Guest guest Posted March 9, 2007 Report Share Posted March 9, 2007 Hi , Please give us more information, ex: -age & grade of son -other diagnosis -problems he's having in school -type of school he attends MAYRA GLISSON <jolexand4@...> wrote: Can someone please help with teaching tips for my son? I'm having a really hard time with keeping him on task in school. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2007 Report Share Posted March 9, 2007 Have you tried homeschooling? When I chose to homeschool life became easier and less stressful. There's a great book called " Homeschooling the child with asperger syndrome by Pyles. You can get it in Chapters online too! It is a commitment to homeschool but at least you are in charge of your son's education as well as to have the peace of mind that you are the best educator for him.( just a suggestion) Momsi > > Can someone please help with teaching tips for my son? I'm having a really hard time with keeping him on task in school. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2007 Report Share Posted March 10, 2007 Could you tell us more about your son? Age, grade and what the problem is. Is he on an IEP or a 504? We really can't answer without more information. > > Can someone please help with teaching tips for my son? I'm having a really hard time with keeping him on task in school. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2007 Report Share Posted March 10, 2007 Hope these help. Pam _Asperger Info: moreno_tips_for_teaching_ (http://www.udel.edu/bkirby/asperger/moreno_tips_for_teaching.html) _Asperger Syndrome: Guide for Teachers_ (http://www.udel.edu/bkirby/asperger/teachers_guide.html) <BR><BR><BR>**************************************<BR> AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at http://www.aol.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2007 Report Share Posted March 12, 2007 Hi Liz, First he was diagnosed with ADD when he was six. He is now 11 and is in 6th grade. He is attending a middle school which is supposed to be one of the best. The school psychologist is the one who thinks it's asbergers. I read a book about it but because there are so many similarities between these that it's hard to tell. If it is AS it's high functioning AS because in some areas he is hi IQ. keeping him on task has been the real problem, he tends to drift off easily. I'm at the end of my rope. I don't know what to do or where to go from here. Liz S <lizs.1234@...> wrote: Hi , Please give us more information, ex: -age & grade of son -other diagnosis -problems he's having in school -type of school he attends MAYRA GLISSON <jolexand4@...> wrote: Can someone please help with teaching tips for my son? I'm having a really hard time with keeping him on task in school. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2007 Report Share Posted March 12, 2007 Oh , I'm so sorry you and your son are going through so much ~*BIG HUGS*~ Don't you just wish you could thwap some of those teachers on the head with one of their own lesson planners? My boys both have ADHD and I get constant complaints from my oldest son's teacher " He doesn't pay attention " I just want to scream, " What part of Attention DEFICIT do you not understand?!? " I would try talking with the principal about that teacher and explain that you and he just can't seem to come to a good compromise that works out well for your son and if that doesn't do any good, contact the superintendent or the school board. Teacher undereducated in these matters are bad enough, but unwilling teachers are 100 times worse. I homeschooled my oldest son for five years and I'm preparing now to homeschool my daughter because instead of trying to help her at the school, they want her on meds. I'm trying to keep meds as a last resort, and we're just not at that point yet. Homeschooling laws vary by state, though most are similar. You can look up your state's homeschooling laws here: http://homeschooling.about com/cs/gettingstarted/a/legalusa.htm and that same site ( http://homeschooling.about.com/ ) is full of tons of information on homeschooling. (The links are on the left) Please feel free to write me any time if you have questions or would just like to talk. If you'd like to write me offlist, my e-mail is wyledbunch@... Take care and keep your chin up, you're doing a great job and you're being the best advocate your son could ever have ~*BIG HUGS*~ -Jenn Proud Momma of Cory Albert (14yrs ADHD), h Dawn (12yrs Anxiety) and Jerry Lee " Trey " (9yrs ADHD, Bi-Polar, Asperger's) -- Re: ( ) Re: son with aspbergers I'm considering it but I'm not sure how to do it? Can you tell me how it works and what is required of him and me? I would appreciate any info. I'm having a really hard time with the school. Some teachers have been great but others act like it's a burden and don't want to be bothered! I'm trying to get some changes made that would accomodate him but there's always some reluctance from someone. I'm so tired and frustrated with the whole thing. Why has nothing changed for children like my son who is a really good, smart boy who deserves an education that would be made to fit his special needs but instead he gets what every one else gets, he is not like everyone else and that's the problem. He needs special attention and can't seem to get it. I'm sorry about going on and on but I just came from talking to one of his teachers and got in a bit of an argument because he is bothered by the whole thing and does nothing but complain about my son's lack of classroom work completeness. The teacher says that he just sits there and does not get anything completed. I'm so sick of hearing the complaints! I yelled at him and said, " what do you want me to do? " I've tried everything and I have nothing left! If he was willing to try different things and come up with ideas but he just complains. I'm so fed up! Claudine <momsi@...