Guest guest Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Drs are not really of any help; they dont have Aspies for children, but this problem has always been and he is 10 and his 8 yr old bro. has all the buddies that come over but has only acquantances not really friends who call or visit of invite him over > Does anyone else out there have a child that is always feeling sorry > for themselves about the tinyest things...My son gets off the bus and > starts in with " that kid was looking at me the whole time " and " At > school there was no room left at the lunch table and I had to sit next > to a girl " " my team lost again, of course " ... " my life is never gonna > be good " ... " i have a bad life " ... " nothing is ever good " ... > And I'm talking about a kid who has every thing that I didn't, a nice > home, a sibling, both parents in the home who get along. A great > school to go to. Nice clothes, toys, food , community activities. the > list goes on and on...And so do his complaints...What can I do about > his whoa is me?... > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Cheap Talk? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call rates. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Sandy, sorry but I meant like a psych Dr. Does he have one? Do you think that he could be depressed? Take care,Betty Sandy <sandy1122@...> wrote: Drs are not really of any help; they dont have Aspies for children, but this problem has always been and he is 10 and his 8 yr old bro. has all the buddies that come over but has only acquantances not really friends who call or visit of invite him over > Does anyone else out there have a child that is always feeling sorry > for themselves about the tinyest things...My son gets off the bus and > starts in with " that kid was looking at me the whole time " and " At > school there was no room left at the lunch table and I had to sit next > to a girl " " my team lost again, of course " ... " my life is never gonna > be good " ... " i have a bad life " ... " nothing is ever good " ... > And I'm talking about a kid who has every thing that I didn't, a nice > home, a sibling, both parents in the home who get along. A great > school to go to. Nice clothes, toys, food , community activities. the > list goes on and on...And so do his complaints...What can I do about > his whoa is me?... > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Cheap Talk? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call rates. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Oh yes, went to a psychiatrist and she said he had a learning disability,,,go figure, I told the school and they thought that idea was nuts, since he gets a's and b's ...Yea i left that part out but thats a whole other layer of the story which leaves me puzzled wondering what to do several therapists suggest depression but no meds were recommended > > Does anyone else out there have a child that is always > feeling sorry > > for themselves about the tinyest things...My son gets off the bus > and > > starts in with " that kid was looking at me the whole time " and " At > > school there was no room left at the lunch table and I had to sit > next > > to a girl " " my team lost again, of course " ... " my life is never > gonna > > be good " ... " i have a bad life " ... " nothing is ever good " ... > > And I'm talking about a kid who has every thing that I didn't, a > nice > > home, a sibling, both parents in the home who get along. A great > > school to go to. Nice clothes, toys, food , community activities. > the > > list goes on and on...And so do his complaints...What can I do > about > > his whoa is me?... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Cheap Talk? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call > rates. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Is that what he is Dx'd as LD? Betty Sandy <sandy1122@...> wrote: Oh yes, went to a psychiatrist and she said he had a learning disability,,,go figure, I told the school and they thought that idea was nuts, since he gets a's and b's ...Yea i left that part out but thats a whole other layer of the story which leaves me puzzled wondering what to do several therapists suggest depression but no meds were recommended > > Does anyone else out there have a child that is always > feeling sorry > > for themselves about the tinyest things...My son gets off the bus > and > > starts in with " that kid was looking at me the whole time " and " At > > school there was no room left at the lunch table and I had to sit > next > > to a girl " " my team lost again, of course " ... " my life is never > gonna > > be good " ... " i have a bad life " ... " nothing is ever good " ... > > And I'm talking about a kid who has every thing that I didn't, a > nice > > home, a sibling, both parents in the home who get along. A great > > school to go to. Nice clothes, toys, food , community activities. > the > > list goes on and on...And so do his complaints...What can I do > about > > his whoa is me?... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Cheap Talk? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call > rates. