Guest guest Posted December 14, 2004 Report Share Posted December 14, 2004 Hi We had issues with hyperactivity when trying to start Sam on No Fenol, I kept trying to stick it out for 3 weeks but gave up at 10 days totally exhuasted - me not him LOL. In a mad moment I thought what the hell, a whole cap can;t be any worse and bingo!!! Something to consider maybe for those with behaviours on the lower doses when starting??? Forgot all about it till you mentioned this Mandi in UK I was crossing my fingers b/c the first day I went to try it, I was putting whole capsules of ZP and AFP Pep into her rice milk and I accidentally put an ENTIRE No-Fenol in instead of the 1/4th I was aiming for. Instead of wasting the whole drink and the other enzymes, I took my chances and figured I would soon know whether she tolerated the stuff. HUGE difference. HAPPY baby (and she hadn’t been particularly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 14, 2004 Report Share Posted December 14, 2004 Josie, I was one of those people who was scared to death to remove dairy from my son's diet. It was such a big part of the few things he would eat, I was scared he'd starve. Well, we finally switched to goat's milk and got rid of the rest of the dairy. I was shocked that he never missed a beat when we switched to goat milk. Not a complaint at all, just happy slurping. Within two days he was eating chicken sticks and baby fruit sauce. I was astounded / shocked / amazed and just shy of doing cartwheels in the hallway. We had to force the first bite of each new food into his mouth, but then he was willing to try more. Now, he asks for chicken and fruit. His diet is still very limited texture-wise, but at least he's eating from all the food groups and has actually gained a pound in the last month. Mommy to (2.5 yo, ASD) Now if all of these improvements would only result in a breakthrough of food selection.she is still sooooooooooooooooooooo limited as far as what she will eat.I would be an even happier mommy than I already am. But I am pretty happy as it is! Josie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 15, 2004 Report Share Posted December 15, 2004 Josie, I was one of those people who was scared to death to remove dairy from my son's diet. It was such a big part of the few things he would eat, I was scared he'd starve. Well, we finally switched to goat's milk and got rid of the rest of the dairy. I was shocked that he never missed a beat when we switched to goat milk. Not a complaint at all, just happy slurping. Within two days he was eating chicken sticks and baby fruit sauce. I was astounded / shocked / amazed and just shy of doing cartwheels in the hallway. We had to force the first bite of each new food into his mouth, but then he was willing to try more…. ____________________________________________________________ and anyone else: Thanks for your message. This “self-limited” diet thing is probably my biggest stress every single day. If anyone has any advice on this matter after reading my story below (if you can get through it – I’m wordy!!), I would be very very appreciative Actually b/c my daughter reacted to dairy products in my breast milk, she never did get cow milk or really any other dairy even when she stopped nursing at 16 months (she is 2 ½ now). We went straight to rice milk. Of course b/c people (and our ped) told us she would grow out of it, we did gradually let her have a few dairy…like organic yoghurt w/live cultures. She “seemed” to tolerate it just fine, and it was such a good delivery method for the extra probiotic I was giving her!! She also reacted to wheat in my breast milk and so I was freaked out about introducing that as well. We went slowly w/gluten items in general (at the time I didn’t know they had a name for the diet I was on while nursing! – GFCF) and she seemed ok with them…and by the time we realized we had a problem, she was beginning to eliminate other foods. Here’s the thing, even though she self-limited and it drove me absolutely nuts, I did manage to get a reasonably (as far as these things go) balanced diet into her. She drank enriched Rice Milk. She ate eggs (no known problem with those) and waffles (whole wheat – only one brand though; rejected others on site), and a few cereals (the “worst” one she ever ate was Cheerios; she’s never had a sugary one) a whole grain bread that was filled with protein (4gms per slice) and minerals and contained things like whole wheat berries and lentil flour etc, organic yoghurt (though she eliminated down to one flavor and brand and could tell others on site). When she was first starting to get picky (more than a year ago now), I was able to grind up whatever we were eating (vegetables, meats etc) and make tiny little open-faced sandwiches out of the “thick” combo. Then she eliminated that too. And then she eliminated the fruit purees. What she has never eliminated is pasta in any shape or form (except the long spaghetti ones); and she had no problem when we switched to rice pasta 6 months