> wrote: Have you tried homeschooling? When I chose to homeschool life became easier and less stressful. There's a great book called " Homeschooling the child with asperger syndrome by Pyles. You can get it in Chapters online too! It is a commitment to homeschool but at least you are in charge of your son's education as well as to have the peace of mind that you are the best educator for him.( just a suggestion) Momsi > > Can someone please help with teaching tips for my son? I'm having a really hard time with keeping him on task in school. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2007 Report Share Posted March 13, 2007 , I pulled my son out of public school when he was in the 6th grade (middle school) and began homeschooling because I was frustrated with the lack of support my son recieved and the lack of experience on the teachers part dealing with issues related to a child with AS or attention deficit issues. They had no clue how to keep him on task and no desire to go that extra little bit to help him succeed in school. Year after year I heard the same thing over and over. They implied that everything was my fault, I was making excuses for him and babying him and that they were superior because they were going to push him to change his ways. It was all about lack of discipline and they refused to even consider his IEP (individualized Education Plan). To make a long story short, My husband and I had a full blown argument (I am not a combative person in any way but had finally had enough)with one of my son's teachers and it was the last day my son ever stepped foot into the public school system again. I will never forget hearing my son say " you mean I don't ever have to go back there? " . It has been four years now. I can't tell you that it will be easy or you will live without sacrifices or doubts but you may find that the bond you form with your child through homeschooling is worth it. You will be able to set the pace for his learning. Homeschooling has allowed my child with significant delays to be with children his own age mentally (10-13) instead of teenagers that would not be able to relate to him (14-17)just because of his birthdate. for more information on how to get started with homeschooling do an online search for a homeschooling support group in your town or general area and post on their msg boards looking for specific info on how to start. That's how I started. You'll will find other homeschoolers are one of your best resourses if you do decided to take this path. Good luck in whatever you decide...Julee > > > > Can someone please help with teaching tips for my son? I'm having a > really hard time with keeping him on task in school. > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2007 Report Share Posted March 13, 2007 Julee, That sounds a lot like what I went through with my oldest son at the last school. One teacher actually said that he was " overly mothered " . I was literally stunned trying to figure that one out. I just don't get how it's possible to *overly* mother my own child. That was about three years ago and I never did figure that one out. He's the one I homeschooled for five years. The difference in him was amazing and I was just in awe over it all. He went from a little boy who thought he was stupid to a little boy who thought he was a genius. Now I'll be homeschooling my daughter and I can't wait to get started. -Jenn Proud Momma of Cory Albert (14yrs ADHD), h Dawn (12yrs Anxiety) and Jerry Lee " Trey " (9yrs ADHD, Bi-Polar, Asperger's) -- ( ) Re: son with aspbergers , I pulled my son out of public school when he was in the 6th grade (middle school) and began homeschooling because I was frustrated with the lack of support my son recieved and the lack of experience on the teachers part dealing with issues related to a child with AS or attention deficit issues. They had no clue how to keep him on task and no desire to go that extra little bit to help him succeed in school. Year after year I heard the same thing over and over. They implied that everything was my fault, I was making excuses for him and babying him and that they were superior because they were going to push him to change his ways. It was all about lack of discipline and they refused to even consider his IEP (individualized Education Plan). To make a long story short, My husband and I had a full blown argument (I am not a combative person in any way but had finally had enough)with one of my son's teachers and it was the last day my son ever stepped foot into the public school system again. I will never forget hearing my son say " you mean I don't ever have to go back there? " . It has been four years now. I can't tell you that it will be easy or