge. Probably said something to have him meltdown about it too. That is another reason he lives with us. His Bio parents just don't get it. Take care,Betty <cmcintosh5@...> wrote: He's homesick and that is such a normal response. Poor kid. A true mother would Understand that. A true mother would per her own selfish feelings aside and let him come home. I am glad he has you in his life. He is obviously in better care there. He needs his routine back and any child would be overwhelmed ( as most of us adults are) At this holiday season. -- Re: ( ) Wants to come Home Sounds like control games to me. That's so sad and immature of her. Poor . RoxannaAutism Happens ( ) Wants to come Home I e-mailed 's mother this morning & told her if wants to come back home before the New Year to call me because I promised he could. He's been there since Dec.24th but was at dad's the weekend of the 21st, then right down to his mom's. A few minutes later I get a voice mail from Jon saying to please call him which I did. I got the mom on the phone instead with loud music in the back ground & she says can come home tomorrow after she takes her daughter to the hospital for some tests at 2:30 (like he really wants to spend time sitting in the hospital) & all his clothes were in the washer anyway so he'd just have to wait. This was at 7pm tonight.I said I could meet her at 7:30 tonight. But she said all his clothes were being washed. She said had a meltdown wanting to come home to play with his new Wii (game system) & he needed to know that just because he wanted to come home he wasn't going to go ASAP so she then said she just let him go on with his meltdown & ignored him. I told her that I will meet her at 12:30 tomorrow not after her daughter gets tests & the wash was done. I can bet she hurried & threw all his clothes in the washer because he wanted to come back home. A Control thing. Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 31, 2007 Report Share Posted December 31, 2007 She gets so jealousRoxanna <madideas@...> wrote: Sounds like control games to me. That's so sad and immature of her. Poor . RoxannaAutism Happens ( ) Wants to come Home I e-mailed 's mother this morning & told her if wants to come back home before the New Year to call me because I promised he could. He's been there since Dec.24th but was at dad's the weekend of the 21st, then right down to his mom's. A few minutes later I get a voice mail from Jon saying to please call him which I did. I got the mom on the phone instead with loud music in the back ground & she says can come home tomorrow after she takes her daughter to the hospital for some tests at 2:30 (like he really wants to spend time sitting in the hospital) & all his clothes were in the washer anyway so he'd just have to wait. This was at 7pm tonight.I said I could meet her at 7:30 tonight. But she said all his clothes were being washed. She said had a meltdown wanting to come home to play with his new Wii (game system) & he needed to know that just because he wanted to come home he wasn't going to go ASAP so she then said she just let him go on with his meltdown & ignored him. I told her that I will meet her at 12:30 tomorrow not after her daughter gets tests & the wash was done. I can bet she hurried & threw all his clothes in the washer because he wanted to come back home. A Control thing. Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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