ago (again, losing some nutritional value that the enriched wheat ones have). And since she likes the red sauce, I add all kinds of pureed meat and vegetables to the mix – every single day. She always loved French fries (Cascadian Farm organic if I wasn’t making my own) and avocados and she would eat the occasional piece of broccoli whole. I had also found a number of snack food type things that had nutritional value. I even found a Dorito looking chip that has 5grams/protein per serving, tons of flax seeds, no hydrogenated oils and non-GMO corn and soy. This was all before I even considered GFCF. By the time I read ’s book, we were about 80% GFCF with my daughter. I had taken away the whole wheat snack foods, the bread, the waffles, etc etc and all the cereals that had wheat as a main ingredient (as opposed to wheat contamination and barley malt like Rice Chex or something like that). To tell you the truth it wasn’t even that hard, b/c it wasn’t like there were a bunch of things she wanted. She’s never even eaten a cookie or cupcake or piece of candy or ice cream or any typical junk food…or even any typical toddler meal. In part this was b/c we never offered her junk in the beginning, but even once she had opportunities at parties and play dates and restaurants and whatnot, she just never even would try the stuff. It is still this way, though she is very social. I don’t have to worry about infractions yet, even if she is somewhere w/o her enzymes b/c she is just not interested in something she hasn’t already had or tasted or recognizes. She tried an animal cracker once and spit it out. She wouldn’t even try the gluten free waffles. She wont even drink juice (and if she “accidentally” gets some juice in an opaque sippy cup, she gets MAD, she doesn’t go “Oooh. Yum. What have I been missing???”) I joined the GFCF board b/c I wanted to know whether people had found that once they got truly 100% GFCF, their child’s taste buds had expanded. To me this would have been the only incentive to eliminate what were some of the most nutritious foods that were in her diet. I also considered going “straight” to enzymes as some people here have done. Of course on GFCF board, I heard from a number of people who told me that within a few days…or weeks…or maybe a month…of being really and truly GFCF, their kid’s taste buds magically expanded and they would try all the GFCF replacement foods and were eating everything. I decided to give it a try for that reason alone, and I would say we were “really” GFCF for about a month (some would say not long enough), but there was no improvement in the food area (though we did see improvements in language and gross motor skills). In fact, b/c of what I had taken away, and the fact that she wouldn’t add anything new, her diet was MORE limited. And though everyone who responded to my post had told me that their kid had magically added foods after going GFCF, I was beginning to read more and more posts from people whose kid had been GFCF for months and months and months and was still only eating one or two foods..and was losing weight…and etc etc. I didn’t like the sounds of that one bit. My daughter had always been limited, but the food she DID eat was “healthy” (at least for non-reactive people) and she did eat a lot of it, and her weight was good, etc etc. Since her stools had also regressed (we’d achieved good ones w/work on yeast and a broad spectrum enzyme that we’d bought before reading ’s book), and we had also started Houston enzymes (AFP Pep and ZP) around the same time (bad move to start two things at once – not the 2 enzymes I mean the 100% GFCF and the new enzymes), I ultimately decided to do a little “gluten” challenge and add a couple of “trace” gluten foods back in that had fiber in them, and also the Rice Dream Rice Milk w/trace gluten b/c frankly I think it is a better product overall in terms of its ingredients and what it’s enriched with. No regression. Happy baby – at least so far and I have been watching like a hawk. In fact, she has been a dream all around. GREAT temperament. GREAT on every single marker anyone would want to mention or measure…except food. I should say that there are no particular textures or colors or temperatures she avoids (the things on her “ok” list run a wide variety). And she is happy to feed ME whatever foods she wont eat, or touch them, and she knows all of the names of the foods and when I ask her why it is good to eat new foods she says “to make tummy happy”, and she likes it when her little friends eat different things. Other than what is going on with her food selection, she really doesn’t have any autistic behaviors, and we don’t have that diagnosis. And with the enzymes and the GFCF overall and some supplementation what problems she does have – sensory integration and a speech delay, and leaky gut for sure – have been evaporating one by one. We have never tried to “force” feed her - not that, at this point, it hasn’t crossed our minds. When she first started eliminating foods, she