Re: Re: To B.

[Guest guest]

,

It's good to hear from you. Your ex makes me sooooo mad! I won't even type

what I'm thinking!!!!! I hope Karma is real......then one day he'll get repaid

and worse! Well, you sound like you're handling things pretty good. That's

wonderful. Your kids are lucky to have you as their mother. Keep up the

awesome job!

Liz

Houston

PS, I can't get over the " service me " wish. This guy has some nerve! I'd end

up pulling a " Bobbit " on him or something similar!

advocateforaspies <advocateforaspies@...> wrote:

Hey Liz,

Thanks so much. He literally abandoned us. He just said, " I am moving

out Thursday. " It was a Sunday.

I had no option, no plan nothing. He said he would decide what he

wanted to do.

The nice thing is the house is more calm, the CATS are even more calm.

Things are getting cleaner, and the kids are doing wonderfully. I am no

longer grinding my teeth (clentching) and my hair has grown in on the

top (it was thinning a bit). Not to mention my self esteem has

increased tremendously. Other than two weeks of tears and misery

STRAIGHT. I realized that I am ok. I let him go and said, " he is free " .

I think he has someone on the side anyways, even if they haven't 'done

anything' at this point.

The ironic thing is, as he has been babysitting so I can go to school,

he will ask if I will 'service' him. To which I promptly replied, NO I

AM NOT A PROMPTO STATION. I told him to use a bar of soap and the

shower. LOL.

Hey we are getting a divorce, I am not in for the 'servicing'.

In sum, I'd rather be single and happy, then married and miserable!!

*smiles*

I am getting my smile back too!!!

thank you so much for checking in , considering I didn't do that for a

month with anything *hugs*

You are too cool!

It feels so good to know other people are caring.

thank you thank you thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*hugs*

B

>

> ,

> I just read one of your posts and saw that you wrote your husband

just

> abandoned you. Is he on vacation or business? Or did he really

> leave? Are you ok?

> I'm just worried.

> Liz

> Houston

>

---------------------------------

Don't be flakey. Get for Mobile and

always stay connected to friends.

[Guest guest]

I am really happy for you. I know it's hard to lose someone but at the same time

I think you will be WAY better off with out him. And I believe cats know best

when it comes to judge of character!

advocateforaspies <advocateforaspies@...> wrote: Hey Liz,

Thanks so much. He literally abandoned us. He just said, " I am moving

out Thursday. " It was a Sunday.

I had no option, no plan nothing. He said he would decide what he

wanted to do.

The nice thing is the house is more calm, the CATS are even more calm.

Things are getting cleaner, and the kids are doing wonderfully. I am no

longer grinding my teeth (clentching) and my hair has grown in on the

top (it was thinning a bit). Not to mention my self esteem has

increased tremendously. Other than two weeks of tears and misery

STRAIGHT. I realized that I am ok. I let him go and said, " he is free " .

I think he has someone on the side anyways, even if they haven't 'done

anything' at this point.

The ironic thing is, as he has been babysitting so I can go to school,

he will ask if I will 'service' him. To which I promptly replied, NO I

AM NOT A PROMPTO STATION. I told him to use a bar of soap and the

shower. LOL.

Hey we are getting a divorce, I am not in for the 'servicing'.

In sum, I'd rather be single and happy, then married and miserable!!

*smiles*

I am getting my smile back too!!!

thank you so much for checking in , considering I didn't do that for a

month with anything *hugs*

You are too cool!

It feels so good to know other people are caring.

thank you thank you thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*hugs*

B

>

> ,

> I just read one of your posts and saw that you wrote your husband

just

> abandoned you. Is he on vacation or business? Or did he really

> leave? Are you ok?

> I'm just worried.

> Liz

> Houston

>

[Guest guest]

About Cats....Have you seen or read the book " All Cats Have Aspergers " ? It is

great! I was looking through the Special Needs books section at And

Noble the other day and saw it and sat and read it with my oldest dd (almost

16yo) We both loved it...it was so true and so funny!

- C.

Mom to Cassie 15 PCOS, Austin 13 ADHD and a 3 HFA/AS & SPD/SID

Re: ( ) Re: To B.

I am really happy for you. I know it's hard to lose someone but at the same

time I think you will be WAY better off with out him. And I believe cats know

best when it comes to judge of character!

advocateforaspies <advocateforaspies@...> wrote: Hey Liz,

Thanks so much. He literally abandoned us. He just said, " I am moving

out Thursday. " It was a Sunday.

I had no option, no plan nothing. He said he would decide what he

wanted to do.

The nice thing is the house is more calm, the CATS are even more calm.

Things are getting cleaner, and the kids are doing wonderfully. I am no

longer grinding my teeth (clentching) and my hair has grown in on the

top (it was thinning a bit). Not to mention my self esteem has

increased tremendously. Other than two weeks of tears and misery

STRAIGHT. I realized that I am ok. I let him go and said, " he is free " .

I think he has someone on the side anyways, even if they haven't 'done

anything' at this point.

The ironic thing is, as he has been babysitting so I can go to school,

he will ask if I will 'service' him. To which I promptly replied, NO I

AM NOT A PROMPTO STATION. I told him to use a bar of soap and the

shower. LOL.

Hey we are getting a divorce, I am not in for the 'servicing'.

In sum, I'd rather be single and happy, then married and miserable!!

*smiles*

I am getting my smile back too!!!

thank you so much for checking in , considering I didn't do that for a

month with anything *hugs*

You are too cool!

