Guest guest Posted March 6, 2008 Report Share Posted March 6, 2008 Janice, first I want to say that I know my response is long, but I have been praying for an answer to my son's problem. So, I really and truly appreciate you looking at my son's issues and giving your advice. He is attracted to children younger than and older than he is. When he is around younger ones, he is playing and trying to help them and then watching them to see their reactions to things. Kind of creepy in a way. I tell him to leave them alone because I think their parents will think something funny of it. Even younger children will get annoyed by him after a while. If my younger son is crying/fussing about something, he will hit him because he doesn't like him doing that and wants him to stop. I don't know about auditory processing, but he has vestibular and propriceptive problems, strabismus, reflexes immature, and I'm currently waiting for the recent language and OT evaluations. I know he has done poorly on them though. He has tested poorly on the SIPT test as well. He has been in speech and OT for two years and I can hardly say that anything has changed much. I came to this website from the Autism/Mercury group for other reasons, so I'm not too sure what is involved in dyspraxia. I need to do some research. Can you recommend a good website to learn about this? I would say that my 6yo has passed the 8yo in maturity and I have more complete conversations with the 6yo. A " little kid " probably is a good example of what my son's classmates think of him. They call him names and say ugly things to him and he can't remember what they say. I think he doesn't understand " what " they are saying to him and that's why he can't tell me what they are saying. > Does he: > > - show an inability to follow directions? ie. if you send him upstairs to get his socks, a hairbrush and some other random item..... would you go upstairs to find him walking in circles trying to remember what to do next? > Yes, if I told him to go put his clothes on, he would go lay down on the bed and act just like I have not told him anything to do. Other times he will do part of it, but usually not. If he wants to do something, he will get done what needed to be done in order to do it. Multiple tasks do not work for him, unless it is a routine thing, like in the morning I make him jump on the trampoline and then swing before school. I usually have to tell him to jump and then swing. Once in a while he will jump and then go swing without me reminding him of each step. > - can he tell a story with a beginning, a middle and an end or does he get lost 1/2 way through and ramble around in thoughtless circles? > Yes, he gets lost! Repeats parts. If I ask he questions or to repeat something, he will say " never mind " . > - does he say " What? " or " Huh? " all of the time? > Yes. Sometimes I keep answering him, not realizing that he has to have heard me the first couple of times. > - does he have trouble talking on the phone? > He doesn't ever try to answer the phone. I can try to get him to call a friend and find out what he has missed on his homework and he won't do it. He doesn't know how to carry a conversation with someone on the phone. A few " friends " have called and usually don't call back because he can't carry a conversation with them or asks them over and over to come over to their house and play. > So..... Have I 'GOT' him? Is this what your son is like? > > All of the above are indicative of auditory processing issues related to short term memory. We used digit spans to fix this in Mark. It took us about 8 months of digit spans 4 times daily at 2-4 minutes (2 minutes of auditory forward and 2 minutes of auditory reverse) per session to normalize this neural pathway. > Could you tell me more about digit spans and where to get info on this. The teacher has told me that he loves the recordings that she plays of the story when she introduces the new story for the week. > Soooooo lets talk a little about Auditory Tonal Processing.... > > Does your son..... have trouble regulating his pitch? ie. talk too loudly or too softly at inappropriate times? leave off the consonents of words? He talks like he has a lot of excitement and inflection. I try to not add to this, but turn down my tone with him. He uses his eyes when talking, if you know what I mean. He is loud sometimes, but when I'm trying to talk to him in the van (he's in the back), he will not talk loud enough no matter how many times I tell him I can't hear him. I usually have to yell at him to get him to talk louder, and then it's only brief. It's like he's only yelling back at me in response. I can't say he leaves off consonants. >>'possible' problem of congestion in his ears. I would make sure that he is not experiencing fluid in his ears, He never had problems with his ears when younger, but failed the newborn hearing test at the hospital, but later passed it. He has had a lot of problems with enlarged tonsils and adenoids since he was around 2. >at NACD, they recommend that kids with auditory processing issues try an milk free diet to see if there is a possible intorlerance. Milk doesn't seem to suit him. He seems to get strep when he drinks