you will live without sacrifices or doubts but you may find that the bond you form with your child through homeschooling is worth it. You will be able to set the pace for his learning. Homeschooling has allowed my child with significant delays to be with children his own age mentally (10-13) instead of teenagers that would not be able to relate to him (14-17)just because of his birthdate. for more information on how to get started with homeschooling do an online search for a homeschooling support group in your town or general area and post on their msg boards looking for specific info on how to start. That's how I started. You'll will find other homeschoolers are one of your best resourses if you do decided to take this path. Good luck in whatever you decide...Julee > > > > Can someone please help with teaching tips for my son? I'm having a > really hard time with keeping him on task in school. > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2007 Report Share Posted March 13, 2007 Hi , I'm so sorry your are dealing with an inconsiderate, non -sympathetic, impatient, lack of interest, lack of understanding, insecure, teacher that missed his calling for another job that he was meant to have, and you and your son are stuck with him for the rest of this school year. phew! I pray that the teacher your son has next year will make up for this teacher you have this year and is better understanding, listens, and helps your son in a special way that your son will do well. hugs to both of you... *smile* MAYRA GLISSON <jolexand4@...> wrote: I'm considering it but I'm not sure how to do it? Can you tell me how it works and what is required of him and me? I would appreciate any info. I'm having a really hard time with the school. Some teachers have been great but others act like it's a burden and don't want to be bothered! I'm trying to get some changes made that would accomodate him but there's always some reluctance from someone. I'm so tired and frustrated with the whole thing. Why has nothing changed for children like my son who is a really good, smart boy who deserves an education that would be made to fit his special needs but instead he gets what every one else gets, he is not like everyone else and that's the problem. He needs special attention and can't seem to get it. I'm sorry about going on and on but I just came from talking to one of his teachers and got in a bit of an argument because he is bothered by the whole thing and does nothing but complain about my son's lack of classroom work completeness. The teacher says that he just sits there and does not get anything completed. I'm so sick of hearing the complaints! I yelled at him and said, " what do you want me to do? " I've tried everything and I have nothing left! If he was willing to try different things and come up with ideas but he just complains. I'm so fed up! Claudine <momsi@...> wrote: Have you tried homeschooling? When I chose to homeschool life became easier and less stressful. There's a great book called " Homeschooling the child with asperger syndrome by Pyles. You can get it in Chapters online too! It is a commitment to homeschool but at least you are in charge of your son's education as well as to have the peace of mind that you are the best educator for him.( just a suggestion) Momsi > > Can someone please help with teaching tips for my son? I'm having a really hard time with keeping him on task in school. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 16, 2007 Report Share Posted March 16, 2007 They are supposed to education him appropriately. go to www.wrightslaw.com and read all about it. Roxanna Re: ( ) Re: son with aspbergers I'm considering it but I'm not sure how to do it? Can you tell me how it works and what is required of him and me? I would appreciate any info. I'm having a really hard time with the school. Some teachers have been great but others act like it's a burden and don't want to be bothered! I'm trying to get some changes made that would accomodate him but there's always some reluctance from someone. I'm so tired and frustrated with the whole thing. Why has nothing changed for children like my son who is a really good, smart boy who deserves an education that would be made to fit his special needs but instead he gets what every one else gets, he is not like everyone else and that's the problem. He needs special attention and can't seem to get it. I'm sorry about going on and on but I just came from talking to one of his teachers and got in a bit of an argument because he is bothered by the whole thing and does nothing but complain about my son's lack of classroom work completeness. The teacher says that he just sits there and does not get anything completed. I'm so sick of hearing the complaints! I yelled at him and said, " what do you want me to do? " I've tried everything and I have nothing left! If he was willing to try different things and come up with ideas but he just complains. I'm so fed up! Claudine <momsi@...> wrote: Have you tried homeschooling? When I chose to homeschool life became easier and less stressful. There's a great book called " Homeschooling the child with asperger syndrome by Pyles. You can get it in Chapters online too! It is a commitment to homeschool but at least you are in charge of your son's education as well as to have the peace of mind that you are the best educator for him.