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Yes but none of the other therapists/providers agree; they say it is definitely AS, One other therapist says its depression. I say it's Tourette Syndrome and OCD which is what I've been diagnosed with as my mom has it too and AS as well > > > Does anyone else out there have a child that is always > > feeling sorry > > > for themselves about the tinyest things...My son gets off the > bus > > and > > > starts in with " that kid was looking at me the whole time " > and " At > > > school there was no room left at the lunch table and I had to > sit > > next > > > to a girl " " my team lost again, of course " ... " my life is never > > gonna > > > be good " ... " i have a bad life " ... " nothing is ever good " ... > > > And I'm talking about a kid who has every thing that I didn't, a > > nice > > > home, a sibling, both parents in the home who get along. A great > > > school to go to. Nice clothes, toys, food , community > activities. > > the > > > list goes on and on...And so do his complaints...What can I do > > about > > > his whoa is me?... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > Cheap Talk? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call > > rates. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 A good Childern's Hospital Psych would be able to DX him better. was DX'd with Asperger/Bipolar/OCD/Chronic Motor Tic Disorder when he was 9yrs old. Betty Sandy <sandy1122@...> wrote: Yes but none of the other therapists/providers agree; they say it is definitely AS, One other therapist says its depression. I say it's Tourette Syndrome and OCD which is what I've been diagnosed with as my mom has it too and AS as well > > > Does anyone else out there have a child that is always > > feeling sorry > > > for themselves about the tinyest things...My son gets off the > bus > > and > > > starts in with " that kid was looking at me the whole time " > and " At > > > school there was no room left at the lunch table and I had to > sit > > next > > > to a girl " " my team lost again, of course " ... " my life is never > > gonna > > > be good " ... " i have a bad life " ... " nothing is ever good " ... > > > And I'm talking about a kid who has every thing that I didn't, a > > nice > > > home, a sibling, both parents in the home who get along. A great > > > school to go to. Nice clothes, toys, food , community > activities. > > the > > > list goes on and on...And so do his complaints...What can I do > > about > > > his whoa is me?... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > Cheap Talk? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call > > rates. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Thanks, my sister-in-law has been pushing me to see her kids' doc at children's mem. I need to make that call > > > > Does anyone else out there have a child that is always > > > feeling sorry > > > > for themselves about the tinyest things...My son gets off the > > bus > > > and > > > > starts in with " that kid was looking at me the whole time " > > and " At > > > > school there was no room left at the lunch table and I had to > > sit > > > next > > > > to a girl " " my team lost again, of course " ... " my life is never > > > gonna > > > > be good " ... " i have a bad life " ... " nothing is ever good " ... > > > > And I'm talking about a kid who has every thing that I didn't, > a > > > nice > > > > home, a sibling, both parents in the home who get along. A > great > > > > school to go to. Nice clothes, toys, food , community > > activities. > > > the > > > > list goes on and on...And so do his complaints...What can I do > > > about > > > > his whoa is me?... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > > Cheap Talk? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call > > > rates. > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 Yes do that Sandy. Maybe they can have an answer for you there. Take care,Betty Sandy <sandy1122@...> wrote: Thanks, my sister-in-law has been pushing me to see her kids' doc at children's mem. I need to make that call > > > > Does anyone else out there have a child that is always > > > feeling sorry > > > > for themselves about the tinyest things...My son gets off the > > bus > > > and > > > > starts in with " that kid was looking at me the whole time " > > and " At > > > > school there was no room left at the lunch table and I had to > > sit > > > next > > > > to a girl " " my team lost again, of course " ... " my life is never > > > gonna > > > > be good " ... " i have a bad life " ... " nothing is ever good " ... > > > > And I'm talking about a kid who has every thing that I didn't, > a > > > nice > > > > home, a sibling, both parents in the home who get along. A > great > > > > school to go to. Nice clothes, toys, food , community > > activities. > > > the > > > > list goes on and on...And so do his complaints...What can I do > > > about > > > > his whoa is me?... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > > Cheap Talk? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call > > > rates. > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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