milk. We use Rice Dream and limit cheese, but he does get milk in other things like processed foods. Hope I didn't put you to sleep, but I really do thank you. > > Sorry not going to answer your question on carnosine BUT.... I am reading your post and feeling for your child.... because we have been there and life is pretty lonely without friendships. Think about having him play with younger kids for a while and see 'where' he might fit in as an immediate relief to his lack of social happiness. > This is my opinion without meeting your son or seeing him whatsoever.... thus..... it could be flawed.... but given your description of your boy, he sounds just like my boy! > > I suspect that your son has auditory processing issues and auditiory short term memory issues that is impacting his social awareness outside of dyspraxia. My son processed at a level of a 5 year old at age 11; once we got his levels up to normal, he was able to engage in friendships on a normal level even though his speech was still flawed. Kids were able to ignore his flawed speech but they were not able to ignore the fact that he never seemed to understand the ebb and flow of conversation and was like a little kid. We fixed it and my sons social life made a 180 degree U-turn. > > Improving auditory processing or visual processing can be a life changing event. Basicly, it was no wonder other kids shunned him for he was a little kid to them and that was where his function would have stayed had we not worked this issue. It is an " important " part of the puzzle piece to fix and I need to remember to tell parents about it. We fixed it in Mark last year..... so I tend to forget to ALERT parents..... it is critical for once stalled, requires therapy to fix and the therapy costs nothing to do but it is boring and you must do it daily for it to work! > > So.... let me ask you some questions..... > > Does he: > > - show an inability to follow directions? ie. if you send him upstairs to get his socks, a hairbrush and some other random item..... would you go upstairs to find him walking in circles trying to remember what to do next? > > - can he tell a story with a beginning, a middle and an end or does he get lost 1/2 way through and ramble around in thoughtless circles? > > - does he say " What? " or " Huh? " all of the time? > > - does he have trouble talking on the phone? > > So..... Have I 'GOT' him? Is this what your son is like? > > All of the above are indicative of auditory processing issues related to short term memory. We used digit spans to fix this in Mark. It took us about 8 months of digit spans 4 times daily at 2-4 minutes (2 minutes of auditory forward and 2 minutes of auditory reverse) per session to normalize this neural pathway. > > Another method to work this is to turn off the TV and to listen to books on tape. Someone suggested that The Shadow series radio show of our parents era as being great for this since it includes all of the sound effects for our kids to listen to and open up their auditory pathways. > > Soooooo lets talk a little about Auditory Tonal Processing.... > > Does your son..... have trouble regulating his pitch? ie. talk too loudly or too softly at inappropriate times? leave off the consonents of words? If so, then I would suspect auditory tonal processing issues and a 'possible' problem of congestion in his ears. I would make sure that he is not experiencing fluid in his ears, look into The Listening Program or another method of Auditory Integration Therapy and consider a casien free diet. I know that at NACD, they recommend that kids with auditory processing issues try an milk free diet to see if there is a possible intorlerance. While disagrees with a special diet.... it is worth trying a 3 week elimination trial as it has proven successful for many of our children with APD problems. Not ALL but many of these kids have an environmental problem going on with their ears and believe me..... if milk is a problem for you.... it is a HUGE piece of the dyspraxia puzzle! If not, you check it off the list and move on to the next causitive factors that could be affecting your child. > > Janice > Mother of Mark, 13 > > > > > > > > > > [sPAM][ ] Liquid Carnosine Plus::anyone used this > > > My son (8yo) has some problems socializing with others his age. He > doesn't know how to " talk their talk " , and usually says something off > topic or nothing at all. Or, he'll make yelling sounds when someone > is asking/telling him something that he doesn't like, such as, " stop > that " or " go wash your hands " or " whoa " . You have to be nice to him. > > He's rather immature than the others in his class and of course they > shun him. He knows they do this and say that their not his friends. > Actually, he has no friends. > > His doctor thinks that Liquid Carnosine Plus might help him. I've > emailed Autism Coach to ask some questions about the products I want > to buy, but no one will call me back. > > Does anyone know if it can be taken at night because I think it has > juice in it and that will interact with his Adderall if taken in the > morning? > > Blessings. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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