It feels so good to know other people are caring.

thank you thank you thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*hugs*

B

>

> ,

> I just read one of your posts and saw that you wrote your husband

just

> abandoned you. Is he on vacation or business? Or did he really

> leave? Are you ok?

> I'm just worried.

> Liz

> Houston

>

[Guest guest]

Thanks for the info on the book. My son loves cats and would really enjoy this,

especially since I just told him (2 weeks ago) he had AS.

W

Re: ( ) Re: To B.

I am really happy for you. I know it's hard to lose someone but at the same time

I think you will be WAY better off with out him. And I believe cats know best

when it comes to judge of character!

advocateforaspies <advocateforaspies> wrote: Hey Liz,

Thanks so much. He literally abandoned us. He just said, " I am moving

out Thursday. " It was a Sunday.

I had no option, no plan nothing. He said he would decide what he

wanted to do.

The nice thing is the house is more calm, the CATS are even more calm.

Things are getting cleaner, and the kids are doing wonderfully. I am no

longer grinding my teeth (clentching) and my hair has grown in on the

top (it was thinning a bit). Not to mention my self esteem has

increased tremendously. Other than two weeks of tears and misery

STRAIGHT. I realized that I am ok. I let him go and said, " he is free " .

I think he has someone on the side anyways, even if they haven't 'done

anything' at this point.

The ironic thing is, as he has been babysitting so I can go to school,

he will ask if I will 'service' him. To which I promptly replied, NO I

AM NOT A PROMPTO STATION. I told him to use a bar of soap and the

shower. LOL.

Hey we are getting a divorce, I am not in for the 'servicing'.

In sum, I'd rather be single and happy, then married and miserable!!

*smiles*

I am getting my smile back too!!!

thank you so much for checking in , considering I didn't do that for a

month with anything *hugs*

You are too cool!

It feels so good to know other people are caring.

thank you thank you thank you!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!

*hugs*

B

>

> ,

> I just read one of your posts and saw that you wrote your husband

just

> abandoned you. Is he on vacation or business? Or did he really

> leave? Are you ok?

> I'm just worried.

> Liz

> Houston

>

[Guest guest]

Hay ,

hang in there! I agree with Debbie, once you get past this, everything will

work out for you. we go through tough times, then things 'just work out'.

hang out with friends that support you, are optimistic, and keep good energy

flowing.

When you lose your strength - hang out with that friend...hugs

advocateforaspies <advocateforaspies@...> wrote:

Thanks so much Debbie,

I am on that roller coaster I keep talking about. It is nice to catch

up and find so much support on line.

I feel sad for any female that has to deal with my soon to be ex. He

is nice at first, but likes to have his way, and never takes

responsability for his actions (Good or Bad)

I hope someone can straighten him out, because I tried for 16 years

(nicely, not in a mean way) and he never got it.

You are right, I will find my strenght. I find it, then loose it,

then find it, then loose it. UGH!

Thanks for the support. If anything, I can say, going into any

relationship, I know exactly how I want to be treated! That is a

positive

*Grin*

>

> ,

>

> I am really sorry and hate to think of you in so much pain for 2

> weeks. I am sure the transition is tough but when you cross to the

> other side and get in your routine you will appreciate the calmness

and

> your strength more and more. Women are soo strong and powerful.

We

> pull it from somewhere when we need to!

>

> Take care of yourself,

>

> Debbie

>

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[Guest guest]

OHHHHH Yes! My son's grammy got it for him for Christmas. LOVE it!!!

The s <carters5@...> wrote: About Cats....Have you seen

or read the book " All Cats Have Aspergers " ? It is great! I was looking through

the Special Needs books section at And Noble the other day and saw it and

sat and read it with my oldest dd (almost 16yo) We both loved it...it was so

true and so funny!

- C.

Mom to Cassie 15 PCOS, Austin 13 ADHD and a 3 HFA/AS & SPD/SID

Re: ( ) Re: To B.

I am really happy for you. I know it's hard to lose someone but at the same time

I think you will be WAY better off with out him. And I believe cats know best

when it comes to judge of character!

advocateforaspies <advocateforaspies@...> wrote: Hey Liz,

Thanks so much. He literally abandoned us. He just said, " I am moving

out Thursday. " It was a Sunday.

I had no option, no plan nothing. He said he would decide what he

wanted to do.

The nice thing is the house is more calm, the CATS are even more calm.

Things are getting cleaner, and the kids are doing wonderfully. I am no

longer grinding my teeth (clentching) and my hair has grown in on the

top (it was thinning a bit). Not to mention my self esteem has

increased tremendously. Other than two weeks of tears and misery

STRAIGHT. I realized that I am ok. I let him go and said, " he is free " .

I think he has someone on the side anyways, even if they haven't 'done

anything' at this point.

The ironic thing is, as he has been babysitting so I can go to school,

he will ask if I will 'service' him. To which I promptly replied, NO I

AM NOT A PROMPTO STATION. I told him to use a bar of soap and the

shower. LOL.

Hey we are getting a divorce, I am not in for the 'servicing'.

In sum, I'd rather be single and happy, then married and miserable!!

*smiles*

I am getting my smile back too!!!

thank you so much for checking in , considering I didn't do that for a

month with anything *hugs*

You are too cool!

It feels so good to know other people are caring.

thank you thank you thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*hugs*

B

>

> ,

> I just read one of your posts and saw that you wrote your husband

just

> abandoned you. Is he on vacation or business? Or did he really

> leave? Are you ok?

> I'm just worried.

> Liz

> Houston

>