( just a suggestion) Momsi > > Can someone please help with teaching tips for my son? I'm having a really hard time with keeping him on task in school. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 16, 2007 Report Share Posted March 16, 2007 The school cannot require you to put your daughter on any meds. Roxanna Re: ( ) Re: son with aspbergers I'm considering it but I'm not sure how to do it? Can you tell me how it works and what is required of him and me? I would appreciate any info. I'm having a really hard time with the school. Some teachers have been great but others act like it's a burden and don't want to be bothered! I'm trying to get some changes made that would accomodate him but there's always some reluctance from someone. I'm so tired and frustrated with the whole thing. Why has nothing changed for children like my son who is a really good, smart boy who deserves an education that would be made to fit his special needs but instead he gets what every one else gets, he is not like everyone else and that's the problem. He needs special attention and can't seem to get it. I'm sorry about going on and on but I just came from talking to one of his teachers and got in a bit of an argument because he is bothered by the whole thing and does nothing but complain about my son's lack of classroom work completeness. The teacher says that he just sits there and does not get anything completed. I'm so sick of hearing the complaints! I yelled at him and said, " what do you want me to do? " I've tried everything and I have nothing left! If he was willing to try different things and come up with ideas but he just complains. I'm so fed up! Claudine <momsi@...> wrote: Have you tried homeschooling? When I chose to homeschool life became easier and less stressful. There's a great book called " Homeschooling the child with asperger syndrome by Pyles. You can get it in Chapters online too! It is a commitment to homeschool but at least you are in charge of your son's education as well as to have the peace of mind that you are the best educator for him.( just a suggestion) Momsi > > Can someone please help with teaching tips for my son? I'm having a really hard time with keeping him on task in school. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 16, 2007 Report Share Posted March 16, 2007 . Does he have a dx? Is it possible to get an aide to work with him? I'm really sorry for you. It sounds like one of those situations where you really may be better off leaving that school or school in general. Do you see a counselor/therapist? Perhaps talk with them about school and ask what to do in this situation. Also,,,,,,contact your states' aspergers association. Google your state and then aspergers. They are awesome......advice, direction, legal stuff, etc. Robin Roxanna <madideas@...> wrote: They are supposed to education him appropriately. go to www.wrightslaw.com and read all about it. Roxanna Re: ( ) Re: son with aspbergers I'm considering it but I'm not sure how to do it? Can you tell me how it works and what is required of him and me? I would appreciate any info. I'm having a really hard time with the school. Some teachers have been great but others act like it's a burden and don't want to be bothered! I'm trying to get some changes made that would accomodate him but there's always some reluctance from someone. I'm so tired and frustrated with the whole thing. Why has nothing changed for children like my son who is a really good, smart boy who deserves an education that would be made to fit his special needs but instead he gets what every one else gets, he is not like everyone else and that's the problem. He needs special attention and can't seem to get it. I'm sorry about going on and on but I just came from talking to one of his teachers and got in a bit of an argument because he is bothered by the whole thing and does nothing but complain about my son's lack of classroom work completeness. The teacher says that he just sits there and does not get anything completed. I'm so sick of hearing the complaints! I yelled at him and said, " what do you want me to do? " I've tried everything and I have nothing left! If he was willing to try different things and come up with ideas but he just complains. I'm so fed up! Claudine <momsi@...> wrote: Have you tried homeschooling? When I chose to homeschool life became easier and less stressful. There's a great book called " Homeschooling the child with asperger syndrome by Pyles. You can get it in Chapters online too! It is a commitment to homeschool but at least you are in charge of your son's education as well as to have the peace of mind that you are the best educator for him.( just a suggestion) Momsi > > Can someone please help with teaching tips for my son? I'm having a really hard time with keeping him on task in school. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 17, 2007 Report Share Posted March 17, 2007 Do your children have IEPs? Resource Rooms? Emotional Support Classrooms? Meira > > > > Can someone please help with teaching tips for my son? I'm having a > really hard time with keeping him on task in school. > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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