was still of an age that she would occasionally accept being spoon fed. Every now and then we would “trick” her thinking she would be “surprised” by the new flavor and then like it and want more. Each and every time we tried, it was a disaster and she cried and then wouldn’t finish the meal period, and my husband said she gave him such a look of betrayal that he could never conceive of doing it again. Also, even now, I always eat meals with her (even if I am not having my real meal at the same time) and I always eat foods I would like her to try. And very very occasionally, I can get her to “lick” something new before I give her the food she is looking for (but if I push it too much she just says “no food” and skips the whole meal and happily goes off to play or to bed or whatever). Also, we have had no success making a game of it. If she has some food she likes, she wont share it “Can mommy have a bite of your pasta?” NOOOOOOOO!!! So when I am eating something I would like her to try, I will sometimes turn it all into a game and giggle and say “No WAY you can have a bite of my pear (which I even cut into appealing shapes of things she likes). It’s MINE. I am NOT going to share it.” And she thinks this is REALLLY funny and will laugh and “pretend” to steal my food…but she won’t ever eat it. She is totally engaging and plugged in and interactive and has a great sense of humor about most things – but she will not BUDGE on the food thing. When it comes to supplements, however, we do force her and that has worked out ok. I remember when we first started the fish oil, about 6 months ago, it took 2 of us to hold her down while I squirted the stuff into her mouth. She was miserable but recovered pretty quickly – and after about 2 weeks of doing it that way, she began to accept that it was going to happen and now when I tell her it is time, she comes in and helps me get it ready. Not that she LIKES it mind you, but she also can answer me when I ask her if she knows why we do it: “More words mommy!!” (when we first started 6 months ago, she would just nod her head yes and go MMMmmmmmmm, the sound she made for yes; she didn’t have intelligible words. Now she has so many that I long ago stopped counting, they are spontaneous; they come in 2-6 word combos and full sentences and it is amazing and wonderful. Now, at 32 months, we imagine she will reach “age level” in short order. I have Brain Child samples in my cabinet and that’s the next thing we’re going to start (this week actually). So maybe the minerals will help w/taste buds, the zinc in particular (I am starting with ultra sensitive but have a sample of the Spectrum II on order as well) And we have an appointment with Dr. Cave in February to do some of the blood/stool/hair/urine testing we’ve never done. And like I said (and given how severe the food thing you may not be inclined to believe me), if you didn’t see her eat (and you had no way of peering into her intestines!) you wouldn’t necessarily know she had a “problem” at all at this point. So thanks to those of you who have managed to read all the way to the end of this, and to anyone who has a suggestion. I apologize for the length. This is just one of those subjects that is driving me NUTS – and any advice would be much appreciated. Josie Now, he asks for chicken and fruit. His diet is still very limited texture-wise, but at least he's eating from all the food groups and has actually gained a pound in the last month. Mommy to (2.5 yo, ASD) Now if all of these improvements would only result in a breakthrough of food selection.she is still sooooooooooooooooooooo limited as far as what she will eat.I would be an even happier mommy than I already am. But I am pretty happy as it is! 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Guest guest Posted December 15, 2004 Report Share Posted December 15, 2004 Josie, I can definitely feel your pain! It sounds like your daughter is getting good nutrition and is gaining weight well, so you're in a much better position that we were. My poor guy was in the 10th percentile for his height and the doctors at Kennedy Krieger were considering him for an 8 week all day, M-F food program. Hopefully now we can just do outpatient or skip the whole thing if he keeps gaining weight. The waiting list is really long, so I hope he keeps gaining before his name comes up! It sounds like you've been seeing a lot of positive progress with everything you've been doing, so I would stick with that. As she gets more and more comfortable and can express herself better, there is always hope that she'll try one or two new things. I heard somewhere that it takes a NT kid 12 tries at a food before it becomes acceptable and that it can be ten times that many for a kid on the spectrum. So, maybe one day she'll surprise you. This is just one of those subjects that is driving me NUTS - and any advice would be much appreciated. Josie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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